Rest, Purpose, and Community: A Spiritual Journey
Summary
In today's message, we explored the profound importance of rest and the necessity of understanding our capacity. We began by reflecting on the New Testament's call to enter God's rest, emphasizing that rest is not just a physical need but a spiritual mandate. We are reminded that our minds, the greatest processors, need to be shut down periodically to avoid burnout. Just as we reboot our phones and computers, we must also reboot our minds and spirits to restore our relationships, dreams, and overall well-being.
We delved into the concept that rest is earned through work. Many people rest without having worked, leading to a lack of harvest when the time comes. This principle was illustrated through a personal story about my uncle in Miami, who taught me the value of hard work by making me rake leaves with my soft hands. This anecdote served as a metaphor for the necessity of labor before rest.
We then transitioned to the idea of being salt and light in the world, as described in Matthew 5:13-16. This passage calls us to bring out the God-flavors and God-colors in the world, showcasing our gifts and callings not for our glory but for God's. This is a reminder that our purpose is to make God look good through our actions and achievements, whether in education, business, or any other field.
The sermon also touched on the power of community and the importance of not isolating ourselves. Ecclesiastes 4:8-12 teaches that two are better than one because they can help each other up. This principle extends to our spiritual lives, where our capacity increases when we allow God to help us. We are encouraged to be part of a small group, to rally around each other in both our mountaintops and valleys, and to understand that our capacity increases when we know who we are and what we were created to do.
We discussed the story of Saul's transformation into Paul, emphasizing that our capacity increases when we know our purpose. Saul was busy persecuting Christians until a divine encounter on the road to Damascus revealed his true calling. This story serves as a powerful reminder that sometimes, God has to knock us off our proverbial donkeys to get our attention and redirect us towards our true purpose.
The message also highlighted the importance of systems and structures in managing our lives and responsibilities. Just as Moses needed to delegate tasks to avoid burnout, we too need to put systems in place to handle our growing responsibilities. This includes finding ways to take things off our plates, such as hiring help for household chores, to focus on what truly matters.
Finally, we concluded with a call to action, encouraging everyone to find a day of rest and to be intentional about it. This is not just about physical rest but about finding rest for our souls. We were reminded that our capacity increases when we allow our bodies and minds to recover, and that true rest comes from God.
### Key Takeaways
1. The Necessity of Rest: Rest is not just a physical need but a spiritual mandate. Our minds, the greatest processors, need to be shut down periodically to avoid burnout. Just as we reboot our phones and computers, we must also reboot our minds and spirits to restore our relationships, dreams, and overall well-being. [01:01:52]
2. Work Before Rest: Rest is earned through work. Many people rest without having worked, leading to a lack of harvest when the time comes. This principle was illustrated through a personal story about my uncle in Miami, who taught me the value of hard work by making me rake leaves with my soft hands. This anecdote served as a metaphor for the necessity of labor before rest. [01:04:04]
3. Being Salt and Light: We are called to bring out the God-flavors and God-colors in the world, showcasing our gifts and callings not for our glory but for God's. This is a reminder that our purpose is to make God look good through our actions and achievements, whether in education, business, or any other field. [01:27:08]
4. Power of Community: Ecclesiastes 4:8-12 teaches that two are better than one because they can help each other up. This principle extends to our spiritual lives, where our capacity increases when we allow God to help us. We are encouraged to be part of a small group, to rally around each other in both our mountaintops and valleys, and to understand that our capacity increases when we know who we are and what we were created to do. [01:25:07]
5. Systems and Structures: Just as Moses needed to delegate tasks to avoid burnout, we too need to put systems in place to handle our growing responsibilities. This includes finding ways to take things off our plates, such as hiring help for household chores, to focus on what truly matters. Our capacity increases when we allow our bodies and minds to recover, and true rest comes from God. [50:22]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[01:01:52] - The Necessity of Rest
[01:04:04] - Work Before Rest
[01:25:07] - Power of Community
[01:27:08] - Being Salt and Light
[50:22] - Systems and Structures
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV)
> "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
2. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (NIV)
> "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."
3. Exodus 18:17-18 (NIV)
> "Moses' father-in-law replied, 'What you are doing is not good. You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone.'"
#### Observation Questions
1. What does Jesus promise to those who come to Him in Matthew 11:28-30?
2. According to Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, what are the benefits of having a companion or being part of a community?
