Rooted in Christ: The Power of Spiritual Family

 

Summary

Paul’s prayer in Ephesians 3:14-21 reveals the astonishing riches that God has given to those who are born into His family through faith in Jesus Christ. This is not a universal fatherhood, but a relationship that comes by spiritual rebirth—by receiving Christ and being made children of God. The family of God is made up of all who have believed in Jesus, both Jew and Gentile, and this family relationship is meant to be honored and cherished. Too often, people treat church as a place for entertainment or personal gain, rather than as a spiritual family where commitment and love are central. Those who avoid true spiritual family often find themselves spiritually weak and vulnerable.

Paul bows his knees in deep humility, praying that believers would be strengthened with power through the Holy Spirit in their inner being. The Holy Spirit is essential—not only for knowing God, but for any real change or spiritual power in our lives. The world measures riches by material wealth, but God measures riches by what we have in Christ. One day, when we are with Him, we will see that the true riches are those of faith, love, and the inheritance we have in Jesus.

The focus is on the inner person—the heart—rather than outward appearances or circumstances. While it is natural to pray for relief from suffering, it is even more important to pray for strength and renewal in the inner person. God is far more interested in our hearts than our outward situations. Spiritual strength, rooted in the love of Christ, is what enables us to stand firm and grow. Just as roots nourish and stabilize a tree, so being rooted and grounded in Christ’s love gives us life and stability.

Paul prays that Christ would dwell in our hearts, making Himself at home, and that we would experience—not just intellectually know—the vastness of His love: its width, length, height, and depth. This love surpasses knowledge and fills us with the fullness of God. Our lives should be a response to this love, not just in words, but in deeds and truth. God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think, and He is able to keep us, provide for us, and empower us to live for Him. The call is to trust Him, to let our roots go deep into His love, and to live in the wonder of His ability and faithfulness.

Key Takeaways

- Spiritual Family Is Not Universal, But Supernatural
Being part of God’s family is not a matter of human tradition or universal inclusion; it is a supernatural reality for those who are born again through faith in Christ. This family is to be honored and cherished, not treated lightly or as a means to personal ends. True spiritual belonging requires commitment, vulnerability, and love, and those who avoid this often find themselves spiritually isolated and weak. [01:44]

- The Holy Spirit Is Essential for Real Change and Power
The Christian life is impossible without the Holy Spirit. He is the source of our strength, the one who enables us to know God, to change, and to live out our faith. We are called to depend on Him, not our own strength, and to continually ask for His power in our inner being, for without Him, we have no ability to stand or to grow. [06:00]

- God Cares More About the Inner Person Than Outward Circumstances
While it is natural to desire relief from suffering or outward troubles, God’s primary concern is the renewal and strengthening of our hearts. Outward appearances and situations are secondary to the transformation of the inner person. True beauty, strength, and spiritual vitality come from within, as we allow God to work in our hearts through His Spirit. [12:53]

- Rootedness in Christ’s Love Is the Source of Stability and Growth
Just as a tree draws life and stability from its roots, so we are called to be deeply rooted and grounded in the love of Christ. This love is not just to be known intellectually, but experienced personally and lived out practically. When our lives are nourished by His love, we are able to withstand trials, avoid spiritual drift, and love others in deed and truth. [17:45]

- God’s Ability Exceeds Our Imagination and Our Needs
God is able to do far more than we can ask or even imagine. His power is at work within us, and He is able to keep us, provide for us, and accomplish His purposes in and through us. Our response should be faith, trust, and a willingness to live in the wonder of His love and ability, letting go of worry and embracing the truth of His promises. [28:41]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[01:44] - Born Into God’s Family
[03:00] - The True Family of God
[04:01] - The Challenge of Commitment
[05:15] - Spiritual Weakness and Isolation
[06:00] - The Riches of God’s Glory
[08:04] - Earthly Riches vs. Spiritual Riches
[10:46] - Strengthened in the Inner Person
[12:21] - The Power of the Holy Spirit
[12:53] - God’s Focus on the Heart
[14:33] - The Need for Inner Strength
[15:39] - Christ at Home in Our Hearts
[17:45] - Rooted and Grounded in Love
[21:43] - The Dimensions of Christ’s Love
[27:21] - Trusting God’s Love Like a Child
[28:41] - God’s Abundant Ability
[32:27] - Living in Response to God’s Love
[33:40] - Faith Over Worry
[34:17] - Embracing the Truth of God’s Word
[35:07] - Closing Prayer and Blessing

