Navigating Controversial Topics Through Scripture and Faith

Devotional

Day 1: Seek God, Not Signs—Reject Astrology and Horoscopes

God calls His people to seek Him alone for guidance, not to look to the stars, omens, or any form of astrology. The allure of horoscopes and zodiac signs may seem harmless or even entertaining, but Scripture is clear that these practices are not just misguided—they are spiritually dangerous and detestable to the Lord. Trusting in astrology opens the door to deception and distracts from the true source of wisdom and direction. Instead, God invites you to trust His Word and the leading of the Holy Spirit, knowing that His guidance is always for your good and protection. [07:40]

Isaiah 47:13-14 (ESV)
"You are wearied with your many counsels; let them stand forth and save you, those who divide the heavens, who gaze at the stars, who at the new moons make known what shall come upon you. Behold, they are like stubble; the fire consumes them; they cannot deliver themselves from the power of the flame. No coal for warming oneself is this, no fire to sit before!"

Reflection: Is there any area of your life where you are tempted to seek guidance from sources other than God? What would it look like to intentionally turn to God’s Word and prayer for direction this week instead?

Day 2: Pursue Self-Control—Honor God in Your Choices with Alcohol

Scripture does not forbid alcohol outright, but it strongly warns against drunkenness and the loss of self-control. The Bible calls for discernment and self-mastery, recognizing that what may be permissible for some can be destructive for others. If you know that alcohol is a stumbling block for you or those around you, wisdom is to abstain. God’s desire is not to restrict your joy, but to protect you and your relationships from harm. If you struggle with addiction, remember that freedom is possible through Christ and that you are not alone—reach out for help and support. [19:55]

Ephesians 5:18 (ESV)
"And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,"

Reflection: Are you honest with yourself and God about your relationship with alcohol or any other habit? What step could you take today to pursue greater self-control or to seek help if you need it?

Day 3: Let Your Words Build Up—Reject Unwholesome Talk and Cursing

The words you speak have power to build up or tear down, to reflect a heart surrendered to God or one shaped by the world. Scripture calls you to let no unwholesome talk come from your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up. Cursing, slander, and filthy language are not just about words—they reveal what is in your heart and can associate you with the world rather than setting you apart for Christ. Ask God to help you gain control over your speech, so that your words bring life and blessing to those around you. [45:55]

Ephesians 4:29 (ESV)
"Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear."

Reflection: Think about the words you used this past week—did they build others up or tear them down? What is one practical way you can be more intentional with your speech today?

Day 4: Flee Sexual Immorality—Honor God with Your Body and Mind

Sexual purity is not just an old-fashioned idea; it is God’s design for your good and His glory. Pornography and any sexual activity outside of marriage are not only spiritually damaging but also harm your soul, your relationships, and your intimacy with God. Scripture urges you to flee from sexual immorality, reminding you that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit and that you were bought with a price. If you are struggling, know that there is hope and freedom in Jesus—reach out for help and trust that God’s grace is greater than your past. [51:57]

1 Corinthians 6:18-20 (ESV)
"Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body."

Reflection: Is there a step you need to take today to pursue purity—whether it’s confessing to someone, setting up boundaries, or seeking accountability?

Day 5: Trust God’s Boundaries—Pursue Holiness Over Cultural Norms

God’s boundaries are not meant to restrict your life, but to protect and bless you. Whether it’s in relationships, sexuality, or any area where culture pressures you to compromise, God’s way is always for your good—even when it’s not the easiest path. Honoring marriage, pursuing purity, and living differently from the world are not about legalism, but about trusting the One who created you and knows what leads to real joy and peace. Don’t settle for what is popular; pursue what is holy, and trust that God’s design is always best. [01:06:34]

Hebrews 13:4 (ESV)
"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous."

Reflection: Where do you feel the most pressure to conform to cultural norms instead of God’s standards? What is one boundary you can put in place this week to honor God in that area?

Sermon Summary

Today’s focus was on six challenging and often controversial topics that many Christians wrestle with in daily life: astrology and horoscopes, alcohol, cussing, pornography, missions, and living together before marriage. The heart behind exploring these issues is not to impose personal opinions, but to encourage everyone to dig deep into Scripture, listen to the Holy Spirit, and let God’s Word shape our convictions—especially when culture or personal experience might push us in other directions.

First, astrology and horoscopes were addressed with clarity: Scripture consistently warns against seeking guidance from the stars or omens. God calls His people to seek Him directly, not His creation, and the strong language used in the Bible is a warning to avoid what is not just empty, but spiritually dangerous.

On alcohol, the Bible does not outright forbid drinking, but it does clearly condemn drunkenness and warns about the dangers of excess. Each person must honestly assess their own tendencies and weaknesses, seeking the Spirit’s guidance. For some, abstaining completely is the wisest path, especially if moderation is a struggle or if alcohol has caused harm in their life or family.

