The Power of Touch in Faith and Community

Nov 16, 2025

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“Touch is a powerful thing. And for nearly all of us, something that we need. There are very few things in life more meaningful than our arms linked in solidarity or our secret handshakes achieved after only months of practice and development or our hands being held in times of crisis or for no particular reason at all other than to know that someone is with us, part of our life and our experience, within our grasp.”
“Touch is powerful because touch is in, in a lot of ways, it's our language of care, of safety, warmth, closeness, reassurance.”
“It also occurs to me that it's a little bit tricky to try to reflect theologically on our sense of touch, mostly because it is so immediate and so experiential, so visceral of a sensation.”
“With touch, it's like the meaning of it is a lot more immediate and self-evident. So typically, the extent of what we need to know about our sensation of touch, what we want to know is either that felt good, that felt comforting, that felt connecting, or we want to know that felt painful, that felt violating, that felt unwelcome.”
“It occurred to me, though, that in the Christian church, there are a number of significant practices that are mostly about touch.”
“At baptism, with infants, we make the sign of the cross with water on the forehead. And then all throughout life, on Ash Wednesday, we make the sign of the cross again on the forehead with the ashes imposed and with the anointing of the sick and dying or the recently deceased with rituals of anointing again with those fragrant oils, we make the sign of the cross on the forehead.”
“If you've ever been to an ordination service, you'll know that one of the most powerful moments in that service is the moment when everyone gathers as closely as they can to either lay a hand on the shoulder of the ordinand or to lay a hand on the shoulder of someone else who has laid their hand on the shoulder of the ordinand.”
“What I can tell you about that as someone who's been ordained at the very center of that circle and as someone who's been sort of in that immediate first ring and as someone who's been a little further out is that there is something really special that happens there. Something that's hard to explain. But it feels like there's this energy that flows in and then radiates back out.”
“Simon, he wants to know, he sees this laying on of hands and the experience that happens with it and he wants to know, how can I commodify this? How can I lift this from its grounding in the teaching and the traditions and the practices of the apostles? How can I take just this experience that seems to come through touch and have just that?”
“Oftentimes the reason for that, sort of what kicks off that process is that they become aware of the ways that the faith has been commodified and they start to see it as inauthentic or maybe even as manipulative.”
“A lot of times what happens when we begin to see that certain spiritual experiences have been commodified or maybe even used to manipulate what happens is that we become very distrustful of experience, distrustful of our body's deeper emotional responses, distrustful of something as immediate and visceral as touch and what maybe it can teach us about God.”
“In response to that faith becomes instead about ideas and actions, things to do, things to believe, but not so much things to feel or experience.”
“What I want to suggest to you is this: what I want to suggest is that our embodiment is not the problem, our sense of touch and the very deep emotional response can bring about is not the problem, our feeling both in the physical sense and the emotional sense, our feeling is not the problem. The problem is the commodification. The problem is the manipulation.”
“The laying on of hands, it's not only about touch, it's not just about a bunch of people all being in physical contact with one another, because if that were the case a very crowded bus would feel just as special and holy as an ordination service, but a very crowded bus does not feel very holy does it?”
“The laying on of hands is only powerful because of the connections between the participants. Here's a group of people connected across place and time with the younger ones being ordained by their elders who are ordained by their elders all the way back to Philip and Simon, hands laid on shoulders laid on shoulders laid on shoulders.”
“The laying on of hands is powerful because we are connected by our commitment and our belief and our practices, because we have shared our lives with one another and we have journeyed together practicing our faith side by side.”
“This is maybe most important this Sunday when we are talking about our touch and our most visceral experiences of embodiment: it is important for us to hear that our faith, it is not some abstract thing. The communion of the saints is not some abstract thing. The kingdom of God, the presence of God is not some abstract thing.”
“It is all right here. It is all right here, close as the ground we can feel under our feet, close as the sensation of our clothing on our bodies, close as the hands of our neighbors, close enough to reach out and touch.”
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