Jesus calls us to a higher standard of love that extends even to our enemies. This love is not just a feeling but an action that blesses those who curse us and prays for those who persecute us. It is a love that reflects the heart of God and is a powerful testimony to the world. This radical love challenges us to step beyond our comfort zones and embrace those who may not wish us well. It is a love that is proactive, seeking the good of others, even when it is difficult. This kind of love is transformative, not only for those who receive it but also for those who give it. [00:45]
"But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you." (Luke 6:27-28, ESV)
Reflection: Think of someone who has wronged you. How can you actively show them love and kindness this week?
Day 2: The Cross as Our Example
The cross is not only a message to be preached but an example to be lived. Jesus, when oppressed and afflicted, did not retaliate or defend Himself. This example challenges us to respond to wrongs with grace and forgiveness, demonstrating the transformative power of salvation. The cross is a symbol of ultimate sacrifice and love, showing us that true strength lies in humility and selflessness. By following the example of the cross, we learn to let go of our need for revenge and instead embrace forgiveness and reconciliation. [03:59]
"He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth; like a lamb that is led to the slaughter, and like a sheep that before its shearers is silent, so he opened not his mouth." (Isaiah 53:7, ESV)
Reflection: In what ways can you embody the example of the cross in your interactions with others today?
Day 3: The Power of the Tongue
The tongue is a powerful tool that can defile the whole body if not controlled. Holiness is demonstrated through our ability to refrain from speaking evil and to respond with grace and kindness, even in the face of provocation. This requires a life yielded to God and filled with His Spirit. Our words have the power to build up or tear down, to heal or to hurt. By choosing to speak life and truth, we align ourselves with God's purposes and reflect His character to those around us. [20:49]
"Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear." (Ephesians 4:29, ESV)
Reflection: Consider your recent conversations. How can you ensure your words are life-giving and grace-filled today?
Day 4: The Fruit of the Spirit
The true evidence of being filled with the Holy Spirit is not in the manifestations of gifts but in the fruit of the Spirit, particularly love that suffers long and is kind. This love is attainable through a life yielded to God, allowing His Spirit to control our reactions and words. The fruit of the Spirit is a visible sign of God's work in our lives, transforming us from the inside out. As we cultivate these qualities, we become more like Christ and are able to impact the world around us in meaningful ways. [16:10]
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law." (Galatians 5:22-23, ESV)
Reflection: Which fruit of the Spirit do you find most challenging to exhibit? How can you invite the Holy Spirit to cultivate this fruit in your life?
Day 5: Living the Example of the Cross
We are called to live out the example of the cross, to love our enemies, and to let our lives be a testimony of God's transformative power. This requires grace, but it is a grace that God is willing to give to those who seek it. Living the example of the cross means embracing a lifestyle of sacrificial love and forgiveness, allowing God's grace to flow through us to others. It is a daily commitment to reflect Christ's love in all we do, trusting that His power is made perfect in our weakness. [22:38]
"For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps." (1 Peter 2:21, ESV)
Reflection: How can you be a living testimony of God's grace and love in your community this week?
Sermon Summary
In Matthew 5:38-48, Jesus challenges us to transcend the old law of retribution, "an eye for an eye," by embracing a radical love that extends even to our enemies. This love is not passive but active, requiring us to bless those who curse us and pray for those who persecute us. This is the essence of the message of the cross, which is not only a doctrine to be preached but an example to be lived. The cross exemplifies a love that is patient, kind, and devoid of retaliation, as seen in the life of Jesus, who, when oppressed and afflicted, did not open His mouth in defense or anger.
The sermon illustrates this transformative power of love through personal stories, such as the conversion of my father, who, after being saved, turned the other cheek when struck by an old friend. This act of grace and forgiveness was a testament to the immediate change that salvation brought into his life. Similarly, the life of Fani Harmsen, a godly man in South Africa, exemplified the fruit of the Spirit through his gentle and loving responses in challenging situations, leaving a profound impact on those around him.
The sermon emphasizes that the true evidence of being filled with the Holy Spirit is not in the manifestations of gifts but in the fruit of the Spirit, particularly love that suffers long and is kind. This love is attainable through a life yielded to God, allowing His Spirit to control our reactions and words. The tongue, as James warns, is a powerful tool that can defile the whole body if not bridled. Therefore, holiness is demonstrated through our ability to refrain from speaking evil and to respond with grace and kindness, even in the face of provocation.
In conclusion, the call is to live out the example of the cross, to love our enemies, and to let our lives be a testimony of God's transformative power. This requires grace, but it is a grace that God is willing to give to those who seek it.
