Navigating Relationships: Wisdom and Humility in Christ

 

Summary

In today's message, we explored the profound complexities of our relationships, not only with each other but most importantly with God. We delved into the intricate stories of biblical heroes, acknowledging that their lives were filled with messiness and complications, much like our own. This recognition brings us to a place of humility and understanding that we are all navigating through the turbulent waters of relationships, seeking guidance and wisdom from the Lord.

We began by examining our relationship with God, acknowledging that some among us may not yet know Christ. It is with great joy that we welcome seekers and those new to the faith, as well as those who have been walking with the Lord for years. We are all family here, united in our imperfections and our pursuit of a deeper connection with our Creator.

The heart of the message focused on the teachings of Jesus, particularly His Sermon on the Mount. We were reminded that the heart is a mysterious and God-sized entity that we cannot fully comprehend or judge. Jesus challenges us to fill our hearts with good things, with His teachings and principles, so that we may produce good fruit in our lives. Conversely, if we fill our hearts with evil or untruths, we will inevitably produce negative outcomes.

We were confronted with the stark reality that we are all fools in some capacity, prone to making unwise decisions and filling our hearts with the wrong things. Yet, there is hope in the wisdom that comes from God. By recognizing our foolishness, we can humbly seek God's truth and strive to make wiser choices, building our lives on the solid rock of His teachings.

The message culminated in a call to action: to be prudent, clever, skillful, and planned in our approach to wisdom. We were encouraged to absorb and learn from the truth, to evaluate the influences in our lives, and to store up principles in our hearts that will guide us toward making wise decisions.

Key Takeaways:

- God's love for us is unwavering, even in our foolishness. He invites us to trust Him and build our lives on the foundation of His teachings. By recognizing our own limitations and the grace that God extends to us, we can begin to live lives that reflect His wisdom and love. [01:03:01]

- The heart is a treasury, and what we store within it determines the fruit of our lives. We must be intentional about filling our hearts with the truth of God's Word, allowing His principles to shape our decisions and actions. This daily practice of storing up wisdom will enable us to navigate life's complexities with discernment and grace. [38:55]

- Wisdom is not a static state of having all the answers; it is a dynamic pursuit of growth and understanding. Being wise means being prudent, clever, skillful, and planned. It involves a daily commitment to learning from God and applying His truths to our lives, even in the face of our own foolishness. [55:20]

- Our identity and security should be rooted in who we are in Christ, not in the opinions of others. When we understand that we are fearfully and wonderfully made by God, we can resist the influence of those who would lead us astray and confidently walk in the path of wisdom He has laid out for us. [01:00:11]

- Following Jesus is not about perfection; it is about acknowledging our daily need for Him and striving to align our lives with His will. As we help others on their journey of faith, we must remember that we are all works in progress, continually being shaped by the Master's hand. [45:21]

Study Guide

### Bible Reading

1. Luke 6:45-49 (NIV)
> "A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? As for everyone who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice, I will show you what they are like. They are like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete."

2. Psalm 139:13-14 (NIV)
> "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."

### Observation Questions

1. According to Luke 6:45, what determines the nature of what a person produces in their life?
2. In the parable of the wise and foolish builders (Luke 6:46-49), what are the consequences of building a house on a solid foundation versus on sand?
3. How does Psalm 139:13-14 describe God's involvement in our creation and identity?
4. What does the sermon suggest about the nature of our hearts and the importance of what we store in them? ([39:00])

### Interpretation Questions

1. What does it mean to "store up" good or evil in our hearts according to Luke 6:45? How does this affect our actions and words?
2. How can the parable of the wise and foolish builders be applied to our daily decision-making and spiritual practices? ([48:37])
3. Psalm 139:13-14 speaks to our identity in Christ. How does understanding that we are "fearfully and wonderfully made" impact our self-worth and actions? ([01:00:11])
4. The sermon mentions that wisdom involves being prudent, clever, skillful, and planned. How can these attributes be cultivated in our pursuit of godly wisdom? ([55:14])

### Application Questions

1. Reflect on your daily habits. What are some practical ways you can intentionally store up good things in your heart? ([39:00])
2. Think about a recent decision you made. Was it built on the solid foundation of Jesus' teachings or on the shifting sands of worldly wisdom? How can you ensure future decisions are more aligned with God's truth? ([48:37])
3. How does recognizing your own foolishness and need for God's wisdom change the way you approach your relationship with Him and others? ([55:04])
4. In what ways can you remind yourself daily that you are "fearfully and wonderfully made" by God, especially when facing criticism or self-doubt? ([01:00:11])
5. Identify one area in your life where you often act foolishly. What steps can you take to be more prudent, clever, skillful, and planned in that area? ([55:14])
6. How can you help others in your community or family to build their lives on the solid rock of Jesus' teachings? Share a specific example of how you might do this. ([45:14])
7. The sermon emphasized the importance of humility in seeking God's wisdom. How can you practice humility in your daily interactions and decisions? ([55:04])

