We are constantly surrounded by messages and ideas that claim to be true, yet many are cleverly disguised deceptions. It is vital to test what we hear and believe, especially concerning spiritual matters. The truth about God’s love is not a vague feeling but is firmly anchored in the reality of who Jesus is. This truth provides a confident foundation for our faith, protecting us from error and confusion. [34:20]
Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God. (1 John 4:1-2 NIV)
Reflection: What is one popular idea or message you’ve recently encountered that, upon closer examination, did not align with the truth of who Jesus is as fully God and fully man?
The source of all genuine love is God Himself; it does not originate within us. We love only because He first loved us, and this love is a gift we did not earn or deserve. This foundational truth reshapes our understanding of relationships and our capacity to love others. Recognizing that love begins with God frees us from the pressure to manufacture it on our own. [45:14]
This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. (1 John 4:10 NIV)
Reflection: Where in your life is it difficult to accept that God’s love for you is unconditional and not based on your own performance or lovability?
God’s love is not a theoretical concept but a historical reality demonstrated through the sending of His Son. The incarnation and the cross are the ultimate proof of a love that pursues us even in our brokenness. We must guard against becoming so familiar with this truth that we lose our awe and wonder at the sacrifice made for us. [50:12]
This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. (1 John 4:9 NIV)
Reflection: When you see a cross, what specific aspect of God’s love for you does it bring to mind, and how can you keep that truth fresh in your heart this week?
Having received God’s profound and complete love, we are now responsible to let it flow through us to the people around us. This love is not a condition for God’s acceptance but the natural overflow of it. Our love for one another makes the invisible God visible to a world that desperately needs to encounter Him. [58:44]
Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us. (1 John 4:11-12 NIV)
Reflection: Who is one person in your life that God might be inviting you to love practically this week, as a response to the complete love you have received from Him?
A consistent, abiding relationship with Christ deepens our understanding of His love over time. This love becomes less about words and more about the steady, sacrificial way we live our daily lives. As we remain in Him, His love is brought to completion in us, flowing from God, through us, and out to the world. [01:02:30]
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment: In this world we are like Jesus. (1 John 4:16b-17 NIV)
Reflection: What is one habitual practice you could adopt to better abide in Christ, creating more space for His love to be perfected and expressed through you?
The epistle of 1 John 4:1–12 insists that truth and love belong together: the reality of Jesus and the quality of Christian love certify one another. False teachers who deny the incarnation distort both doctrine and devotion; the sure test for any spirit lies in a plain confession that Jesus Christ came in the flesh and in a heart allegiance that aligns with that confession. The indwelling Spirit secures believers against error, enabling discernment and confidence in the gospel’s central claim that Jesus is fully God and fully man.
Love originates with God and not with human merit. Agape love flows from the Father, precedes any human response, and defines God’s character—God is love. That divine love becomes tangible in history: God sent the only Son so that life and reconciliation would come through Christ’s sacrificial atonement. The cross displays love that seeks the unlovable; God loved while humanity remained estranged, and at the cross divine justice and mercy met in a decisive act for sinners.
Intimate knowledge of God produces practical love for others. Genuine knowing means more than intellectual assent; it means experiencing God’s love so that the same love overflows into patient forgiveness, sacrificial service, and sustained community. Abiding in Christ—ongoing, dependent fellowship with the risen Lord by the Spirit—brings that love to completion in daily relationships. As love is practiced among brothers and sisters, the invisible God becomes visible: the world sees God’s truth when his love takes flesh in believers’ lives.
The moral logic runs from source to witness: because God loved first and completely, those transformed by that love must love one another. That obligation does not earn salvation but manifests it. Concrete acts—forgiveness, hospitality, service, courage to invite others, and public declarations of faith—make God’s love perceptible and authenticate the church’s testimony to a watching world. The call issues both inward and outward: deepen reliance on the Spirit, let the cross recalibrate affections, and make God’s love visible in the neighborhoods and relationships where people live.
God's love is brought to completion in us. The love that begins with God flows to us and then through us to others. Why? And this is how God loves us completely, which means that in the world today, we don't have to go to a location. We don't have to go to a temple to encounter God's love. We encounter it through one another. His love is perfected, brought to completion in us. When we forgive one another, when we serve one another, when we bear with one another in patience and kindness, the world sees the truth of God's love.
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#LovePerfectedInUs
And that phrase, that is at the heart of the gospel message, that God loved us so much that when we were his enemies that Christ died for us. Notice what it doesn't say. It doesn't say when we were holy on our own, Christ died for us. It doesn't say when we had everything figured out because we were good enough that Christ died for us. It doesn't say when we perfected our theology and had perfect attendance at church that Christ died for us. No. As a matter of fact, it says the opposite.
