November 2, 2025; The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed (All Souls Day); Full Mass

Nov 03, 2025

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“All Saints Day which we celebrated yesterday which is normally a holy day of obligation but because it fell on a Saturday it wasn't a holy day of obligation and then All Saints Day is when we celebrate all the saints both those known and unknown to us but all the saints that are in heaven enjoying the beatific vision enjoying eternal happiness with God and then today we celebrate All Souls Day in which we pray for the repose of the soul the repose of the souls of all those who have gone. Before us are family members and friends and benefactors and those also who have no one to pray for them those poor souls in purgatory.”
“We refer to them as the church suffering and we the church militant here on earth are able to offer prayers for them so that they may one day be members of the church triumphant in heaven and so All Souls Day is this day that has a bit of a somber reality to it. We celebrate what's called a requiem mass.”
“If we think about it the idea of wrath which even Saint Paul in his letter to the Romans that we heard he says how much more than since we are now justified by his blood will we be saved through him. From the wrath because indeed wrath is that which we are due for our sin right we we we fell we we don't deserve to be in the presence of God but in his mercy he decided to send his son he decided to send his son to die on the cross to save us and we having free will we had the free will to reject God we also have the free will to embrace God and to embrace his mercy and to say yes I will follow you yes I will serve you yes I will do your will.”
“We think about the consequences of sin which are death right a lot of times people like to talk about you know death and they like to try to kind of gloss over it and soften it make it not sound as bad you know so well death is just natural you know everybody dies but really death isn't natural right we're not supposed to die God didn't make us in his image and likeness just so we could die he made us in his image and likeness so that we could be with him forever in heaven but we were disobedient we sinned we fell in the first place and we are too.”
“We recognize that death is not something natural it's not something normal it's not something good God brings about good from it. Because he took on our humanity he took on our flesh so that he could suffer so that he could die and he could make death holy. But only because from death leads to the resurrection.”
“It's this beautiful prayer that kind of starts really gloomy and scary and full of wrath and fear, but it transitions into hope. It transitions into the hope of the resurrection. And that's something that's very important for us, right? Because death is something that everybody has to process differently.”
“A lot of times people like to gloss over and they like to say, no, no, I don't want people to be sad when I die, right? When I die, I want there to be a celebration of life. I want people to remember how great I was. I wasn't really that great. A lot of times, that's one of the reasons why we don't allow eulogies, because sometimes people get up here and they start telling stories about people. And it's like, yeah, that's not really appropriate for church. Not really great to tell about all the weird hijinks that this guy got into. But recognize that death is something that is sad. And so we need to mourn, right?”
“Traditionally, the church always wore black vestments at requiem masses and funerals because the church is mourning with you, right? The church is mourning together with those who have lost somebody who they love. Now, more commonly, you see in churches, white is worn because it's the idea that we focus on the hope of the resurrection, which is important, but we can't gloss over death, right? We can't gloss over Holy Thursday and Good Friday and just jump straight to Easter. We have to have the death before we can have the resurrection.”
“We have to be sorrowful. That means that we have to mourn. We have to recognize the reality of death. Death is something that will come for each and every one of us. And so the church says, memento mori, right? Remember death.”
“Someone asked me a while ago about the skull at St. Francis' feet and said, why is that skull there? That's so gross and weird and scary, you know, that there's a skull. What's the point of that? Why aren't there cute little, you know, like, you know, like, you know, like, you know, like, Bambi and, you know, little birds and everything that you normally see. Because it's a reminder to us that we are going to die. And maybe we don't want that reminder, but we need it, right?”
“It's important that we have that as a reminder that we will die. And then that's a tragic thing. That's a sad thing because we're not supposed to, but there's hope. There's hope because Christ conquered death. Christ rose from the dead, but we have to be united to him in this life. We have to choose to follow him. We have to choose to do his will. It's not just a matter of saying, yes, I believe, but of each and every day choosing to do his will, choosing to live for him.”
“When we don't reconciling with him, we go to confession. We ask for forgiveness. We restore that union. We restore that friendship with God because only if we die in friendship with God, will we be in that eternal happiness with him. But if we die and we are not in friendship with God, then he can't force us. He's not going to make us do something against our will. After death, it's too late. After death, there's no opportunity for us to turn back to God.”
“Jesus gives us plenty of examples in the parables, right? When he, you know, he says, you know, why did you show up to the wedding feast not wearing the appropriate attire? Get out of here. Or the people, they come and they knock on the door. He says, I've already closed the door. I've already locked the door. It's too late. You can't come in. Well, but we didn't, we didn't realize. I told you, right? I told you what you had to do to have eternal life. You have to follow me. You have to take up your cross. You have to deny yourself. You have to eat my flesh and drink my blood. These things are not optional. They're necessary for us.”
