Overcoming Worry: Trust, Pray, and Be Grateful
Summary
In today's message, we explored the profound impact of worry on our lives and how it is both unnatural and unhealthy. Worry is not just a mental burden; it physically affects our bodies, leading to various health issues. The Bible teaches us that an anxious heart weighs us down, while a heart at peace gives life to the body. Worry is unreasonable, unhelpful, and unnecessary because it cannot change the past or control the future. It only ruins the present. Jesus reminds us that if God cares for the flowers, He will surely care for us, emphasizing that worry is a choice we make. Instead of worrying, we are encouraged to unload our worries onto God, trusting that He will take care of our needs.
The first step in managing stress is to refuse to worry about anything. Instead, we should talk to God about everything. Prayer is a powerful tool that shifts our focus from panic to peace, from worry to worship. When we talk to God, we acknowledge His presence and His ability to handle our concerns. Worrying is akin to practical atheism, acting as if God does not exist or cannot be trusted. The Bible tells us that we do not have because we do not ask. Therefore, we should worry less and ask more, trusting that God, who did not spare His own Son, will provide for all our needs.
Furthermore, we are called to thank God in all things. Gratitude is a powerful antidote to worry and stress. It shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have, fostering happiness and health. Even in difficult times, we can find reasons to be grateful. Life is not a series of hills and valleys but a parallel of good and bad experiences. There is always something to be thankful for, no matter the circumstances.
Key Takeaways:
1. Worry is Unnatural and Unhealthy: Worry is not just a mental burden; it physically affects our bodies, leading to various health issues. The Bible teaches us that an anxious heart weighs us down, while a heart at peace gives life to the body. [13:22]
2. Worry is Unreasonable and Unhelpful: Worry cannot change the past or control the future; it only ruins the present. It is like sitting in a rocking chair, expending energy without making progress. [14:36]
3. Trust in God's Provision: Jesus reminds us that if God cares for the flowers, He will surely care for us. Worry is unnecessary because God promises to meet our needs. [15:34]
4. Prayer Over Panic: Instead of worrying, we should talk to God about everything. Prayer shifts our focus from panic to peace, acknowledging God's presence and His ability to handle our concerns. [17:11]
5. Gratitude as a Remedy: Gratitude is a powerful antidote to worry and stress. It shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have, fostering happiness and health. Even in difficult times, we can find reasons to be grateful. [23:23]
Youtube Chapters:
[00:00] - Welcome
[12:56] - The Unnatural Nature of Worry
[13:22] - Worry's Impact on Health
[14:07] - The Futility of Worry
[15:07] - God's Assurance and Care
[16:13] - Unloading Worries onto God
[17:11] - Prayer as a Stress Reliever
[18:57] - Worry as Practical Atheism
[19:25] - Asking God for Our Needs
[20:17] - God's Provision Through Grace
[21:41] - God's Interest in Our Lives
[22:25] - Thanking God in All Things
[23:23] - Gratitude and Happiness
[24:22] - Life's Parallel Tracks of Good and Bad
[25:01] - Finding Gratitude in Every Situation
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
Bible Reading:
