Every significant choice should first be measured against the truth of Scripture. This is the starting point, the foundation upon which all other considerations are built. When faced with an unexpected decision, the first and most critical question to ask is whether the potential path aligns with what God has already revealed. This practice prevents us from being swayed by immediate pressures or deceptive reasoning. It ensures our decisions are built on the solid rock of divine truth rather than the shifting sands of circumstance or emotion. [32:35]
Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” (Matthew 4:4 NIV)
Reflection: When you are faced with a difficult decision this week, what is one practical way you can pause to intentionally consult God's Word before moving forward?
We are not alone in our temptation or our need to make wise choices. Jesus Christ fully experienced human weakness and faced every kind of trial, yet He never sinned. This qualifies Him not as a distant judge, but as a compassionate and understanding advocate. Because He has walked this path perfectly, we can approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, not in our own ability, but in His proven faithfulness. He offers the mercy and grace we need to make better choices in our own moments of need. [30:19]
For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. (Hebrews 4:15-16 NIV)
Reflection: Where in your life do you most need to receive the mercy and grace Jesus offers to help you make a better choice?
A decision can be technically correct according to Scripture yet still lack the heart of God if it is not motivated by love. Truth and love are not opposing forces; they are divinely designed to work in perfect harmony. The law of love calls us to consider how our actions will affect others, seeking their good and God's glory. It challenges us to move beyond mere rule-keeping and into a lifestyle of compassionate action that reflects the very character of Christ. [54:25]
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” (Matthew 22:37-40 NIV)
Reflection: Is there a relationship in your life where you have prioritized being right over being loving, and how might you move toward a more compassionate approach?
Our choices are not isolated events; they either move us toward or away from God’s unique calling for our lives. Every believer has been called out of darkness to declare the praises of God. Therefore, a crucial filter for any decision is to ask how it will impact our witness and our ability to fulfill His purposes. Even when a path seems appealing or would relieve immediate pain, we must ask if it ultimately honors the plan God has for us. [01:09:33]
But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. (1 Peter 2:9 NIV)
Reflection: Considering a current decision, what choice would most clearly allow you to declare God's praises and fulfill His purpose for your life?
We all have regrets—choices we wish we could undo, moments that lead us to say, “if only.” The good news of the gospel is that God’s grace is sufficient to redeem our past mistakes. He can bring good from our poor decisions, using our experiences to warn others and deepen our own dependence on Him. While we cannot change the past, we can, starting today, make better choices through Christ’s power, trusting Him to write a redemptive story with our lives. [42:31]
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28 NIV)
Reflection: What is one "if only" from your past that you need to entrust to God's redemptive power, and how might He use that experience for good?
A clear, practical framework for making wiser choices flows from the life and example of Jesus. Choices shape present circumstances and responses to hardship, so predeciding actions ahead of stressful moments produces better outcomes than reacting under pressure. A brief pause, a deep breath, and a tested filter can slow impulsive moves and redirect choices toward what endures. The filter offered here builds from three key questions modeled in Scripture.
First, decisions must square with the written Word. The wilderness temptation shows reliance on Scripture as the starting point: when Satan twisted verses, the correct response came from knowing context and combining truthful passages, not cherry-picking lines that suit impulse. Bible literacy matters because clear, contextual truth exposes false shortcuts and protects against choices that gratify immediate craving but destroy long-term flourishing.
Second, obedience to the Word must express the law of love. The Sabbath healing demonstrates that legal correctness without compassion misses God’s intent. Love does not cancel truth; it requires speaking and acting in ways that restore dignity, confront evil, and rejoice in what is true. The ethic of love frames how truth applies—balancing rebuke and mercy so action honors people as image-bearers while opposing what harms them.
Third, choices must align with God’s call on life. The cross exemplifies ultimate fidelity: surrendering relief for the sake of the redemptive plan. Short-term relief that derails calling betrays long-term purpose. Evaluating decisions by how they advance calling reframes temptation and suffering as context for faithful mission rather than merely obstacles to comfort.
