The celebration of Christ's resurrection is not confined to a single day. The same power that raised Jesus from the dead is at work this very week, regardless of our circumstances. The King is still on His throne, and He remains in complete control. His victory is a present reality that offers hope and strength for every day, not just a past event we remember. This truth empowers us to live with joy and confidence. [29:07]
“He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay.” (Matthew 28:6 NIV)
Reflection: In what specific area of your life this week do you most need to be reminded that Jesus is alive and in control, and how can you actively rely on His present power there?
A dangerous trend is relying on the faith and passion of others for our own spiritual sustenance. We can appear prepared with our lamps lit, yet be inwardly empty, depending on the worship team, the preacher, or our family to carry us. This borrowed oil—borrowed worship, borrowed prayer life, borrowed fire—is never enough to sustain us through life’s unexpected moments. True spiritual readiness is a personal responsibility. [42:29]
“Then the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps.” (Matthew 25:1-4 ESV)
Reflection: Where have you been coasting on someone else’s spiritual passion instead of cultivating your own personal connection with God?
The anointing oil of God’s presence and Spirit is not produced in times of ease. Just as olive oil only comes forth through the pressing of the fruit, spiritual oil in our lives is often forged in seasons of pressure, stress, and crushing. These difficult moments are not a sign of God’s absence but are the very process He uses to produce something lasting and powerful within us. [56:15]
“But he was pierced for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his wounds we are healed.” (Isaiah 53:5 ESV)
Reflection: If you are in a season of pressure right now, how might God be using this time to produce a deeper, more authentic faith in you that is truly your own?
The delay of the bridegroom’s arrival caused everyone to fall asleep, but it was the delay itself that revealed who was truly ready. The prolonged wait for Christ’s return can cause us to grow comfortable and complacent, losing our sense of urgency. This delay is not a denial; it is a test of our personal preparation and faithfulness when the initial excitement has faded. [59:13]
“But while they were on their way to buy the oil, the bridegroom arrived. The virgins who were ready went in with him to the wedding banquet. And the door was shut.” (Matthew 25:10 NIV)
Reflection: In what ways has the ‘delay’—the routine of daily life—caused your spiritual fervor to dim, and what is one practical step you can take to rekindle a personal readiness for Christ?
Public expressions of faith are only sustained by the private oil we cultivate in personal prayer, worship, and time in God’s Word. This is not about perfection but about a daily pursuit of Christ that exists apart from church services or other believers. It is about developing a faith that is ready for the midnight hour, for the unexpected crisis, and for the return of the King. [01:07:54]
“But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” (Matthew 6:6 ESV)
Reflection: What is one specific, private spiritual discipline you can commit to this week to begin building a reservoir of ‘oil’ that is truly your own?
The parable of the ten virgins reframes readiness as an issue of personal supply, not public appearance. The narrative contrasts five wise virgins who carried oil for their lamps with five foolish ones who depended on others’ resources; when the bridegroom was delayed and a midnight cry came, only those with oil entered the feast. Oil functions as a vivid symbol for the Holy Spirit, intimate relationship with God, and spiritual preparedness. Borrowed enthusiasm, borrowed worship, or borrowed prayer will fail when crisis arrives; looking spiritual on the outside cannot substitute for the inner reality of an energized, daily walk with God.
The sermon identifies a dangerous pattern: treating corporate worship, a compelling preacher, or other people’s faith as a refillable source. That approach leaves believers exposed when unexpected storms, tests, or the Lord’s return arrive. Spiritual oil develops through intentional disciplines—private prayer, genuine fasting, and a steady pursuit of God—and through seasons of pressure and crushing that produce fruit and anointing. The olive press image points to growth that requires being pressed; the spiritual life strengthens under refining rather than by convenience.
Delay in the bridegroom’s coming exposes who is prepared. The midnight cry illustrates that readiness cannot be manufactured at the last minute; crisis reveals the condition of the heart. The door’s closing underlines the urgency: presence and performance do not replace preparedness. The call moves from dependency to ownership—stop surviving on other people’s fire and begin cultivating a private, persistent relationship with God that sustains public worship. The altar invitation invites those weary of borrowed grace to seek their own filling, to pray, and to establish practices that keep the lamp trimmed and the oil replenished so that when the trumpet sounds, the life offered will stand ready.
