Restoring Marriage and Family Through the Gospel

Devotional

Day 1: The Interconnection of Gospel and Family

The decline in traditional marriage and family values is deeply connected to the erosion of gospel-centered living. As societal norms shift away from traditional values, the redefinition of marriage, the normalization of cohabitation before marriage, and the rising rates of children born out of wedlock are indicators of this shift. These changes are not isolated but are deeply connected to the decline in church attendance and the erosion of gospel-centered living. The gospel and the family are intertwined; losing one often leads to the deterioration of the other. Understanding this connection is crucial for believers who seek to uphold the sanctity of marriage and family in a world that often challenges these values. [02:31]

Ephesians 5:31-32 (ESV): "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church."

Reflection: In what ways can you actively integrate gospel-centered principles into your family life today to strengthen both your faith and family bonds?

Day 2: Reformation's Impact on Marriage

The Reformation emphasized that marriage is a good institution that glorifies God, challenging the notion that celibacy is superior. Before the Reformation, celibacy was often considered a higher calling than marriage, leading many into lives of chastity without true commitment. However, the doctrine of justification by faith alone shattered this notion, emphasizing that marriage is a good institution that glorifies God. Martin Luther's own marriage to Katharina von Bora exemplified this shift, demonstrating that marriage could be a joyful and God-honoring union. This historical perspective encourages believers to view marriage as a divine calling and a means to reflect God's love. [07:40]

1 Corinthians 7:7-9 (ESV): "I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another. To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion."

Reflection: How can you honor God in your current state, whether single or married, and view it as a gift from Him?

Day 3: Good Works and God's Character

Good works are not for earning salvation but for serving others and displaying God's character. The Reformers taught that good works are not a means to earn salvation but are instead a way to serve others and display God's character. This understanding expanded the context in which one could serve God from the cloister to the world, allowing believers to glorify God in all aspects of life, including marriage and family. By embracing this perspective, Christians can find purpose and fulfillment in their daily actions, knowing that they are reflecting God's love and grace to those around them. [14:47]

Titus 3:8 (ESV): "The saying is trustworthy, and I want you to insist on these things, so that those who have believed in God may be careful to devote themselves to good works. These things are excellent and profitable for people."

Reflection: Identify one specific way you can serve someone in your community today, reflecting God's character through your actions.

Day 4: The Gospel's Familial Roots

The gospel's familial roots highlight the importance of committed love and stability, which are only fully realized through Christ. The gospel story is a love story, with Christ as the bridegroom and the church as His bride. This narrative provides the logic for marriage, illustrating the perfect love and faithfulness found in Christ. In a culture that often runs from these values, the gospel offers the only true foundation for healthy marriages that reflect Christ's relationship with the church. Both married and single Christians can embody this gospel, showing the world that only Christ can fulfill our deepest longings. [20:49]

Hosea 2:19-20 (ESV): "And I will betroth you to me forever. I will betroth you to me in righteousness and in justice, in steadfast love and in mercy. I will betroth you to me in faithfulness. And you shall know the Lord."

Reflection: How can you demonstrate Christ-like love and faithfulness in your relationships today, reflecting the gospel's familial roots?

Day 5: Hope and Restoration in Christ

For those struggling in their marriages, there is hope in Christ. Turning to Him can mend relationships and foster genuine love and faithfulness. As we await the return of our great Bridegroom, let us honor the gospel with our lives, knowing that it is the key to transforming marriages, families, and ultimately, the world. In times of difficulty, believers are encouraged to seek Christ's guidance and strength, trusting that He can bring healing and restoration to broken relationships. This hope in Christ serves as a powerful reminder of the transformative power of the gospel in all areas of life. [36:13]

Isaiah 61:1-3 (ESV): "The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me, because the Lord has anointed me to bring good news to the poor; he has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound; to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all who mourn; to grant to those who mourn in Zion—to give them a beautiful headdress instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, the garment of praise instead of a faint spirit; that they may be called oaks of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that he may be glorified."

Reflection: If you are facing challenges in your marriage or relationships, what is one step you can take today to invite Christ's healing and restoration into that situation?

Sermon Summary

In today's world, the concepts of marriage and family are under significant threat, with societal norms shifting away from traditional values. The redefinition of marriage, the normalization of cohabitation before marriage, and the rising rates of children born out of wedlock are just a few indicators of this shift. These changes are not isolated but are deeply connected to the decline in church attendance and the erosion of gospel-centered living. The gospel and the family are intertwined; losing one often leads to the deterioration of the other.

Reflecting on the Reformation, we see how Martin Luther's theological reforms had a profound impact on marriage and family life. Before the Reformation, celibacy was considered superior to marriage, leading many into lives of chastity without true commitment. However, the doctrine of justification by faith alone shattered this notion, emphasizing that marriage is a good institution that glorifies God. Luther's own marriage to Katharina von Bora exemplified this shift, demonstrating that marriage could be a joyful and God-honoring union.

The Reformers taught that good works are not for earning salvation but for serving others and displaying God's character. This understanding expanded the context in which one could serve God from the cloister to the world, allowing believers to glorify God in all aspects of life, including marriage and family. The gospel's familial roots, seen in God's eternal covenant with His Son, highlight the importance of committed love and stability, which are only fully realized through Christ.