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide: Ephesians 3:14-21 – Rooted in God’s Love

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### Bible Reading

- Ephesians 3:14-21
For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

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### Observation Questions

1. According to Paul’s prayer in Ephesians 3:14-21, what does he specifically ask God to do for believers?
2. What does it mean that Christ would “dwell in your hearts through faith”? How does Paul describe the experience of Christ’s love?
3. In the sermon, what is the difference between being part of God’s family and just attending church for entertainment or personal gain? [[04:01]]
4. What does Paul say about the “inner man” or “inner person” and why is it important? [[12:53]]

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### Interpretation Questions

1. Why does Paul emphasize being “rooted and grounded in love” rather than just knowing about God’s love intellectually? What does this say about the Christian life? [[17:45]]
2. The sermon says that the Holy Spirit is essential for real change and power. Why can’t we live the Christian life in our own strength? [[06:00]]
3. The world measures riches by material wealth, but Paul talks about “the riches of his glory.” What are these spiritual riches, and why are they more important than earthly riches? [[08:04]]
4. Paul prays that God would do “exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think.” What does this reveal about God’s character and our expectations in prayer? [[28:41]]

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### Application Questions

1. The sermon warns against treating church as a place for entertainment or personal gain. Have you ever found yourself approaching church this way? What would it look like to treat your church as a true spiritual family instead? [[04:01]]
2. Paul prays for strength in the “inner person.” When you face difficulties, do you tend to focus more on changing your circumstances or on asking God to strengthen your heart? How could you shift your prayers this week? [[12:53]]
3. The sermon says that those who avoid true spiritual family often end up spiritually weak and isolated. Are there ways you have avoided deeper relationships or commitment in the church? What is one step you could take to build spiritual family? [[05:15]]
4. The Holy Spirit is described as essential for real change. Are there areas in your life where you have been trying to change in your own strength? What would it look like to depend on the Holy Spirit instead? [[06:00]]
5. Paul wants us to experience—not just know—the love of Christ. Can you think of a time when you truly experienced God’s love? If not, what might help you open your heart to that experience? [[19:00]]
6. The sermon compares being rooted in Christ’s love to a tree drawing life from its roots. What are some practical ways you can let your roots go deeper into Christ’s love this month? [[17:45]]
7. Paul says God is able to do more than we ask or imagine. Is there a situation in your life where you need to trust God’s ability and faithfulness? What would it look like to let go of worry and trust Him with it this week? [[28:41]]

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Devotional

Day 1: Becoming Children of God—Born into His Family
To be called a child of God is not a universal right, but a privilege given to those who receive Jesus and are born again into His family. This relationship is not based on tradition, religious affiliation, or human effort, but on a spiritual rebirth that brings us into the intimate, loving family of God. As members of this family, we are called to honor and cherish our connection with one another, recognizing that our belonging is rooted in Christ and not in external factors. Let us not take lightly the gift of being called sons and daughters of the Most High, and let us seek to deepen our commitment to the family of God, valuing relationships over personal preferences or fleeting desires. [01:44]

John 1:12 (ESV):
"But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God."

Reflection:
Is there someone in your church family you’ve kept at a distance or taken for granted? How can you reach out to them this week to strengthen your bond as fellow children of God?


Day 2: Strengthened by the Spirit in the Inner Man
True strength for the Christian does not come from outward appearance or self-reliance, but from the Holy Spirit empowering our inner being. While it is natural to desire relief from physical or external struggles, God’s priority is to renew and fortify our hearts, giving us the resilience to withstand trials and the power to live transformed lives. This inner strength is available to all who ask, yet so often we attempt to handle life’s pressures on our own. Dependence on God is not weakness—it is the very foundation of spiritual vitality and victory over darkness. [12:53]

Ephesians 3:16 (ESV):
"that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being,"

Reflection:
What is one area of your life where you’ve been relying on your own strength instead of asking the Holy Spirit for help? Will you pause today and invite Him to strengthen your inner being?


Day 3: Rooted and Grounded in the Love of Christ
The love of Christ is the soil in which our faith grows deep roots and finds stability. Just as a tree draws life and nourishment from its roots, so we are called to draw our life-sustaining power from the love Jesus has for us—a love that is not just spoken, but demonstrated in action and sacrifice. This love is the true foundation of the Christian life, shaping how we relate to God and to others. When we are rooted in His love, we are able to withstand the storms of life and avoid being swept away by false teachings or fleeting emotions. [21:43]

Ephesians 3:17-19 (ESV):
"so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God."

