Rekindling Dreams: Pursuing God's Best for Our Lives

 

Summary

Good morning, everyone. I began today by expressing my gratitude for the privilege of journeying with you in faith. Last week, we had the opportunity to minister in a growing church in Macon, which was a profound experience. It's always a blessing to see how God uses us to help other congregations grow and learn from our experiences.

Today, I want to delve into a two-part teaching that will challenge us to revisit and rekindle the dreams and visions God has placed in our hearts. Many of us have settled for less than what God has promised, and it's crucial to recognize where we've allowed complacency to enter our lives.

In the story of Jacob, Leah, and Rachel from Genesis 29, we see a powerful illustration of not settling for less than what God has intended for us. Jacob worked seven years for Rachel, but initially, he was deceived and given Leah instead. This narrative isn't just a historical account; it serves as an allegory for our own lives. Rachel represents the best, the dream, the vision that God has for us, while Leah can represent settling for less than the best.

Throughout our lives, we face crossroads where we must decide whether to settle or to strive for the Rachel in our lives. Settling might seem easier at the moment, but it leads to a life of regret and unfulfilled potential. We must contend earnestly for the faith and the promises God has given us, not just pretend that everything is okay when it is not.

I shared personal reflections about not wanting to settle in various aspects of life, including a moment in a motorcycle shop where I decided not to settle for less than what I desired. This personal anecdote ties back to our spiritual lives—how often do we settle for less in our relationship with God because it's easier than striving for more?

As we moved towards the conclusion of today's message, I invited those who felt they had settled in their spiritual lives to make a fresh commitment to Christ. It's never too late to say, "I will not settle" and to start working towards the dreams and visions God has placed in our hearts.

Now, let's reflect on some key takeaways from today's sermon:

1. Recognize Where You've Settled: It's essential to identify areas in our lives where we've become complacent. Whether it's in our jobs, relationships, or spiritual lives, recognizing these areas is the first step toward change. God has more in store for us than just settling for the status quo. [41:23]

2. The Cost of Following God's Vision: Pursuing God's best for our lives is not without cost. It requires sacrifice, much like the story of our church's beginnings, where personal sacrifices were made to establish what we have today. Anything worth having in God's kingdom requires us to give something up, to invest ourselves fully. [56:30]

3. Seasons of Leah Are Temporary: If you find yourself in a 'Leah' season, remember it's only temporary. These seasons are meant to prepare and strengthen us for the 'Rachel'—the ultimate fulfillment of God's promise. Don't let a challenging chapter define your entire story. [58:28]

4. Rekindle Your Commitment: If you've drifted or settled in your faith, today is the day to rekindle that commitment. Don't wait for another moment; choose to step into the fullness of what God has for you. This decision can start a new chapter in your spiritual journey. [01:11:46]

5. Live Proactively Towards Your Dreams: Finally, live each day with the intention of moving closer to your dreams. Speak life into your visions, and don't be discouraged by delays. God's timing is perfect, and He is preparing you for what's to come. Keep your faith active and your actions aligned with your faith. [01:02:28]

Chapters:
- 0:00 - Welcome
- 00:32:18 - Opening Remarks and Reflections
- 00:39:53 - The Danger of Settling
- 00:41:23 - Jacob's Story and Personal Reflections
- 00:56:30 - The Cost of Commitment
- 00:58:28 - Temporary Seasons and Long-Term Visions
- 01:02:28 - Proactive Steps Towards God's Promises
- 01:11:46 - Call to Rekindle Commitment
- 01:14:06 - Closing Prayer and Offering

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Genesis 29:15-30 - The story of Jacob, Leah, and Rachel.
2. 2 Corinthians 5:5 - "The Spirit of God wets our appetite by giving us a taste of what's ahead."
3. Jeremiah 29:11 - "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope."

#### Observation Questions
1. What was Jacob's initial agreement with Laban regarding Rachel, and how was he deceived? ([42:17])
2. How does the story of Jacob, Leah, and Rachel serve as an allegory for our own lives according to the sermon? ([47:25])
3. What does 2 Corinthians 5:5 suggest about God's promises and our dreams?
4. According to Jeremiah 29:11, what are God's plans for us, and how do they contrast with settling for less?

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the story of Jacob working for Rachel illustrate the concept of striving for God's best in our lives? ([42:17])
2. What does the sermon suggest about the temporary nature of 'Leah' seasons in our lives? How should we view these seasons? ([58:28])
3. How does the pastor's personal anecdote about the motorcycle shop relate to the broader spiritual message of not settling? ([34:41])
4. What sacrifices might be necessary to pursue God's vision for our lives, as illustrated by the story of the church's beginnings? ([56:30])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own life: Are there areas where you have settled for less than God's best? What steps can you take to move towards the 'Rachel' in your life? ([36:40])
2. The sermon mentions the cost of following God's vision. What sacrifices are you willing to make to pursue the dreams and visions God has placed in your heart? ([56:30])
3. If you find yourself in a 'Leah' season, how can you remind yourself that this is temporary and prepare for the 'Rachel' season? ([58:28])
4. How can you rekindle your commitment to Christ if you feel you have settled in your spiritual life? What practical steps can you take this week? ([01:11:46])
5. Living proactively towards your dreams involves daily intentional actions. What specific actions can you take this week to move closer to your God-given dreams? ([01:02:28])
6. The sermon encourages us to recognize where we've settled. Identify one area in your life where you have become complacent. What is one immediate action you can take to change this? ([36:40])
7. How can you support others in your small group who may be struggling with settling for less? What practical ways can you encourage and uplift them? ([55:42])

Devotional

Day 1: Unmasking Complacency in Our Lives
In our spiritual journey, it's easy to become comfortable with the status quo, especially in areas where we should be striving for more. Recognizing where we've settled is the first step towards making a change. It's essential to examine our lives critically and identify where we might be accepting less than what God has promised us. This could be in our personal relationships, our careers, or even our spiritual practices. By acknowledging these areas, we open the door to God's transformative power and prepare ourselves for the growth He desires for us. This recognition is not just about seeing the shortcomings but also about envisioning what could be if we align more closely with God's intentions for us. [41:23]

"Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you fail to meet the test!" (2 Corinthians 13:5 ESV)

Reflection: What is one specific area in your life where you have become complacent, and how can you begin to address this with God's help?

