Overcoming Offense: Embracing Forgiveness in the Kingdom
Summary
### Summary
Today, we delved into the critical issue of offense within the church, drawing from Luke 17:1-10. Offense is described as the bait of Satan, a trap that can lead to sin and division within the body of Christ. Jesus warned that offenses are inevitable, but woe to those through whom they come. The passage emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, even when someone sins against us repeatedly. The apostles' response to this teaching was a plea for more faith, highlighting the difficulty of living out this principle.
We explored the concept of living in the Kingdom of God, an alternative reality where we must learn to operate by God's principles rather than worldly ones. Many Christians celebrate their citizenship in the Kingdom but fail to understand its workings, leading to frustration and ineffective living. Jesus' teachings are not just for the lost but for His disciples, who need to learn how to activate the benefits of the Kingdom by living according to His ways.
The sermon also touched on the importance of maintaining spiritual health to avoid falling into offense. When we neglect our spiritual disciplines—prayer, worship, and studying the Word—we become more susceptible to offense. Jesus' example of casting out a demon that only comes out by prayer and fasting underscores the need for a well-conditioned spirit to handle life's challenges.
We discussed the devastating impact of offense within the church, particularly when it comes from someone close to us. The devil often uses those we love to wound us deeply, making it harder to forgive and move on. Proverbs 18:19 states that a brother offended is harder to win than a strong city, illustrating the difficulty of overcoming offense once it takes root.
Finally, we examined the role of apostolic and prophetic authority in the church. The removal of these offices has left the church ill-equipped to handle serious issues like sin and offense. True restoration involves bringing everything into the open and holding individuals accountable, not covering up wrongdoing. The story of Robert Morris and the mishandling of his situation serves as a cautionary tale of what happens when the church fails to exercise proper oversight and restoration.
### Key Takeaways
1. The Inevitability of Offense and the Call to Forgive: Offense is a trap set by Satan to lead us into sin. Jesus teaches that offenses are inevitable, but our response should be one of forgiveness, even if the offense occurs multiple times in a single day. This requires a deep well of faith and spiritual maturity. [03:00]
2. Living by Kingdom Principles: As citizens of the Kingdom of God, we must learn to operate by God's principles rather than worldly ones. Many Christians fail to understand how the Kingdom works, leading to frustration and ineffective living. Understanding and applying Kingdom principles is crucial for activating its benefits. [04:12]
3. Maintaining Spiritual Health to Avoid Offense: Neglecting spiritual disciplines like prayer, worship, and studying the Word makes us more susceptible to offense. A well-conditioned spirit is essential for handling life's challenges and avoiding the trap of offense. Jesus' example of casting out a demon through prayer and fasting underscores this need. [08:34]
4. The Deep Wound of Offense from Loved Ones: Offense from someone close to us is particularly devastating and harder to overcome. The devil often uses those we love to wound us deeply, making it difficult to forgive and move on. Proverbs 18:19 highlights the challenge of winning back an offended brother. [10:23]
5. The Role of Apostolic and Prophetic Authority: The removal of apostolic and prophetic offices has left the church ill-equipped to handle serious issues like sin and offense. True restoration involves bringing everything into the open and holding individuals accountable. The mishandling of Robert Morris's situation serves as a cautionary tale of the consequences of inadequate oversight. [25:33]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[01:39] - The Dangers of Offense
[03:00] - The Call for More Faith
[04:12] - Living in the Kingdom of God
[05:52] - The Bait of Satan
[06:56] - The Importance of Forgiveness
[07:58] - Maintaining Spiritual Health
[08:34] - The Power of Prayer and Fasting
[09:19] - The Deep Wound of Offense
[10:23] - Proverbs on Offense
[10:58] - Handling Offense in the Church
[11:56] - Gaining the Brother
[13:49] - Judging Within the Church
[15:38] - The Exception for Criminal Acts
[16:23] - Restoring with Gentleness
[17:45] - The Patterns of Offense
[19:11] - The Story of David and Absalom
[20:33] - The Role of Apostolic Authority
[22:55] - The Importance of Accountability
[24:10] - The Story of Ted Haggard
[25:33] - The Mishandling of Robert Morris
[26:56] - The Role of Prophets
[28:28] - The Power of Apostolic Insight
[30:07] - The Need for Apostolic and Prophetic Offices
[31:37] - Personal Struggles with Offense
[33:07] - Proper Restoration
[34:44] - The Role of Elders and Apostolic Authority
[36:03] - The Story of Jimmy Swaggart
[37:39] - Handling Allegations in the Church
