Let the Peace of Christ Rule Your Heart

Devotional

Day 1: Let the Child-King Have the Run of Life

Christmas invites more than a moment of pretending things are fine; it invites a Person to take loving charge. Jesus came as a child to have the run of your life, not for a weekend, but forever. His peace does not ignore your circumstances; it fills them with His presence. Where anxiety tries to rule, His gentle authority brings calm and direction. Open every room of your heart to Him, and let His peace be the atmosphere you breathe. This is the gift that keeps leading you into life. [40:15]

Colossians 3:15–16 — Let the peace that comes from Christ make the call inside your heart, since you were summoned into one body; live gratefully. Let His message move in and take up a rich residence within you, teaching and encouraging one another with wisdom, and pouring out songs from thankful hearts to God.

Reflection: What is one “room” of your life you still keep closed to Jesus, and what specific step this week would open that door to His peace?

Day 2: Peace Right in the Middle of the Mess

The first Christmas was noisy, crowded, and exhausting: government orders, a difficult journey, a full house, and a birth among animals. God did not wait for tidy conditions; He entered the chaos and made it holy. The quiet in Mary’s arms after the birth wasn’t denial—it was God’s peace arriving in a real place and time. In your crowded calendar and unplanned detours, He is Emmanuel, with you. Invite Him into the stable parts of life, and watch His presence turn noise into worship. His peace is not fragile; it’s faithful. [43:42]

Luke 2:1–7,13–14 — When the ruler demanded a registration, Joseph took Mary from Nazareth to Bethlehem. The road was long, Mary was near delivery, and there was no guest space, so the baby was placed in a feed trough. That night heaven burst into song, announcing that God’s honor fills the heights and that His peace rests on those He favors.

Reflection: Where is your life currently “stable-like”—crowded, drafty, or messy—and how will you welcome Jesus into that exact place this week?

Day 3: Choose Real Hope Over Mere Optimism

Optimism is pleasant when life cooperates, but it cannot carry the weight of deep sorrow, diagnosis, or grief. Real hope is anchored in a real Deliverer who came at a real time and promises a real future. Advent teaches the heart to sing through tears because it sees beyond the present night. Jesus does not erase pain by pretending; He reframes it with His presence and His coming restoration. Bring your hardest reality to Him and let eternity steady your today. Hope in Christ is sturdy enough for the valley you’re walking. [50:45]

Isaiah 9:2,6–7 — A people stumbling in darkness see a brilliant light. A child is given and authority rests on Him; He will lead with unfailing wisdom and strength, with fatherly care that brings deep wholeness. His rule will keep expanding and His peace will not run out, upheld by God’s passionate commitment forever.

Reflection: Name one situation you cannot “fix.” How would trusting Jesus as your Deliverer—not your own strength—change one concrete choice you make today?

Day 4: Let Christ’s Peace Umpire Every Decision

Scripture says His peace should “rule”—like an umpire—calling what is safe or out in your heart. Before reacting, pause and ask: What does the peace of Christ call here? Look at everything through the lens of His birth for you, His life with you, His cross instead of you, His resurrection ahead of you, and His return to you. Gratitude will grow as His word settles in you and steadies your responses. You are not alone on the field; you belong to one body under one Peace. Let Him make the call, and walk it out with courage. [47:36]

Colossians 3:1–4 — Since you’ve been raised with Christ, aim your life where He reigns. Set your mind on what is above, not just on what is in front of your face. Your real life is now tucked away with Christ in God, and when Christ—your very life—appears, you will share in His glory.

Reflection: What decision or conflict is pressing right now, and what would it practically look like to let Christ’s peace make the call before you act?

Day 5: Favored Ones: Rise, Shine, and Celebrate

You are not outside God’s favor; you are hearing His peace addressed to you. Jesus lived, suffered, died, and rose so you would know that this is not the end of the story. He will return to make all things new—no cancer, no aging, no funerals, no pretending. Until then, celebrate with joy, and shine His light into the names God places on your heart. Let children run the house for a day, and let the Child-King run your life for eternity. His love, grace, and peace are for you—so rise and shine. [01:10:34]

Revelation 21:3–5 — Listen: God moves into the neighborhood of humanity and stays with His people as their God. He will wipe away tears Himself; the old order—death, grief, crying, pain—belongs to yesterday. The One on the throne declares, “I’m bringing a new world into being,” and His words are faithful and true.

Reflection: Whose name has God placed on your heart to receive His light through you, and what specific act of love will you offer them this week?