Reflection:
How can you intentionally draw from Christ’s love today—perhaps by serving someone sacrificially or forgiving someone who has hurt you?


Day 4: God Is Able to Do Exceedingly Abundantly
God’s power is not limited by our imagination or requests; He is able to do far more than we could ever ask or think. Throughout Scripture, God’s ability to deliver, provide, and transform is repeatedly affirmed—not just for the heroes of faith, but for every believer today. The Holy Spirit works within us, enabling us to trust God for miracles, to persevere in faith, and to experience His grace in every circumstance. No problem is too great, no need too small, for the One who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or imagine. [28:41]

Ephesians 3:20-21 (ESV):
"Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen."

Reflection:
What is one “impossible” situation you are facing right now? Will you bring it to God today, believing that He is able to do more than you can imagine?


Day 5: Living as a Response to God’s Love
The Christian life is meant to be a continual response to the overwhelming love and grace God has shown us. Rather than living out of obligation or fear, we are invited to let every action, decision, and relationship flow from gratitude for all that God has given. When we truly grasp the riches we have in Christ, our lives become a testimony of His love—marked by faith, hope, and a desire to honor Him in all things. Let us ask God to help our roots go deep in His love, to experience it not just intellectually but in daily life, and to live in such a way that others see Christ in us. [34:17]

1 John 4:19 (ESV):
"We love because he first loved us."

Reflection:
What is one practical way you can let your actions today be a response to God’s love for you, rather than a reaction to your circumstances or emotions?

Quotes

The Bible is really, listen, guys, and God is really more interested in the inner man than he is the outer man. Right now, you know, we've been seeing Julie go through a lot, and there's been a lot of prayers for the outer man. Lord, we don't want to see her suffer. We don't want to see her cry. We don't want to see her go through this disease. We don't want to take that away, take that away. But, you know, we need to pray for the inner man. It's more important even. It doesn't mean that you don't pray for the outer man, but it's more important what's going on on the inside. It's more important, and it can lead to great things on the outside if we deal with the inward man. [00:12:53] (00:00:54 seconds) Edit Clip

God told Samuel that man looked at the outward appearance, but God looks, right, at the heart. Paul said that his outward man was perishing, but the inward man was being renewed every day, day by day. Paul, or Peter, rather, exhorted the women that, listen, women, your beauty should not be in your hairstyle or in your jewelry or the fancy clothes, but your real true beauty should be that inward beauty of the heart. [00:13:47] (00:00:38 seconds) Edit Clip

I've been crucified with Christ, and it's I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God who loved me and gave himself for me. I've been crucified with Christ. It's no longer I who lives. It's Christ who lives in me. And he viewed his life that way. What would Jesus do? Everything was about his kingdom. And I believe that that's how God would want us to live. [00:17:17] (00:00:34 seconds) Edit Clip

Paul is praying that they may also be grounded in love and love is truly that foundation of Christianity he says of course you Jesus said by this men will know that you are my disciples what nice clothes you have on how you talk with big theological words how you know the jargon of Christianity no it's by your love how you love others how you put them above yourself how you are oriented towards others rather than yourself. [00:20:56] (00:00:45 seconds) Edit Clip

John tells us that it's not just verbalizing there are many people who know right things to say they have the spiritual jargon down pat but the problem is it's all words and it's not from the heart and the way they talk you'd think there are spiritual giants all talk and no walk John says let us not love in word or tongue but in deed and in truth and hereby we know that we are of the truth and shall assure our hearts before him let's love in deed and truth not just words and so the reality of your Christian faith is proved by your love. [00:21:43] (00:00:52 seconds) Edit Clip

So it is the desire of God right to bring you into a loving relationship with him thank you Lord so that he initiated his relationship demonstrating his love for you by sacrificing himself his son for your sins we loved he we love him because he first loved us God the Father is the initiator. [00:23:51] (00:00:24 seconds) Edit Clip

Now to him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think. What does that mean? He who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask. He's able to do better than you could ever ask for. He's able to bless you according to the power that works in us, the Holy Spirit. To him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen. [00:28:01] (00:00:51 seconds) Edit Clip

See, our life should be a response to God's love. That's how our lives should be. That everything we do is a response of his love towards us. Because we love him. We appreciate him. We care. Because he's given us so much. We want to live for him. Amen? [00:33:10] (00:00:18 seconds) Edit Clip

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