If God is in your life but not first, you may not experience all He has promised. What truly activates and engages God's promises, making them real and tangible, is when He becomes the absolute priority of your life. We cannot expect God to make us a priority if we continue to treat Him like an option. This foundational truth echoes from Genesis to Revelation, emphasizing that there is no power in a partially surrendered life. When He is first, His power is unleashed, bringing peace and healing. [42:56]
Luke 10:25-28 (ESV)
And behold, a lawyer stood up to put him to the test, saying, “Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” He said to him, “What is written in the Law? How do you read it?” And he answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.” And he said to him, “You have answered correctly; do this, and you will live.”
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you find yourself treating God as an option rather than the ultimate priority, and what practical shift could you make this week to place Him first in that area?
When we find ourselves drifting from our first love, the first step to restoration is to remember. This means recalling the initial intimacy and passion of your relationship with God. Think back to how beautiful and exclusive that connection once was, when nothing was hidden between you and Him. Remembering serves as a powerful reminder of the deep love and fellowship you shared, prompting a longing to return to that sacred place. It's an invitation to reflect on the joy and presence you once knew. [01:04:44]
Revelation 2:2-5 (ESV)
“ ‘I know your works, your toil and your patient endurance, and how you cannot bear with those who are evil, but have tested those who call themselves apostles and are not, and found them to be false. I know you are enduring patiently and bearing up for my name’s sake, and you have not grown weary. But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first. Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent, and do the works you did at first. If not, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place—unless you repent."
Reflection: Reflect on a time when your relationship with God felt most vibrant and intimate. What specific aspects of that season do you miss, and how might remembering those feelings inspire your spiritual journey today?
Repentance is a beautiful, life-giving word, signifying a course correction. It means honestly identifying where we are and acknowledging any drift, even if unintentional. This isn't about condemnation, but a clear intention to make a change, to turn back to God and put Him back in His rightful place as first in your life. It's a decision to not return to old ways, but to run home to Him, allowing confession and ownership to create an environment for healing and transformation. [01:05:34]
Psalm 51:10-12 (ESV)
Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Cast me not away from your presence, and take not your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and uphold me with a willing spirit.
Reflection: Where have you recently sensed God inviting you to make a "course correction" in your life, and what specific action could you take this week to intentionally turn back towards His will in that area?
The third step to recapturing your first love is to "do the first works" again. This means returning to the initial expressions of gratitude and devotion you had when your relationship with God was fresh. It's about carving out time for His Word, eagerly anticipating gathering with His people, and finding joy in His house. This renewal isn't a burden, but a delight, as you rediscover the blessing of His guidance and the liberty found in living out His word. It's a return to the overflowing gratitude that once gushed from your life. [01:08:35]
Psalm 1:1-3 (ESV)
Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers; but his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water that yields its fruit in its season, and its leaf does not wither. In all that he does, he prospers.
Reflection: What specific "first works" or expressions of love for God, His Word, or His people have you allowed to fade, and what small, intentional step can you take this week to rekindle that devotion?
Two telltale signs of a strong relationship with God are genuine humility and a grateful spirit. Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less, fostering intimacy with God and healthy relationships. Gratitude, on the other hand, shifts our focus from what we lack to the abundant blessings surrounding us, transforming complaining into worship. Cultivating these virtues keeps God hot on your heart and firmly established as the priority of your life, preventing the slow drift into a casual relationship. [47:55]
Philippians 4:4-7 (ESV)
Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice. Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Reflection: When you consider your daily interactions and inner thoughts, how might a more intentional practice of humility and gratitude transform your perspective on challenges and deepen your awareness of God's presence?
If God is present but not first, life will function under the diminished power of partial surrender. The pathway of scripture insists on priority—God as the exclusive center that unleashes his promises and brings transformative power. Loving God with all the heart means single-minded affection and passionate loyalty, not merely moral effort or religious observance. The church at Ephesus illustrates the danger: a congregation commendable for purity, perseverance, and doctrinal protection can still lose its first love when devotion becomes secondary to duty.