Jesus is coming back. He's not coming back when it's convenient. He's coming back when it's time and the question isn't if he's returning, the question is, will I be ready when he does? Too many people are living like they've got time, like the borrowed faith of others, borrowed time of others, are living like they have the ability to do what they want and hope that it's time they get it together in time, time to pray, Time to get serious later. Time to surrender to the word later. Scripture makes it clear. His return will be like a thief in the night, unexpected, unannounced, and undeniable. You don't get ready when he comes. You have to be ready before he comes. There when that trumpet sounds, there's not time to borrow faith, fix your oil, clean up your life. What you have in that moment is what you have to stand on.
[01:03:03]
(59 seconds)
#ReadyForJesusReturn
We've gotta stop living off of other people's oil. Come on. There is a dangerous trend in church today. We have people that are trying to live off of borrowed oil, borrowed worship, borrowed prayer life, borrowed passion, borrowed fire. We come into church hoping the worship team will carry us into the presence of the lord. It's your job to get me into the presence of the lord. That's how we approach the worship team and if they sing a song that we don't like or a song that's not our jam or whatever we're listening to, I do or do they still say it, Jam? Well, I just did. Okay?
[00:42:16]
(40 seconds)
#BringYourOwnWorship
There are people in this room and watching online that you've been close to the fire, but you've never carried it. You've been around the presence of the lord. You've been around the move of the lord. You know what it looks like but you've never surrendered to the point where he moves through you like that and you don't pursue it. What if today is the day we stop saying, you know what? I'll get to it later. What if today is the day that we stop saying, I'm gonna rely on this person? What if today is the day we say, I'm gonna go get my own? What if today is the day that we say, I'm gonna go get my own? If it's only gonna be me and Jesus at my judgment, then I'm gonna pursue him alone.
[01:08:35]
(52 seconds)
#PursueHimPersonally
There are people that love church. They love this church and we're very blessed to have you. Love the people. Love coming here. Love everything you do but I needed to under need you to understand something. There is a distinct difference between having a relationship with the church and having a relationship with Christ. Amen. There's a distinct difference when having a relationship with your Bible study or your small group or your life group or your your retreat, all that. There's a distinct difference between having a relationship with them and a relationship with Jesus. That is not the same thing.
[00:53:25]
(31 seconds)
#JesusOverChurchRoutine
What would it look like if you had personal prayer time? What would it look like in your life if you had private worship? What would it look like if you spent time? What would it look like if you obeyed the word of the lord when nobody was watching? What would it look like if you're the hunger for god that we portray in our services and when the pastors and the Christians and granny and all these people are watching? What if that hunger of god that we portray then, we also have when we're out in our workplace and nobody's around or we're in the car or we're on our phone at night. What would it look like in our life? You know what it look like? That we had oil.
[01:06:51]
(47 seconds)
#PrivateWorshipMatters
Nobody knows about prepping for storms better than us. Right? We live at the beach. You don't get ready for the hurricane while the hurricane's hitting. When the hurricane hit, it it reveals how prepared you are. You get prepped before. I need you to understand that public fire is only sustained by private oil. What would happen if Jesus came back right now? Would you have lamp or would you have oil in your lamp? Would it still be lit? Or have you been coasting and borrowing depending on others?
[01:07:37]
(57 seconds)
#PublicFireNeedsPrivateOil
Scripture oil doesn't come without pressure. It comes with pressure. It comes with crushing. The olive isn't even useful until it's broken. It's not an it's not enough for it to grow. It has to be pressed and that's the same thing that's true in our lives. We want the anointing. We want the favor. We want the presence of the lord. All these things that we grew up in church and we learned in church to say because that means they're good things. We want all of that but I need you to understand it will only come by being pressed and stretched and the lord moving us and and shaking us and shaking away the things that aren't of him.
[00:57:34]
(39 seconds)
#AnointingFromPressure
What would happen if on Saturday night instead of scrolling and doom scrolling, you were praying and reading and seeking the lord. What would happen if you did this every day? Nobody's perfect but every day and then it never fails. I just had this conversation with somebody a few weeks ago when they were like, pastor, I just don't have I don't have time to do that. Fix your schedule. Right. Come on. You're grown up. What are you talking about? I don't have time. Fix it. It's wild. Like, you woke up and somebody had a gun to your head and said, we will be moving until you go to bed at 11:00 tonight or it's over. No. Fix the schedule. Make time. Make room. Get prepared.
[01:05:51]
(52 seconds)
#MakeTimeForPrayer
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