Small Group Bible Study Guide: Loving as God Loves
Bible ReadingLuke 6:27-36 (ESV)> “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. To one who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also, and from one who takes away your cloak do not withhold your tunic either. Give to everyone who begs from you, and from one who takes away your goods do not demand them back. And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.
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> “If you love those who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to get back the same amount. But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.”
Colossians 3:12-15 (ESV)> Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.
Observation Questions- According to Jesus in Luke 6, what specific actions are we called to take toward our enemies and those who mistreat us?
- In Colossians 3, what qualities does Paul say we should “put on” as God’s chosen people?
- The sermon says, “God never pays evil for evil. He can’t. He is love.” What examples from Jesus’ life or teaching support this statement? [13:11]
- What does the sermon say is the result of letting the Spirit of Christ dwell within us? [13:48]
Interpretation Questions- Why does Jesus make loving our enemies the mark of being “children of the Most High”? What does this reveal about God’s character? [09:36]
- The sermon says that loving our enemies is not just a moral effort, but the fruit of God’s Spirit in us. How does this change the way we think about forgiveness and mercy? [12:05]
- Paul says, “as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.” What does it look like to forgive as God forgives, and how is this different from human forgiveness? [10:58]
- The sermon mentions that the Eucharist is not just a ritual, but the source of the Spirit that enables us to love as God loves. How does participating in the Eucharist (or communion) shape our ability to love and forgive? [20:59]
Application Questions- Think of a time when someone wronged you or treated you unfairly. What was your natural response, and how might you respond differently if you let God’s Spirit guide you? [13:48]
- Is there someone in your life right now whom you find difficult to love or forgive? What is one practical step you could take this week to show them kindness or pray for them? [08:31]
- The sermon says, “God’s love is not transactional; He does not repay evil for evil, but always responds with mercy and goodness.” Are there relationships in your life where you tend to keep score or expect something in return? How can you move toward loving without conditions? [12:05]
- Paul urges us to “put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” Which of these qualities do you find most challenging, and what is one way you can practice it in your daily interactions this week? [10:58]
- The peace of Christ is meant to rule in our hearts and bind us together as one body. Are there conflicts or divisions in your family, workplace, or church where you could be a peacemaker? What would it look like to bring Christ’s peace into that situation? [13:11]
- The sermon says, “This love is not something we can manufacture on our own.” What are some ways you can invite the Holy Spirit to fill you and help you love as God loves, especially when it’s hard? [14:54]
- When you participate in the Eucharist or communion, do you see it as a source of strength to love others? How might you approach it differently in light of this teaching? [20:59]