Qualifications and Responsibilities of Deacons in Service

 

Summary

### Summary

Today, we gathered to discuss the qualifications and responsibilities of deacons as outlined in 1 Timothy 3 and Acts 6. This is a significant moment for our church as we ordain new deacons, recognizing their commitment to serve both God and our congregation. We began by examining the qualifications Paul set forth for deacons, emphasizing the importance of being reverent, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, and not greedy for money. These men must hold the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience and be tested before serving.

We also delved into the process our church follows for nominating and ordaining deacons, ensuring it aligns with Scripture. This includes a period of testing and the involvement of an ordaining council where the deacons share their testimonies and answer questions. This rigorous process ensures that those who serve are well-prepared and committed.

In Acts 6, we see the early church appointing seven men to handle the daily distribution to widows, allowing the apostles to focus on prayer and ministry. These men, though not explicitly called deacons, exemplify the role through their service. The term "deacon" itself means "servant," and this is the heart of their duty—to serve willingly, gratefully, and continually.

We also discussed the importance of deacons' wives, who must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, and faithful in all things. The role of a deacon extends beyond the individual to their family, who also live under scrutiny and must exemplify Christian virtues.

Finally, we emphasized the spiritual significance of being a deacon. It is a role of great responsibility and accountability, first to God and then to the congregation. Deacons are to be examples of servanthood, embodying the teachings of Christ in their daily lives. This service is not just a duty but a privilege, and it contributes to the unity and growth of the church.

### Key Takeaways

1. Qualifications of a Deacon: Deacons must be reverent, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, and not greedy for money. They must hold the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience and be tested before serving. This ensures that those who serve are spiritually mature and committed to their faith. [01:42]

2. The Role of Testing and Ordination: Our church follows a rigorous process for nominating and ordaining deacons, including a period of testing and the involvement of an ordaining council. This process ensures that those who serve are well-prepared and committed, aligning with the scriptural mandate. [02:23]

3. Servanthood as the Heart of Deaconship: The term "deacon" means "servant," and this is the essence of their role. Deacons are to serve willingly, gratefully, and continually, embodying the teachings of Christ in their daily lives. This service is a privilege and contributes to the unity and growth of the church. [13:19]

4. Accountability and Example: Deacons live under scrutiny and must exemplify Christian virtues. They are accountable first to God and then to the congregation. Their role extends beyond individual service to being examples of servanthood, embodying the teachings of Christ in their daily lives. [17:07]

5. Spiritual Significance and Unity: The ordination of deacons is not just a formal process but a spiritual act that contributes to the unity and growth of the church. Deacons help their pastor and church spread the Word of God, and their service leads to a great forward thrust for the gospel. [25:18]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[00:45] - Introduction to Deacon Qualifications
[01:42] - Process of Nominating and Testing Deacons
[02:23] - Ordaining Council and Testimonies
[03:01] - Examination and Questions for Deacons
[03:37] - Deacon Charge and Responsibilities
[04:25] - Role of Deacons' Wives
[05:03] - Accountability and Living in a Glass House
[06:10] - Unity and the Holy Spirit
[07:32] - Accountability to the Church and God
[08:13] - First Deacons in Acts 6
[09:08] - Reading from Acts 6:1-7
[10:02] - Prayer and Reflection
[10:46] - Multiplication and Satan's Attacks
[11:18] - Avoiding Gossip
[11:52] - Early Church Conflicts
[12:28] - Apostles' Solution and Deacon Role
[13:19] - Servanthood and Deacon Responsibilities
[14:26] - Example of Greek-Speaking Jews
[15:05] - Description of a Deacon
[16:05] - Importance of Reputation
[17:07] - Accountability and Christian Identity
[18:26] - Laying on of Hands and Unity
[19:07] - Wisdom and Application of Knowledge
[20:10] - Duties of a Deacon
[21:04] - Serving Willingly and Gratefully
[22:24] - Serving Continually
[23:26] - Stephen: The First Martyr
[24:31] - Jesus' Response to Persecution
[25:18] - Desire of a Deacon
[26:19] - Love for the Lost
[27:08] - Claiming the Promise of the Church
[27:42] - Example of Dedication
[28:16] - Forward Thrust for the Gospel
[28:33] - Closing Prayer and Instructions
[29:04] - Charge to the Church
[30:24] - Encouragement and Support
[31:14] - Vision for the Future
[32:11] - Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
1. 1 Timothy 3:8-13 (NKJV)
> "Likewise deacons must be reverent, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy for money, holding the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience. But let these also first be tested; then let them serve as deacons, being found blameless. Likewise, their wives must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, faithful in all things. Let deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. For those who have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a good standing and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus."

