Restoration and Love: Jesus' Call to Peter

 

Summary

### Summary

Today, we gathered to honor and remember those who have sacrificed their lives for our freedom, particularly those in the military. We prayed for their families and for everyone present, whether in person or online, asking God to show His might and minister to us in a real and wonderful way. We also welcomed Brother Bill Miller, a veteran who has served in multiple military branches, to share his experiences and reflections.

Our main focus today was on a profound question Jesus asked Peter in the closing chapter of the Gospel of John: "Do you love me?" This question was asked three times, and each time, it carried significant weight and meaning. We explored four key aspects: what led up to this question, its significance, Peter's response, and our own response to this question.

We began by examining John 20:29-31, where Jesus speaks to Thomas about believing without seeing. This passage seems like a perfect conclusion to the Gospel of John, but then the narrative continues in John 21. Here, we find Peter and other disciples going fishing, a decision that might have been influenced by Peter's feelings of despondency and discouragement despite Jesus' resurrection. They fished all night and caught nothing until Jesus appeared and instructed them to cast their nets on the other side, resulting in a miraculous catch.

After this, Jesus asked Peter three times if he loved Him, each time with a slightly different emphasis. The first two times, Jesus used the word "agapias," which signifies a deep, unconditional love. Peter responded with "phileo," indicating a brotherly love. The third time, Jesus used "phileo," meeting Peter where he was. This exchange highlighted Peter's human limitations and Jesus' understanding and acceptance of those limitations.

We then looked at Peter's earlier interactions with Jesus, particularly in John 13, where Peter boldly declared he would lay down his life for Jesus, only to be told he would deny Jesus three times before the rooster crowed. Despite this, Jesus comforted Peter and the other disciples, emphasizing that heaven is for the forgiven, not the perfect.

In Mark 16:5-7, we saw the angel at Jesus' tomb specifically instructing the women to tell the disciples and Peter about Jesus' resurrection. This inclusion of Peter by name was significant, as it reassured Peter of his place among the disciples despite his earlier denial.

Returning to John 21, we reflected on the deeper meanings of Jesus' questions and Peter's responses. Jesus' questions were a test, not to condemn Peter but to restore and prepare him for future leadership. Peter's final response, acknowledging his limitations but committing to do his best, showed his growth and readiness to follow Jesus' call.

We concluded with a call to examine our own hearts. Just as Jesus asked Peter, "Do you love me?" He asks each of us the same question. Our love for Jesus may not be perfect, but it is sincere. We are reminded that our journey to heaven is not about being perfect but about being forgiven. As we partook in communion, we remembered Jesus' sacrifice and reaffirmed our commitment to follow Him, despite our imperfections.

### Key Takeaways

1. God Meets Us Where We Are: Jesus asked Peter if he loved Him using the term "agapias," which signifies a deep, unconditional love. Peter responded with "phileo," indicating a brotherly love. Jesus then met Peter at his level by using "phileo" the third time. This shows that God understands our limitations and meets us where we are, encouraging us to grow in our relationship with Him. [01:00:41]

2. Restoration After Failure: Peter's denial of Jesus was a significant failure, but Jesus' specific mention of Peter in the resurrection message ("tell His disciples and Peter") highlights God's desire to restore us after our failures. This reassures us that no matter how badly we mess up, God is always ready to forgive and restore us if we turn back to Him. [56:52]

3. The Importance of Forgiveness: Jesus' interaction with Peter after His resurrection emphasizes that heaven is not for the perfect but for the forgiven. This is a crucial reminder that our salvation is based on God's grace and forgiveness, not our own perfection. We must extend this grace to others as well, fostering a community of love and forgiveness. [53:40]

4. God's Faith in Us: Despite Peter's denial, Jesus had more faith in Peter than Peter had in himself. This is a powerful reminder that God sees our potential and believes in us even when we doubt ourselves. Our failures do not define us; God's faith in us does. This should encourage us to step out in faith and trust in God's plan for our lives. [01:03:43]

5. Responding to Jesus' Call: When Jesus asked Peter, "Do you love me?" He was calling Peter to a deeper commitment and service. Our response to Jesus' call should be one of sincere commitment, acknowledging our limitations but striving to do our best. This involves daily acts of love, service, and obedience, reflecting our love for Jesus in our actions. [01:12:01]

### Youtube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[32:35] - Honoring Military Families
[40:51] - Jesus' Question to Peter
[42:48] - Peter Goes Fishing
[44:40] - The Miraculous Catch
[46:33] - Jesus' Three Questions
[48:29] - Peter's Character and Failures
[50:08] - Peter's Denial Foretold
[51:48] - Jesus' Comforting Words
[53:40] - Heaven for the Forgiven
[55:39] - Peter's Denial and Restoration
[56:52] - The Angel's Message
[57:52] - Jesus' Specific Mention of Peter
[58:52] - Understanding the Greek Words for Love
[01:00:41] - Jesus Meets Peter Where He Is
[01:02:14] - The Test of Love
[01:03:43] - God's Faith in Peter
[01:05:45] - Peter's Transformation
[01:07:44] - Peter's Ultimate Sacrifice
[01:10:00] - Jesus' Call to Follow
[01:12:01] - Our Response to Jesus' Question
[01:13:55] - Psalm 139 Reflection
[01:16:45] - Communion and Closing Prayer

