Prayer: A Living Relationship with God

Prayer: A Living Relationship with God

 

Summary

Prayer is not a transaction or a formula, but a living relationship with God that shapes and sustains us through all of life’s joys and sorrows. In the midst of uncertainty—whether it’s discerning a new calling, facing personal loss, or witnessing suffering in the world—prayer is the way to return to the heart of God. Jesus himself modeled this, making prayer as natural as breathing, and teaching his disciples to approach God with both intimacy and reverence. The Lord’s Prayer begins with “Abba”—a word of deep closeness—yet immediately reminds us of God’s holiness. This balance invites us to bring our whole selves before God, trusting that we are fully known and fully loved.

Prayer is not about persuading God to act according to our wishes, nor is it a numbers game where more voices guarantee a better outcome. If that were the case, every fervent prayer would be answered as we hope, and tragedies would be averted. Instead, prayer is a mystery that often defies explanation. It is a way of connecting with God’s heart, especially when words fail or when the world’s pain feels overwhelming. Sometimes, prayer is simply being present—sitting in silence, watching a hummingbird, or feeling the current of something greater than ourselves.

Prayer also takes the form of action. The story of Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel marching for civil rights reminds us that our feet can pray as powerfully as our lips. When we act for justice, feed the hungry, or care for creation, we are participating in God’s kingdom coming on earth. Prayer connects us to God, to one another, and to the world’s deep needs. In all things, the heart of prayer is “Thy will be done”—a surrender to God’s wisdom and a readiness to be changed, to act, and to love more deeply.

Key Takeaways

- Prayer is not a formula for getting what we want, but a relationship that draws us into God’s presence. Even when prayers seem unanswered or tragedies occur, it is not because we lacked faith or fervor. Prayer is about trust, surrender, and being held by God in all circumstances. [32:10]

- Jesus teaches us to pray with both intimacy and awe, calling God “Abba” while also hallowing God’s name. This dual approach reminds us that we are invited into a close relationship with God, yet we never lose sight of God’s majesty and otherness. Holding these together deepens our prayer life and grounds us in God’s love. [41:00]

- The mystery of prayer is that it changes us, even when it doesn’t change our circumstances. Like catching a current in the river, prayer can shift our perspective, align us with God’s purposes, and give us strength to face what comes. Sometimes, the greatest gift of prayer is the transformation it works within our own hearts. [54:30]

- Prayer is not limited to words; it can be silence, music, wonder, or action. When we serve, march for justice, or care for others, our actions become prayers that join us to God’s work in the world. This embodied prayer is a powerful way to live out our faith and bring God’s kingdom closer. [59:40]

- In times of discernment or uncertainty, the most faithful prayer is “Thy will be done.” Rather than seeking our own way, we open ourselves to God’s leading, trusting that God’s wisdom is greater than ours. This posture of surrender allows us to find peace, courage, and a deeper sense of purpose, whatever the outcome. [01:08:00]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[16:51] - Opening Prayer and Introduction
[22:42] - Reflections on Moderator Nomination
[28:00] - The Power and Mystery of Prayer
[32:10] - When Prayers Go Unanswered
[36:30] - The Lord’s Prayer: Intimacy and Reverence
[41:00] - Jesus’ Model of Prayer
[46:00] - Why Pray in a Troubled World?
[54:30] - Prayer as Transformation
[57:00] - Prayer Beyond Words: Silence, Song, and Wonder
[59:40] - Prayer in Action: Justice and Compassion
[01:03:00] - How Should We Pray?
[01:08:00] - Surrendering to God’s Will
[01:13:47] - Blessing and Sending Forth
[01:15:00] - Closing Song: Go Now in Peace

Study Guide

Small Group Bible Study Guide: The Mystery and Power of Prayer

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### Bible Reading

Luke 11:1-4 (ESV)
> Now Jesus was praying in a certain place, and when he finished, one of his disciples said to him, “Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples.” And he said to them, “When you pray, say:
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> ‘Father, hallowed be your name.
> Your kingdom come.
> Give us each day our daily bread,
> and forgive us our sins,
> for we ourselves forgive everyone who is indebted to us.
> And lead us not into temptation.’”

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### Observation Questions

1. In Luke 11:1, what prompts Jesus to teach his disciples about prayer?
2. What two qualities are present in the way Jesus teaches us to address God in the Lord’s Prayer? (see “Abba” and “hallowed be your name”) [41:00]
3. According to the sermon, what are some different forms that prayer can take besides spoken words? [57:00]
4. What example from history did the sermon give to show that prayer can be expressed through action? [59:40]

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### Interpretation Questions

1. Why do you think Jesus chose to begin the Lord’s Prayer with both intimacy (“Abba”) and reverence (“hallowed be your name”)? How might this shape our own approach to prayer? [41:00]
2. The sermon says that prayer is not a formula for getting what we want, but a relationship that draws us into God’s presence. How does this understanding affect the way we pray, especially when our prayers seem unanswered? [32:10]
3. The preacher described prayer as “catching a current” that can shift our perspective and align us with God’s purposes. What does this metaphor suggest about the effect of prayer on our hearts and lives? [54:30]
4. How does the story of Rabbi Heschel marching for civil rights expand our understanding of what it means to pray? [59:40]

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### Application Questions

1. The Lord’s Prayer begins with “Abba” but also “hallowed be your name.” When you pray, do you tend to focus more on God’s closeness or God’s holiness? How might you hold both together in your prayers this week? [41:00]
2. Think of a time when you prayed fervently for something and did not receive the answer you hoped for. How did that experience affect your relationship with God? What would it look like to trust and surrender in prayer, even when you don’t understand the outcome? [32:10]
3. The sermon mentioned that sometimes prayer is simply being present—sitting in silence, watching a hummingbird, or feeling the current of something greater. What is one way you can practice this kind of prayer in your daily life? [57:00]
4. When you see suffering or injustice in the world, do you ever feel like your prayers are “just a drop in the ocean”? How might you respond differently if you saw prayer as connecting with God’s heart, even when words fail? [36:30]
5. The preacher shared the story of Rabbi Heschel, who said, “I felt my legs were praying” as he marched for justice. Is there a cause or need in your community where you could let your actions become a form of prayer? What might that look like for you? [59:40]
6. In times of uncertainty or big decisions, the sermon suggests that the most faithful prayer is “Thy will be done.” Is there an area of your life right now where you need to pray this prayer of surrender? What would it mean for you to open yourself to God’s leading? [01:08:00]
7. The sermon says that prayer changes us, even if it doesn’t change our circumstances. Can you think of a time when prayer shifted your perspective or gave you strength to face a challenge? How might you look for that kind of transformation in your prayer life this week? [54:30]

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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Invite someone to close by praying the Lord’s Prayer together, or by offering a simple prayer of surrender: “God, your will be done in our lives, in our church, and in our world. Amen.”

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