2. Acts 6:1-7 (NKJV)
> "Now in those days, when the number of the disciples was multiplying, there arose a complaint against the Hebrews by the Hellenists, because their widows were neglected in the daily distribution. Then the twelve summoned the multitude of the disciples and said, 'It is not desirable that we should leave the word of God and serve tables. Therefore, brethren, seek out from among you seven men of good reputation, full of the Holy Spirit and wisdom, whom we may appoint over this business; but we will give ourselves continually to prayer and to the ministry of the word.' And the saying pleased the whole multitude. And they chose Stephen, a man full of faith and the Holy Spirit, and Philip, Prochorus, Nicanor, Timon, Parmenas, and Nicholas, a proselyte from Antioch, whom they set before the apostles; and when they had prayed, they laid hands on them. Then the word of God spread, and the number of the disciples multiplied greatly in Jerusalem, and a great many of the priests were obedient to the faith."

### Observation Questions
1. What are the specific qualifications for deacons mentioned in 1 Timothy 3:8-13?
2. According to Acts 6:1-7, what was the primary reason for appointing the seven men, and what were their qualifications?
3. How does the role of deacons, as described in the sermon, contribute to the unity and growth of the church? [06:10]
4. What responsibilities do deacons' wives have according to 1 Timothy 3:11, and why is this significant? [04:25]

### Interpretation Questions
1. Why is it important for deacons to be tested before serving, as mentioned in 1 Timothy 3:10? How does this align with the process described in the sermon? [01:42]
2. In Acts 6:3, the apostles instructed the church to choose men "full of the Holy Spirit and wisdom." How do these qualities impact the effectiveness of a deacon's service?
3. The sermon emphasized that deacons are to serve willingly, gratefully, and continually. How do these attitudes reflect the teachings of Christ? [22:24]
4. How does the role of deacons in handling practical matters, as seen in Acts 6, allow the apostles to focus on prayer and ministry? What does this imply about the division of labor in the church?

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on the qualifications for deacons listed in 1 Timothy 3:8-13. Are there areas in your own life where you feel called to grow in order to better serve your church community?
2. The sermon mentioned that deacons live under scrutiny and must exemplify Christian virtues. How can you support and encourage the deacons in your church in their roles? [05:03]
3. Considering the importance of unity in the church, as highlighted in the sermon, what steps can you take to promote unity and avoid division within your congregation? [06:10]
4. The sermon discussed the role of deacons' wives and their need to be reverent and faithful. How can you and your family support the families of church leaders in maintaining these virtues? [04:25]
5. Serving willingly, gratefully, and continually were key points in the sermon. Identify a specific area in your church or community where you can serve with these attitudes. How will you commit to this service?
6. The sermon highlighted the spiritual significance of being a deacon and the privilege it entails. How can you cultivate a heart of gratitude and humility in your own service to God and others? [22:24]
7. Reflect on the example of Stephen, the first martyr, who served faithfully and was full of the Holy Spirit. How can his example inspire you to serve more faithfully in your own life? [23:26]

Devotional

Day 1: The Reverent Heart of a Deacon
Deacons must be reverent, not double-tongued, not given to much wine, and not greedy for money. They must hold the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience and be tested before serving. This ensures that those who serve are spiritually mature and committed to their faith. [01:42]

The qualifications for a deacon are not just a checklist but a reflection of a heart transformed by Christ. Reverence, honesty, temperance, and financial integrity are essential traits that demonstrate a deacon's commitment to God and His people. Holding the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience means that a deacon must deeply understand and live out the truths of the Gospel. This spiritual maturity is crucial because deacons are often on the front lines of ministry, representing the church in various capacities.