1. Proverbs 12:25 - "An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up."
2. Matthew 6:30 - "If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith?"
3. Philippians 4:6 - "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God."
Observation Questions:
1. According to Proverbs 12:25, what is the effect of an anxious heart on a person? How does this align with the sermon’s message about the physical impact of worry? [13:22]
2. In Matthew 6:30, what comparison does Jesus use to illustrate God's care for us? How does this relate to the sermon’s point about trusting in God's provision? [15:34]
3. Philippians 4:6 advises us to present our requests to God with thanksgiving. How does this verse connect to the sermon’s emphasis on gratitude as a remedy for worry? [23:10]
Interpretation Questions:
1. How does the sermon describe the relationship between worry and practical atheism? What does this suggest about the nature of faith and trust in God? [18:57]
2. The sermon mentions that worry is like sitting in a rocking chair, expending energy without making progress. How does this metaphor help us understand the futility of worry? [14:52]
3. What does the sermon suggest about the role of prayer in shifting our focus from panic to peace? How does this align with the instruction in Philippians 4:6? [17:11]
Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a recent situation where worry affected your health or well-being. How can you apply the sermon’s advice to refuse to worry and instead talk to God about it? [16:13]
2. The sermon suggests that gratitude can shift our focus from what we lack to what we have. Can you identify three things you are grateful for today, even amidst challenges? [23:23]
3. Consider a time when you felt overwhelmed by stress. How might you incorporate prayer as a tool to manage stress and find peace in that situation? [17:11]
4. The sermon describes worry as a choice. What steps can you take to consciously choose trust in God over worry in your daily life? [15:57]
5. How can you practice asking God for your needs instead of worrying about them? What specific needs can you bring to God in prayer this week? [19:25]
6. The sermon mentions that life is a parallel of good and bad experiences. How can you maintain a balanced perspective and find gratitude in both the good and bad times? [24:22]
7. Reflect on the idea that God is interested in every area of your life. How does this understanding influence the way you approach your relationship with God and your daily concerns? [21:41]
Devotional
Day 1: Worry's Physical and Spiritual Toll
Worry is not just a mental burden; it physically affects our bodies, leading to various health issues. The Bible teaches us that an anxious heart weighs us down, while a heart at peace gives life to the body. Worry is unnatural and unhealthy, as it disrupts the harmony God intended for our lives. It is a thief of joy and peace, robbing us of the ability to live fully in the present moment. By recognizing the detrimental effects of worry, we can begin to seek the peace that God offers, which surpasses all understanding. [13:22]
"Anxiety in a man's heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad." (Proverbs 12:25, ESV)
Reflection: What physical or emotional symptoms do you notice when you are worried? How can you invite God's peace into those specific areas today?
Day 2: The Futility of Worry
Worry cannot change the past or control the future; it only ruins the present. It is like sitting in a rocking chair, expending energy without making progress. Worry is unreasonable and unhelpful, as it distracts us from the present and prevents us from experiencing the fullness of life that God desires for us. By understanding the futility of worry, we can choose to focus on what truly matters and trust in God's plan for our lives. [14:36]
"Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble." (Matthew 6:34, ESV)
Reflection: What is one specific worry that has been consuming your thoughts? How can you release it to God and focus on the present moment today?
Day 3: Trusting in God's Provision
Jesus reminds us that if God cares for the flowers, He will surely care for us. Worry is unnecessary because God promises to meet our needs. Trusting in God's provision means believing that He is aware of our circumstances and is actively working for our good. It requires a shift in perspective, from self-reliance to reliance on God's faithfulness. By trusting in God's provision, we can experience peace and contentment, knowing that He is in control. [15:34]
"And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:19, ESV)
Reflection: In what area of your life do you struggle to trust God's provision? What step can you take today to deepen your trust in His care?
Day 4: Prayer as a Path to Peace
Instead of worrying, we should talk to God about everything. Prayer shifts our focus from panic to peace, acknowledging God's presence and His ability to handle our concerns. It is a powerful tool that allows us to cast our anxieties on God, knowing that He cares for us. By choosing prayer over panic, we can cultivate a deeper relationship with God and experience His peace in the midst of life's challenges. [17:11]
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." (Philippians 4:6, ESV)
Reflection: How can you incorporate prayer into your daily routine as a way to combat worry? What specific concern can you bring to God in prayer today?
Day 5: Gratitude as a Remedy for Worry
Gratitude is a powerful antidote to worry and stress. It shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have, fostering happiness and health. Even in difficult times, we can find reasons to be grateful. Life is not a series of hills and valleys but a parallel of good and bad experiences. By cultivating a heart of gratitude, we can experience joy and contentment, regardless of our circumstances. [23:23]
"Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." (1 Thessalonians 5:18, ESV)
Reflection: What are three things you are grateful for today, even in the midst of challenges? How can practicing gratitude transform your perspective on your current situation?
