Bible reading: John 11:17-35 (ESV)
Now when Jesus came, he found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb four days. Bethany was near Jerusalem, about two miles off, and many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary to console them concerning their brother. So when Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went and met him, but Mary remained seated in the house. Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died. But even now I know that whatever you ask from God, God will give you.” Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.” Martha said to him, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day.” Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die. Do you believe this?” She said to him, “Yes, Lord; I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.” When she had said this, she went and called her sister Mary, saying in private, “The Teacher is here and is calling for you.” And when she heard it, she rose quickly and went to him. Now Jesus had not yet come into the village, but was still in the place where Martha had met him. When the Jews who were with her in the house, consoling her, saw Mary rise quickly and go out, they followed her, supposing that she was going to the tomb to weep there. Then when Mary came to where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet, saying to him, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in his spirit and greatly troubled. And he said, “Where have you laid him?” They said to him, “Lord, come and see.” Jesus wept.
Observation questions
- What was the first thing both Martha and Mary said to Jesus when they saw him?
- How did Jesus respond emotionally when he saw Mary and the others weeping?
- What was Jesus’s direct and personal claim about himself in verse 25?
- What was the one question Jesus asked Martha that preceded her statement of faith?
Interpretation questions
- Jesus waited two days after hearing Lazarus was sick before going to him [41:41]. How does this intentional delay challenge our common understanding of God’s timing when we are suffering?
- Jesus was both “deeply moved” and “troubled,” which can also be translated as angered [51:18]. What was Jesus angry at, and why is it significant that this anger was paired with his tears?
- Martha expressed faith in a future resurrection, but Jesus redirected her to a present reality. What is the difference between believing in a future event and believing in a person who is the source of that event?
- The story shows that Jesus is both fully God, with power over death, and fully man, who weeps with his friends. Why is it essential for our faith that Jesus embodies both of these truths?
Application questions
- What is a situation in your life right now where you find yourself saying, “Lord, if you had only been here, this wouldn’t have happened”? [42:35] What would it look like to shift that prayer to “Lord, even if this doesn’t change, I believe you are good”?
- Belief is described as something that changes our present heart and perspective, not just our future destination [45:05]. In what area of your life has shame, fear, or a sense of failure begun to loosen its grip as you’ve trusted Christ, even though the circumstances might still be hard?
- Jesus meets us in our grief and is angry at the things that cause it [51:18]. How does knowing that God is both sympathetic to your pain and angry at the sin and death that cause it affect how you bring your sorrows to him?
- What is one “too-dead” area in your life—a relationship, a dream, a personal struggle—that feels beyond hope? [49:25] What would it look like to surrender the outcome to God and ask him to work on renewing your heart first, regardless of the external result?
- The story invites us to see people not as projects to be fixed, but as bearers of God’s image to be loved [48:28]. Who is one person in your life you’ve been trying to “fix”? How can you shift your focus this week to simply loving and seeing them as Christ does?
- The church responded by naming needs and interceding together [01:03:01]. Who is one person the Holy Spirit has brought to your mind that needs prayer for spiritual resurrection? How can you commit to praying for them this week?