Rediscovering Biblical Manhood in Today's Society

Devotional

Day 1: Biblical Manhood is Earned, Not Assumed

Description:
Becoming a man according to the Bible involves taking on responsibilities and maturing in character. It is not an automatic process but one that requires intentional effort and growth. This stands in stark contrast to the societal trend of prolonged adolescence and fatherlessness. The journey from being a biological male to becoming a man is a transformative process that involves embracing responsibility, developing maturity, and growing in character. In a world where fatherlessness and prolonged adolescence are rampant, the Word of God provides a clear blueprint for what it means to be a man. This journey is not about achieving a certain age but about embodying the qualities and responsibilities that define Biblical manhood. [02:39]

Bible Passage:
"When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways." (1 Corinthians 13:11, ESV)

Reflection:
Think about an area in your life where you need to take on more responsibility. What steps can you take today to mature in that area and align yourself more closely with Biblical manhood?

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Day 2: True Masculinity is Not Toxic

Description:
The traits often labeled as toxic, such as aggression and ambition, can be channeled for good when aligned with Biblical principles. The problem is not masculinity itself but the lack of true, godly masculinity. Men become good not by becoming less masculine but by becoming better men. True masculinity involves being a leader, a provider, a protector, and a lover. These roles are not about dominance but about sacrificial responsibility and stewardship. When men align their natural traits with Biblical principles, they can channel their aggression and ambition for the greater good, serving their families and communities with love and integrity. [06:29]

Bible Passage:
"Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love." (1 Corinthians 16:13-14, ESV)

Reflection:
Identify a trait in yourself that is often labeled as "toxic." How can you channel this trait in a way that aligns with Biblical principles and serves those around you?

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Day 3: Leadership and Sacrificial Responsibility

Description:
Biblical manhood involves leading with love and integrity. This means taking responsibility for the spiritual and moral health of one's family and community. Leadership is not about dominance but about sacrificial responsibility and stewardship. Men are called to be strong and courageous, to lead their families and communities with love and integrity, and to protect both physically and spiritually. This kind of leadership requires a deep commitment to the well-being of others and a willingness to put their needs above one's own. [22:10]

Bible Passage:
"But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be your slave, even as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." (Matthew 20:26-28, ESV)

Reflection:
Consider a leadership role you hold, whether in your family, workplace, or community. How can you lead with more love and integrity, putting the needs of others above your own?

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Day 4: Provision and Protection

Description:
A man is called to provide for and protect his family both physically and spiritually. This includes being a diligent worker and a spiritual leader who nourishes and cherishes his family. The decline in these roles has led to societal and familial breakdowns. Men are called to be diligent workers, providing for the physical needs of their families, and to be spiritual leaders, nourishing and cherishing their families. This dual role of provision and protection is essential for the health and well-being of both the family and the broader community. [33:37]

Bible Passage:
"But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." (1 Timothy 5:8, ESV)

Reflection:
Reflect on how you are providing for and protecting your family. Are there areas where you can improve in either physical provision or spiritual leadership?

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Day 5: Christ as the Ultimate Example

Description:
Jesus Christ is the perfect model of Biblical manhood. He embodied all the traits of true masculinity—strength, love, leadership, and sacrifice. By looking to Christ and relying on His strength, men can fulfill their God-given roles and responsibilities. Jesus is our model and our strength, enabling us to live out these principles through His Spirit. The call to Biblical manhood is a call to return to God's original design, to be men who lead, love, provide, and protect in a way that honors God and blesses those around us. [57:41]

Bible Passage:
"Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men." (Philippians 2:5-7, ESV)

Reflection:
In what ways can you look to Jesus as your model for manhood? How can you rely on His strength to fulfill your God-given roles and responsibilities today?

Sermon Summary

### Summary

In today's sermon, we delved into the concept of Biblical manhood in an age where masculinity is often labeled as toxic. We began by examining Jesus' teachings in Matthew 19, where He emphasizes the creation of humans as male and female and the journey from being a biological male to becoming a man. This transformation is not automatic but earned through responsibility and maturity. In a society where fatherlessness and prolonged adolescence are rampant, the Word of God provides a clear blueprint for what it means to be a man.