[38:59] - The Failure of the Church
[40:32] - The Danger of Offense
[42:17] - The Importance of Accountability
[43:48] - The Story of Michael and Forgiveness
[45:02] - The Power of Forgiveness
[48:15] - The Breakthrough Moment
[49:38] - The Importance of Not Harboring Offense
Study Guide
### Bible Reading
1. Luke 17:1-10 (NKJV)
> Then He said to the disciples, "It is impossible that no offenses should come, but woe to him through whom they do come! It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones. Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, 'I repent,' you shall forgive him." And the apostles said to the Lord, "Increase our faith." So the Lord said, "If you have faith as a mustard seed, you can say to this mulberry tree, 'Be pulled up by the roots and be planted in the sea,' and it would obey you. And which of you, having a servant plowing or tending sheep, will say to him when he has come in from the field, 'Come at once and sit down to eat'? But will he not rather say to him, 'Prepare something for my supper, and gird yourself and serve me till I have eaten and drunk, and afterward you will eat and drink'? Does he thank that servant because he did the things that were commanded him? I think not. So likewise you, when you have done all those things which you are commanded, say, 'We are unprofitable servants. We have done what was our duty to do.'"
2. Proverbs 18:19 (NKJV)
> A brother offended is harder to win than a strong city, And contentions are like the bars of a castle.
3. Galatians 6:1-5 (NKJV)
> Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. For each one shall bear his own load.
### Observation Questions
1. According to Luke 17:1-10, what is Jesus' teaching on offenses and forgiveness? How many times should we forgive someone who sins against us in a single day? [03:00]
2. What does Proverbs 18:19 say about the difficulty of winning back an offended brother? How does this relate to the sermon’s discussion on the deep wounds caused by offense from loved ones? [10:23]
3. In Galatians 6:1-5, what is the recommended approach for restoring someone overtaken in a trespass? What attitude should we have during this process? [17:45]
4. How does the sermon describe the role of spiritual disciplines like prayer and fasting in maintaining spiritual health and avoiding offense? [08:34]
### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Jesus emphasized the inevitability of offenses in Luke 17:1-10? How does this shape our understanding of living in a community of believers? [03:00]
2. How can the principle from Proverbs 18:19 about an offended brother being harder to win than a strong city be applied to our relationships within the church? [10:23]
3. What does Galatians 6:1-5 teach us about the importance of gentleness and self-awareness in the process of restoration? How can this be practically applied in church discipline? [17:45]
4. The sermon mentions that neglecting spiritual disciplines makes us more susceptible to offense. How can regular prayer, worship, and Bible study help us handle offenses better? [08:34]
### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you were offended by someone in the church. How did you handle it? What steps can you take to ensure you respond with forgiveness in the future? [03:00]
2. Proverbs 18:19 highlights the challenge of winning back an offended brother. Is there someone in your life who is currently offended? What practical steps can you take to reconcile with them? [10:23]
3. Galatians 6:1-5 calls for restoring others with gentleness. Think of a situation where you might need to restore someone. How can you approach this with the right attitude and actions? [17:45]
4. The sermon emphasizes the importance of maintaining spiritual health to avoid offense. What specific spiritual disciplines can you commit to this week to strengthen your spirit? [08:34]
5. The sermon discussed the deep wounds caused by offense from loved ones. How can you guard your heart against harboring unforgiveness towards those closest to you? [10:23]
6. How can you contribute to creating a culture of accountability and restoration in your church, especially in light of the sermon’s discussion on the role of apostolic and prophetic authority? [25:33]
7. Reflect on the story shared in the sermon about the young man who forgave the woman who killed his brother. How can you apply this level of forgiveness in your own life, even in difficult situations? [48:15]
Devotional
### Day 1: The Inevitability of Offense and the Call to Forgive
Offense is a trap set by Satan to lead us into sin. Jesus teaches that offenses are inevitable, but our response should be one of forgiveness, even if the offense occurs multiple times in a single day. This requires a deep well of faith and spiritual maturity. Jesus' warning in Luke 17:1-10 highlights the inevitability of offenses but also emphasizes the importance of forgiveness. The apostles' plea for more faith in response to this teaching underscores the difficulty of living out this principle. Forgiveness is not just a one-time act but a continuous process that requires us to rely on God's strength and grace.
