Scattering Seeds of Grace: Forgiveness and Compassion

 

Summary

### Summary

Today's message centers on the concept of "seed in the wind," a metaphor for the actions, words, and behaviors we scatter throughout our lives. These seeds, whether good or bad, have the potential to impact others profoundly. The sermon emphasizes the importance of understanding that we are all susceptible to the same pitfalls and sins, and thus, we should approach others with grace and humility.

The message also delves into the difference between acceptance and respect. While we can accept someone as a leader or a family member, respect must be earned through consistent, honorable actions. This distinction is crucial in fostering genuine relationships within the church and family.

Furthermore, the sermon calls for a shift in mindset towards forgiveness and restoration. It highlights the importance of mending broken relationships, especially within families, to prevent mental health issues and feelings of abandonment. The message encourages us to apologize, forgive, and restore relationships before it's too late, emphasizing that we are not the ultimate judges or redeemers—God is.

The sermon concludes with a call to action: to live lives that reflect the love and grace of Jesus, to welcome others into the church without judgment, and to share our testimonies to help others see that they are not alone in their struggles. The overarching theme is that we are all in the same boat, facing the same fire, and thus should treat each other with compassion and understanding.

### Key Takeaways

1. The Power of Our Actions and Words: The metaphor of "seed in the wind" reminds us that our actions and words have far-reaching consequences. Just as seeds carried by the wind can grow into something significant, our behaviors can profoundly impact others, for better or worse. We must be mindful of what we scatter into the world. [22:48]

2. Acceptance vs. Respect: Acceptance and respect are not the same. While we can accept someone as a leader or family member, respect must be earned through consistent, honorable actions. This understanding is crucial for building genuine, respectful relationships within our communities. [36:43]

3. The Importance of Forgiveness and Restoration: Holding onto grudges and unforgiveness can lead to broken relationships and mental health issues. We are called to forgive and restore relationships, understanding that we are not the ultimate judges—God is. This act of restoration can bring healing and prevent further emotional harm. [38:36]

4. Living a Life of Grace and Love: We must live lives that reflect the love and grace of Jesus. This means welcoming others into the church without judgment and sharing our testimonies to help others see that they are not alone in their struggles. Our actions should demonstrate the transformative power of God's love. [42:25]

5. Daily Repentance and Humility: The sermon emphasizes the need for daily repentance and humility. We must continually ask for God's forgiveness and strive to live pure, righteous lives. This daily practice helps us stay aligned with God's will and prepares us for the day when we will meet Him. [44:56]

### Youtube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[22:48] - The Power of Our Actions and Words
[25:13] - Repetition of "Seed in the Wind"
[36:43] - Acceptance vs. Respect
[38:36] - The Importance of Forgiveness and Restoration
[42:25] - Living a Life of Grace and Love
[44:56] - Daily Repentance and Humility
[47:36] - Call to Action and Conclusion

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Galatians 6:7-8 (NIV): "Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life."
2. Ephesians 4:32 (NIV): "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
3. James 5:16 (NIV): "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."

#### Observation Questions
1. What does the metaphor "seed in the wind" signify in the context of our actions and words? [22:48]
2. How does the sermon differentiate between acceptance and respect? [36:43]
3. What are the consequences of holding onto grudges and unforgiveness according to the sermon? [38:36]
4. What daily practices does the sermon suggest to maintain a life of grace and love? [44:56]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the concept of "reaping what you sow" from Galatians 6:7-8 relate to the metaphor of "seed in the wind" discussed in the sermon?
2. In what ways can the act of forgiveness and restoration, as mentioned in Ephesians 4:32, impact our mental health and relationships? [38:36]
3. How does the practice of daily repentance and humility, as emphasized in the sermon, align with the teachings in James 5:16? [44:56]
4. What does it mean to live a life that reflects the love and grace of Jesus, and how can this be practically demonstrated in our daily interactions? [42:25]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a recent situation where your words or actions acted as "seeds in the wind." What impact did they have, and how can you be more mindful of this in the future? [22:48]
2. Think of a relationship in your life where acceptance is present but respect is lacking. What steps can you take to earn or restore respect in that relationship? [36:43]
3. Is there someone in your life you need to forgive or seek forgiveness from? What practical steps can you take this week to begin the process of restoration? [38:36]
4. How can you incorporate daily repentance and humility into your routine? What specific actions or prayers can help you stay aligned with God's will? [44:56]
5. Identify a person or group you have judged harshly in the past. How can you show them grace and love this week, reflecting the teachings of Jesus? [42:25]
6. Share a personal testimony of a struggle you have overcome. How can sharing this story help others in your small group feel less alone in their struggles? [47:36]
7. What is one specific way you can demonstrate the love of Jesus in your family or community this week? How can this act of love help in mending broken relationships? [40:34]

Devotional

Day 1: The Power of Our Actions and Words
Our actions and words are like seeds scattered in the wind, capable of growing into something significant. Just as seeds carried by the wind can take root and flourish, our behaviors and words can profoundly impact others, for better or worse. It is essential to be mindful of what we scatter into the world, as our actions and words have far-reaching consequences. We must strive to ensure that what we spread is positive, uplifting, and reflective of God's love and grace.

In our daily interactions, we have the opportunity to plant seeds of kindness, encouragement, and love. Conversely, negative actions and words can lead to hurt, division, and pain. By being intentional about our behavior and speech, we can contribute to a more compassionate and understanding world. Let us be conscious of the seeds we scatter and aim to make a positive impact on those around us. [22:48]

Proverbs 18:21 (ESV): "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits."