Sermon Summary

I invited us to set down the seasonal pretending—the brave faces, the carefully staged peace—and to see Christmas as it truly is: God entering a world that was anything but tidy. The first Christmas unfolded under imperial pressure, long miles on sore feet, a “no room” sign from family, and birth among animals. That’s where peace arrived—small, crying, and utterly real. The good news is that Jesus didn’t come to decorate our distractions; he came to have the run of our lives, to bring a peace that doesn’t evaporate when the bills come due or when grief sits in the living room chair.

Scripture calls us to let the peace of Christ rule—umpire—our hearts. That means more than a momentary seasonal feeling; it means allowing Jesus to call the balls and strikes in our decisions, reactions, and hopes. It means looking at everything—our debts, diagnoses, and disappointments—through the lens of his birth, life, cross, empty tomb, and promised return. I shared my own recent losses and how, without that anchoring peace, I don’t know how I would’ve walked through the last few years.

We also named the difference between optimism and Christian hope. Optimism is valuable, but it can’t carry the weight of a prognosis, a funeral, or a fractured family. Hope does, because it hangs on a Person—Emmanuel—who stepped into our mess, took it to the cross, and rose to tell us this isn’t the end of the story. If you can hear this, God’s favor is for you. So yes—let the kids have the run of the house tonight. Laugh, eat, stay up too late. But underneath the wrapping paper and the noise, let the Child have the run of your life—not for two days, but forever. His peace is real, present, and yours.

Key Takeaways

1. Peace is born into chaos True peace didn’t arrive in silence and safety; it took its first breath in a stable under Roman rule and family tension. That means your crowded calendar, anxious budget, and aching heart are not barriers to Christ—they’re the places he loves to enter. Don’t wait for life to settle before you welcome him; invite him right into the clutter. He has always made his home there. [42:57]
2. Let Christ’s peace rule your heart When Scripture says, “let the peace of Christ rule,” it’s an invitation to surrender the controls, not a demand to feel calm. Letting him rule is a daily yielding of your reactions, assumptions, and plans to his Word. It turns your life from self-management into Spirit-led trust. Peace grows where Jesus is allowed to be Lord. [44:44]
3. Peace as a faithful umpire Peace doesn’t deny pain; it adjudicates it. As an umpire, Christ’s peace calls what’s true, silences false guilt, and refuses fear the final say. It keeps your heart from being ruled by the loudest emotion of the day. With Jesus officiating, you can face hard things without being owned by them. [46:53]
4. Hope is sturdier than optimism Optimism is a welcome friend, but it withers under the heat of real suffering. Christian hope endures because it’s anchored in a risen Savior and a promised future that reframes the present. It doesn’t erase tears; it gives them context and direction. We grieve, but not as those without a horizon. [50:13]
5. God’s favor rests on you “Peace to those with whom He is pleased” isn’t a riddle; it’s a gift. If you are hearing the good news, you’re being named as one on whom his favor rests. Receive it by faith: Jesus came for you, died for you, and will raise you. Peace is not earned; it’s given—and it’s yours. [53:33]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[07:12] - Opening prayer for focus
[37:10] - Naming our holiday pretending
[40:15] - Let the Child have the run
[40:53] - The census and unrest
[41:54] - Journey to Bethlehem
[42:57] - No room; birth in a stable
[44:44] - Let Christ’s peace rule
[46:53] - Peace as the heart’s umpire
[47:36] - Grief and the gift of peace
[49:05] - A hard letter, real hope
[52:19] - This is not the end
[53:33] - His favor rests on you
[60:40] - Candlelight: share the Light
[70:20] - Benediction of peace

Bible Study Guide

Bible reading

- Luke 2:1-14

In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria. And everyone went to their own town to register.

So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child.

While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,

“Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

- Colossians 3:15-16

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly, as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts.

- John 16:33

"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."

Observation questions

In Luke 2:1-14, what concrete pressures surround Jesus’ birth? Name them from the text (for example: the census, the long journey, “no room,” birth among animals). How do these details contrast with the way Christmas is often pictured?
What specific “pretend peaces” were named—ways we try to stage a perfect season even when it’s not—and what motives usually sit underneath them? [39:15]
In Colossians 3:15-16, list the commands that begin with “let.” What do these “let” commands ask a believer to allow or welcome?
What image was used to describe how Christ’s peace functions in a believer’s heart, and what does that role practically do? [46:53]

