Bible reading: John 21:15-19 (ESV)
When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.” He said to him a second time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Tend my sheep.” He said to him the third time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” and he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep. Truly, truly, I say to you, when you were young, you used to dress yourself and walk wherever you wanted, but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will dress you and carry you where you do not want to go.” (This he said to show by what kind of death he was to glorify God.) And after saying this he said to him, “Follow me.”
Observation questions
- What specific question did Jesus ask Peter three times, and what was Peter’s consistent response each time?
- What three commands did Jesus give Peter in response to his declarations of love?
- How did Peter react when Jesus asked him the same question for the third time?
- What did Jesus predict about Peter’s future in verse 18, and what was the simple, final command he gave him afterward?
Interpretation questions
- Why do you think Jesus chose to ask Peter about his love three separate times, especially in light of Peter’s three denials?
- Jesus directly links Peter’s love for Him to the action of caring for others. What does this tell us about the relationship between loving God and serving people?
- When Peter becomes distracted by what will happen to another disciple, Jesus replies, “What is that to you? You follow me.” [26:43] What is the danger Jesus is addressing when we compare our calling or struggles to someone else’s?
- The story of Chuck Colson illustrates that a public failure can precede a impactful life of service. [32:36] How does this narrative align with the principle that our past does not have to define our future usefulness to God?
Application questions
- The core of the Christian life is a love relationship with Jesus that shows itself in action. [13:11] What is one practical way your love for Jesus could move from a private feeling to a tangible act of obedience this week?
- The proof of love lies in tangible care. [18:45] In your daily environments—at work, at home, or in your community—who are the “lambs” or “sheep” Jesus might be calling you to feed, encourage, or serve in a simple way?
- Comparison corrodes calling. [27:12] Where are you most tempted to compare your life, ministry, or struggles to someone else’s? What is one step you can take to refocus on the specific path Jesus has for you?
- Loving Jesus means committing daily choices and priorities to Him. [10:05] What is one routine or habit in your life that, if re-centered on your love for Christ, would most significantly change your day?
- Be the kindest person in the room. [21:05] Which specific relationship or situation in your life needs more patience and grace this week? How can you intentionally serve that person through kindness?
- Your life is no longer just about you. [19:01] How does shifting your focus from self-preservation to sacrificial service change the way you view your time, resources, and energy?