The testing period is a time for potential deacons to demonstrate their faithfulness and readiness to serve. It is not just about proving their abilities but about showing their dedication to living a life that honors God. This rigorous process ensures that those who step into the role of a deacon are prepared to handle the responsibilities and challenges that come with it.

1 Timothy 3:8-9 (ESV): "Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine, not greedy for dishonest gain. They must hold the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience."

Reflection: In what ways can you cultivate a heart of reverence and integrity in your daily life? How can you ensure that your actions align with the faith you profess?


Day 2: The Role of Testing and Ordination
Our church follows a rigorous process for nominating and ordaining deacons, including a period of testing and the involvement of an ordaining council. This process ensures that those who serve are well-prepared and committed, aligning with the scriptural mandate. [02:23]

The process of nominating and ordaining deacons is designed to ensure that those who serve are not only willing but also well-prepared for the responsibilities they will undertake. This involves a period of testing where potential deacons are observed and evaluated in various aspects of their life and ministry. The involvement of an ordaining council adds an additional layer of accountability, as these leaders provide guidance and discernment in the selection process.

This rigorous process is not meant to be a barrier but a means of ensuring that those who serve are truly called and equipped for the role. It aligns with the scriptural mandate to appoint individuals who are spiritually mature and committed to their faith. By following this process, the church can confidently ordain deacons who will serve effectively and faithfully.

Acts 6:3 (ESV): "Therefore, brothers, pick out from among you seven men of good repute, full of the Spirit and of wisdom, whom we will appoint to this duty."

Reflection: How can you support and encourage those going through the process of testing and ordination in your church? What qualities do you think are most important for someone serving as a deacon?


Day 3: Servanthood as the Heart of Deaconship
The term "deacon" means "servant," and this is the essence of their role. Deacons are to serve willingly, gratefully, and continually, embodying the teachings of Christ in their daily lives. This service is a privilege and contributes to the unity and growth of the church. [13:19]

At the heart of being a deacon is the call to serve. The very term "deacon" translates to "servant," highlighting the essence of their role within the church. Deacons are called to serve willingly, with gratitude, and continually, reflecting the servanthood of Christ in their daily lives. This service is not just a duty but a privilege, as it allows deacons to contribute to the unity and growth of the church.

By serving in various capacities, deacons help to meet the needs of the congregation and support the pastoral staff. Their willingness to serve in often unseen and uncelebrated roles is a testament to their commitment to Christ and His church. This humble service fosters a spirit of unity and cooperation within the church, enabling it to function more effectively and reach out to the community.

Mark 10:43-45 (ESV): "But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."

Reflection: In what ways can you embody the heart of a servant in your daily interactions? How can you serve your church and community more effectively?


Day 4: Accountability and Example
Deacons live under scrutiny and must exemplify Christian virtues. They are accountable first to God and then to the congregation. Their role extends beyond individual service to being examples of servanthood, embodying the teachings of Christ in their daily lives. [17:07]

Being a deacon comes with a high level of accountability. Deacons are not only accountable to God but also to the congregation they serve. This means that their lives are often under scrutiny, and they must exemplify Christian virtues in all aspects of their lives. Their role extends beyond individual acts of service to being living examples of Christ's teachings.

This accountability is both a responsibility and an opportunity. It challenges deacons to live out their faith authentically and consistently, knowing that their actions can inspire and influence others. By embodying the teachings of Christ, deacons can lead by example, showing the congregation what it means to live a life of servanthood and devotion to God.

1 Peter 5:2-3 (ESV): "Shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you; not for shameful gain, but eagerly; not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock."

Reflection: How can you hold yourself accountable to live out Christian virtues in your daily life? What steps can you take to be a better example of Christ's teachings to those around you?