When we are offended, especially by those close to us, it can be incredibly challenging to forgive. However, Jesus calls us to forgive repeatedly, reflecting His own boundless mercy towards us. This kind of forgiveness is a testament to our faith and spiritual maturity. It is a way to break the cycle of offense and prevent it from leading to further sin and division within the body of Christ. By choosing to forgive, we align ourselves with God's principles and open the door to healing and restoration.
[Luke 17:3-4 ESV] "Pay attention to yourselves! If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him, and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive him."
Reflection: Think of someone who has offended you recently. Can you ask God to help you forgive them today, even if they have not asked for forgiveness?
### Day 2: Living by Kingdom Principles
As citizens of the Kingdom of God, we must learn to operate by God's principles rather than worldly ones. Many Christians fail to understand how the Kingdom works, leading to frustration and ineffective living. Understanding and applying Kingdom principles is crucial for activating its benefits. Jesus' teachings are not just for the lost but for His disciples, who need to learn how to activate the benefits of the Kingdom by living according to His ways. This involves a shift in mindset and behavior, aligning our lives with God's will and purposes.
Living by Kingdom principles means embracing values such as humility, love, and forgiveness, which often run counter to worldly values. It requires us to seek God's guidance in all areas of our lives and to trust in His provision and timing. When we operate by Kingdom principles, we experience the fullness of life that Jesus promised. This alternative reality of the Kingdom of God offers peace, joy, and purpose that the world cannot provide. By understanding and applying these principles, we can live more effectively and fulfill our God-given potential.
[Matthew 6:33 ESV] "But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you."
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you are struggling to live by Kingdom principles? How can you begin to align this area with God's ways today?
### Day 3: Maintaining Spiritual Health to Avoid Offense
Neglecting spiritual disciplines like prayer, worship, and studying the Word makes us more susceptible to offense. A well-conditioned spirit is essential for handling life's challenges and avoiding the trap of offense. Jesus' example of casting out a demon through prayer and fasting underscores this need. When we are spiritually healthy, we are better equipped to respond to offenses with grace and forgiveness. Spiritual disciplines help us stay connected to God and grounded in His truth, enabling us to navigate difficult situations with wisdom and discernment.
Maintaining spiritual health requires intentionality and consistency. It involves setting aside regular time for prayer, worship, and Bible study, as well as seeking fellowship with other believers. These practices strengthen our relationship with God and help us grow in our faith. When we prioritize our spiritual health, we are less likely to be derailed by offenses and more likely to respond in a Christ-like manner. By staying spiritually fit, we can overcome the bait of Satan and live victoriously in the Kingdom of God.
[Ephesians 6:18 ESV] "Praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints."
Reflection: How can you incorporate more time for prayer, worship, and Bible study into your daily routine to strengthen your spiritual health?
### Day 4: The Deep Wound of Offense from Loved Ones
Offense from someone close to us is particularly devastating and harder to overcome. The devil often uses those we love to wound us deeply, making it difficult to forgive and move on. Proverbs 18:19 highlights the challenge of winning back an offended brother. When we are hurt by those we trust, the pain can be overwhelming, and the process of healing and forgiveness can be long and arduous. However, Jesus calls us to forgive, even in these difficult situations, and to seek reconciliation whenever possible.
The deep wounds caused by loved ones can lead to bitterness and division if not addressed. It is important to bring these offenses to God in prayer and to seek His guidance in how to respond. Forgiveness does not mean condoning the offense or allowing harmful behavior to continue, but it does mean releasing the offender from the debt they owe us and entrusting the situation to God. By choosing to forgive, we can experience healing and freedom from the bondage of offense.
[Proverbs 18:19 ESV] "A brother offended is more unyielding than a strong city, and quarreling is like the bars of a castle."
Reflection: Think of a time when you were deeply hurt by someone close to you. How can you begin the process of forgiveness and seek God's healing for that wound today?
### Day 5: The Role of Apostolic and Prophetic Authority
The removal of apostolic and prophetic offices has left the church ill-equipped to handle serious issues like sin and offense. True restoration involves bringing everything into the open and holding individuals accountable. The mishandling of Robert Morris's situation serves as a cautionary tale of the consequences of inadequate oversight. Apostolic and prophetic authority is essential for maintaining the health and integrity of the church. These offices provide guidance, correction, and accountability, helping the church navigate complex issues and maintain its witness to the world.
