Rebellion often begins with a subtle shift in the heart, a desire for independence from God's authority. It is the belief that we know better and can manage the blessings of life without submitting to the One who gave them. This path leads to a gradual drift, taking us further than we ever intended to go and leaving us in a place of want and despair. Yet, even in that distant place, the Father is waiting, watching for our return. [01:11:00]
“And not many days later, the younger son gathered everything together and went on a journey into a distant country, and there he squandered his estate with loose living.” (Luke 15:13, NASB)
Reflection: Where in your life have you taken God’s blessings—gifts, freedom, or resources—and used them for your own purposes rather than His? What does coming to yourself and turning back toward Him look like in that specific area?
Genuine repentance is more than just feeling sorry for the consequences of our actions; it is a profound change of heart and direction. It involves a moment of clarity where we see our situation for what it truly is and choose to return to the Father. This turning point is marked by taking full responsibility without excuse and humbly accepting whatever place God has for us, trusting in His mercy rather than our own worthiness. [01:12:28]
“When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I am dying here with hunger! I will set out and go to my father, and will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in your sight; I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me as one of your hired servants.”’” (Luke 15:17-19, NASB)
Reflection: Is there a situation in your life where you have been expressing regret but avoiding true repentance? What would taking full responsibility and making a practical U-turn toward God look like this week?
It is possible to be externally obedient and actively serving while harboring a heart of resentment and entitlement. This religious spirit values performance over relationship and grows bitter when grace is shown to others. It blinds us to the abundance we already have in the Father and keeps us from truly knowing His heart, leaving us outside the celebration of His goodness. [01:24:52]
“But he became angry and was not willing to go in; and his father came out and began pleading with him. But he answered and said to his father, ‘Look! For so many years I have been serving you and I have never neglected a command of yours; and yet you have never given me a young goat, so that I might celebrate with my friends; but when this son of yours came, who has devoured your wealth with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him.’” (Luke 15:28-30, NASB)
Reflection: When have you recently felt a sense of irritation or unfairness when someone else received grace or blessing? What might that reveal about your own understanding of God’s grace toward you?
The heart of the Father is not one of cold indifference or harsh judgment, but of compassionate, pursuing love. He is actively looking for our return, ready to run to meet us no matter how far we have wandered. His love is not based on our performance; it is constant and unchanging, seeking to fully restore our identity, authority, and place in His family. [01:29:13]
“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion for him, and ran and embraced him and kissed him.” (Luke 15:20, NASB)
Reflection: In what area of your life do you find it most difficult to believe that God is running toward you with compassion, not condemnation? How would embracing this truth change your approach to Him today?
The story’s unresolved ending is an invitation. Whether we identify with the rebellion of the younger son or the resentment of the older son, the Father’s call is the same: to come in and join the celebration. Understanding grace is proven when we can truly rejoice at the restoration of others, recognizing that we are all recipients of a love we could never earn. [01:30:44]
“And he said to him, ‘Son, you have always been with me, and all that is mine is yours. But we had to celebrate and rejoice, for this brother of yours was dead and has begun to live, and was lost and has been found.’” (Luke 15:31-32, NASB)
Reflection: Who is one person in your circle—a family member, friend, or fellow believer—whose restoration or blessing you have struggled to celebrate? What is one step you can take this week to move from judgment or jealousy to genuine joy for them?
The parable of the two lost sons becomes a mirror that reveals three spiritual conditions: rebellion, resentment disguised as religion, and the relentless grace of the father. The younger son models rebellion by demanding his inheritance, leaving home, squandering resources, and ultimately hitting rock bottom—hungry, ashamed, and caring for pigs. The turning point arrives when the younger son “comes to himself,” rehearses confession, and decides to return not to reclaim status but to admit failure. Repentance shows up as clarity, responsibility, and a decisive U‑turn rather than flimsy regret.
The older son exposes how obedience without heart can harden into entitlement. External faithfulness and accumulated assets mask a lack of intimacy, gratitude, and joy. Resentment blinds to abundance; what appears as righteous indignation actually hides greed and comparison. Religion can keep proximity to God while destroying fellowship with the Father, making one deaf to celebrations of restoration.