We discussed how society's attempt to feminize men in the name of equality has led to more confusion and toxicity. True masculinity, as described in the Bible, involves being a leader, a provider, a protector, and a lover. These roles are not about dominance but about sacrificial responsibility and stewardship. We looked at various scriptures, including 1 Corinthians 16, Ephesians 5, and Titus 2, to outline ten marks of Biblical manhood: believer, leader, lover, provider, protector, strong, sensible, sound, dignified, and Christ-like.

The sermon emphasized that masculinity is not inherently toxic; rather, the lack of true, Biblical masculinity is the issue. Men are called to be strong and courageous, to lead their families and communities with love and integrity, and to protect both physically and spiritually. We also touched on the alarming decline in testosterone levels and the societal push towards emasculating men, which only exacerbates the problem.

In conclusion, we were reminded that the ultimate example of manhood is found in Jesus Christ, who embodied all these traits perfectly. He is our model and our strength, enabling us to live out these principles through His Spirit. The call to Biblical manhood is a call to return to God's original design, to be men who lead, love, provide, and protect in a way that honors God and blesses those around us.

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Key Takeaways

1. given roles and responsibilities. [57:41]
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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[01:36] - Introduction to Biblical Manhood
[02:39] - The Journey from Male to Man
[03:53] - Societal Confusion and Biblical Clarity
[05:11] - The Problem of Toxic Masculinity
[06:29] - Better Masculinity, Not Less
[08:23] - Decline in Testosterone and Its Implications
[09:23] - The Church's Role in Upholding Manhood
[10:25] - The Crisis of Fatherlessness
[11:25] - The Impact on the Church
[12:42] - Prayer for Strength and Clarity
[14:18] - Ten Marks of Biblical Manhood
[15:30] - Believer: The Foundation of Manhood
[16:52] - Leader: Taking Responsibility
[18:52] - Christ as the Perfect Mentor
[20:26] - The Call to Lead
[22:10] - Male Headship in Scripture
[23:51] - The Responsibility of Leadership
[25:27] - Practical Leadership in the Home
[27:46] - Lover: Leading with Love
[30:29] - Sacrificial Love in Marriage
[33:06] - Provider: Physical and Spiritual Provision
[35:08] - The Gift of Work
[37:10] - The Role of Single Men
[38:24] - Spiritual Leadership in the Home
[40:31] - Predictable Spiritual Leadership
[41:11] - Protector: Guarding Against Danger
[43:04] - Physical and Spiritual Protection
[45:20] - Vigilance in Leadership
[47:24] - Strong: Physical and Spiritual Strength
[48:59] - Stewarding Natural Gifts
[50:38] - Sensible and Sound: Sober-Minded Leadership
[52:40] - Sound in Doctrine and Life
[53:44] - Dignified: Commanding Respect
[55:26] - Christ-Like: The Ultimate Goal
[57:41] - Christ as Our Strength and Example
[59:45] - The Call to Biblical Manhood
[62:00] - Closing Prayer

Bible Study Guide

Bible Reading

Matthew 19:3-12 — 2. 1 Corinthians 16:13-14
3. Ephesians 5:25-29

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Observation Questions

According to Matthew 19:4-5, what does Jesus say about the creation of humans and the journey from being a male to becoming a man? How does this relate to the concept of Biblical manhood? [01:36]
In 1 Corinthians 16:13-14, what specific commands does Paul give to the church that relate to Biblical manhood?
How does Ephesians 5:25-29 describe the way husbands should love their wives? What are the key actions mentioned?
What societal issues were highlighted in the sermon as contributing to the confusion about masculinity? [03:53]

Interpretation Questions

How does the journey from being a biological male to becoming a man, as described in Matthew 19, challenge the current societal norms of prolonged adolescence and fatherlessness? [02:39]
In what ways does 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 suggest that true masculinity involves both strength and love? How can these traits coexist in a Biblical man?
Ephesians 5:25-29 emphasizes sacrificial love in marriage. How does this model of love contrast with societal views on masculinity and leadership?
The sermon mentioned a decline in testosterone levels and societal efforts to feminize men. How do these factors contribute to the misunderstanding of true Biblical masculinity? [08:23]

