In moments of significant decision or when facing challenging conversations, there is profound wisdom in pausing to seek divine guidance. Nehemiah, when asked by the king what he requested, first prayed to the God of heaven before articulating his bold vision. This practice reminds us that our words carry immense power, and inviting God into our preparation can align our intentions and expressions with His will. Such a pause allows the Holy Spirit to provide the words needed, transforming our anxieties into hopeful expectation. [11:20]
Nehemiah 2:4-5 (ESV)
Then the king said to me, “What do you request?” So I prayed to the God of heaven. And I said to the king, “If it pleases the king, and if your servant has found favor in your sight, that you send me to Judah, to the city of my fathers’ graves, that I may rebuild it.”
Reflection: When faced with an important decision or a difficult conversation this week, what might it look like to intentionally pause and seek divine guidance before responding or acting?
Our words and actions hold extraordinary power, shaping not only our individual lives but also our communal journey. The stories we tell, the way we speak, and our reactions to the world around us are vital in reflecting God's presence. Nehemiah understood this when he considered the witness his request for a military escort would convey about God's care for His people. Every interaction offers an opportunity to shine a light, demonstrating God's love and character to those around us. Let us be mindful of the impact our expressions have, choosing to speak and act in ways that honor the divine. [50:23]
Matthew 5:16 (ESV)
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.
Reflection: Reflect on a recent interaction where your words or actions had a significant impact. How might that moment have been a witness to God's presence or character, either positively or negatively?
God's guidance often comes not as a forceful command or a tackle, but as a gentle nudge, a lure, or a quiet pull on our hearts. This subtle invitation respects our freedom, allowing us to choose whether to lean into the divine story unfolding around us. Like Nehemiah, who felt a deep call to rebuild, we are invited to discern these gentle promptings. Embracing this freedom means recognizing that God desires our willing participation, not coerced obedience, in the unfolding of His purposes. It is in responding to these nudges that we discover the path we must take. [47:28]
Psalm 32:8 (ESV)
I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you.
Reflection: When have you sensed a gentle nudge or invitation from God in your life, rather than a forceful command? What was the outcome when you chose to lean into that subtle guidance?
In a world that often feels overwhelmed by darkness, there is a profound truth: "We are the stars. We are the light." This echoes the ancient promise that the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never overcome it. Even a small spark of kindness, courage, or compassion can inspire significant change, creating ripple effects in our communities. Like the light from distant stars reaching our eyes, our individual acts of goodness can illuminate paths for others. We are called to embrace this identity, recognizing our capacity to be a beacon of hope and love. [56:04]
John 1:4-5 (ESV)
In him was life, and the life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
Reflection: In what specific area of your daily life or community do you feel called to be a "star" or a "light," even if it feels like a small contribution? What is one practical way you could shine that light this week?
At the heart of our faith is the foundational truth that God created humanity and called us "very good." This affirmation challenges any narrative that diminishes our inherent worth or suggests we are merely "wretches." To truly believe this means recognizing that we are not insignificant pawns, but beings launched into this world with purpose and reason. Embracing this divine design empowers us to live with confidence, knowing that we are here for a reason, in this time, in this moment. This belief nourishes our spirit and inspires us to extend extraordinary goodness into the world. [59:48]
Genesis 1:27-31 (ESV)
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” And God said, “Behold, I have given you every plant yielding seed that is on the face of all the earth, and every tree with seed in its fruit. You shall have them for food. And to every beast of the earth and to every bird of the heavens and to everything that creeps on the earth, everything that has the breath of life, I have given every green plant for food.” And it was so. And God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good. And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day.
Reflection: How does truly believing that God created you "very good" shift your perspective on your own worth, your challenges, or your potential contributions to the world? What might you do differently if you fully embraced this truth?
The congregation is invited into a steady, sober practice: pray before speaking. Built around Nehemiah’s careful asking and refusal of a military escort, the address highlights the spiritual discipline of a measured pause—prayer as a way to discern witness, not merely a technique for personal safety. Nehemiah’s example becomes a model for faithful planning: meticulous preparation shaped by prayer, courage tempered by trust, and a willingness to take a step of faith rather than leap blindly or hide behind force.
