Rekindling Our First Love for Christ

 

Summary

In our journey through the Book of Revelation, we have encountered a profound message to the Church of Ephesus—a message that resonates deeply with our own walk of faith. The heart of this message is a call to remember our first love, to rekindle the passion and intimacy we once had with Jesus Christ. It is a call to not merely know about God but to truly know Him, to engage in a relationship that transcends knowledge and manifests in love and obedience.

The Church of Ephesus was commended for its discernment and perseverance in the face of evil. They were vigilant in opposing wickedness and false teachings, standing firm in their faith despite persecution. Yet, despite these commendable traits, they were rebuked for having forsaken their first love. This is a stark reminder that our actions, no matter how righteous, are hollow without love. Love is the very essence of our faith, the greatest commandment—to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind, and to love our neighbors as ourselves.

As we reflect on this message, we must examine our own hearts. Have we become critical and judgmental, focusing on the letter of the law rather than the spirit of love that should permeate our lives? Have we become so consumed with being right that we have forgotten to be righteous in love? It is time to repent, to turn back to God with a heart of love, and to embrace the relationship that He desires with us.

The promise to the Church of Ephesus, and to us, is clear: those who overcome, who return to their first love and endure to the end, will be granted the right to eat from the tree of life in the paradise of God. This eschatological promise is our hope and our reward, but it is contingent upon our love for God and for others.

Let us, therefore, be a church known not just for our knowledge of Scripture or our ability to discern truth from falsehood, but for our love for God and for people. Let our reputation in the community be that of a church that truly loves, that reflects the heart of Jesus in all we do.

Key Takeaways:

1. Discernment without love leads to a life devoid of joy and compassion. We must use discernment not as a weapon to criticize others but as a tool to navigate our faith journey with love and grace. Remember, God values our love for Him and others above all else. [49:33]

2. The greatest commandment is not about the quantity of Scripture we know, but the quality of our love for God and others. True faith is evidenced by a life that radiates love, which is the very essence of God's nature and the foundation of His commandments. [54:14]

3. Repentance is a crucial step in returning to our first love. It requires humility and a willingness to change our hearts and actions. When we repent, we align ourselves with God's will and open the door to a renewed and vibrant relationship with Him. [59:18]

4. Our relationship with Jesus should be personal and intimate, not just a religious practice. Knowing Jesus is about experiencing His presence in our daily lives, not just accumulating knowledge about Him. This relationship transforms us from the inside out. [01:03:32]

5. The promise of eternal life is not based on our works but on our love for God and our perseverance in faith. As we hold fast to our first love, we are assured of our place in the paradise of God, where we will partake in the fullness of His presence forever. [01:09:08]

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Revelation 2:1-7
2. Matthew 22:34-40
3. 1 Corinthians 13:1-3

#### Observation Questions
1. What commendable traits did the Church of Ephesus exhibit according to Revelation 2:2-3?
2. What was the primary criticism Jesus had against the Church of Ephesus in Revelation 2:4? [48:00]
3. According to Matthew 22:37-39, what are the two greatest commandments that Jesus emphasized?
4. In 1 Corinthians 13:1-3, what does Paul say about the importance of love in relation to other spiritual gifts and actions?

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why is it significant that the Church of Ephesus was commended for their discernment and perseverance but criticized for forsaking their first love? [48:00]
2. How does Jesus' teaching in Matthew 22:37-39 about loving God and loving others relate to the criticism of the Church of Ephesus in Revelation 2:4?
3. What does Paul mean in 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 when he says that without love, even the greatest spiritual gifts and actions are meaningless?
4. How can the concept of repentance, as mentioned in Revelation 2:5, be understood in the context of rekindling one's first love for Jesus? [59:00]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own spiritual journey. Have you ever found yourself focusing more on religious practices and knowledge rather than on your relationship with Jesus? How can you shift your focus back to your first love? [55:00]
2. In what ways can you demonstrate love for God with all your heart, soul, and mind in your daily life? Are there specific actions you can take this week to deepen your relationship with Him? [52:00]
3. Think about your interactions with others. How can you show love to your neighbors in a way that reflects the heart of Jesus? Are there specific people you need to reach out to or reconcile with? [57:00]
4. Have you ever been critical or judgmental in the name of discernment? How can you practice discernment with love and grace instead of using it as a weapon to criticize others? [58:00]
5. Repentance is a crucial step in returning to our first love. Is there an area in your life where you need to repent and seek God's forgiveness? How can you take practical steps to align your heart with God's will? [59:00]
6. How can you cultivate a personal and intimate relationship with Jesus beyond just religious practices? Are there specific spiritual disciplines or habits you can incorporate into your daily routine to experience His presence more deeply? [01:03:00]
7. The promise of eternal life is contingent upon our love for God and perseverance in faith. How can you hold fast to your first love and endure in your faith journey, especially during challenging times? [01:09:00]

Devotional

Day 1: Love Transcends Knowledge
Discernment is a gift that allows believers to distinguish between truth and deception, but it must be wielded with love to be effective. Without love, discernment can become a tool for judgment and exclusion, rather than a means to build up the body of Christ in truth and grace. Believers are called to use their discernment to navigate their faith journey, not to criticize others, but to help guide them with compassion and understanding. Love is the cornerstone of faith, and it should be the lens through which all actions and decisions are made. It is the love for God and others that gives joy and meaning to the Christian walk, and without it, even the most righteous deeds can become empty gestures. [07:40]

"Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal." - 1 Corinthians 13:1 (ESV)

Reflection: How can you practice using discernment in a way that is rooted in love rather than judgment in a specific situation you are facing today?