Application Questions

Reflect on the idea that Biblical manhood is earned through responsibility and maturity. What specific responsibilities can you take on to grow in your journey from male to man? [02:39]
The sermon emphasized that true masculinity is not toxic but rather involves sacrificial responsibility. How can you practice sacrificial responsibility in your family or community this week? [06:29]
Leadership in Biblical manhood is about stewardship and integrity. What are some practical ways you can lead with love and integrity in your daily life? [22:10]
Provision and protection are key roles of a Biblical man. How can you better provide for and protect your family both physically and spiritually? [33:37]
Jesus Christ is the ultimate example of Biblical manhood. How can you model your life after Christ in terms of strength, love, leadership, and sacrifice? [57:41]
The sermon discussed the societal push towards emasculating men. How can you stand firm in your Biblical identity as a man amidst these societal pressures? [08:23]
Think about a specific area in your life where you feel challenged to live out Biblical manhood. What steps can you take this week to address this challenge and grow in your faith and responsibilities? [49:35]

Sermon Clips

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "If the Christian church is going to stand firm on the truth of biblical manhood and womanhood, unmoved by all the gale force hurricane winds that are blowing against us, if we're going to remain steadfast, we'll have to dig deep and zoom in closely on these subjects in Scripture more than we've done before. If we're going to be unshaken as a pillar in support of the truth, the call of the Christian church, we're going to have to sink our roots way down into the richest theological soil, into secure doctrinal footing." [04:23] (37 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "The same masculine traits that bring destruction also defeat tyranny. The traits that foster greed also build economies. The traits that drive men to take foolish risks also drive men to take heroic risks. The answer? Toxic masculinity isn't less masculinity, it's better masculinity. The growing problem, she writes, in today's society isn't that men are too masculine, it's that they're not masculine enough. When men embrace their masculinity in a way that is healthy and productive, they are leaders, warriors, heroes." [06:29] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "The gospel turns selfish boys into selfless men. Biblical men don't make excuses for their sins or failures or shift the blame to others." [32:07] (12 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "You cannot have a thriving church without a core of men who are true followers of Christ. If men are dead, the church is dead. Men don't follow programs. Men follow men." [19:52] (10 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "Christ is our supreme example. God has graciously given us the last Adam, the holiest man, the most masculine person who ever lived, the head of the church, loved his bride at the price of his blood, the great provider nourishing us with spiritual food, the foremost protector standing between us and the judge of heaven and no one can snatch us from his hand." [57:41] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "If we're going to turn males into men, if we're going to rescue lost men and headless homes, if we're going to equip parents, turning boys into men, and if we're going to disciple men for Christ, we need these ten marks. We'll have a little more time on the first six, and then we'll only be able to touch on the last four. Indeed, this could be ten or a hundred different sermons. It ought to be a culture in a church." [14:18] (25 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "The whole goal of ministry? Don't turn there, but 1 Timothy 1, verse 5, Paul tells young Pastor Timothy, leading the church at Ephesus, the goal of our instruction, the whole purpose of our pastoral labors, the whole aim of everything is love from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith. It's your benefit, not our own." [29:34] (22 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Biblical manhood is a sober, a sensible, a sane man it stands out in the midst of an insane world that's a life that blazes forth in the midst of the darkness of this blind and insensible world." [52:10] (12 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "Nothing is more masculine, no one is more manly than the one who is godly, who is Christ-like. And as we feel the weight, my Christian brothers, especially as we sense the heaviness of these ten traits now and we rightly grieve at how far we have to go and how often we have fallen, yes, the Bible says godly sorrow works repentance but it does not work despair." [55:57] (36 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "Raise your eyes to the cross of Calvary, see him there who made an end of all your sin, behold the risen lamb and the perfect spotless righteousness, look away from yourself, trust entirely in him, fall upon his grace to be for you what you could not be in yourself and to live his life in you by his spirit through his word." [59:14] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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