Preparing for God’s Presence: Finding Peace in the Season

Today, the focus is on realigning our hearts and lives to the true target God has set for us, especially as we enter the holiday season. Our calling as a church is to invest in the next generation—children and youth—and to care for the most vulnerable among us, such as orphans and those in foster care. While not everyone is called to foster or adopt, each of us is called to do something, whether through prayer, support, or practical help. This is a tangible way to live out the heart of God, who cares deeply for the least and the lost.

But as we move into a season filled with expectations—perfect decorations, meals, gifts, and family moments—there’s a danger of missing the true purpose. Like Martha in Luke 10, we can become so distracted by good things and urgent tasks that we miss the main thing: the presence of Jesus. The story of Mary and Martha reminds us that busyness, even in service, is not the same as intimacy with God. Jesus gently redirects Martha, and us, to focus on the “one thing” that is truly necessary—His presence.

Our culture conditions us to chase perfection, but God never asked for a perfect moment; He asks for a prepared heart. The holidays can highlight what we lack—loss, loneliness, or unmet expectations—but these are not barriers to God’s presence. In fact, Scripture shows us that God often shows up in the midst of imperfection, pain, and mess. The birth of Jesus in a manger is the ultimate example: God’s glory revealed in the most unexpected and humble circumstances.

This season, the invitation is to shift our focus from creating flawless moments to welcoming God’s presence into our homes and hearts. Whether your table is full or sparse, whether your family is whole or fractured, God desires to meet you right where you are. Jesus invites us to come to Him with our burdens, to sit at His feet, and to find rest, peace, and joy that surpasses all understanding. Let’s not let the pursuit of perfection rob us of the miracle of His presence. Instead, let’s fix our eyes on Jesus, the true source of hope and peace, and allow Him to fill our lives with what truly matters.

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Key Takeaways

• 1. The True Target Is God’s Presence We often aim for cultural ideals—perfect holidays, flawless families, impressive achievements—but God’s target is different. He desires our hearts, not our perfection. When we focus on His presence, everything else finds its proper place. The story of Mary and Martha teaches us that intimacy with Jesus is the “one thing” that matters most, and all our striving is secondary to simply being with Him. [52:39]
• 2. Busyness Can Distract from the Main Thing Serving, planning, and doing good things are not wrong, but they can become distractions if they pull us away from Jesus. Busyness is not a badge of spiritual maturity; in fact, it can be a barrier to true connection with God. We must learn to distinguish between what is urgent and what is truly important, making space for God in the midst of our activity. [50:30]
• 3. God Shows Up in Imperfection The holidays often highlight what’s missing in our lives, but God is not limited by our lack or pain. He enters broken, messy, and imperfect places—just as He did in Bethlehem. Our pain, loneliness, or disappointment can become the very places where God’s presence is most powerfully experienced. Don’t let what you lack blind you to the miracle of God with you. [62:43]
• 4. Each Person Has a Unique Calling Not everyone is called to the same role or responsibility, but everyone is called to do something. Whether it’s fostering, adopting, supporting, or praying, God has a place and a purpose for each of us. Trying to live someone else’s calling leads to frustration; embracing your own brings peace and fulfillment. [57:48]
• 5. Jesus Invites Us to Rest at His Feet In a season of invitations and expectations, Jesus offers the most important invitation: to come to Him, lay down our burdens, and find rest. Miracles happen at the feet of Jesus, and He calls us to abide in Him, trusting that He will provide what we truly need. When we accept His invitation, we discover peace and joy that circumstances cannot take away. [67:37]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [00:45] - Our Mission: Serving Children and Youth
• [03:10] - Foster and Adoption Care Team (FACT)
• [06:30] - The Call to Do Something
• [09:55] - Giving and Generosity
• [13:00] - Preparing for God’s Presence
• [16:30] - The Story of Mary and Martha
• [20:15] - The Pressure of Perfection
• [24:00] - Culture’s Target vs. God’s Target
• [28:00] - Busyness vs. Intimacy with God
• [32:00] - Focusing on the One Thing
• [36:00] - Embracing Imperfection
• [40:00] - God’s Presence in Our Homes
• [44:00] - Jesus’ Invitation to Rest
• [48:00] - Responding to God’s Call

Bible Study Discussion Guide

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### Bible Reading

Luke 10:38-42 (ESV)
Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.” But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.”

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### Observation Questions

1. In the story of Mary and Martha, what was Martha doing when Jesus visited, and what was Mary doing instead? (Luke 10:38-42)
2. According to the sermon, what kinds of things was Martha distracted by, and why did Jesus gently correct her? [42:29]
3. What does the pastor say is the “one thing” that Jesus says is necessary, and how does this relate to the main point of the sermon? [52:39]
4. The sermon mentions that busyness is not the same as godliness. What examples does the pastor give of “good things” that can distract us from the main thing? [50:30]

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### Interpretation Questions

1. Why do you think Jesus valued Mary’s choice to sit at His feet over Martha’s efforts to serve and prepare? What does this say about what Jesus wants from us? (Luke 10:41-42)
2. The pastor says our culture sets a target of perfection for the holidays, but God’s target is different. What does it mean to “prepare a heart” instead of “prepare a perfect moment”? [47:35]
3. The sermon talks about God showing up in imperfection, pain, and mess. Why do you think God chooses to reveal Himself in these kinds of situations? [01:02:43]
4. The pastor says not everyone is called to foster or adopt, but everyone is called to do something. How does this idea help us understand our unique calling in God’s family? [57:48]

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### Application Questions

1. The holidays often bring pressure to create perfect moments—decorations, meals, gifts, and family gatherings. What is one area where you feel this pressure most, and how could you shift your focus from perfection to God’s presence this year? [44:34]
2. Is there a “good thing” in your life right now (serving, planning, working, etc.) that might be distracting you from spending time with Jesus? What would it look like to choose the “one thing” that is necessary this week? [50:30]
3. The sermon says God often shows up in our pain, loneliness, or disappointment. Can you share a time when you experienced God’s presence in the middle of a difficult or imperfect situation? How did that change your perspective? [01:02:43]
4. The church’s mission is to invest in the next generation and care for the vulnerable. What is “your something” that you feel God might be calling you to do—whether it’s prayer, support, or practical help? [28:24]
5. The pastor shared that trying to live someone else’s calling leads to frustration. Are there areas where you’ve compared your role or calling to someone else’s? How can you embrace the unique purpose God has for you? [57:48]
6. Jesus invites us to come to Him and find rest. What is one burden you are carrying right now that you need to lay at Jesus’ feet? How can the group support you in this? [01:07:37]
7. The story of Jesus’ birth reminds us that God’s glory can show up in the most unexpected and humble places. How can you make space for God’s presence in your home or heart this season, even if things aren’t perfect? [01:00:48]

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