Children are a divine gift, entrusted to us to nurture and guide, much like arrows that need to be sharpened to stand against life's challenges. Recognizing children as gifts from God means understanding the immense joy and responsibility that comes with raising them. Just as God gives us various gifts, such as abilities, resources, and salvation, children are entrusted to us to nurture and guide towards a life that glorifies God. Psalm 127:3-5 reminds us that children are like arrows in the hands of a warrior, and it is our duty to sharpen them so they can stand against the enemy. This sharpening process involves instilling godly values and teaching them to live lives that reflect Christ's love and truth. [00:59]
"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate." (Psalm 127:3-5, ESV)
Reflection: How can you actively participate in sharpening the "arrows" God has entrusted to you today, ensuring they are prepared to face life's challenges with faith and integrity?
Day 2: The Power of Prayer in Parenting
Prayer is an expression of our helplessness, acknowledging our need for God's guidance in raising godly children. It is essential to prioritize praying for your children's spiritual growth over material desires. The ultimate desire for our children should be that they grow up to be godly individuals, not necessarily famous or wealthy. This requires a commitment to prayer, acknowledging our helplessness, and seeking God's guidance in raising them. By prioritizing prayer, parents can align their desires with God's will, trusting Him to guide their children towards a life that glorifies Him. [05:00]
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." (Philippians 4:6, ESV)
Reflection: What specific prayers can you lift up for your children today, focusing on their spiritual growth and character development rather than worldly success?
Day 3: Instilling Godly Values from a Young Age
The examples of Moses and Timothy show the lasting impact of instilling godly values from a young age. Prioritize teaching humility, faith, and obedience to authority. Moses' mother instilled values in him that he carried into adulthood, enabling him to reject the temptations of the world. Similarly, Timothy's mother and grandmother taught him faith and humility, which prepared him to be a valuable co-worker with the Apostle Paul. By instilling these values early on, parents can help their children develop a strong foundation of faith that will guide them throughout their lives. [06:11]
"And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise." (Deuteronomy 6:6-7, ESV)
Reflection: What practical steps can you take today to instill godly values in your children, ensuring they have a strong foundation of faith to guide them?
Day 4: Creating a Godly Home Environment
A loving and respectful relationship between parents creates a home environment conducive to spiritual growth. Children learn from the example set by their parents. The atmosphere at home plays a significant role in shaping a child's character. A home filled with love, respect, and peace will foster godliness in children. Ultimately, the greatest way to influence children is through the example set by their parents. A loving and respectful relationship between parents creates an environment where children can thrive spiritually. [18:11]
"Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32, ESV)
Reflection: How can you contribute to creating a godly home environment today, ensuring it is filled with love, respect, and peace?
Day 5: Encouragement and Humility in Parenting
Encourage children for their good behavior and selflessness, not just academic achievements. Teach them humility, as God gives grace to the humble, and avoid boasting about their abilities. Parents must prioritize teaching their children humility, as God gives grace to the humble. It is crucial to discipline children from a young age, teaching them to submit to authority and to value obedience. Encouragement is also vital; children should be praised for their good behavior and selflessness, rather than just their academic achievements. [16:00]
"Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you." (James 4:10, ESV)
Reflection: In what ways can you encourage your children today, focusing on their character and humility rather than their accomplishments?
Sermon Summary
Children are indeed a precious gift from the Lord, and it is essential to recognize the immense joy and responsibility that comes with this blessing. Just as God gives us various gifts, such as abilities, resources, and salvation, children are entrusted to us to nurture and guide towards a life that glorifies God. Psalm 127:3-5 reminds us that children are like arrows in the hands of a warrior, and it is our duty to sharpen them so they can stand against the enemy. This sharpening process involves instilling godly values and teaching them to live lives that reflect Christ's love and truth.
The ultimate desire for our children should be that they grow up to be godly individuals, not necessarily famous or wealthy. This requires a commitment to prayer, acknowledging our helplessness, and seeking God's guidance in raising them. The examples of Moses and Timothy highlight the impact of a godly upbringing. Moses' mother instilled values in him that he carried into adulthood, enabling him to reject the temptations of the world. Similarly, Timothy's mother and grandmother taught him faith and humility, which prepared him to be a valuable co-worker with the Apostle Paul.
Parents must prioritize teaching their children humility, as God gives grace to the humble. It is crucial to discipline children from a young age, teaching them to submit to authority and to value obedience. Encouragement is also vital; children should be praised for their good behavior and selflessness, rather than just their academic achievements. The atmosphere at home plays a significant role in shaping a child's character. A home filled with love, respect, and peace will foster godliness in children.
Ultimately, the greatest way to influence children is through the example set by their parents. A loving and respectful relationship between parents creates an environment where children can thrive spiritually. When parents make mistakes, acknowledging them and apologizing teaches children humility and integrity. Consistent prayer for our children is essential, trusting that God will guide them to grow up as godly individuals who bring glory to His name.