Reflection: Think of a recent interaction where your words or actions had a significant impact on someone. How can you be more intentional about spreading positive seeds in your daily life?


Day 2: Acceptance vs. Respect
Acceptance and respect are two distinct concepts that are often conflated. While we can accept someone as a leader, family member, or community member, respect must be earned through consistent, honorable actions. This distinction is crucial for building genuine, respectful relationships within our communities. Acceptance is about acknowledging someone's role or presence, whereas respect is about valuing their character and actions.

In our relationships, it is important to recognize that respect is not automatically granted but must be cultivated through trust, integrity, and honorable behavior. By understanding this difference, we can foster deeper, more meaningful connections with others. Let us strive to earn respect through our actions and to respect others who demonstrate consistent, honorable behavior. [36:43]

1 Peter 2:17 (ESV): "Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor."

Reflection: Reflect on a relationship where you have accepted someone but struggled to respect them. What steps can you take to build respect in that relationship?


Day 3: The Importance of Forgiveness and Restoration
Holding onto grudges and unforgiveness can lead to broken relationships and mental health issues. We are called to forgive and restore relationships, understanding that we are not the ultimate judges—God is. Forgiveness is a powerful act that can bring healing and prevent further emotional harm. It allows us to let go of bitterness and resentment, making way for reconciliation and peace.

Restoration involves mending broken relationships and seeking to rebuild trust and connection. It requires humility, empathy, and a willingness to apologize and forgive. By prioritizing forgiveness and restoration, we can create healthier, more supportive relationships and communities. Let us remember that forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves and others, and it is a reflection of God's grace and love. [38:36]

Colossians 3:13 (ESV): "Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive."

Reflection: Think of someone you need to forgive or seek forgiveness from. How can you take the first step towards restoration today?


Day 4: Living a Life of Grace and Love
We are called to live lives that reflect the love and grace of Jesus. This means welcoming others into the church without judgment and sharing our testimonies to help others see that they are not alone in their struggles. Our actions should demonstrate the transformative power of God's love, showing compassion, understanding, and acceptance to those around us.

Living a life of grace and love involves being a beacon of hope and encouragement. It means extending kindness and support to others, regardless of their circumstances. By embodying the love and grace of Jesus, we can create a more inclusive and supportive community where everyone feels valued and accepted. Let us strive to be a reflection of God's love in all that we do. [42:25]

Ephesians 4:32 (ESV): "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you."

Reflection: How can you show grace and love to someone in your community today? What specific actions can you take to make them feel welcomed and valued?


Day 5: Daily Repentance and Humility
The sermon emphasizes the need for daily repentance and humility. We must continually ask for God's forgiveness and strive to live pure, righteous lives. This daily practice helps us stay aligned with God's will and prepares us for the day when we will meet Him. Repentance involves acknowledging our sins, seeking God's forgiveness, and making a conscious effort to turn away from sinful behavior.

Humility is about recognizing our dependence on God and our need for His guidance and grace. It involves putting others before ourselves and seeking to serve rather than be served. By practicing daily repentance and humility, we can grow in our faith and become more Christ-like in our actions and attitudes. Let us commit to a daily practice of repentance and humility, seeking to live lives that honor God. [44:56]

James 4:10 (ESV): "Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you."

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you need to practice repentance and humility? How can you incorporate this practice into your daily routine?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "Listen, the Bible says that the righteous will scarcely be saved. We adopted the term and we said scarcely make it in. You know, you barely make it in. I hope I make it in. Woo, that was close. I almost made it in. I hope I make it in. I hope I make it in. I hope I make it in. I hope I make it in. Walking around with unforgiveness in your heart, you're going to burn in the same fire. not trying to put you in hell, but I'm trying to love you out of hell." [36:43] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "Look at your neighbor and say, same fire. Now go out and restore relationships. Go to the cookout and enjoy your family and leave your Bible in the car. Whisper a prayer and say, thank you for the grace that found me God at my low place and let my light and my change be the example to my family that show that you are the ultimate life changer." [40:34] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "Mental health is real. The suicide spirit is real. And these young people are leaving here at a rapid pace where the only thing they needed was a hug from their mama. The only thing they needed was I'm proud of you from their daddy. But your embarrassment is causing you to leave your children in forsaken situations. You are not their God. You are not. And you're your God. And you are their redeemer. But they have to see the love of Jesus through your life." [42:25] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "Some parents or some parents need to call and apologize for the treatment and the abandonment given for sin preferences and choices of their children. Some parents need to call and apologize and tell their child that they're sorry because their sin choice was not theirs. God has given somebody a chance to make amends. It is before it's too late." [38:36] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "You are not their God. You are not. And you're your God. And you are their redeemer. But they have to see the love of Jesus through your life. They don't want your God because if your God is causing you to treat them the way that you are treating them, they don't want no part of your God. and if the love is not coming out of your house, why would they want to come in God's house?" [42:25] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "We need to give them in the house that we need to let God do the changing we don't need to turn them around in the parking lot we are not their savior we are not their redeemer we are just the one to get them in the house to keep them out the doors come on let's stand to our feet and all over the building can you lift your hands up towards heaven." [44:56] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "None of us in here are greater than the next. And that's the problem. We have these young people and these people thinking that we have everything together because we won't share our testimony of where God delivered us from. And if you would open your mouth and tell some of these people, I went through the same thing that you went through, they won't think that their lives are so jacked up." [47:36] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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