Interpretation questions

If peace arrived in a stable under empire and family tension (Luke 2:1-14), what does that suggest about where God chooses to show up in today’s crowded calendars and anxious budgets—are these obstacles or invitations for Him to enter? [42:57]
“Let the peace of Christ rule” implies surrendering the controls more than chasing a feeling. How does the “umpire” picture help someone discern truth from lies, or fear from faith, in real-time reactions? [46:53]
What is the core difference between optimism and Christian hope, and why does hope carry more weight in moments like a terminal diagnosis or deep grief? [50:13]
Luke 2:14 says peace comes to those with whom God is pleased. How does simply hearing the good news confirm that God’s favor rests on a person, and what does that imply about grace? [53:18]

Application questions

Where have you been “putting on a brave face” this season—masking pain, debt, conflict, or grief? Name one space where you’ll stop pretending and invite Jesus in tonight. What would that prayer sound like in your own words? [37:10]
Identify one current decision or conflict. If Christ’s peace is the “umpire,” what call would He likely make on it (safe/out; true/false; proceed/wait)? What one step will you take this week to submit to that call? [46:53]
Think of one loud emotion (fear, shame, anger, despair) that keeps trying to rule your heart. What would it look like for Jesus’ peace to overrule it tomorrow morning—what will you do at the moment it flares? [46:53]
Choose one hard reality you’re facing (a debt, diagnosis, or disappointment). Practice looking at it through the four lenses named: His birth, life, cross and empty tomb, and promised return. Which lens most strengthens you right now, and why? [47:36]
Where have you been leaning on optimism—“it’ll probably work out”—instead of anchoring hope in a Person? What simple habit will you add this week (a verse to memorize, a daily prayer, a song of hope) to re-anchor your heart? [50:13]
“Let the Child have the run of the house.” Name one room of your life—time, money, relationships, habits—where you’ll hand Him the keys. What specific boundary or practice will reflect that surrender? [54:45]
God’s favor rests on those who hear the good news. What makes it hard for you to receive that? Complete this sentence and share it with the group: “By faith, I receive Your peace in this part of my life: ______.” [53:18]

Sermon Clips

There's a part of me that feels like in this season, part of what we're doing is we kind of put on the brave face. We kind of say to each other, just forget about all the mess. Let's just pretend for a couple days that everything's good. Let's have peace. And in that process, one of the things that we tend to do, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, I don't know what yours is like. Mine is much more Christmas Eve and Christmas Day is like recover. But we give the kids the run of the house, don't we? We kind of do. We kind of say, kids, you're in charge. [00:37:15] (37 seconds) #HonestChristmasMoments

We give the children the run of the house and that's awesome, but my goodness, it changes. And one of the things I think about Christmas that we want to tell each other is enjoy every moment because it changes so fast. And the next thing you know, it's grandkids you're giving the run of the house, right? It happens so quickly. [00:38:52] (23 seconds) #CherishEverySeason

We have Jesus going to be born in Bethlehem, but they've got to come from Nazareth. That means Joseph and his fiancée have got to likely walk. She probably wasn't on a donkey. It's 70 miles as a crow flies. The path they would have taken could have been about 95 miles. It's a very pregnant woman. Ladies, is that a peaceful journey, you think? Gentlemen, do you think that's a peaceful journey? [00:41:54] (28 seconds) #NotAPeacefulJourney

This isn't just pretend for a little while that everything's okay. It's let God have full run of everything that you are and everything that you are being. And that is the message of Christmas over and over and over again. You want peace? You want real peace? Put your hope in the one who has done everything to save you. Let Jesus be your life and your guide and your everything as you go forward. And trust that God has got it in control. [00:45:16] (29 seconds) #LetJesusBeYourPeace

And it says, I want you to look at everything, everything that you face through the lens of my birth for you and my life for you and my death for you and my resurrection for you. And it says, I want you to look at everything, everything that you face through the lens of my birth for you and my life for you and my death for you and my resurrection for you. I want you to look at all of it through the lens of, I'm coming back soon to overcome all of it. [00:47:21] (22 seconds) #SeeLifeThroughChrist

I honestly don't know how it would have gotten through the last few years without that gift of our God's love. My sister in the middle there died a couple of years ago. Then my stepmom, who would have been taking that picture a year ago, October, died. And then a few weeks later, my dad died. It's been a lot. How do you get through that? Accept with the peace of Christ at work in your heart, letting you know that this life is not the end here. This is not all of it. [00:47:44] (37 seconds) #PeaceInLossThroughChrist

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Let the Peace of Christ Rule Your Heart

Devotional

Day 1: Let the Child-King Have the Run of Life

Day 2: Peace Right in the Middle of the Mess

Day 3: Choose Real Hope Over Mere Optimism

Day 4: Let Christ’s Peace Umpire Every Decision

Day 5: Favored Ones: Rise, Shine, and Celebrate

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