The sermon weaves personal stories and cultural reflection to show how small nudges from God and simple acts of listening can redirect long-standing patterns. A youthful haunted-house conflict, a bus driver’s quiet mentorship of a young man, and the image of “stardust and stories” all illustrate how ordinary people, guided by prayer and attentive speech, become lights in dark places. Language and narrative are not neutral: the stories communities tell—about themselves, about power, about deserving—either harden into destructive habits or become pathways to renewal.
The theological center insists that power without accountability contradicts the way of Jesus, who chose self-giving love over force. That conviction reframes civic and personal choices: refusing the default of coercion, leaning into practices that expose motives to examination, and embodying a witness that trusts God to care for God’s people. The call is not to naiveté but to an active faith that plans, listens, and chooses gentleness over domination.
Finally, the congregation is reminded that light is not an abstraction but a vocation. Each life can be a small, luminous story that nudges the larger world. Simple, faithful acts—praying before speaking, listening for nudges, telling life-giving stories, and holding power accountable—become the means by which the light shines and the darkness does not overcome it. The gathered people are left with an invitation: to be a steady presence of love in a world quick to normalize violence, and to sing, in word and deed, that love is the answer.
It's it's a dangerous business speaking on behalf of God, and especially in into the midst of, I don't know, sort of a frightful kind of context where you just don't know. I mean, I had thought in 2025, you know, every news day you open the paper, and it's like, oh. Now I usually really do try to prepare myself.
[00:40:32]
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#PrepareToSpeak
we tried to shine this light of something the church could do differently than frighten the living daylights out of children and some of their parents for money, no matter how much money it made. Because we're in a different kind of business. We're our our job is a different sort of thing even when it doesn't make money or doesn't seem to work, and that can be the hardest pause of all, recognizing the need for that.
[00:46:16]
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#ChurchOfKindness
We're we're gathered around Nehemiah. It's one of my favorite stories. You may not know a whole lot about Nehemiah. He's a character that enters on the scene in the wake of what we call the Jewish exile. So Judah, the the Southern kingdom of Israel, has been, annexed into has been sort of swallowed by the Maw of Babylon, which itself has been taken over by another country, and they're just slaves. You see Nehemiah here. He's the cup bearer. He's supposed to smile in his slavery. Did you notice that? I've never seen you sad because his job was to be happy.
[00:46:46]
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#JoyfulService
And and then but something was heavy on his heart. He began more and more to be feeling this call, this pull. I'm gonna call it a lure. Right? Or a nudge, a gentle nudge. Have you felt such a thing in your life? I see some heads nodding. Not a tackle, not a shove. Sometimes people talk about the holy spirit with a cattle prod. Not a not an electric charge.
[00:47:32]
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#GentleNudge
Have you ever noticed what happens to you when you get in this sort of death spiral down the drain of how bad things are? And have you ever wanted to say, I I need to take a time out. I this isn't good for me. Maybe we should be asking, what would happen if I listened to that story or to that statement and and took it in? Right?
[00:50:48]
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#PauseAndListen
I think that's how God works. You know, we talk about God's plans and and God's design, and I I think there's somewhere in scripture that says, all my days were recorded in your book or something like that. And, who would want to live a life like that practically? Right? Where your your life was just, you know, not guided so much as prescribed by anyone, even God. It would feel like a kind of slavery that is inimical to everything we we worship and celebrate about our God,
[00:51:49]
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#LifeNotPrescribed
That was another quote in this story that really caught my attention. They were talking about the kinds of because even a nudge, you see, given at the right sort of time and in the right sort of place. Right? They say, what? Give me a give me the right fulcrum and I can move the world. Right? So even a nudge can be a powerful thing. And at one point in the story, they're talking about the kind of nudges in moments of great change.
[00:53:43]
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#PowerOfANudge
It's not a test. This is who we are. This is what we're capable of. It doesn't take much. It just takes, I think, a a kind of belief that that this story that we tell about a God who has created a world and called it good and created human beings and called them do you remember? Very good.
[00:58:33]
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#CreatedGood
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