The father’s response reframes everything: he watches, runs, embraces, and restores identity. Restoration includes a robe, a ring, sandals, and a feast—symbols that reverse shame, restore authority, reestablish belonging, and celebrate life. Grace runs toward both sons—toward the one who left physically and the one who stayed but drifted inwardly. The parable issues a personal challenge: examine where distance lurks—whether in blatant rebellion, quiet bitterness, or entitlement—and respond with repentance, forgiveness, and rejoicing.
Practical implications emerge in clear terms: sin tends to move people farther than expected through small shifts in boundaries and loss of accountability; repentance requires ownership and a willingness to be found; bitterness and unforgiveness destroy health and block healing; grace does not tally offenses but seeks restoration and invites celebration. The final scene deliberately leaves the older son’s choice open, prompting direct reflection: come in, come home, or keep standing outside. An invitation follows to seek prayer, confess bitterness, and be embraced into renewed relationship and wholeness.
And notice, the father goes out to the older son too. He wouldn't just waiting on the younger one. He ran out to the older son. He pursued both whether they're in rebellion, whether in religion, he runs toward both. And here's how you know you understand this parable. You celebrate someone else's restoration. See, religion keeps score, but grace throws parties. One son was lost in a far country, the other was lost in the front yard.
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#CelebrateRestoration
Everything the father have is already his but he didn't know it. Why? Because resentment blinds you to abundance. Resentment blinds you to abundance. He cannot be thankful for what he had. He cannot rejoice with his father. He cannot love his brother not because he lacked resources, because he lacked relationship, fellowship, and that's terrifying. Think about Jonah. When Jonah was sent to Nineveh, Jonah tried his best to run away from god's call. Right?
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#ResentmentBlocksAbundance
So even when we are yet sinners, Christ died for us. Your worst, he still loves you the same. Your best, he still loves you the same. You can't increase his love. You can't decrease it. The father doesn't wait. He runs to meet you. He restores the prodigal. He restores his identity by putting a robe on him. He restores his authority by putting a ring on his finger. He restores his sonship by putting new sandals on his feet. He restores celebration with a feast.
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#LoveRestoresAll
He rehearses confession. He plans to return as a servant but the father restores him as a son and that's what true repentance looks like. You think about in David, how bad David messed it up, right? David's on a rooftop and the Bible actually says, it's the time that kings should be at war. Was David doing what he's supposed to be doing? No. He was hanging back on the rooftop. Looking at places he shouldn't have been looking at. As you see, Bathsheba.
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#RepentanceRestores
So, some of us may see ourselves in this mirror of rebellion. Think about this. You've wandered. You've compromised. You've drifted. Father isn't waiting to lecture you. He's looking down the road for you to come back to him. Think about it in the Garden Of Eden. After Adam and Eve had sinned, they had they were walking with god. They knew the sound of him walking in the garden. They mess up big time. First thing they do is run and hide. Who comes looking for him?
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#FatherChases
He had two thirds of everything, but he was angry over one celebration. That's what happens when gratitude disappears. When gratitude leaves, entitlement grows. Instead of being grateful for what we have, we become entitled to what we don't have, and entitlement hardens the heart. Verse 31, it says, and he said to him, son, you are always with me and all that I have is yours. Everything the father had was already his. He coulda asked for a party any day of the week and he woulda got it but he never asked.
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#GratitudeNotEntitlement
So, the younger son is essentially saying, dad, I want your stuff. I don't want nothing to do with you. Give me what's mine because I'm ready to get on out. Rebellion always begins with independence. Think about the enemy, the devil. This dude is in the presence of almighty god and yet somewhere in his head, he comes up with this thing that I'm going to ascend my throne above god's, above the most high.
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#IndependenceBegetsRebellion
We hold bitterness in thinking we're actually affecting the other person, but all you're doing is killing yourself. You allow the enemy to come in and do whatever he wants to do in your life. Paul said in Ephesians four twenty seven, don't give place to the devil. If you got bitterness and unforgiveness in your life, you're given a place to the devil, and you're on his playground. He don't play by the rules. And out of god's goodness and mercy, as long as that's there, then you're carrying it until you surrender that to him.
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#DontGiveDevilPlace
Repentance is not an emotional regret, right? It actually brings change to your life. It's not a worldly sorrow. Well, I'm sorry that I got caught. I'm sorry that I messed up but it brings change to our lives. That's what repentance is. When we're living and going the way that we wanna go, Proverbs says, every every man does what's right in his own eyes but in the end, it leads to death.