“We're called to prioritize in our lives the way that we live for God. What is the most important thing in my life? Is it my relationship with God? Is it making sure that I watch the football game and I rearrange my schedule so that I can do that? I'll just fit mass in. I'm a good Catholic. So, you know, I'll go to mass at a different time than I normally do so that I can do this worldly thing. I'm not saying that that's wrong, you know, every time, but if that's just like constantly how we live our lives, I think that's in need of re-examination.”
“To live our lives doing the will of God. And so at a requiem mass, we pray for the repose of the souls of those who have gone before us. We don't just simply say, well, he's in heaven now. That might grant us a little bit of comfort to say that, but in reality, it's cheap and it doesn't grant us real comfort that.”
“We pray for the poor souls in purgatory. That's why during the month of November, we have the book of the dead over here. Feel free to inscribe the names of any family members, loved ones, friends who have passed away in the past year. If you've already written their names in there in prior years, you don't need to write them in there again because they're already in there. But at each and every mass during November, we pray for the, for the dead. We remember those, those names that are inscribed in that book. And that's so important. It's one of the spiritual works of mercy that we pray for both the living and the dead.”
“Perhaps many people say, well, that's, that's a weird thing, right? To pray for the dead. But it's of course rooted in scripture. It's rooted in tradition. It's rooted in the history of the church, right? We can go back early on and where, where was the mass celebrated by the early church in the catacombs? One reason was because the church was persecuted and needed to be underground. But the other reason was because they were close to the bodies of the dead, where they could pray for them, where they could offer sacrifice.”
“You see it on tombstones, right? R.I.P. Rest in peace. Requiescat in pace. To rest in peace means to be able to lie in peace in the hope and expectation of the resurrection.”
“It's important that we think about kind of the purpose of a funeral. The funeral exists for us to pray for the repose of the soul of that person. And so I encourage you to, uh, kind of plan for that, right?”
“Preparing yourself, um, and especially, uh, if you're a little bit more, um, seasoned in life and this part, it might sound a little, a little, hard, especially if your kids don't practice the faith. One of the most difficult things for me is when I go to give last rites to somebody and I ask their family, I say, okay, what's the plan for the funeral? So, well, we don't really practice the faith, so we're not going to do anything. I said, but the funeral is not for you. It's for your parent. It's for your mom. It's for your dad. It's for us to pray for them.”
“So, I encourage you, pre-plan, you know, actually go to the funeral home and sit down, uh, you know, with the, with the, they call them funeral directors now, right? That's the nice name. Mortician, undertaker, you know, sit down with the undertaker and have a, have a conversation. That'll really, that'll really make you think, oh yeah, death is real. Um, but actually plan it out. Say, this is what I want. I want to be buried. I want to have a funeral mass.”
“The church allows it now provided it's not done for pagan reasons, but the church doesn't encourage it. In many places, the church seems to encourage it, right? Um, but if you actually read the, the, the funeral book, if you open up to the very, very back of the funeral book, there's appendix two for cremation and it's got like three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, three, pages of instructions that kind of say, this is why cremation isn't the best thing, but if you're going to do it, here's how you ought to do it.”
“As I've said many times, the church, uh, says if we're going to be cremated, we ought to have the body present for the funeral. Um, so that there can actually be a body or, you know, that will be risen from the dead. Um, and then cremation takes place and then, uh, interment. Takes place, right? That the cremated remains must be buried. They can't be kept on the mantle. Uh, watch meet the parents and you'll find out why that's a bad idea. Um, they can't be divided up and put into little lockets and each kid gets one cause that's just gross and macabre. Um, but that we show the respect and dignity of the body, that we actually bury the body, whether it be in the ground or it be in a columbarium, whether we bury the body, it's so important. Jesus was buried. And so too, we need to be buried so that we can raise from that same tomb as Christ.”
“Especially if your family doesn't practice the faith, um, plan, plan for your funeral, make it clear what your expectations are, make it clear what you want, um, and, and recognize the importance of that.”
“As we continue with this mass, uh, as we continue praying for the repose of the souls of all the faithful departed, um, our loved ones, our family members, our friends in particular, um, we recognize that indeed, uh, life is short, um, and that life will come to an end for all of us. And so how do we live our lives in preparation for that? How do we live our lives in preparation for heaven? Um, by doing the will of God, by doing his will here and now, by striving for perfection, by striving to be perfect as our father in heaven is perfect, by striving to be holy.”
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