Day 1: The Wedding Table—A Glorious Invitation Awaits
The hope of the Christian life is not limited to this world, but looks forward to the ultimate celebration: the marriage supper of the Lamb. In the midst of chaos and brokenness on earth, heaven resounds with praise because the Lord our God, the Almighty, reigns and has prepared a place at His table for those who accept His invitation. This is not just a future event to anticipate, but a present reality that shapes how we live, giving us strength to endure and joy to look forward to what God has promised. [35:19]
Revelation 19:6-9
Reflection: How does the promise of the marriage supper of the Lamb change the way you view your current struggles and daily life today?
Day 2: Preparation—God’s Part and Our Part
God has already done His part by sending Jesus to restore our relationship with Him and prepare a place for us, but we must also prepare ourselves for the wedding table. This preparation is not about outward appearances or following a list of rules, but about cultivating a heart of holiness and love for God. Just as a bride prepares for her wedding, we are called to pursue purity and readiness, allowing God’s Word to transform us from the inside out as we grow closer to Him each day. [43:08]
John 3:16; John 14:2-3; Hebrews 12:14
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you sense God inviting you to deeper holiness or surrender as you prepare for His coming?
Day 3: The Spiritual Dress Code—Holiness from the Heart
God’s dress code for the wedding table has never changed: “Without holiness, no one will see God.” This holiness is not about legalism or external behavior, but about a relationship with God that transforms our desires and actions. Through the washing of water by the Word, we are continually renewed and made ready, not by our own efforts, but by allowing God’s Spirit and truth to shape us. The journey of faith is a process, and God is patient as we make progress, calling us to live out of love for Him rather than fear of failure. [46:15]
Ephesians 5:25-27; 2 Corinthians 11:2
Reflection: In what practical way can you let God’s Word “wash” and renew your heart this week?
Day 4: A Personal Invitation—God Knows Your Name
Everyone receives a personal invitation to the wedding table, and God knows each of us intimately—our strengths, weaknesses, and even our names. This invitation is not generic or impersonal; it is extended to you specifically, and only you can accept it. God’s love is persistent and personal, and He desires that none should miss out on the joy He has prepared. As recipients of this grace, we are also called to extend the invitation to others, intervening through prayer, investing through kindness, and inviting them to experience God’s love. [55:33]
Isaiah 43:1; John 10:14; Ephesians 2:8-9
Reflection: Who in your life needs to know that God’s invitation is personal and for them? How can you reach out to them this week?
Day 5: The Joyful Celebration—God Loves a Party
The wedding table is not just a solemn event, but a joyful, extravagant celebration that far surpasses any earthly party. God delights in gathering His people, inviting them to rest, rejoice, and worship together. He calls us to set aside time for Him, to enjoy His presence, and to celebrate His goodness regularly. When we honor God with our time and worship, He fills our lives with greater purpose, peace, and joy, reminding us that the best is yet to come. [01:03:30]
Nehemiah 8:10; Psalm 16:11
Reflection: What is one way you can intentionally set aside time this week to celebrate God’s goodness and enjoy His presence?
Sermon Summary
In Revelation 19, we are given a glimpse of a future celebration—the marriage supper of the Lamb. While the world below is in chaos, heaven is filled with the sound of rejoicing, worship, and anticipation. This is not just a symbolic event; it is the culmination of God’s redemptive plan, where Christ, the Bridegroom, is united with His Bride, the Church. The invitation to this wedding table is extended to everyone, but it requires a response. God has already done His part by sending His Son, Jesus, to restore our relationship with Him and to prepare a place for us. Our part is to accept the invitation, prepare ourselves, and live in a way that reflects our love and devotion to Him.
Preparation for this wedding is not about outward appearances or following a set of rules, but about the inward transformation of the heart. Holiness is the dress code, not as legalism, but as a response of love and relationship. The process of becoming more like Christ is ongoing—a journey of progress, not perfection. We are called to examine our lives, to see if we are growing closer to Him, and to allow His Word to wash and renew us daily. Just as we may not understand every ingredient in a meal, we may not grasp every detail of Scripture, but we are called to partake, to be nourished, and to let it shape us.
The invitation to the wedding table is deeply personal. God knows each of us by name, with all our strengths and weaknesses, and still calls us to Himself. No one else can accept this invitation for us; it is a decision we must make individually. And as recipients of this grace, we are commissioned to extend the invitation to others—through prayer, acts of kindness, and personal invitation. The wedding feast will be a celebration beyond anything this world can offer, a party that reflects the joy and abundance of God’s kingdom. To fully enter into this joy, we are called to set aside time for God, to rest in Him, and to live with anticipation of the day when we will gather at His table.
