Small Group Bible Study Guide: The Cost and Commitment of Following Jesus---
Bible ReadingMatthew 28:16-20 (ESV)> Now the eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain to which Jesus had directed them. And when they saw him they worshiped him, but some doubted. And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
Luke 9:23-26, 57-62 (ESV)> And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it. For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses or forfeits himself? For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words, of him will the Son of Man be ashamed when he comes in his glory and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels.”
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> As they were going along the road, someone said to him, “I will follow you wherever you go.” And Jesus said to him, “Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head.” To another he said, “Follow me.” But he said, “Lord, let me first go and bury my father.” And Jesus said to him, “Leave the dead to bury their own dead. But as for you, go and proclaim the kingdom of God.” Yet another said, “I will follow you, Lord, but let me first say farewell to those at my home.” Jesus said to him, “No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.”
Hebrews 11:32-40 (ESV)> And what more shall I say? For time would fail me to tell of Gideon, Barak, Samson, Jephthah, of David and Samuel and the prophets—who through faith conquered kingdoms, enforced justice, obtained promises, stopped the mouths of lions, quenched the power of fire, escaped the edge of the sword, were made strong out of weakness, became mighty in war, put foreign armies to flight. Women received back their dead by resurrection. Some were tortured, refusing to accept release, so that they might rise again to a better life. Others suffered mocking and flogging, and even chains and imprisonment. They were stoned, they were sawn in two, they were killed with the sword. They went about in skins of sheep and goats, destitute, afflicted, mistreated—of whom the world was not worthy—wandering about in deserts and mountains, and in dens and caves of the earth. And all these, though commended through their faith, did not receive what was promised, since God had provided something better for us, that apart from us they should not be made perfect.
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Observation Questions- In Matthew 28:18-20, what specific instructions does Jesus give to his disciples about their mission?
- According to Luke 9:23-26, what does Jesus say is required of anyone who wants to follow him?
- In the sermon, what examples were given of people or things that often compete with our commitment to Jesus? ([41:26])
- What kinds of hardships did the heroes of faith in Hebrews 11 endure because of their commitment to God?
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Interpretation Questions- Why do you think Jesus makes such strong statements about the cost of following him, like “let the dead bury their own dead” and “no one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God”? What is he trying to communicate about discipleship? (Luke 9:57-62)
- The sermon mentioned that commitment is often shallow in our culture, even in the church. Why do you think deep, lasting commitment to Christ is so rare today? ([42:02])
- Looking at the examples of the apostles and the heroes of faith, what do their sacrifices teach us about the true meaning of commitment? ([56:20])
- The sermon said that our ability to live out this commitment comes from the Holy Spirit, not our own strength. What does it look like practically to rely on the Spirit for this kind of commitment? ([01:01:25])
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Application Questions- The sermon described communion as a time to renew our commitment to Christ and let his grace transform us. How can you approach communion differently next time so that it’s more than just a ritual for you? ([22:57])
- Think about your weekly schedule. Are there activities or commitments that regularly take priority over your relationship with Jesus or your involvement in church? What would it look like to reorder your priorities? ([42:02])
- Jesus calls us to deny ourselves, take up our cross daily, and follow him. What is one area of your life where you find it hardest to “deny yourself” for the sake of following Jesus? ([58:19])
- The sermon challenged us to be unashamed of the gospel and to share it with others. Who is one person in your life who needs the hope of Jesus, and what is a practical step you can take this week to share your faith with them? ([01:02:58])
- The examples of the apostles show that following Jesus can be costly. Is there a relationship, comfort, or habit that you sense God is asking you to surrender in order to follow him more fully? What would it take to take that step? ([56:20])
- The sermon said that our commitment is sustained by the Holy Spirit. What is one way you can invite the Holy Spirit to empower you for greater faithfulness and boldness this week? ([01:01:25])
- The pastor mentioned that recommitting to Christ is something we may need to do regularly, not just once. What would it look like for you to make a daily or weekly habit of recommitting your life to Jesus and his mission? ([01:03:41])
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Closing Prayer Suggestion: Invite the group to pray for courage to count the cost, for the Spirit’s power to live boldly, and for hearts that are fully committed to Jesus above all else.