Key Takeaways
1. Children as Gifts and Responsibilities: Recognize children as gifts from God, entrusted to us to nurture and guide. Like arrows, they need to be sharpened to stand against the enemy, reflecting God's love and truth in their lives. [00:59]
2. Prayer and Helplessness: Prayer is an expression of our helplessness, acknowledging our need for God's guidance in raising godly children. Prioritize praying for your children's spiritual growth over material desires. [05:00]
3. Instilling Godly Values: The examples of Moses and Timothy show the lasting impact of instilling godly values from a young age. Prioritize teaching humility, faith, and obedience to authority. [06:11]
4. Creating a Godly Home Environment: A loving and respectful relationship between parents creates a home environment conducive to spiritual growth. Children learn from the example set by their parents. [18:11]
5. Encouragement and Humility: Encourage children for their good behavior and selflessness, not just academic achievements. Teach them humility, as God gives grace to the humble, and avoid boasting about their abilities. [16:00] ** [16:00]
According to Psalm 127:3-5, how are children described, and what is the significance of this metaphor? [02:01]
In the sermon, what examples are given of godly parenting, and how did these examples influence the children mentioned? [06:11]
What does Matthew 7:11 suggest about God's willingness to give good gifts, and how does this relate to the desires parents should have for their children? [03:23]
How does the sermon describe the role of prayer in expressing our helplessness as parents? [05:00]
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Interpretation Questions:
What does it mean for children to be "arrows" in the hands of a warrior, and how can parents practically "sharpen" these arrows? [02:01]
How do the examples of Moses and Timothy illustrate the impact of a godly upbringing, and what specific values were instilled in them? [06:11]
In what ways does the sermon suggest that a loving and respectful relationship between parents can influence a child's spiritual growth? [18:11]
How does the sermon emphasize the importance of humility in children, and what are the potential consequences of neglecting this value? [10:39]
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Application Questions:
Reflect on your current prayer life. How can you incorporate more intentional prayers for your children's spiritual growth, acknowledging your helplessness and need for God's guidance? [05:00]
Consider the atmosphere in your home. What specific changes can you make to create an environment filled with love, respect, and peace that fosters godliness in your children? [18:11]
Think about the values you are currently instilling in your children. How can you prioritize teaching humility, faith, and obedience to authority in your daily interactions with them? [06:11]
Identify a recent situation where you may have failed to set a godly example for your children. How can you address this with them, and what steps will you take to model humility and integrity in the future? [19:18]
How do you currently encourage your children for their good behavior and selflessness? What new ways can you find to praise and motivate them beyond their academic achievements? [16:00]
Reflect on your relationship with your spouse. How can you demonstrate love and respect in a way that sets a positive example for your children? [18:11]
What specific actions can you take this week to teach your children about the importance of submitting to authority, both at home and in other areas of their lives? [14:09]
Sermon Clips
"Children are a gift of the Lord, but then there's a part we have to play in at once they are given to us as a gift. Just like every gift that God gives, if God's given you abilities, you've got to use them for the Lord. If God's given you money or a house, the purpose is to use for the Lord." [00:59:36]
"An arrow is effective only if it is sharp, and look at your children as arrows God has given you, and by His help, you are to sharpen them so that they will be useful in God's hands one day to stand against the devil, not to become preachers or healers or any such thing, just by their life." [02:14:48]
"If you being evil know how to give good things to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give what is good, and what is the good you want? You want your children to be godly. How much more your heavenly Father will give that to those who ask Him." [04:35:52]
"Prayer is an expression of our helplessness. That's what prayer is. Lord, I need this. See, if I feel sufficient, self-sufficient, I will not pray. If you feel you can handle something, you don't need to pray. We pray for our children because we say, Lord, I don't have the ability to bring them up in godly ways." [04:54:88]
"We have many examples in Scripture of good parents and bad ones. We think of this wonderful mother in the Old Testament, the mother of Moses. You read in Hebrews 11 that she instilled certain values into that little boy Moses when he was small, and in the sovereignty of God, he grew up at least for this first seven or eight years with his mother." [06:08:24]
"Teach your children humility, particularly if they are gifted. I've seen so many children in different CFC churches ruined by their parents because they are gifted, and the parents buff them up and make them proud. And over a period of time, it's not so evident when they are small, but by the time they come into their late teens." [09:36:40]
"The most important value you need to teach your children from childhood is humility. Humility, I'll tell you why, because God gives His grace only to the humble. It's good to get your children educated, to train them in different things with sport and music and all they need all these activities." [10:41:44]
"Discipline is very important because the first sin in the universe was disobedience or rebellion against authority. That's how the devil became the devil. So submission to authority is one of the most important things that all children have to learn. That's why God gave them only one commandment: honor your father and mother." [13:51:04]
"We must never treat disobedience lightly. It's serious. We must never treat their telling a lie as a joke. It's serious if they tell you a lie because that's rebellion against authority too. But along with that, I want to add this word and that is a word spoken to all believers in Hebrews 3:13: encourage one another daily." [15:31:59]
"More than anything else, encourage your children when they do something good, because not everybody, not every child can get a hundred percent in different subjects, and some are clever and some are not. But doing good and helping one another and denying oneself in when there's a conflict, that's something we must always appreciate and encourage." [16:47:92]
"The greatest way in which you can help your children, your father, is by loving their mother, that is your wife. And to the mothers, I say the greatest way you can bring up your children in a godly way is by loving their father, your husband, and by respecting your husband by loving your wife." [18:17:44]
"Teach your children humility and not to glory in their gifts or their abilities, and encourage them whenever you can, particularly for good behavior, and pray for them regularly. Ultimately, it's only God who can make them grow up godly, so we must pray for our children. You must pray for your children every single day." [19:40:00]