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
1. John 21:15-19 (ESV)
> When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, "Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?" He said to him, "Yes, Lord; you know that I love you." He said to him, "Feed my lambs." He said to him a second time, "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" He said to him, "Yes, Lord; you know that I love you." He said to him, "Tend my sheep." He said to him the third time, "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, "Do you love me?" and he said to him, "Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you." Jesus said to him, "Feed my sheep. Truly, truly, I say to you, when you were young, you used to dress yourself and walk wherever you wanted, but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will dress you and carry you where you do not want to go." (This he said to show by what kind of death he was to glorify God.) And after saying this he said to him, "Follow me."

2. John 20:29-31 (ESV)
> Jesus said to him, "Have you believed because you have seen me? Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed." Now Jesus did many other signs in the presence of the disciples, which are not written in this book; but these are written so that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.

3. Mark 16:5-7 (ESV)
> And entering the tomb, they saw a young man sitting on the right side, dressed in a white robe, and they were alarmed. And he said to them, "Do not be alarmed. You seek Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He has risen; he is not here. See the place where they laid him. But go, tell his disciples and Peter that he is going before you to Galilee. There you will see him, just as he told you."

### Observation Questions
1. What were the different Greek words for love used in the conversation between Jesus and Peter, and what do they signify? ([58:52])
2. How did Peter respond each time Jesus asked him, "Do you love me?" ([46:33])
3. What was the significance of Jesus specifically mentioning Peter in the resurrection message delivered by the angel? ([56:52])
4. What did Jesus predict about Peter's future after asking him if he loved Him? ([46:33])

### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Jesus asked Peter three times if he loved Him? What might this repetition signify about Peter's past actions and future role? ([46:33])
2. How does the use of different Greek words for love in the conversation between Jesus and Peter reflect on their relationship and Peter's spiritual state? ([58:52])
3. What does Jesus' specific mention of Peter in the resurrection message tell us about God's approach to restoration and forgiveness? ([56:52])
4. How does Peter's final response to Jesus' question reflect his growth and readiness for future leadership? ([46:33])

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt despondent or discouraged like Peter. How did you find hope and restoration in your relationship with God? ([42:48])
2. Jesus met Peter where he was by using "phileo" instead of "agapias" the third time. How can you apply this principle of meeting others where they are in your relationships? ([58:52])
3. Peter's denial of Jesus was a significant failure, yet Jesus restored him. How can you extend grace and forgiveness to someone who has failed you? ([56:52])
4. Jesus' interaction with Peter emphasizes that heaven is for the forgiven, not the perfect. How does this truth impact your view of your own spiritual journey and the way you treat others? ([53:40])
5. Despite Peter's failures, Jesus had faith in him. How can you cultivate a similar faith in yourself and others, especially when facing challenges or setbacks? ([01:03:43])
6. When Jesus asked Peter, "Do you love me?" He was calling him to a deeper commitment. What steps can you take this week to deepen your commitment to following Jesus? ([46:33])
7. Peter's final response to Jesus showed his readiness to follow despite his limitations. What are some practical ways you can serve and follow Jesus, acknowledging your own limitations but striving to do your best? ([46:33])

Devotional

Day 1: God Meets Us Where We Are
Description: In the Gospel of John, Jesus asks Peter three times if he loves Him, using different Greek words for love. Initially, Jesus uses "agapias," which signifies a deep, unconditional love. Peter responds with "phileo," indicating a brotherly love. On the third time, Jesus uses "phileo," meeting Peter at his level. This exchange demonstrates that God understands our human limitations and meets us where we are, encouraging us to grow in our relationship with Him. This compassionate approach reassures us that God does not demand perfection but seeks a sincere heart willing to grow and deepen in love and commitment. [01:00:41]

John 21:15-17 (ESV): "When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, 'Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?' He said to him, 'Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.' He said to him, 'Feed my lambs.' He said to him a second time, 'Simon, son of John, do you love me?' He said to him, 'Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.' He said to him, 'Tend my sheep.' He said to him the third time, 'Simon, son of John, do you love me?' Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, 'Do you love me?' and he said to him, 'Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.' Jesus said to him, 'Feed my sheep.'"

Reflection: Think about a time when you felt inadequate in your faith. How did God meet you where you were and help you grow? How can you be more open to His guidance today?


Day 2: Restoration After Failure
Description: Peter's denial of Jesus was a significant failure, but Jesus' specific mention of Peter in the resurrection message ("tell His disciples and Peter") highlights God's desire to restore us after our failures. This inclusion reassured Peter of his place among the disciples despite his earlier denial. It serves as a powerful reminder that no matter how badly we mess up, God is always ready to forgive and restore us if we turn back to Him. This act of restoration is not just about forgiveness but also about preparing us for future roles and responsibilities in His kingdom. [56:52]

Mark 16:6-7 (ESV): "And he said to them, 'Do not be alarmed. You seek Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He has risen; he is not here. See the place where they laid him. But go, tell his disciples and Peter that he is going before you to Galilee. There you will see him, just as he told you.'"