Practical counsel ties these three questions together. Predecide responses to recurring pressures, practice a pause-and-filter habit for blindsiding moments, and allow Scripture, love, and calling to guide action. Honest confession of past “if onlys” opens the way for God’s redeeming work; grace can bring purpose and testimony from failure when repentance and renewed choices follow. The imperative remains simple and urgent: use the Word as authority, let love shape application, and choose what advances God’s purpose for life. An invitation to begin that path of choice and surrender closes the call to action.
Maybe you've seen this meme before. I just saw it again this week and it goes right along with our message today. It says this, everything happens for a reason, but sometimes the reason is you're stupid and make bad decisions. The legendary actor John Wayne said it this way, life is hard. It's harder when you're stupid. I'm not trying to call any of us stupid, and the bible doesn't do that, but the bible does clearly teach that we often make bad choices. And if we want our lives to be better, we have to learn to make better choices because the choices we make build the lives that we have.
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#ChoicesBuildLives
And we can look at where we're at right now, good and bad, and our choices have led us to where we are. I know things happen to us that we didn't choose, but we still choose how we respond to everything that happens to us. So, choices matter.
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#ChoicesMatterNow
But each week, we've been looking at different scenarios, different situations where we can predecide before we ever get into that situation. Here's what I'm gonna do. Here's what I'm gonna say. Here's how I'm going to act before we even get into the situation. Because we all understand, I think, this principle that if we wait until we're under pressure of the moment, we don't always make the best choices, do we? Under pressure, when we're tired, when we're worn out, we don't always make the best choices. So if we predecide, we get better at making better choices.
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#PredecideYourChoices
I mean, we wanna learn from the best, don't we? That's that's kind of what we like to do. If you like golf and you wanted to get some golf lessons, which if I play golf, I need lessons for sure. What if Scottie Scheffler said? I'll teach you. You you could just play with me for a few rounds, and I'll give you all the tips that you need to have. That'd be great, wouldn't it, to learn from the very best in the game? Well, today in our final session of predecide better choices, better life, we're gonna sit at the feet of the greatest decision maker in the history of the world.
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#LearnFromTheMaster
This person never made a bad decision, never made the wrong choice. This person never reacted the wrong way. This person always followed through in the right response to the situation that he was in. He never got carried away by his emotions. I think you know who I'm talking about. It's Jesus Christ. I want us all today to sit at the feet of Jesus and learn from him. The filter that we see revealed in scripture that he went through in making the decisions that he made where he never missed. He never failed.
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#JesusDecisionModel
He faced every kind of trial and temptation that you're gonna face while he was here in the flesh. Yet, he was able to maneuver through all of those decisions without sinning. Therefore, he says, we can have confidence when we approach his throne of grace. Why can we have confidence? Because we're going to a high priest who knows us well, who knows what we're gonna be dealing with, who has experienced what we experience in the flesh, and who knows the answer, who knows the way, who knows the encouragement, who knows the accountability we need to have to get this choice made in a better way for our lives.
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#ConfidenceInChrist
And we could have confidence not in ourselves, so that's a mistake. We should understand not to have confidence in ourselves. We should understand to put our confidence in him and his guidance, and his direction, and his wisdom, and his provision for our lives.
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#TrustHisWisdom
by the spirit. This is the spirit. This is God's spirit leading him out into the wilderness. Why? To be tempted by the devil. Can you believe that? That god's spirit led god the son into the wilderness to face Satan and the temptations that Satan was gonna bring to him. Why? Because he could be our high priest better that way. If he had to face things like this and he knew how to make good choices in the face of it. So, he's being led there for that purpose. Now, he's in the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. Verse two, it says, after fasting forty days and forty nights, here's the most understatement in the Bible, he was hungry.
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#LedByTheSpirit
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