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#LovedAsEnemies
See, at the cross, the sin of humanity and the perfect love of God collided. And the good news for us today, church, perfect love won. And my prayer is that we would not become so familiar with this truth that we would forget about it. That when we look at the cross, and again, it's nothing magic in the actual object itself, but when we see it, we would remember what it represents.
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#PerfectLoveWon
So we take a step back, you look at everything that John has shown us in this passage, you notice a really beautiful progression. You see that love begins with God, but it doesn't stop there. It flows into our lives, and then it flows out to the world around us. And when that happens, people start to see something they otherwise could never see, the truth of God's love for them, which again brings us back to our big idea that we know God's truth when we show God's love.
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#KnowTruthByLove
So here's a question that we have to ponder today. Where's your heart's allegiance? Where is the allegiance of your heart? When we say that Jesus is Lord, is that just a phrase that we've picked up over time at church, or is it the reality of our heart's condition? And what I love here is that John doesn't just warn the church about these false teachers, he also reassures the church. Notice what he says in verse four. He says, he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.
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#HeartAllegiance
Can I be honest with you? Sometimes I think that we lose sight of what an absolutely mind blowing amazing truth that it is. That God loves us so much that his love was made manifest as John talks about in the person of Jesus. That he came to this world and he died on a cross for our sins to pay the debt of sin that we could never repay. And I think that sometimes we become so familiar with the cross that we stop being amazed by it.
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#AmazedByTheCross
See, John isn't just casually talking about saying some phrase that Jesus is Lord. Just speaking these words without any kind of heart motive that's going on behind us. As a matter of fact, we know from the gospels that even the demons would say that Jesus was the son of the most high. You see it in Matthew eight. You see it in Mark one and five. You see it in Luke four and eight. They said, who you are the son of the most high. They were scared. They were trembling. So John's not just talking about some sort of verbal acknowledgment. He's asking about the condition of our hearts.
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#HeartNotWords
But here's what I love. God's word tells us what John writes here is that God never stops loving us no matter how frustrating, annoying, or hurtful that we can get. And that leads us to our fourth truth for today, that God loves us completely. God loves us completely. Notice what John says in verse 11. He says, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. Do you notice the repetition of this theme?
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#GodLovesCompletely
And know what you're thinking. You're thinking, Chad, how does this relate to God loving us first? Hang with me. Notice what John says in verse seven. He says that love is from God. This agape love is from God. It didn't start with us. We didn't initiate it. We didn't deserve it. There was nothing we could do to earn it, and yet God loved us first.
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#LovedFirstByGod
But we all have those people in our lives that it feels like it's impossible for us to love them. And you know what? In and of yourself, you may be right. It may be impossible for you to love them, but what does John say? God is love. God loved us first. God lives in us if we are followers of Jesus. So where we fall short, God is made perfect.
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#GodCompletesOurLove
God's truth will always prevail. And the world resists that truth. That's what John says here, but he says, but those who belong to God welcome it. What truth? That Jesus, fully God and fully man is God's gift of perfect love to us. And so once John establishes that God's love is rooted in truth, he moves on to an even deeper question. He says, well, if if love and truth belong together, where does that love that leads to truth actually come from? Let's read on.
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#TruthAndLoveTogether
And when we understand that truth, when we start to grasp this idea that the God of the universe chose to love us before we ever loved him, it begins to reshape the way we treat people around it. And this is part of what John's point is. This idea that God loved us first, when we understand that or begin to understand that, it reshapes how we live our lives. And I know what you're thinking.
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#LovedFirstReshapesUs
Now I want everyone to pause and think for just a moment. I know that's a big ask for some of you, but let's just pause and think for a moment. I want you to think about a time in your life where you had someone really special reach out to you and make a big difference in your life. Someone who showed up and loved you in a really special way. Maybe they stood up for you. Maybe they had your back.
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#RememberKindness
Now think about that person again. And I would ask you this question. You don't have to raise your hand. How many of you did anything to deserve that person stepping into your life and loving you in that way? Most of the time, we don't. Those kinds of folks, they step into our lives and they have our backs. They encourage us. They stand in the gap for us because they love us regardless of what we had done for them.
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#UnmeritedLove
And I know what you're thinking. Duh. Right? But hang on. Because John is showing us something that is incredibly important here. He's showing us that God's love, it's not abstract. God's love is not theoretical. History. God's love was tangible in the person of Jesus. Notice what verse nine says. John writes, in this, the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only son into the world.
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#LoveMadeTangible
So we come in this room and we see the cross, but do we see it? Do we remember God's great love for us? And not just when we feel like we were lovable, but at a time where scripture says we were enemies from God. I love how Paul puts this in Romans five six through eight. He says, for while we were still weak at the right time, Christ died for the ungodly.
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#ChristDiedForTheUngodly
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