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#RepentanceChangesLife
He squandered his estate in wild living. Notice the progression. Number one, he demands. He demand what was his, right? Number two, he departed. Number three, he devoured. And number four, he despairs. See, nobody plans to end up in the pigpen. You just gradually drift that way. I guarantee you, the prodigal son, when he asked for everything that was his and the father gave it to him, he was not thinking, man, I'm going this is all going end well right in feeding the pigs, right?
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#DemandDepartDevourDespair
So, that's exactly what rebellion does. Rebellion says, I know better. I won't control. I'll take the blessings. I'll take the gifts. I'll take the freedom without submitting to any authority. You know, talking to to Christians over the years doing ministry. A lot of them will say, man, I'm just like the apostle Paul. It's just me and the holy spirit. What they have failed to realize is even the apostle Paul was submitted to authority.
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#FreedomWithoutSubmission
But here's the problem, his assets. He had assets but he didn't have with the father. He had property, but he didn't have intimacy. He had inheritance, but he didn't have gratitude. The hidden greed, the older son was just as greedy as the prodigal son. The younger brother said, give me what's mine. The older brother said, you owe me more. The same root expressed differently. One rebelled outwardly, and one rebelled inwardly. The other left home emotionally. One left home physically.
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#AssetsWithoutIntimacy
And three times, he told me, you can't handle it. And I still said, I wanna know. He said, okay. I'm a give you a glimpse. It's gonna be less than a second because what's gonna happen is your heart's gonna blow out of your chest if I give it longer than that. I said, fine. 20 I'm just, like, 26, 27 years old. Right? Know everything. So it's like he he flipped the switch, and as soon as he flipped it, he flipped it off.
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#DivineGlimpse
And, literally, the compassion and love I felt in my heart. And I can go back and plug into that today. I'm not gonna do it because I'm up here, I'll become undone as Isaiah says. But it's love that I cannot tell you. The greatest love you have for your kids or your family does nothing to compare in his love for you. It's an overwhelming love and compassion, and that's his heart for each one of us. He only wants what's best for each one of us.
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#OverwhelmingLove
Know god. That means intimately know him. That don't mean know about him. The Bible says, even the demons believe and tremble. They're not getting to spend eternity with the father. Those who truly know him intimately are gonna be the ones that spend eternity with him. So, knowing the father's heart, you know, several years ago, I was asking god, I wanna feel what you feel toward lost people
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#KnowGodIntimately
Warm fuzzy thought for you. The day of judgement, there's gonna be people who stand before god and say, lord, I prophesied in your name. I cast out demons in your name and he's still gonna say to them, depart from me because I never knew you. Is that a scary thought? Absolutely. It's not about your works. It's about your relationship. Do you know him? The Bible says in John seventeen three, this is eternal life that you know god.
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#RelationshipOverWorks
Listen to the older son's words. This son of yours, right, didn't even call him his brother. I never disobeyed your command, he said. That's self righteousness speaking. He was externally obedient but internally accusing. This is the danger of religion. You can attend church. You can serve faithfully. You can obey outwardly and still be far from the father's heart. Yeah. See, I go in my garage quite a bit, but that don't make me a car.
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#AppearancesDontEqualHeart
So, over the past several weeks, we've looked at different parables as mirrors, right? Jesus didn't tell stories to entertain. He taught stories to show ourselves. Right? Where do you see yourself in the parables? Parables don't just reveal the truth but they show areas in our life that we may need to address. Right? Every week so far, we've held a mirror up for the last five weeks. This is week number six, and we've asked three things. Where am I in this story?
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#ParablesAreMirrors
And today, we've come to one of the most, in my opinion, one of the most famous parables of all talking about the prodigal son. But I want to suggest something to you during this. This is not just the parable of the prodigal son. It's the parable of two lost sons. And also one pursuing father So today, listen for someone. Don't listen for someone else. Listen for you personally.
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#TwoLostSonsOneFather
So let this be personal. Let us let's be honest because this is the mirror that doesn't flatter. It reveals. And so as we get into this, it's in the chapter of, 15 of Luke. We're just gonna read through verses 11 through 32 here. This New King James version, it says, then he said, a certain man had two sons and the younger of them said to his father, father, give me the portion of goods that falls to me. So he divided them them as livelihood,
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#MakeItPersonal
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