Reflection: Reflect on a recent failure or mistake. How can you seek God's restoration and forgiveness today? What steps can you take to turn back to Him and embrace His grace?


Day 3: The Importance of Forgiveness
Description: Jesus' interaction with Peter after His resurrection emphasizes that heaven is not for the perfect but for the forgiven. This is a crucial reminder that our salvation is based on God's grace and forgiveness, not our own perfection. We must extend this grace to others as well, fostering a community of love and forgiveness. By doing so, we reflect the heart of God and create an environment where people can grow and thrive in their faith, knowing they are loved and accepted despite their imperfections. [53:40]

Ephesians 4:32 (ESV): "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you."

Reflection: Think of someone in your life you need to forgive. Can you ask God to help you begin to extend His love and forgiveness to them today?


Day 4: God's Faith in Us
Description: Despite Peter's denial, Jesus had more faith in Peter than Peter had in himself. This is a powerful reminder that God sees our potential and believes in us even when we doubt ourselves. Our failures do not define us; God's faith in us does. This should encourage us to step out in faith and trust in God's plan for our lives. Knowing that God believes in us can give us the courage to pursue His calling and live out our purpose with confidence and hope. [01:03:43]

Jeremiah 29:11 (ESV): "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope."

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you find yourself holding back from surrendering to Jesus? What would surrendering this area to Him actually look like in terms of daily habits?


Day 5: Responding to Jesus' Call
Description: When Jesus asked Peter, "Do you love me?" He was calling Peter to a deeper commitment and service. Our response to Jesus' call should be one of sincere commitment, acknowledging our limitations but striving to do our best. This involves daily acts of love, service, and obedience, reflecting our love for Jesus in our actions. By doing so, we demonstrate our dedication to following Him and fulfilling the purpose He has for our lives. [01:12:01]

James 2:17-18 (ESV): "So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead. But someone will say, 'You have faith and I have works.' Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works."

Reflection: How can you show your love for Jesus through your actions today? What specific acts of love, service, or obedience can you commit to this week?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "By himself, he did absolutely nothing. With God, he caught more than he could haul in. We need to remind ourselves of that sometimes. By ourselves, we're weak. By ourselves, we can't do much. But I remember there's one scripture that says, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." [46:33](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "Have any of you ever been depressed and discouraged? He might have been despondent. Now, I wanted to make sure I had that definition right, so I looked it up to make sure I was right. And man, that's twice this week I've been right. Of course, I'm not going to tell you how many times I've wronged, but I was right twice. And the word despondent means loss of hope or courage." [44:40](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "The great significance of this truth is that heaven wasn't made for the perfect. It was made for the forgiven. Because see, every one of us has messed up. Even after we become Christians, now, if you haven't, talk with Lou afterwards. He's got a story he can share with you. If you've got a perfect record and you've never messed up, then you may not can relate to this. But most of us can say we messed up." [53:40](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "God will always meet you where you are. Now for some of you that might not mean much, but some of us that are always making mistakes and failure, I'm glad God will meet me where I am. Now why did he ask that question? Because it was a test. How many knows that God's going to be giving us tests to see if we're ready to go to the next level, to see if we understand?" [01:02:14](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "Peter said, Lord, you know that I phileo you. That's the same word we get Philadelphia from, the city of brotherly love. Ask him again. Peter, do you agapias me? He said, Lord, you know I phileo you. Third time, Jesus said, Peter, do you phileos me? He said, Lord, you know I phileo me. Feed my sheep." [01:00:41](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "But go tell his disciples and Peter that he is going before you in Galilee. There you will see him just as he told you. One translation says, instead of saying and Peter, it says including Peter. You say, is that important? I believe it's very important. Because I think Peter was feeling just like most of us would feel. We messed up. Yes, I was his disciple. But when push came to shove, I denied him. I'm not worthy. I'm not worthy of being called his disciple." [56:52](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "Peter found out he couldn't depend upon Peter. But guess what? God had more faith in Peter than Peter had himself. But let me show you something else that's even better. He's got more faith in you than you've got in yourself. Because all of us have failed. All of us have failed. But Peter said, Lord, I'm going to do the best that I can. I can't go out on a limb and say I agapias you because I don't know if I'm up to that. But I can tell you I'm going to do my very best to love you, to serve you." [01:03:43](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "Peter, you're going to deny me three times, but don't sweat it. Let not your heart be troubled. You believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions. If it were not so, I would have told you that I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and I will take you to myself, that where I am, you may be also." [51:48](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

5. "Do you love me? Do you love me? And we could go through scripture and find out there's several things of finding out if we love God. In the gospel of first John, the same writer that wrote the gospel of John wrote this in first John chapter 3 verse 16: By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers." [01:12:01](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

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