Restoration within the church requires transparency and accountability. It involves addressing sin and offense openly and honestly, rather than covering up wrongdoing. Apostolic and prophetic leaders play a crucial role in this process, providing the wisdom and discernment needed to bring about true healing and reconciliation. By restoring these offices and embracing their authority, the church can better handle serious issues and fulfill its mission of being a light to the world.
[Ephesians 4:11-12 ESV] "And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ."
Reflection: How can you support and pray for the apostolic and prophetic leaders in your church to help them fulfill their roles effectively?
Quotes
### Quotes for Outreach
1. "Offense is the bait of Satan. If you turn to Luke chapter 17, starting in verse 1 through 10, if you'll stand for the reading of the word. Father, we thank you and we praise you. And we thank you that there is nothing we go through in life that we can't learn from the word, apply to it, and overcome it. By the power of your word and your spirit working in us." [01:39] (19 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
2. "It's impossible. He said that no offense should come. The devil is going to offer you every opportunity to get offended in the church. Every opportunity. Then he said to the disciples, it's impossible that no offense should come, but woe to him through which they do come. It would have been better if. If he had a millstone hung around his neck. And we're thrown into see, then he should offend one of these little ones." [05:52] (25 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
3. "The devil cannot use a stranger to offend you. He has to use somebody you love. Somebody that you take sweet counsel together in the church. It has to be somebody who, who you're close to. A guy can walk up and spit on me if I don't know him. I'm just going to get mad and spit back probably. But when a brother does it, it can, it can unleash a deep offense in me. And now the devil, I've taken the bait and now the devil has me." [10:23] (32 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
4. "The objective is to gain the brother, not get even. God, that is so hard for us to overcome is that desire for vengeance and that desire to get even and justice. We want justice. God wants justice too, but he's saying you really are not equipped to handle that. You need to leave that to me. What you need to do is confront a brother that's offended you with an attitude of I don't want you to fail." [11:56] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
5. "If you judge with the judgment you use so shall it be judged against you you got to be careful about that bear one another's burdens so fulfill the law of christ for if anyone thinks himself to be something when he's nothing he deceives himself let each one examine his own work and then he will have rejoicing himself alone and not in another for each one shall bear his own load he said when you rejoice when when someone is caught in a trespass in the church you have a responsibility to take care of it and you have a responsibility to restore that person say restore." [17:45] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
### Quotes for Members
1. "I know a lot of Christians who have spent no time trying to figure out. They celebrate that they live in the kingdom of God, but they spend no time trying to figure out how it works. So therefore they're guided by worldly principles and they can't figure out whether or not getting good results. Where are you? Where are you, God? Why have thou forsaken me? Well, he hasn't forsaken you. He's waiting for you to figure out how to activate the benefits of the kingdom by living a certain way, by doing things a certain way." [04:12] (32 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
2. "Let me tell you what happens to me. I get offended real easy. When my spirit goes out of condition, when I haven't been any time, I hadn't spent no time in the word. I haven't spent any time. I'm praying. I hadn't spent any time in worship. I've been busy doing God's work. And the next thing, you know, I get offended at the least little. How do, why is that? I haven't cultivated the spiritual. I haven't kept my spirit in condition." [07:58] (28 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
3. "The church has got to learn how to handle these issues too. This is what it says in Matthew 18, 15 and 18. And the man in the Jordan says, Moreover, if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. In other words, go to him alone. And if he hears you, you've gained your brother. But if he'll not hear you take one with you or two or more that by the mouth of two or three witnesses, every word might be established. Then you need to take somebody of the church with you. And if he refuses to hear them, then tell it to the church." [10:58] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
4. "When you took the apostolic and the prophetic out, you have nobody to confront David and say, you're the man. You have nobody to walk in who's apostolic authority over the church of the rock in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, and say, your worship team sounds great, but they have huge spiritual problems and you better deal with it because it's going to get worse. You need to protect the church. You need to protect the church. You need to protect the church." [30:07] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
5. "So my point is, is that it's so easy to get offended. It's so easy for me to get offended in this situation. And, and, and cause I know the people that have been hurt, good people, people I know, personally, that he was their pastor, man. I mean, and he's an awesome, and I still love the brother. I'm just going to tell you this. I think they told him he was good and he just said, okay. I mean, really, he did what they, he, he came to them and he told them about this situation. He said, it's not right. I need help." [43:48] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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