The gospel story is a love story, with Christ as the bridegroom and the church as His bride. This narrative provides the logic for marriage, illustrating the perfect love and faithfulness found in Christ. In a culture that often runs from these values, the gospel offers the only true foundation for healthy marriages that reflect Christ's relationship with the church. Both married and single Christians can embody this gospel, showing the world that only Christ can fulfill our deepest longings.

For those struggling in their marriages, there is hope in Christ. Turning to Him can mend relationships and foster genuine love and faithfulness. As we await the return of our great Bridegroom, let us honor the gospel with our lives, knowing that it is the key to transforming marriages, families, and ultimately, the world.

Key Takeaways

1. The decline in traditional marriage and family values is deeply connected to the erosion of gospel-centered living. The gospel and the family are intertwined, and losing one often leads to the deterioration of the other. [02:31]
2. The Reformation emphasized that marriage is a good institution that glorifies God, challenging the notion that celibacy is superior. Martin Luther's marriage to Katharina von Bora exemplified this shift, showing that marriage can be a joyful and God-honoring union. [07:40]
3. Good works are not for earning salvation but for serving others and displaying God's character. This understanding allows believers to glorify God in all aspects of life, including marriage and family. [14:47]
4. The gospel's familial roots highlight the importance of committed love and stability, which are only fully realized through Christ. The gospel story, with Christ as the bridegroom and the church as His bride, provides the logic for marriage. [20:49]
5. For those struggling in their marriages, there is hope in Christ. Turning to Him can mend relationships and foster genuine love and faithfulness. As we await the return of our great Bridegroom, let us honor the gospel with our lives. [36:13]
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[00:00] - Welcome
[00:37] - Opening Prayer
[01:11] - The State of Marriage Today
[02:31] - Gospel and Family Connection
[03:04] - Lessons from the Reformation
[04:14] - Pre-Reformation Views on Celibacy
[05:45] - Justification by Faith Alone
[07:11] - Luther's Marriage
[09:35] - Growth in Love
[11:17] - Luther's Letters to Katie
[14:05] - Purpose of Good Works
[16:51] - Glorifying God in All of Life
[18:39] - Scriptural Basis for Marriage
[20:12] - Familial Roots of the Gospel
[22:21] - The Gospel as a Love Story
[24:52] - Marriage as a Picture of the Gospel
[28:17] - True Love and Faithfulness in Christ
[33:22] - The Role of Singles
[35:13] - Challenges for Married Couples
[37:04] - Hope and Restoration in Christ
[37:44] - The Wedding Supper of the Lamb
[38:23] - Closing Prayer

Sermon Clips

For the gospel and the family go hand in hand. You lose the gospel and you lose the rationale for the family, and that is what we are seeing all around us today. So, what are we to do amidst all this? Well, we could learn a very good deal from the Reformation. [00:02:42]

For what had been growing over centuries was the idea that the celibate life is superior to the married life. For if you were celibate, it was argued, you're living the life of the angels, you're living the heavenly life. And so, do you want the spiritual fast track? Don't marry. [00:04:14]

Justification by faith alone smashed through all this like a pneumatic drill. For if vows of celibacy do not earn you salvific merit before God, what's the point? Especially if, as the Reformers argued, marriage is a good institution that glorifies God. [00:05:51]

And Luther confessed, "Suddenly, and while I was occupied with very different thoughts, the Lord plunged me into marriage." And you can tell from that Luther's marriage didn't really start with very heartfelt affection, but it was typical Luther. His marriage was an act of iconoclastic destruction that broke apart false saintliness. [00:07:40]

There was something else that justification by faith alone did. It forced the Reformers to ask, "If our works are not done to earn salvation, why are so many good works prescribed in Scripture?" "Well," said Luther, "clearly God doesn't need our good works. He's not in need." [00:14:17]

Clearly instead, good works display the character of God to the world. They are done to serve and bless our neighbor. And so instead of doing good works for God, we have good from God, and this good from God is meant then to flow out to others. [00:14:37]

The gospel has its roots in God the Father's eternal covenant with His Son. Eternally, the Father so delighted in His Son that He willed His Son might be the firstborn among many. Romans 8 verse 29, "For those he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son." [00:20:24]

And so the very foundations of the gospel, because of the nature of our God, are familial, which is why the supreme benefit of salvation is adoption because God the Father desired not simply to have a community of citizens under His rulership; He chose to have a stable and loving family. [00:21:07]

The story of a bride and bridegroom, the story in which Christ the bridegroom comes to win his bride the church. We've seen it already from the very beginning of the Reformation. That early tract of Luther's, where he describes how the king marries that poor girl, and they enjoy that wonderful exchange. [00:22:42]

In Christ we see a perfect bridegroom who has no secret agenda to use His beloved, to take from her. Here's a bridegroom that is not lacking or needy. He loves out of a superfluence, an overflow of goodness, as we see supremely in His self-giving on the cross. [00:28:45]

If you stray from Christ, your marriage will suffer. Turn to Christ, and He can mend even after years of neglect. And He can make truly affectionate love and faithfulness blossom. Friends, repent. Turn to Christ. Let's honor this gospel with our lives. [00:36:48]

And before long, having got all ready, our great Bridegroom will return. He will return, and history will end with His wedding supper. And at that banquet, He will swallow up death forever. "Behold, I am coming soon," promises the bridegroom. And the Spirit and the bride say, "Come." [00:37:44]

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