Key Takeaways
1. Preparation for the Wedding Table Is Both God’s Work and Ours God has already prepared everything necessary for our salvation and relationship with Him, but we are called to respond by preparing our hearts. This preparation is not about outward conformity but about an inward readiness—a life marked by holiness and love for Christ. The process is ongoing, requiring daily surrender and growth. Are you closer to Him today than you were a year ago? [35:19]
2. Holiness Is the Dress Code—A Matter of the Heart, Not Legalism God’s standard for entering His presence has not changed: “Without holiness, no one will see God.” This is not about following a list of rules, but about cultivating a relationship that transforms us from the inside out. Holiness grows as we desire to please God, not out of fear or obligation, but out of love and devotion. The Christian journey is a process of progress, not instant perfection. [43:08]
3. The Word of God Is Essential for Spiritual Growth and Readiness Just as physical food nourishes the body, Scripture nourishes the soul. Even when we don’t understand every part, we are called to read, meditate, and let God’s Word wash over us. Consistent engagement with Scripture is the means by which we are cleansed, strengthened, and made ready for the wedding table. Don’t let confusion or lack of understanding keep you from the table—keep coming, keep eating, keep growing. [46:15]
4. God’s Invitation Is Personal and Universal, but Requires a Response God knows each of us by name and extends a personal invitation to His table. No one else can accept it for us; it is a decision we must make for ourselves. This grace is freely given, but it must be received, and it is our responsibility to also invite others—through prayer, kindness, and genuine relationship—to join us at the table. [55:33]
5. The Wedding Feast Is a Celebration of Joy, Rest, and Abundance The marriage supper of the Lamb will surpass any earthly celebration, reflecting the joy and generosity of God’s kingdom. God desires for us to experience joy and rest even now, setting aside time for Him and living in anticipation of the ultimate celebration. When we prioritize God and give Him our time, He multiplies our joy and effectiveness in every other area of life. [63:30]
Revelation 19:6-9 — (The marriage supper of the Lamb and the Bride making herself ready)
- John 3:16 (“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son…”)
- Hebrews 12:14 (“Without holiness, no one will see the Lord.”)
Observation Questions
In Revelation 19:6-9, what is happening in heaven while chaos is happening on earth? What are the people in heaven doing?
According to the sermon, what does the “fine linen” that the Bride wears represent? ([35:19])
In John 3:16, what is God’s part in preparing for the wedding table? ([35:19])
What does Hebrews 12:14 say is required to see God? How does the sermon describe this requirement? ([43:08])
Interpretation Questions
The sermon says that preparation for the wedding table is both God’s work and ours. What does it mean for us to “make ourselves ready” if God has already done His part? ([35:19])
The “dress code” for the wedding is holiness, but the pastor says it’s not about legalism or rules. How does holiness look different when it comes from love and relationship instead of obligation? ([43:08])
The sermon compares reading the Bible to eating a meal, even if we don’t understand every ingredient. Why is it important to keep reading Scripture even when we don’t understand everything? ([46:15])
The invitation to the wedding table is personal and requires a response. Why can’t someone else accept the invitation for us? ([55:33])
Application Questions
The pastor asked, “Are you closer to Him today than you were a year ago?” Take a moment to reflect: In what ways have you grown (or not grown) in your relationship with Jesus over the past year? What has helped or hindered that growth? ([44:55])
Holiness is described as a matter of the heart, not just following rules. Is there an area in your life where you’ve been focused on outward appearances or “checking boxes” instead of letting God transform your heart? What would it look like to shift your focus? ([43:08])
The sermon says that God’s Word is like food for our souls. What is your current habit of engaging with Scripture? Is there a specific step you can take this week to “keep coming to the table” even if you don’t understand everything you read? ([46:15])
The invitation to the wedding table is personal—God knows your name and everything about you. How does it make you feel to know that God still invites you, with all your strengths and weaknesses? ([55:33])
The pastor shared that no one else can accept the invitation for you. Have you personally responded to God’s invitation? If not, what is holding you back? If yes, how can you help someone else respond to God’s invitation this week? ([55:33])
The sermon encourages us to extend the invitation to others through prayer, kindness, and personal invitation. Who is one person in your life you can pray for, serve, or invite to “the table” this week? ([58:43])
The wedding feast is described as a celebration of joy, rest, and abundance. What is one practical way you can set aside time for God this week, to rest in Him and anticipate the joy of His kingdom? ([01:03:30])
Sermon Clips
Let us rejoice and be glad and give the glory to Him for the marriage supper of the Lamb has come and His bride has made herself ready. It was given to her to clothe herself in fine linen, bright and clean for the fine linen is the righteous acts of the saints. And then our verse of the week is in the next verse, verse 9. I'll have it on the screen. Would you read it aloud with me? Let's read together. Blessed are those who are invited. Say that again. Blessed are those who are invited. Turn to your neighbor and say, you're invited. You're invited. Let's pick it up. Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb. [00:34:04](42 seconds)
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This morning we're going to talk about the wedding table. Everyone is invited, but not everyone will accept the invitation. In your notes, I want to look at this this morning. Number one, the wedding requires preparation. I don't know how many of you have prepared and spent a lot of time working toward a wedding. But in the wedding preparation we're talking about, there's God's part. Everybody say God's part. And there's our part. Everybody say our part. Now what's God's part? Well, God's done His part. John chapter 3, verse 16. It's in the end zone of all the NFL football games. Say it with me. For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have everlasting or eternal life. [00:35:42](51 seconds)