Day 2: The Essence of God's Commandments
The knowledge of Scripture is valuable, but it is the love that flows from that knowledge that truly matters. The greatest commandment is to love God with all one's heart, soul, and mind, and to love one's neighbor as oneself. This love is the essence of God's nature and the foundation of His commandments. It is through love that faith becomes alive and active, radiating the nature of God to those around us. Love is the true measure of understanding and living out the teachings of Scripture, and it is by this love that believers are known to the world. [54:14]

"Let all that you do be done in love." - 1 Corinthians 16:14 (ESV)

Reflection: What is one practical way you can show love to God and to a neighbor today, moving beyond mere knowledge of Scripture?

Day 3: The Heart of Repentance
Repentance is more than feeling sorry for wrongdoings; it is a transformative process that involves a change of heart and actions. It requires humility and a willingness to align oneself with God's will. When believers repent, they turn back to their first love, opening the door to a renewed and vibrant relationship with God. This turning back is not a one-time event but a continual posture of the heart that seeks to grow closer to God and to embody His love and grace in every aspect of life. [59:18]

"Return, O Israel, to the Lord your God, for you have stumbled because of your iniquity." - Hosea 14:1 (ESV)

Reflection: What is one area in your life where you need to turn back to God, and what is the first step you can take towards repentance today?

Day 4: Intimacy with Jesus
Knowing Jesus is not merely an intellectual pursuit; it is about cultivating a personal and intimate relationship with Him. This relationship is meant to be experienced daily, transforming believers from the inside out. It is in the moments of quiet communion, heartfelt prayer, and reflective study that one truly encounters the presence of Jesus. This intimacy with Christ is what empowers believers to live out their faith authentically and to reflect His love and grace in their lives. [01:03:32]

"But it is good for me to draw near to God; I have put my trust in the Lord God, that I may declare all your works." - Psalm 73:28 (ESV)

Reflection: What is one step you can take today to deepen your personal relationship with Jesus and experience His presence more fully?

Day 5: The Promise of Perseverance
The promise of eternal life is a hope that sustains believers through trials and tribulations. It is not based on works but on love for God and perseverance in faith. Those who hold fast to their first love, despite the challenges of life, are assured of their place in the paradise of God. This eschatological hope is not just a future expectation but a present reality that influences how believers live their lives today, knowing that they are destined for the fullness of God's presence forever. [01:09:08]

"To the one who conquers I will grant to eat of the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God." - Revelation 2:7 (ESV)

Reflection: How can you demonstrate perseverance in your love for God in a tangible way this week, even in the face of challenges?

Quotes

1) "You have forsaken your first love. How important is love? According to the love chapter, 1st Corinthians chapter 13, Paul says, man, you can have all the faith in the world and without love you're a clanging symbol." [49:50](Download | Download)

2) "Remember the height from which you have fallen. Right? He's talking to a church that, man, they're doing a great job discerning. They're doing a great job avoiding wickedness yet this is the charge I have against you." [59:18](Download | Download)

3) "If in our faith, in our passion, in our pursuit to grow spiritually, if over time we've become critical and judgmental, at times maybe even hateful, God, we repent." [01:11:30](Download | Download)

4) "Let's not just make it about a religion. This is all about a relationship with the Son of God named Jesus. And let's learn how to love him well. Let's not just know about him. Let's get to really know him intimately and personally." [01:08:02](Download | Download)

5) "The greatest commandment is to love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind. This is the first and the greatest commandment. How important is love? Jesus sums up the Old Testament law." [53:08](Download | Download)

6) "You can do all of these great things but if you don't have love man, you're like an irritating noise. Like a gong, like a symbol. It gets worse." [58:42](Download | Download)

7) "If you do not repent, I will come to you and remove your lamp stand from its place. The context here to the Church of Ephesus is you will no longer be a church." [01:01:00](Download | Download)

8) "Man, let's just continue and to learn to love God with all of our heart and soul and mind, and to love our neighbors well. Let our reputation in the community as Hope City be a church, man." [01:10:14](Download | Download)

9) "But you have this in your favor. You hate the practices of the Nicolations, which I also hate, which is kind of funny because, like, wait, Lord, you just told me I've forsaken my love, and the next verse you use the word hate?" [01:05:22](Download | Download)

10) "To the one who is victorious. Right? The one who repents. The one who endures to the end. I will give the right to eat from the tree of life representing eternity, which is in the paradise of God." [01:09:08](Download | Download)

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