Devotional

Day 1: Embracing God's Unwavering Love
In the midst of our imperfections and foolishness, it is comforting to know that God's love for us remains steadfast. He does not waver in His affection or commitment to us, even when we stray or falter. This divine love invites us to trust in Him and to build our lives upon the solid foundation of His teachings. Recognizing our own limitations and the grace that God extends allows us to live lives that reflect His wisdom and love. It is in this acknowledgment of our need for God that we find the strength to grow and the courage to face our daily challenges. [01:03:01]

"Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed," says the LORD, who has compassion on you. (Isaiah 54:10)

Reflection: How can you actively trust in God's unwavering love today, especially in areas where you feel most vulnerable or foolish?

Day 2: The Heart's Treasury
The heart is likened to a treasury, a sacred place where what we store within shapes the course of our lives. It is crucial to be intentional about filling our hearts with the truth of God's Word, for it is from the abundance of the heart that our actions and decisions flow. By allowing God's principles to take root in our hearts, we enable ourselves to navigate life's complexities with discernment and grace. This daily practice of storing up wisdom is not a passive act but an active engagement with the divine. [38:55]

"Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life." (Proverbs 4:23)

Reflection: What are you currently storing in your heart's treasury, and how can you make more room for God's truth to reside there?

Day 3: The Dynamic Pursuit of Wisdom
Wisdom is not merely about having all the answers; it is about the pursuit of growth and understanding. To be wise is to be prudent, clever, skillful, and planned. It requires a daily commitment to learning from God and applying His truths to our lives. This pursuit is dynamic, acknowledging our own foolishness while striving to embrace the wisdom that comes from above. It is in this journey that we find the true meaning of wisdom. [55:20]

"For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding; he stores up sound wisdom for the upright; he is a shield to those who walk in integrity." (Proverbs 2:6-7)

Reflection: What is one practical step you can take today to pursue wisdom in an area of your life where you've felt foolish?

Day 4: Rooted Identity in Christ
Our identity and security should be deeply rooted in who we are in Christ, not swayed by the opinions and judgments of others. Understanding that we are fearfully and wonderfully made by God empowers us to resist the influence of those who would lead us astray. When we are secure in our identity in Christ, we can confidently walk the path of wisdom He has laid out for us, knowing that we are loved and valued beyond measure. [01:00:11]

"But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light." (1 Peter 2:9)

Reflection: How does your identity in Christ shape the way you view yourself and your interactions with others?

Day 5: Aligning with Christ's Will
Following Jesus is not about attaining perfection but about recognizing our daily need for Him and striving to align our lives with His will. As we journey with others in their faith, we must remember that we are all works in progress, continually being shaped by the Master's hand. This process is one of humility and transformation, where we learn to depend on Jesus for guidance and strength. [45:21]

"And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ." (Philippians 1:6)

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you can strive to align more closely with Christ's will, and what is the first step you can take in that direction today?

Quotes

1) "If you're wise, here's another thing that you've learned. When security comes from who you are and not what others think, you're wise." [59:09] (Download)

2) "The heart is mysterious and God put it in you. And he wired you, he designed you, and you're special. Don't let any other fool convince you that you're not." [01:00:11] (Download)

3) "If we're really honest with ourselves and we really believe what Jesus says, that you know what, when we don't follow what he says, we are like a fool." [52:02] (Download)

4) "Our hearts are a treasury, and every day we have the opportunity to fill it with something, and if we fill it with the wrong thing, then we're gonna output the wrong thing." [53:35] (Download)

5) "The best thing that we could do is, if you're married to someone, is to wake up in the morning, look at your spouse, before you begin your day, to say, I just want you to know, before I leave today, I am a moron." [54:11] (Download)

6) "Wise means this, and I love this, don't miss this, prudent, clever, skillful, and planned. Being wise doesn't mean you have everything together." [55:20] (Download)

7) "You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Yes, you're a fool, but you are fearfully and wonderfully made. And don't let any other moron tell you differently." [01:01:00] (Download)

8) "A wise person produces wise things from the treasury of a wise heart and a foolish person produces foolish things from the treasury of a foolish heart." [01:01:47] (Download)

9) "Jesus was teaching with empathy and he was connecting with the fools in the room and he was letting them know that God loves you even though you're a fool." [01:03:01] (Download)

10) "This message is for you because he looks into our hearts and says, why do you call me Lord, Lord, and you still don't do what I've called you to do?" [01:04:48] (Download)

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