Day 2: The High Cost of God's Vision
Pursuing the vision God has for our lives often requires significant sacrifices. This might mean giving up comfort, facing hard truths, or stepping into roles that challenge us. The story of our church's early days, where personal sacrifices paved the way for growth, mirrors the biblical principle that valuable achievements in God's kingdom are seldom without cost. Embracing this aspect of spiritual growth encourages us to invest ourselves fully, not just in hopes of personal gain but to fulfill the greater purpose God has laid out for us. This commitment is a testament to our faith and a declaration that we trust God's plan over our comfort. [56:30]

"And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me." (Matthew 10:38 ESV)

Reflection: What are you currently holding onto that God is asking you to sacrifice for the sake of His vision for your life?

Day 3: Temporary Seasons of Challenge
Every believer will face 'Leah' seasons—times when things aren't going as hoped or when we feel like we're not where we're supposed to be. However, these seasons are only temporary and serve a purpose in God's grand design. They prepare and strengthen us for the 'Rachel' seasons—the fulfillment of God's promises. Understanding that these challenging times are not permanent can help us to endure and learn from them, rather than being defined by them. This perspective shift is crucial for maintaining hope and perseverance in our faith journey. [58:28]

"For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison." (2 Corinthians 4:17 ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on a past 'Leah' season in your life. How did it prepare you for a 'Rachel' season that followed?

Day 4: Rekindling Our Spiritual Commitment
If you've found yourself drifting or settling in your faith, consider this a divine invitation to rekindle your commitment to Christ. It's never too late to renew our dedication and pursue the fullness of life that God offers. This decision to not settle for mediocrity can dramatically shift our spiritual trajectory, sparking a new chapter filled with growth and deeper connection with God. Let this day be the starting point of a renewed journey towards the dreams and visions God has placed in your heart. [01:11:46]

"Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain." (1 Corinthians 15:58 ESV)

Reflection: What does rekindling your commitment to Christ look like practically in your daily life?

Day 5: Proactively Pursuing Our God-Given Dreams
Living proactively towards our dreams involves daily decisions that align with God's vision. It means speaking life into our aspirations and not being discouraged by setbacks or delays. God's timing is perfect, and He is actively preparing us for what's to come. By keeping our faith active and our actions aligned with our beliefs, we position ourselves to step into the roles and opportunities God has prepared for us. This proactive stance is essential for seeing our God-given dreams come to fruition. [01:02:28]

"And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." (Galatians 6:9 ESV)

Reflection: What is one action you can take today to move closer to a dream God has placed in your heart?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "I stood there and I had remembrances. And I said to myself, I don't want to go through life always just settling. And by that, I meant I had all these things in my mind. Now, when I was in high school, of course, my dad wouldn't let me have a car until I graduated. Thank God for a good dad that just doesn't let you do your own." [34:41]( | | )

2. "It's about character. It's about making a difference. If you continue to settle, five years from now, I want you to fast forward, and I want you to look at the condition of your life and say, if I'd have taken that teaching seriously, my life would be different." [01:05:04]( | | )

3. "Maybe it's time to go back to the gym. Maybe it's time to take long walks at night instead of watching too much TV and eating chips and ice cream. Maybe you need to be proactive to get back in shape. But I wonder where you could be in five years, three years. I wonder where you could be next year." [01:01:21]( | | )

4. "Delayed destiny does not mean that your dream has been denied. You remember the three Hebrew boys that were thrown in the fiery furnace? Their hands were locked and they were in the fiery furnace. And then the king came back. I mean, the fire was so hot that when the soldiers threw them in, they died because they burned alive." [01:02:28]( | | )

### Quotes for Members

1. "Don't live with Leah when you really want a Rachel. Don't settle for less when God promised you the best. Don't settle with addiction when you know that, God wants you to be free. Don't settle with the smoke of a past relationship with God. When you've been touched by the power of the Holy spirit and you know, the difference in smoke or the fire of God." [50:35]( | | )

2. "We know that there are churches all around the world that are less than what God wants them to be. And they settled for you and me and we three in a personal parking spot. And that's all it is when the King of Kings wants us to be a church that establishes kingdom in all the earth. And brings forth his glory and power." [55:42]( | | )

3. "Anything that is worth having of God's is going to cost you a sacrifice. At the very beginning it cost us all of our savings, all of our retirement. We put all that in. We didn't have anyone financially backing us. We stepped out in faith. We came to Leesburg, knew three, four people." [56:30]( | | )

4. "Don't allow a chapter to become your book. Sometimes you have to have a season of Leah before you get your dream. He had to spend a week. He worked seven years. But he had to spend a week with Leah. It was a season. It wasn't where he was always going to be." [58:28](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

5. "You decide. Don't live with Leah when you really want a Rachel. Don't settle for less when God promised you the best. Don't settle with addiction when you know that, God wants you to be free. Don't settle with the smoke of a past relationship with God." [50:35]( | | )

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