Key Takeaways
1. Radical Love and Forgiveness: Jesus calls us to a higher standard of love that extends even to our enemies. This love is not just a feeling but an action that blesses those who curse us and prays for those who persecute us. It is a love that reflects the heart of God and is a powerful testimony to the world. [00:45]
2. The Example of the Cross: The cross is not only a message to be preached but an example to be lived. Jesus, when oppressed and afflicted, did not retaliate or defend Himself. This example challenges us to respond to wrongs with grace and forgiveness, demonstrating the transformative power of salvation. [03:59]
3. The Power of the Tongue: The tongue is a powerful tool that can defile the whole body if not controlled. Holiness is demonstrated through our ability to refrain from speaking evil and to respond with grace and kindness, even in the face of provocation. This requires a life yielded to God and filled with His Spirit. [20:49]
4. The Fruit of the Spirit: The true evidence of being filled with the Holy Spirit is not in the manifestations of gifts but in the fruit of the Spirit, particularly love that suffers long and is kind. This love is attainable through a life yielded to God, allowing His Spirit to control our reactions and words. [16:10]
5. Living the Example of the Cross: We are called to live out the example of the cross, to love our enemies, and to let our lives be a testimony of God's transformative power. This requires grace, but it is a grace that God is willing to give to those who seek it. [22:38] ** [22:38]
What does Jesus mean when He instructs us to "turn the other cheek" in Matthew 5:39? How does this challenge the old law of retribution? [00:19]
In the sermon, how did the pastor's father demonstrate the principle of turning the other cheek? What was the immediate impact of his actions? [08:02]
According to 1 Peter 2:21-23, how did Jesus respond to being reviled and suffering? How is this an example for us to follow? [04:49]
What role does the tongue play in demonstrating holiness, according to the sermon? How is this related to the teachings in James 3:6? [20:49]
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Interpretation Questions:
How does the concept of "radical love" in Matthew 5:44 challenge our natural inclinations towards those who wrong us? What does this say about the nature of God's love? [00:45]
The sermon mentions that the true evidence of being filled with the Holy Spirit is the fruit of the Spirit, particularly love. How does this differ from the emphasis on spiritual gifts? [16:10]
In what ways does the example of Jesus' silence in the face of oppression, as described in Isaiah 53:7, serve as a model for our own responses to provocation? [03:59]
How does the story of Fani Harmsen illustrate the power of a gentle response in difficult situations? What impact did his actions have on those around him? [14:56]
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Application Questions:
Reflect on a recent situation where you felt wronged. How might you have responded differently if you had applied the principle of turning the other cheek? [08:02]
Identify a person in your life who might be considered an "enemy" or someone who challenges you. What practical steps can you take to show them love and kindness this week? [00:45]
The sermon emphasizes the power of the tongue. What specific steps can you take to ensure your words reflect grace and kindness, especially in moments of anger or frustration? [20:49]
Consider the fruit of the Spirit, particularly love that suffers long and is kind. Which aspect of the fruit of the Spirit do you find most challenging, and how can you work on cultivating it in your daily life? [16:10]
Think about a time when you were provoked. How did you respond, and what might you do differently in the future to follow Jesus' example of silence and grace? [03:59]
How can you incorporate prayer into your daily routine to seek God's grace in loving your enemies and living out the example of the cross? [39:23]
Reflect on the story of the pastor's father and Fani Harmsen. How can their examples inspire you to live a life that testifies to God's transformative power? [14:56]
Sermon Clips
In Matthew chapter 5 verse 38, ye have heard that it hath been said, an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, but I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you and persecute you, that ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven. [00:00:03]
The example of the cross: He was oppressed and He was afflicted, yet He opened not His mouth. He is brought as a lamb to the slaughter and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so He openeth not His mouth. 1 Peter 2 verse 21, leaving us an example that ye should follow His steps. [00:03:46]
My father was saved late in life at the age of 51. He had had many grave sorrows as a result of alcohol in his life. The night he was saved, he got up weeping from his knees, took my mother's hand, took her through to where all the alcohol in our home was stored, and he threw the bottles down the drain. [00:05:20]
Now, this old friend of my father was so taken aback that he lost control. He got angry, began to scream at my father, and he cursed and even used God's name in bad language. He took his hand and hit my father on the face, hit him hard. Now, my father before would have hurt a man very badly. [00:07:20]
Dudley said they were to leave early in the morning with the big lorry with beds, tents, etc., all the things that were vital. The young workers, lady pilgrims, had to go, lady missionaries had to go in the vehicle for them ahead and try and get things going here as the people were arriving and would be arriving very soon. [00:11:24]
The fruit of the Spirit, the more excellent way than gifts, the things that have to be first before we think of those things. This man began to get everybody to come in the room and you're preaching to them and pretty hands on them and trying to get everybody, all the young people especially, to do with these things of manifestations and tongues. [00:16:07]
I asked God to give me grace here not to defend myself and fight back because then all I have is what he's got, nothing more. And I said to him, I just changed the whole subject. I didn't defend myself. I said, so I read in the newspapers that your wife has been gravely ill. [00:27:52]
Love suffereth long and is kind. He's quite a standard but attainable as a saved person, but especially if a person is totally yielded to God and filled with God the Holy Ghost because the fruits, the evidence that the Holy Ghost has taken control to the degree he has controlled, is your reaction, your spontaneous reaction to wrong against you. [00:31:59]
Say not I will recompense evil, I'll pay back, will repay for evil done to me. No, wait on the Lord and He shall save thee. Don't recompense evil. Wait for God's grace to be given to you. Always leave the fighting to God. Men are going to fight you till the day you die. [00:38:17]
Their strength is to sit still. God says always remember this: He openeth not His mouth. He left an example that we should follow His steps. We have come to the end of the series here in South Africa, and I'm grateful to those who have listened. [00:40:04]
May God bless you as you seek Him through the messages you've heard and find a walk with Him that will stagger the powers of hell. God wonderfully bless you now and thank you from my heart, but please pray for us as a mission and as speakers. [00:42:06]
In the lips of him that hath understanding, wisdom is found, Proverbs 10 verse 13 says. Even a woman that feareth the Lord, Proverbs 31 verse 26 says, she openeth her mouth with wisdom, and in her tongue is the law of kindness. It's not just the man; in her tongue, she opens her mouth in wisdom. [00:36:45]