3. In Exodus 18:17-18, what advice does Moses' father-in-law give him, and why?
#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does Jesus' invitation to find rest in Him (Matthew 11:28-30) relate to the concept of spiritual and physical rest discussed in the sermon? [54:15]
2. What practical steps can we take to ensure we are not isolating ourselves, as advised in Ecclesiastes 4:9-12? [25:07]
3. How can the advice given to Moses in Exodus 18:17-18 be applied to our modern lives, especially in terms of managing responsibilities and avoiding burnout? [50:22]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your current state of rest. Are you experiencing true rest for your soul, or are you merely going through the motions of physical rest? What changes can you make to find genuine rest? [54:58]
2. Think about your work-life balance. Are you working hard and then resting, or are you resting without having worked? How can you ensure that your rest is earned and meaningful? [01:04:04]
3. In what ways can you be "salt and light" in your community, showcasing your gifts and callings for God's glory? Identify one specific action you can take this week to make God look good through your actions. [01:27:08]
4. How can you better integrate into a community or small group to increase your capacity and support others? What steps will you take to become more involved? [25:07]
5. Evaluate the systems and structures in your life. Are there tasks you can delegate or eliminate to avoid burnout? What specific changes will you make to manage your responsibilities more effectively? [50:22]
6. Reflect on a time when you felt overwhelmed by your responsibilities. How did you handle it, and what could you have done differently to manage your capacity better? [47:48]
7. Identify one area of your life where you need to "reboot" your mind and spirit. What practical steps will you take this week to shut down and restore your well-being? [01:01:52]
Devotional
Day 1: The Necessity of Rest
Rest is not just a physical need but a spiritual mandate. Our minds, the greatest processors, need to be shut down periodically to avoid burnout. Just as we reboot our phones and computers, we must also reboot our minds and spirits to restore our relationships, dreams, and overall well-being. This concept is deeply rooted in the New Testament's call to enter God's rest. It is a reminder that true rest comes from God and is essential for our spiritual health. Taking time to rest allows us to reconnect with God, rejuvenate our spirits, and gain clarity on our life's purpose.
[01:01:52]
Hebrews 4:9-10 (ESV): "So then, there remains a Sabbath rest for the people of God, for whoever has entered God's rest has also rested from his works as God did from his."
Reflection: What steps can you take today to intentionally set aside time for rest and reconnect with God?
Day 2: Work Before Rest
Rest is earned through work. Many people rest without having worked, leading to a lack of harvest when the time comes. This principle was illustrated through a personal story about raking leaves, serving as a metaphor for the necessity of labor before rest. The idea is that diligent work prepares us for a meaningful rest. When we work hard and fulfill our responsibilities, we can rest with a sense of accomplishment and peace. This balance between work and rest is crucial for a fulfilling life.
[01:04:04]
Proverbs 12:11 (ESV): "Whoever works his land will have plenty of bread, but he who follows worthless pursuits lacks sense."
Reflection: Reflect on your daily tasks and responsibilities. Are there areas where you can work more diligently to earn a more fulfilling rest?
Day 3: Being Salt and Light
We are called to bring out the God-flavors and God-colors in the world, showcasing our gifts and callings not for our glory but for God's. This is a reminder that our purpose is to make God look good through our actions and achievements, whether in education, business, or any other field. By living out our purpose, we reflect God's love and grace to those around us, making a positive impact on the world. Our actions should always point back to God, highlighting His goodness and mercy.
[01:27:08]
Matthew 5:16 (ESV): "In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven."
Reflection: How can you use your unique gifts and talents to reflect God's love and grace in your daily life?
Day 4: Power of Community
Ecclesiastes 4:8-12 teaches that two are better than one because they can help each other up. This principle extends to our spiritual lives, where our capacity increases when we allow God to help us. We are encouraged to be part of a small group, to rally around each other in both our mountaintops and valleys, and to understand that our capacity increases when we know who we are and what we were created to do. Community provides support, encouragement, and accountability, helping us grow in our faith and fulfill our God-given purpose.
[01:25:07]
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (ESV): "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!"
Reflection: Who in your community can you reach out to for support and encouragement today? How can you be a source of support for someone else?
Day 5: Systems and Structures
Just as Moses needed to delegate tasks to avoid burnout, we too need to put systems in place to handle our growing responsibilities. This includes finding ways to take things off our plates, such as hiring help for household chores, to focus on what truly matters. Our capacity increases when we allow our bodies and minds to recover, and true rest comes from God. By creating effective systems and structures, we can manage our responsibilities better and avoid burnout, allowing us to serve God and others more effectively.