Quotes
Grant by the way since worry is unnatural uh it's also unhealthy your body wasn't designed to handle worry it wasn't design when people say I'm worried sick they're telling the truth and and doctors say a lot of people could leave hospitals today if they knew how to get rid of guilt resentment and worry because that's what puts most people in and see what I'm saying is it's not so much what you eat it's what eats you it's what eats you that makes you sick it's the worry in your life it's not just unnatural it's unhealthy it causes all kinds of health problems. [00:12:43]
Worry cannot make you one inch taller worry can't make you one inch shorter worry can't take 10 inches off my waist if it could it would have worry cannot lengthen your life it it can shorten your life though we know that worry cannot change the past and worry cannot control the future all it does is make today suck it messes up today that's all it does it doesn't change the past it can't change control the future it just messes up today it's kind of like sitting in a rocking chair you spend a lot of energy but you don't make any progress you're just it's it's useless. [00:14:15]
God says what in the world you worrying about don't you think I'm going to take care of you don't you think I'm going to meet your needs I made you I created you I saved you I love you I put my spirit in you don't you think I'm going to take care of your needs it's unhelpful but it's also so unnecessary there's no need to worry Jesus says this in Matthew 6:30 you know if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and gone tomorrow think of all the beautiful flowers that are never seen by human beings but God takes care of them. [00:15:14]
The first step in Stress Management is to refuse to worry about anything why because it's unhelpful unreasonable unnatural and unnecessary the Bible says this 1 Peter 57 unload all your worries on God since he is looking after you and I love that word unload because literally in the original Greek it means to just drop it's not like take a a a long throw of it like like you're throwing a baseball or throwing a rock across a lake it just says unload it means Let It Go Let It Go. [00:16:06]
Talk to God about everything don't panic pray don't worry worship stop talking to yourself about all the stuff that stress you out and start talking to God talking to yourself won't do anything but talking to God will he's saying talk to God about everything this is the second part of this verse Philippians 4:6 never worry about anything instead in every situation let God know what you need in your prayers and in your requests and and and by the way God since God has promised to care for you if it's not not worth praying about it's not worth worrying about. [00:17:18]
When I was a kid anytime I had a need in my life I would uh I'd go talk to my dad say Dad I need this and sometimes it was something cost something it was expensive and I said Dad I need this I I I can distinctly remember that not once as a kid when I said Dad Dad I need this never once did I worry about where my father was going to get the money never once cuz that's not my job it's my dad's job to figure out where the money is going to come from it was my job as a kid as a child to Simply ask. [00:18:06]
Worry is practical atheism that's what it is it's it's acting like I don't have a heavenly father in my life it's acting like God doesn't exist it's acting like I'm a spiritual orphan worry is practical atheism God says I'll take care of you it's acting like God can't be trusted now here's what the Bible says look in your outline James 4:2 you do not have because what you do not ask you do not ask God so here's the second key to Stress Management worry less ask more worry less ask more instead of worrying pray worry about nothing pray about everything. [00:19:00]
Since God did not spare even his own son Jesus but gave him up for us all he died on the cross for us won't he give us Christ who won't he who give us Christ also give us everything else we need what's he saying here follow the logic your biggest problem is getting into heaven because Heaven's perfect and you're not and neither am I I sto batting a thousand about breath number three and so God came up with Plan B he came to Earth in human form and he said I'll live a perfect life and I'll die for you and you can get into heaven on my ticket it's Grace. [00:20:00]
If God loved you enough to die for your sins don't you think he loves you enough to help you with your finances don't you think he loves you enough to help you with your health with your relationships with a career decision with closing a deal with making a sale yeah there is no area of your life that God is not interested in the Bible says he has the hairs on your head number now for some of us that's not too hard but God knows every hair on your head and even the ones you left in the sink this morning that's how detail I don't even know how many hairs on my head but God does. [00:21:22]
Thank God in all things now I doesn't say thank God for all things because there's a lot of things you shouldn't be thankful for there's pain in the world there's there's evil in the world somebody gets cancer you don't have to thank God for cancer somebody dies you have to thank God for their death but it says in all things give thanks which means even in the bad times I can find something good now here's the third part of that verse Philippians 4:6 he says you know worry about nothing and then he says when you ask God for what you need also thank him. [00:22:28]
You cannot be happy and ungrateful at the same time happy people are grateful people unhappy people are ungrateful people study after study after study has shown that the healthiest emotion known to human beings is the attitude of gratitude and the more you build gratitude in your life the more happy and the more healthy you're going to be and the in fact studies shown that having an attitude of gratitude actually raises your immunities and being ungrateful and being resentful actually lowers your immunity uh to uh to uh other other things in life. [00:23:10]
I used to think that life was a series of Hills and Valleys mountaintops and and low low times and and you know you have all of these good times then you have all these bad but that's not really true the fact is you get them both at the same time all of your life in other words there's no time in your life when everything is good and and there's nothing bad in your life and and there's no time when everything is bad and there's nothing good in your life no matter how good things are going on in your life there's always something you need to be working on and no matter how bad things are in your life there's always something you can be thankful. [00:24:36]