Drifting away is slow and often hidden by good activity. Six concrete signs mark that slide: a loss of genuine humility, a posture of complaint rather than worship, frequent excuses instead of confession, a desire to be served more than to serve, viewing spiritual disciplines as burdens rather than delights, and assuming corrective words are meant for others. Each sign corrodes intimacy and replaces the contagious gratitude of newness with a colder, transactional religion. Recovery is simple in direction though serious in practice: remember the first affection, repent (a course correction of the will), and return to the early works of devotion and service that once fueled spiritual fervor.
Repentance is framed not as condemnation but as life-giving reorientation—a deliberate turning that restores appetite for Scripture, worship, service, and community. Practical revival looks like reclaimed rhythms: time carved for prayer and Scripture, eagerness for corporate worship, humility in relationships, and a renewed practice of confession and accountability. The call culminates in an open invitation: those who sense their faith has become second-best are urged to come home—God’s grace meets returning hearts, and restoration begins when priority is restored. The theology is robust but simple in practice: God’s promises are activated when he is loved first, and the ordinary disciplines of remembering, repenting, and renewing are the mechanics of spiritual restoration.
I'll just say this to you, that if God is in your life but not first in your life, you'll never experience everything that he promised you could. If he's in your life but not first in your life. If you're one of those people who say, but, you know, I go to church a pretty good bit. I mean, I go, I don't know, maybe third three quarters of the time. I I mean, I believe in God. I believe the Bible is true, but you're living your life that he's not first. You won't experience the best that he said that you could.
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#ExperienceGodFirst
He said, you've not lost your love. Please notice this. You haven't lost your love. Because if they didn't love him, they wouldn't be committed to purity. If they didn't love him, they wouldn't be committed to being protective of the gospel or to be purpose driven. It wasn't that they lost their love. Please hear me. It's that they lost their first love. It wasn't that God wasn't in their life. It was that he was no longer first in their life.
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#LostFirstLove
And ladies and gentlemen, this is the true danger for you and I. This is the true danger that we face as believers. The greatest danger for the follower of Christ is not that we would abandon our faith altogether and walk away from God altogether. That's probably not gonna happen. The real silver bullet for the believer is that we would slip and slide and drift into a casual and a cavalier relationship with our heavenly father and settle for a mediocre version of what our relationship used to be.
[00:42:15]
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#DangerOfDrift
Pride is a spirit of independence where we falsely tend to believe that we can be who we are without God, that we can do what we can do without God, and that life should actually be all about me. So it's a sure sign that we are losing our first love when we start trusting in God less and we actually start trusting in ourselves more.
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#PrideEqualsIndependence
``I've learned in my own life that when my relationship with God starts to grow a little cold, when I start to just get a little distant from God, I'm far more quick to reject his correction and his conviction and excuse away any claims that I may have an issue that needs to be addressed. But true transformation in our lives rides on the rails of repentance. Please hear this. True transformation in our lives rides on the rails of repentance. Confession and ownership of our behavior creates the environment for miracles in our hearts to take place.
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#RepentanceRidesRails
Don't be like that. Listen. Accept that God loves you and that he brings a word like this to try his best to bring you back to a right relationship with him because he cares about you. He loves you. The greatest sermons that I have ever preached in my life had nothing to do with the depth of the revelation or the ability in which I was able to articulate it on that particular day. The greatest sermons in thirty two years that I have ever preached are the ones that break me first.
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#BrokenBeforePreaching
How do we rediscover our first love again? Well, let's go back to Revelation two. Because after Christ identifies the church at Ephesus that they have lost their first love, he then gives them three things to find it again. Here's what he says. He said, okay, Ephesus. I love you. And I want you to remember, therefore, from where you have fallen, repent, and then do the first works that you did in the beginning again. Number one, he says remember. He calls them to remember how intimate their relationship used to be.
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#RememberRepentReturn
But when I could finally run no longer, and I could no longer escape the hound of heaven. And the whisper in the grip of the holy spirit. And I fell on my face and wept before the lord and turned my life over to Christ. I felt the embrace of a father who loved me. Not because I was so good, but because he was, not because I was worthy, but because he's worthy, that it wasn't anything to do with my goodness because I had none. It was all his grace. And I felt accepted and brought into the family of God.
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#EmbracedByGrace
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