Jesus stood with His disciples near Caesarea Philippi. Dust coated their sandals as He asked, “Who do people say I am?” They listed rumors: “John the Baptist… Elijah… a prophet.” Then Jesus locked eyes with them. “But you—who do you say I am?” Peter blurted, “You’re the Messiah—God’s Son!” The question pierced their assumptions, demanding personal conviction. [39:54]
Jesus didn’t want secondhand faith. He still asks every heart to declare His true identity. Calling Him “Lord” changes everything—how we love, forgive, and prioritize relationships. If He’s truly God’s Son, His words demand our full surrender.
Many of us recite beliefs learned in childhood. But when life shakes us, do we know Him as Messiah? Stop today. Open your Bible to Matthew 16:13-16. Read His question aloud. What words would you use to answer Him?
“When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, ‘Who do people say the Son of Man is?’ They replied, ‘Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets.’ ‘But what about you?’ he asked. ‘Who do you say I am?’ Simon Peter answered, ‘You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.’”
(Matthew 16:13-16, NIV)
Prayer: Ask Jesus to reveal Himself freshly as Messiah—not just a teacher, but your Lord.
Challenge: Write three sentences starting with “I believe Jesus is…” and read them aloud.
Jesus’ disciples once watched Him calm storms and heal diseases. But Colossians 1:16 reveals a deeper truth: “All things were created through Him.” Stars, oceans, your heartbeat—He spoke them into being. He didn’t just enter creation; He holds it together. Without Him, everything unravels. [43:22]
If Jesus sustains galaxies, He can mend fractured relationships. Trusting His lordship means believing His design for love, marriage, and friendship surpasses our ideas. When we exclude Him, relationships crumble like dry clay.
Are you trying to “fix” a relationship alone? List one tension you’ve handled without praying. Now pause. Picture Jesus’ hands holding atoms and galaxies—then hand Him that struggle. What fear keeps you from trusting His grip?
“For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible… all things have been created through him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.”
(Colossians 1:16-17, NIV)
Prayer: Thank Jesus for holding your life—and your relationships—together.
Challenge: Text a friend: “I’m praying for us to trust Christ’s design today.”
First-century churches fought over traditions and preferences. Paul reminded them: “Christ is the head of the body, the church” (Colossians 1:18). Jesus didn’t abandon His flawed followers—He led them. He still shepherds His people, not through majority votes, but through His Word. [55:20]
When conflicts arise in our churches or families, Christ’s authority settles disputes. Submitting to Him means aligning our choices with Scripture, even when culture disagrees. His resurrection proves He alone knows how to restore brokenness.
Is there a relationship where you’ve prioritized opinions over obedience? Name one teaching of Jesus you’ve avoided applying. How would surrendering to His headship change your next conversation?
“And he is the head of the body, the church… For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and through him to reconcile to himself all things…”
(Colossians 1:18-20, NIV)
Prayer: Confess one area where you’ve resisted Christ’s leadership. Ask for courage to follow.
Challenge: Read Matthew 18:15-17 and outline one step to mend a strained relationship.
Peter’s sermon on Pentecost sliced through excuses. “You killed the Messiah!” he declared. The crowd gasped—conviction hit like a hammer. “What do we do?” they cried. Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized!” Three thousand surrendered that day, washing guilt in baptismal waters. [01:07:38]
Conviction isn’t condemnation—it’s Jesus offering freedom. Baptism declares, “I’m done running; I trust His death cleanses me.” Delayed obedience often means clinging to sin’s illusion of control.
When has God’s Word pricked your conscience? What step have you postponed—forgiveness, confession, or baptism? What lie makes that step feel impossible?
“Peter replied, ‘Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.’”
(Acts 2:38, NIV)
Prayer: Ask God to highlight one action He’s waiting for you to take.
Challenge: Write a prayer of repentance. If led, contact a believer about baptism.
Roman soldiers nailed Jesus to the cross as crowds mocked. Yet Romans 5:8 says, “God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” He didn’t wait for us to clean up—He died for rebels, betrayers, and the prideful. [01:03:40]
This love redefines every relationship. If Jesus embraced us at our worst, how can we withhold grace? His sacrifice compels us to love others recklessly—not because they deserve it, but because He did it first.
Who feels hardest to love right now? Picture Jesus on the cross, saying their name. What resentment will you release to honor His sacrifice?
“You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly… God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
(Romans 5:6-8, NIV)
Prayer: Thank Jesus for loving you at your worst. Ask Him to overflow that love through you.
Challenge: Call or message someone who’s hurt you. Say, “Jesus loves you, and so do I.”
