As a new year begins, you don’t need a new calendar as much as you need a fresh awareness that God is already at work. Let go of rehearsing old failures or even clinging to past wins; both can keep you from noticing what God is springing up right now. He specializes in making roads through wilderness seasons and pouring streams into dry places. Ask him to help you perceive what he’s doing, even if it feels small or hidden. Begin with gratitude for how he’s carried you, and invite him to lead you into what’s next. Trust that his path may be surprising, but it will not be aimless. [22:05]
Isaiah 43:18-19: Release what is behind and stop living in the past. Watch—I'm beginning something new; it’s already breaking through. Can you see it? I’m cutting a roadway through the place that felt like a dead end and causing rivers to run where everything looked barren.
Reflection: What “former thing” do you most need to stop dwelling on so you can notice the new thing God is bringing to life this month, and what simple daily practice will help you notice it (e.g., a 3-minute evening prayer of gratitude)?
Life is full of dominoes—every decision nudges the next one. You can’t control every circumstance, but you can choose your response, and those choices shape where you end up. Decision fatigue is real; when overwhelmed, we often default to poor, reactive choices. A wise move is to pause, pray, and commit the decision to the Lord before you act. When you do, he steadies your plans and keeps you from the spiral of rushed mistakes. Small faithful choices today set you on a better path tomorrow. [28:52]
Proverbs 16:3: Place what you plan and do into the Lord’s hands; as you entrust your work to him, he will strengthen and shape your plans so they stand.
Reflection: Identify one recurring situation that tends to lead you into poor choices. How will you pre decide your response using this pattern: “When faced with [this situation], I will [this godly action]”?
Wise people decide their convictions before the pressure hits. Like Daniel, who settled in his heart what he would and wouldn’t consume before the royal menu ever arrived, you can set boundaries in advance. Predeciding clarifies your values and frees you from last-minute wobbling when emotions run high. That might mean choosing ahead of time what you will drink at a work event, what you will view online, or how you will speak on a hard day. This isn’t about legalism; it’s about honoring God with clear, thoughtful commitments. Decide today who you will be tomorrow. [41:17]
Daniel 1:8: Daniel made up his mind not to make himself unclean with the king’s food and wine, and he respectfully asked the overseer to let him avoid it.
Reflection: Write two specific boundaries you will keep at your next social setting or online moment of temptation, and tell one trusted friend so they can encourage you to follow through.
Emotions are real but not always reliable, and endless online opinions can paralyze wise action. Fear of “getting it wrong” can make no decision at all—which is still a decision with consequences. Instead, entrust your whole heart to the Lord and refuse to lean on your limited understanding. Submit every path to him; he will direct you to the right road. That road won’t always be easy—sometimes it climbs a mountain or dips into a valley—but it will lead where you truly want to go with him. Dependence, not ease, is what grows you strong. [52:40]
Proverbs 3:5-6: Rely on the Lord with all you are; don’t prop yourself up with your own insight. In every path acknowledge and submit to him, and he will make your road the right one.
Reflection: Where are your emotions loudest this week (fear, anger, desire, fatigue), and what concrete act of submission to God’s word could you practice there (peacemaking, generosity, integrity, restraint)?
Real worship is a surrendered life—placing your whole self on God’s altar as a living, holy offering. Don’t let culture’s pressure mold you; let God change you from the inside out by renewing your mind through Scripture. As your thinking is reshaped, you’ll be able to recognize and embrace God’s will—good, pleasing, and complete. Obedience you pre decide today will always keep you within God’s will tomorrow. A new year changes nothing unless you change, and by grace you can, starting now. Surrender to Jesus, and step into the new life he is ready to build with you. [01:00:28]
Romans 12:1-2: Because of God’s mercy, offer your whole self to him as a living, set-apart sacrifice—this is true worship. Don’t be squeezed into the world’s mold, but be changed by a new mind. Then you’ll discern what God wants—what is good, what brings delight to him, and what is complete.
Reflection: What one daily practice will you adopt this week to renew your mind (for example, praying Romans 12:1–2 each morning or memorizing Proverbs 3:5–6), and when and where will you do it?
A new year begins with a call to stop dwelling on the past and to watch for the “new thing” God is doing. Life today is the result of yesterday’s decisions, and while circumstances can’t always be controlled, responses can. The quality of decisions sets the quality of life, creating a domino effect—compounding toward either wisdom or regret. Many struggle to choose well because of three pressures: decision fatigue from thousands of daily choices, fear of making the wrong move (forgetting that “no decision” is still a decision), and emotions that often overrule Scripture and sound judgment. The invitation is to trade “follow your heart” for “commit your way to the Lord,” trusting his wisdom over our own.