[50:22]
Exodus 18:17-18 (ESV): "Moses' father-in-law said to him, 'What you are doing is not good. You and the people with you will certainly wear yourselves out, for the thing is too heavy for you. You are not able to do it alone.'"
Reflection: What systems or structures can you implement in your life to better manage your responsibilities and avoid burnout?
Quotes
### Quotes for Outreach
1. "Joy is real medicine, y'all. You find something to laugh about, and because it's so much going on right now to make you cry. You got to find enough stuff to make you laugh so that you don't let this stuff stress you out. This is not a pie in the sky dream. It is not something that is not attainable. This is literally within reach for each and every one of you. As soon as you're willing to say, you know what? It's more to my life than I'm living right now. It's more to my life than just being stressed out every single day arguing." [01:15:12]
2. "Our issue today is not a lack of information. It's a lack of application. We don't apply. We get, just being honest, we get 52 good sermons here every year at the least. If we apply just a piece of what we hear every single Sunday, a year from now, your whole life can be transformed. The issue is we are loaded with information but lack of application. I don't care whether that's in your marriage or your finances or in your faith. If you apply a hint of what the information is coming in, it is impossible for there not to be a transformation in your life." [01:16:53]
3. "God will never put more on you than you can bear. But here's the flip side of that. Even though God would not put more on you than you can bear. I think the issue is many times we put more on ourselves than we can bear. And that is the problem. Not God putting too much on us. It's us putting too much on ourselves. And we cannot handle it. We cannot maintain physically. We can't handle it emotionally. We can't handle it. And spiritually, we can't handle it because we're allowing ourselves to put too much on ourselves than we can bear." [47:11]
4. "You have to know your limits. You have to know your capacity. And you even need to go so far as to ask yourself when you find yourself with too much on your plate. Why is this on my plate? Why am I doing this? What is motivating me to do this? Is it because I'm led to do it? Is it pride that's making me do it? Is it because I want to be seen doing it? What is leading me to do this thing that is overwhelming my life?" [47:48]
### Quotes for Members
1. "Our capacity increases when we allow our bodies and minds to recover. There's a misnomer now to just always be making moves, always be going, going, going, never pausing, never stopping. Some of y'all have beautiful homes. You ain't even there enough to enjoy it. You know, some of y'all homes are so beautiful, you really don't need to take that many trips if you just enjoy your house. Come on, somebody. You got a nice kitchen, a nice dining room, a nice backyard. Some of y'all can have a nice breakfast on your patio every single week. You got to find strategic ways, you guys. To enjoy the blessing that's already in your hand that you don't even see because you're so busy." [59:11]
2. "You only qualify to rest after you work. Some of y'all have not worked. You ain't do nothing and you resting. Well, at least the family done nothing. Hell, what you doing? I'm resting. What did you do? I ain't do nothing all day. Wait a minute. You only qualify to rest after you work. It's too many people resting and they haven't worked. And here's the detriment of that. When you are resting and you have never worked. When it's time for hard. Harvest to come, you ain't sow no seeds, so when harvest day should come, there's nothing to reap because all you've been doing is resting." [01:04:04]
3. "Our capacity increases when we know who we are. Number three, our capacity increases when we know that we were created. I'm sorry. We, our capacity increases when we know what we were created to do. Again, when Paul realized what he was created to do, not, not, not destroying people, but to build people. Not to take life, but to give life. Paul really began to live when he began to realize who he was." [01:18:24]
4. "Our capacity increases when we are supported by others. When you get somebody who believes in you, who encourages you and supports you along the way. And my wife has had some crazy dreams, but I support her. Come on, somebody. Flip that around. I've had some crazy dreams and she's supported me. Support is power for you guys. If you get some people in your life who support you and what you're called to do and what you want to do, stuff that you probably would have never been able to strengthen to do, their support, their encouragement makes you do stuff, makes you go further, makes you believe in something that other people wouldn't believe in." [01:23:08]
5. "Just as Moses needed to delegate tasks to avoid burnout, we too need to put systems in place to handle our growing responsibilities. This includes finding ways to take things off our plates, such as hiring help for household chores, to focus on what truly matters. Our capacity increases when we allow our bodies and minds to recover, and true rest comes from God." [50:22]