In moments when life feels heavy with failure—when it seems we’ve let down ourselves, our loved ones, or even God—it’s natural to want to retreat to what’s familiar and comfortable. Peter, after denying Jesus three times, found himself in such a place. He returned to fishing, the life he knew before Jesus called him. Yet, even in this place of retreat, Jesus met him. Jesus didn’t come with rebuke or condemnation, but with an invitation: “Come and eat.” He had already prepared breakfast on the shore, showing that even when we feel lost or unworthy, Christ is already making provision for our restoration.
This encounter at the Sea of Galilee is a powerful reminder that our comfort zones, though familiar, cannot satisfy the deep needs of our souls. Only Christ can restore what’s been broken. When Peter and the disciples fished all night and caught nothing, it was Jesus’ word that brought abundance. In the same way, our efforts to find fulfillment apart from Him will always fall short. But when we respond to His voice, even in our places of disappointment, He brings restoration and abundance.
After breakfast, Jesus turned to Peter and asked him three times, “Do you love me?”—mirroring Peter’s three denials. Each time Peter answered, Jesus gave him a new commission: “Feed my lambs. Shepherd my sheep. Feed my sheep.” This was not to shame Peter, but to heal him, to restore him, and to recommission him for the work ahead. Every “yes” Peter gave was a step toward healing and restoration. In the same way, every time we say “yes” to God, even after failure, we open ourselves to His restoring work.
Discipleship is not always safe or comfortable, but it is sacred. It requires surrender, a willingness to die to our old ways, and a continual “yes” to Jesus. Restoration comes not from returning to what’s familiar, but from following Christ forward, even when it’s hard. No matter where you find yourself—whether in a place of retreat, disappointment, or failure—Jesus meets you there, invites you to the table, and calls you to say “yes” again. Your restoration is in your “yes.”
Key Takeaways
- 1. Retreating to Comfort Isn’t the Answer When we feel like failures, our instinct is to return to what’s familiar and comfortable, just as Peter went back to fishing. But the comfort zone cannot fulfill what only Christ can restore. Our old ways may feel safe, but they cannot satisfy the deep longing for purpose and healing that only Jesus can provide. [26:35]
- 2. Jesus Meets Us in Our Place of Retreat Even when we withdraw in disappointment or shame, Jesus comes to us right where we are. He doesn’t rebuke us for retreating, but instead prepares a table for us, offering nourishment and grace. His presence in our lowest moments is a reminder that restoration begins not with our striving, but with His initiative and love. [29:20]
- 3. Restoration Comes Through Repeated “Yes” Peter’s threefold affirmation of love for Jesus mirrored his three denials, each “yes” serving as a step toward healing. Our restoration is often a process, requiring us to say “yes” to God again and again, even when we feel unworthy. Every “yes” is a moment where God heals, restores, and recommissions us for His purpose. [35:22]
- 4. Discipleship Is Sacred, Not Safe Following Jesus is not about staying in a place of comfort or safety. True discipleship calls us to surrender, to die to our old selves, and to embrace the sacred path of following Christ wherever He leads. Restoration and purpose are found not in retreat, but in the risk and surrender of discipleship. [40:09]
- 5. God’s Grace Finds Us in Failure No matter how far we feel we’ve fallen or how deeply we believe we’ve failed, God’s grace is greater. He meets us, forgives us, and invites us to follow Him anew. Our failures do not disqualify us; instead, they become the very places where God’s restoring love is most powerfully revealed. [42:28]
Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [06:48] - Introduction and Setting the Scene
- [13:46] - Reading John 21:1-19
- [17:33] - Jesus Prepares Breakfast on the Shore
- [19:34] - Jesus’ Invitation: “Follow Me”
- [21:35] - Peter’s Retreat to Fishing
- [26:35] - The Comfort Zone Can’t Restore
- [29:20] - Jesus Meets Us in Our Retreat
- [33:42] - The Threefold Question: “Do You Love Me?”
- [34:36] - Restoration, Not Shame
- [35:22] - Every “Yes” Brings Healing
- [38:38] - The Call to Follow and the Cost
- [40:09] - Discipleship: Sacred, Not Safe
- [42:01] - Prayer for Those Feeling Like Failures
- [45:23] - Closing and Blessing