A simple, biblical pathway emerges: predecide. Decide in advance who to be and how to act before the heat of the moment. Like Daniel, who “resolved” not to defile himself, disciples can pre-set boundaries around integrity, relationships, habits, and money. Predeciding starts by naming what matters most—chiefly, honoring God—and then building choices that guard those values. New calendars change nothing unless new decisions are made; by God’s grace in Christ, the future can be different when choices become different.
For predecisions to bless rather than bind, they must be aligned with God’s Word. Scripture reveals God’s will, and Proverbs 3 calls believers to trust the Lord wholly, refuse self-reliance, submit in all ways, and walk the straight path. Straight does not mean easy; it means true—the only path that leads where God intends—sometimes over mountains and through valleys that train dependence and deepen faith. Romans 12 reframes worship as a whole-life offering, resisting cultural pressure and being transformed by the renewing of the mind. As the mind is renewed by the Word, discernment grows, and God’s good, pleasing, and perfect will becomes clear. Predeciding to obey Scripture is always God’s will. Today is a fitting moment to take back life—by grace, through surrender, and with Spirit-enabled choices that honor Jesus.
But the Bible doesn't say follow your heart. The Bible says, the heart can be extremely wicked and deceitful sometimes. And convince you, try to convince you of things that just aren't true or good or right for your life but you feel at the moment like it would be. Christians aren't called to follow our hearts. We're called to follow god's lead as supreme ruler over us because we trust him.
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#FollowGodNotFeeling
And here's where you need to start, that I have to start, is we have to pre decide what we value the most. Do we value our relationship with god as the most important relationship? If we're married, do we value our marriage enough to pre decide how we're gonna act as a married person? If we're single, am I gonna pre decide? Right? We have to decide. What do I value most? Because decisions determine the direction of our lives and the direction of our lives determine our destination.
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#DecideYourValues
See, here's what you have to know about the New Year. It doesn't change anything unless you change. Turning the calendar over didn't change anything. January 1, fun time celebrating but January 1 is just a continuation of your decisions that you're making in your life. That's all it is. That's a great way to market on the calendar. Maybe look back and look forward. There's nothing wrong with any of that but it doesn't change anything unless we decide, pre decide that this is the person we're going to be moving forward. These are decisions I'm gonna make and here's how I'm going to make decisions from now on.
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#NewYearStartWithYou
With this message today, I gave it this title, take back your life. You could start today taking back your life. How do you do that? By pre deciding what your life is going to be. See, by the grace of god, he allows us to be forgiven and to be made new through Jesus so that moving forward, we can determine a different life
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#TakeBackYourLife
Moving forward, if this is going to work well for any of us, okay? If you want to be someone who honors god with your life and I think most of you do or you wouldn't be here, right? That's that's what you want. You wanna honor god with your life and you want god's blessings on your life, then here's the thing. Here here's what we have to do. We have to align our pre decisions with god's word for it to work that way. We have to align our pre decisions with god's word.
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#AlignDecisionsWithScripture
Sometimes, we make worship about all the things that are only just a small part of worship. Worship is about your whole life. Who you just who you decide to be? The person you decide to be. Worship is deciding to be a god honoring person. That's what worship is. Because when you're a god honoring person, will you show up for services at your church? Sure. When you're a god honoring person, will you serve others? Sure. All those things are parts of deciding who you're gonna be as a child of god.
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#WorshipIsWholeLife
That word conform means to be pressed into. How many of you as teenagers maybe maybe you've done this with your own teenagers talked about peer pressure, right? Don't give in to peer pressure. We tell our kids that. Just because everybody else jumps on off a bridge doesn't mean you should. Right? We we talk about peer pressure. Friends, adult peer pressure is very real. You're facing it every day, so am I. You can't escape it. He's saying, don't let that pressure you push you into something that you predetermined you don't wanna be. To cause you to change how you do things so you're not the person you said you wanted to be anymore.
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#ResistPeerPressure
When we pre decide to obey god's word, listen to me. It will always, always be in god's will. If you pre decide to be obedient to god's word, it will always be god's will for you to do what god's word teaches you to do. Always. There are no exceptions to it. There are no but but what if I've got this going on? What if that? It doesn't matter. This is god's will revealed in god's word. It will apply to every circumstance of your life.
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#PreDecideObedience
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