A new teaching series titled Relationship Status opens by naming one relationship as the foundation for every other: the individual’s relationship with Jesus Christ. Scripture demands a settled answer to the question, “Who do you say Jesus is?” because that conviction shapes how every human connection functions. The Bible presents Jesus in three decisive roles: Lord of all creation, the creative agent through whom and for whom all things exist; head of the church, holding preeminence and authority over communal life and teaching; and reconciler of sinners, whose death and resurrection make personal restoration with God possible. Removing the Creator from the moral and relational equation reduces human worth and corrodes the bonds that hold communities together. The teaching calls the church to submit practice and policies to Christ’s headship instead of cultural preferences, reminding that longevity and unity depend on the One who “holds all things together.” Finally, the gospel summons a concrete response: conviction of sin, repentance, baptism in Jesus’ name, and reception of the Holy Spirit — steps that led the early community to devotion, fellowship, and transformed lives. Practical pastoral care follows this theology: baptism can and should happen promptly when faith arises, and church life exists to support ongoing repentance and reconciliation. The result of surrendering relationships to Christ’s lordship is not mere moral conformity but a reordering of priorities that restores purpose, dignity, and hope for eternity.
Now if in him all things hold together, what does that say about what happens when we take him out of the equation? What happens to all things? They fall apart, don't they? Why are relationships falling apart all around us all the time? Could it be that maybe we have not put Jesus where he belongs in those relationships. And we've not come under him as the creator and how we do relationships. We've not recognized who he really is. And how we do relationships has nothing to do with Jesus then.
[00:48:26]
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#JesusHoldsItTogether
You see the resurrection of Jesus Christ proves not only who Jesus is, but it proves eternity exist. It proves that we're all going to face the father in eternity. We're gonna stand before him and give an account for our lives. And the thing, the only thing that's gonna make it right with the father is that we have the covering of the blood of Jesus that reconciles us to the father. No man comes to the father but through him. That's the only way we can dwell in eternity with him.
[01:00:38]
(34 seconds)
#EternalLifeThroughJesus
He's lord of me and you because friends, that's the only hope we have. There's only one who can reconcile us to God. So if we believe there is a God and we believe we will stand before God in eternity and the scripture says we are all going to do that, then we want to be sure that we are reconciled with God before we meet him face to face. Would you agree with me on that? Speak up people. If he's God and he does have that time appointed where we're gonna stand before him, then I wanna be sure before I stand before the father and give an account of my life that I have the covering that I need. I have the provision that I need to be right with him before that time comes. Don't you want that?
[00:57:49]
(62 seconds)
#ReconciledThroughChrist
You see, when it comes to relationships, God is our creator. He knows better than anybody else what makes relationships healthy. So if we recognize his authority and his lordship over us, then we'll do relationships under the authority of the teachings of God's word because we know he wants only what's best for us. How do we know? Because he let his son Jesus die for us. If he would not withhold his only son, what would he withhold from you that's good? He's not trying to keep you from anything good and his instructions on relationships. He's trying to provide for you the opportunity to have the best in your relationships.
[01:04:46]
(39 seconds)
#GodDesignedRelationships
But they say, my God would never have anybody be lost. They would would never send anybody to hell. And I always say, you're absolutely right. Whether it's your God or the God of scripture, the scripture reveals that he doesn't send anybody to hell. What it also reveals is that you choose whether you prepare to meet him and dwell with him forever. You make that choice by what you do with Jesus. You see why this relationship is top priority? What you choose to do with Jesus makes all the difference in your eternal destination.
[01:01:33]
(36 seconds)
#YourChoiceDeterminesEternity
And what the world will try to tell you is either there is no God so you don't have to worry about it or just be a good person and everything will be fine. Because their god that they've created says, everything's all fine. Alright. Just be a good person. But what Jesus says and what the word says is that no man comes to the father in a right relationship is what it's saying there, but through whom? Jesus Christ. Why? Why is that so important? It's because without Jesus, we are enemies of God.
[00:58:53]
(44 seconds)
#OnlyThroughChrist
Now it's easy to say that, but it's not always easy to really practice that because we all want people to be happy, don't we? We wanna see full seats. We wanna see people coming. We wanna see people excited about being here. And sometimes you're tempted to hold back a little bit on teaching truth or to leave some things out that you know would offend some people or hurt some people's feelings. You know, there's always that temptation to make it a popularity thing. But Jesus and scripture clearly is the head of the church.
[00:52:53]
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#TruthOverPopularity
One of the things that the church, I believe, and not just in America but in other parts of the world too, there's been this tendency in the church to try to stay relevant and they're so committed to trying to stay relevant that they stop being biblical. They stop being truth tellers. Now you don't ever wanna lose the love and the compassion, the desire to wanna connect with people and identify with people. You don't ever wanna lose that. But what happens so many times is we start making decisions that aren't under the authority of the one who's supposed to be the head of the church.
[00:51:17]
(41 seconds)
#BeBiblicalNotTrendy
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