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But one of the things I want you to understand, and God wants you to understand, God hasn't changed his dress code. His spiritual dress code has not changed. Let me tell you what his dress code is. It's found in Hebrews 12, verse 14. Without holiness, no one will see God. You're not going to end up at this table without holiness. Now, some of you sitting here, or maybe online, you'd say, well, he's preaching legalism. He's preaching rules. No, it's not about rules. It's about relationship. I remember years ago, I was talking with one of my sons over a decade ago. We were talking to him about an issue that he was struggling with in his life. And these were the words he said to me. [00:42:58](51 seconds)
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This morning, the dress code I'm talking about is not a set of rules, and it has nothing to do with the outside. It's a matter of the heart. It's a matter of the heart. It's a matter of relationship. And we live this dress code now, not because of do's and don'ts, but because of our love for him. Look at what the Bible says. Paul said to the Corinthian church, he said, I promised you, and that means I espoused, I committed, I gave you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure. Everybody say pure. Now, I realize when I preach a message like this, the enemy wants to bring his billy club and beat you over the head because you've had impure thoughts. [00:44:06](50 seconds)
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You've said or done something that wasn't right. Everybody say process. Say progress. The Christian life is a process and a progress. You're not going to be there overnight. You're not going to be there overnight. It takes time. My question to you is, are you closer to him today than you were a year ago? Are you still thinking the same impure thoughts to the same degree that you were a year ago? Are you still losing your temper as much as you did a year ago? Are you still allowing foul words out of your mouth as much as you did a year ago? Are you still dabbling and dealing with sin as much as you did a year ago? [00:44:55](53 seconds)
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Paul said the washing of water by the word. There is no substitute for this book. There is no substitute. This is bread. This is life. You've got to spend time in this book Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. You've got to read it, read it, read it, read it, read it. You've got to live it, live it, live it, live it, live it. You say, well, pastor, I don't understand it. You don't understand everything you eat. Regina fixes something and I'm looking at it. I don't know all the ingredients. Regina, I love my wife. She wants it to look pretty. Hey, I don't care what it looks like. I want to know what it tastes like. [00:46:44](46 seconds)
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Some of us guys, we treat God the same way we treated preparation for our marriage. I'm going to add you to my schedule, but I'm going to do this because it's so important, and I'll just give you this. And God says, no, I want to invite you to the wedding table, but I'll tell you what it's going to cost you. It's going to cost you everything. See, in America today, we have a soft gospel that is being preached that says you come to church, you confess your sins, you ask forgiveness, and now you're saved, now you can live however you want. That's a false gospel. [00:52:25](63 seconds)
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I've given God so many reasons not to love me and he's rejected every one of them. He loves you. He knows you. He knows everything about you and he still cares for you. John chapter 10, Jesus says these words, I am the good shepherd. I know my own and my own know me. At the wedding table, he's reserved a seat for you. It's a personal invitation but you have to accept it. No one else can accept it for you. I was raised in a Christian home. My parents taught me the Word of God. They took me to church. They shoved the gospel down me and some people think and say, well, parents shouldn't do that. Hey, my mother made me eat vegetables. If she can make me eat vegetables, she can shove the Word down me. [00:56:28](53 seconds)
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And then look at what the Bible says. The guest he had invited ignored. Everybody say ignored. They made excuses. Sometimes, many times, when we invite someone, they're going to make an excuse. I'm too busy. Really? Come up with something better. Well, I'm going to wait. Okay? I understand. But you're never promised tomorrow. Well, it's too hard to be a Christ follower. Let me tell you, there is more joy in following Christ. When I lay my head on the bed at night, I'm able to go to sleep. Can I just be honest with you? I don't have to take a pill. I don't have to have alcohol. I don't have to take drugs. I don't have to do that because I have peace. That's who God is. He gives you that peace. [01:00:08](53 seconds)
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But I want to tell you something. There's going to be a wedding that's going to make that wedding look like a pauper's wedding because when we gather at the marriage supper of the Lamb at the wedding table and we begin to worship the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords, we begin to focus upon His goodness. We begin to focus on the Lamb of God who was slain from the beginning of the world when we begin to focus upon the resurrection and the life. We begin to focus on the truth, the way, the life. We begin to focus on the door. We begin to focus on the good shepherd. We begin to focus on the way. We begin to focus on the bread. We begin to focus on the living water. We begin to focus on who He is. We begin to look at who He is. We begin to realize He is worthy of our adoration and praise [01:02:03](48 seconds)
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