Day 5: Spiritual Significance and Unity
The ordination of deacons is not just a formal process but a spiritual act that contributes to the unity and growth of the church. Deacons help their pastor and church spread the Word of God, and their service leads to a great forward thrust for the gospel. [25:18]

The ordination of deacons is a deeply spiritual act that goes beyond mere formalities. It is a recognition of the calling and commitment of individuals who are dedicated to serving God and His church. This act of ordination contributes significantly to the unity and growth of the church, as deacons play a crucial role in supporting the pastoral staff and meeting the needs of the congregation.

By serving in various capacities, deacons help to spread the Word of God and advance the mission of the church. Their service leads to a great forward thrust for the gospel, as they assist in various ministries and outreach efforts. This unity and collaboration within the church enable it to function more effectively and reach more people with the message of Christ.

Ephesians 4:11-13 (ESV): "And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ."

Reflection: How can you contribute to the unity and growth of your church? What specific actions can you take to support the mission and ministry of your church today?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "If you hold yourself highly accountable to God, don't worry about all the rest. It'll take care of itself. But there are going to be people that are coming to you with things that you're going to think to myself, oh, my goodness, I never thought I'd have to deal with something like that as a deacon. Well, guess what? You will." [05:35] (13 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "The Holy Spirit, if you don't know, the Holy Spirit isn't about division, but the Holy Spirit is about unity. Amen?" [06:10] (5 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "When a church greatly multiplies and greatly multiplies in number, as the church in Jerusalem was. Because Satan's not real happy about that, is he? So, sometimes if Satan can't cause problems without, he'll try to cause problems from within. Amen? We need to be very, very aware of that right now." [10:46] (17 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "What did Jesus tell us? He did not come to be served but to serve. And that's the greatest servant of all. Every Christian person in this room, every disciple of Christ, the first thing you should be doing is learning how to serve. Amen? If all of us were that kind of servant, there would be no problems in the church. Amen?" [13:48] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "You know what? If they would have called us on the way home and said, there's somebody else, we need to continue to serve. If it would have been the next morning, we need to continue to serve. That service doesn't stop. That service continues. And that's, I think, something that is such a duty of a deacon and dirty of us as Christians, that we just continuing to serve." [22:24] (18 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "You need to be a person that cares about your reputation. I'm not saying that from a standpoint, but you need to care about, when you care, well, let me back up more. When you take the badge as a Christian or as a disciple of Jesus Christ, that's important. That's not important to just these four families here. That's important to every single one of us. Do you take that seriously that you're a follower of Christ?" [17:07] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "You can have knowledge and you can still be considered a fool. You know that? You can have knowledge of the Bible, but you can still be spiritually ignorant. You can still know all these things, but you can still be ignorant because you know, you can list to me all the 12 sons of Israel. You can list all these facts. You can know all the facts, but you can still be ignorant." [19:07] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "You need to serve willingly is the first thing. I think you are because you've, for one thing, if you told somebody don't nominate me as a deacon, they probably wouldn't have nominated you as a deacon. So you're, for one thing, you prayed about it and you were ready to serve. You're ready to be so you're willing to serve. That's important. As a deacon, you need to be willing to serve because you're going to be asked to serve." [20:35] (19 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "You need to have a love for the lost, and you need to have a love seeing people changed from the word of God. You know what Jesus said when Peter answered correctly? You are, he's not the rock, but Petra, and upon that statement, the gates of hell will not prevail against it. Upon the statement that Jesus Christ is exactly who he said he was, upon that statement that Peter said, you are the Christ the son of the living God, upon that statement, I will build my church, and the gates of hell will not prevail against it." [26:19] (32 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "I want to ask you to pray for your deacons. I want to ask you to pray for those men. Pray for their lives that they can be victorious in things that they need to be victorious. They can serve in the areas they need to serve for. That they can be humble and meek and do exactly what God has called them to do. Pray for your deacons because you know what? They're your deacons. They're your deacons." [29:21] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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