Cussing and unwholesome talk go beyond just “bad words.” Scripture calls us to use our words to build others up, not to tear down or fit in with the world. The words that come out of our mouths reveal what is in our hearts, and self-control in speech is a mark of spiritual maturity.

Pornography is not just a private issue; it is a form of sexual immorality that damages intimacy with God, harms relationships, and supports an industry built on exploitation. Yet, there is hope and freedom in Christ for anyone struggling with this or any addiction. The church community is here to walk alongside those seeking help.

Missions—both local and global—reflect God’s heart for all people. The call to “go and make disciples of all nations” is still active, and stepping out in faith to serve others, whether nearby or far away, deepens our own relationship with God and expands our understanding of His love.

Finally, living together or engaging in sex outside of marriage is not just a cultural or practical issue; it is a spiritual one. God’s design for marriage and sexuality is not outdated, but sacred. His boundaries are not meant to restrict us, but to protect us and lead us into true joy and purpose.

In all these areas, God’s boundaries are not chains, but guardrails. They are given out of love, to keep us on the path of real peace and purpose. Even when it’s hard or countercultural, trusting God’s way is always best.

Key Takeaways

1. Seeking guidance from astrology or horoscopes is not just harmless fun; it is spiritually dangerous and directly opposed to God’s call to seek Him alone. The strong language in Scripture is a warning to avoid practices that open doors to deception and spiritual harm. God desires a relationship where we trust Him, not the created order, for direction and wisdom. [07:10]
2. The issue of alcohol is not about legalism, but about wisdom and self-control. While Scripture does not forbid drinking, it clearly warns against drunkenness and the destruction it brings. Each person must honestly assess their own vulnerabilities and be willing to set boundaries that protect themselves and those they love, seeking the Spirit’s guidance above cultural norms. [19:00]
3. Our words have the power to build up or destroy, and cussing is more than just a list of forbidden words—it’s about the heart behind our speech. When our language reflects bitterness, lack of restraint, or a desire to fit in with the world, it reveals deeper spiritual issues. True transformation comes when we invite God to change our hearts, not just our vocabulary. [45:55]
4. Pornography is a form of sexual immorality that not only damages our relationship with God but also supports exploitation and harms real people. The call is not just to avoid it, but to pursue freedom and healing through Christ, who offers grace and restoration. Reaching out for help is a step of humility and courage, and the church is a place of support, not shame. [51:57]
5. God’s design for sex and marriage is sacred, not outdated, and living together outside of marriage is both spiritually and statistically risky. His boundaries are given to protect us, not to limit us, and following them leads to stronger, healthier relationships. Trusting God’s wisdom, even when it’s countercultural or difficult, is an act of faith that brings lasting peace and joy. [64:52]

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[00:00] - Welcome
[02:10] - Introduction: Hot Topics and Ground Rules
[05:30] - Astrology and Horoscopes
[12:40] - Alcohol: Is Drinking a Sin?
[22:55] - Cussing and Unwholesome Talk
[32:40] - The Power of Words and Personal Story
[39:50] - Is Pornography a Sin?
[46:30] - Freedom from Addiction and Resources
[49:50] - Why Missions Matter: Local and Global
[53:17] - The Mandate for All Nations
[56:17] - Testimony: The Impact of Missions
[60:44] - Gateway’s Commitment to Missions
[62:41] - Living Together Before Marriage
[64:52] - God’s Design for Sex and Marriage
[65:39] - God’s Boundaries: Guardrails, Not Chains
[66:34] - Trusting God’s Way Over Culture
[67:29] - Closing Prayer and Invitation

Bible Study Guide

Bible Reading

Isaiah 47:13-14 (ESV) — > You are wearied with your many counsels; let them stand forth and save you, those who divide the heavens, who gaze at the stars, who at the new moons make known what shall come upon you. Behold, they are like stubble; the fire consumes them; they cannot deliver themselves from the power of the flame. No coal for warming oneself is this, no fire to sit before!

2. Ephesians 5:18 (ESV)
> And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,

3. Ephesians 4:29 (ESV)
> Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

4. Matthew 5:28 (ESV)
> But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

5. Matthew 28:19-20 (ESV)
> Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.

6. Hebrews 13:4 (ESV)
> Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

Observation Questions

According to Isaiah 47:13-14, what is God’s attitude toward those who seek guidance from astrologers and stargazers?
In Ephesians 5:18, what is the contrast Paul makes between being drunk with wine and being filled with the Spirit?
What does Ephesians 4:29 say about the purpose of our words and speech?
In Matthew 28:19-20, what is the scope of Jesus’ command regarding making disciples?

Interpretation Questions

Why do you think God uses such strong language in Isaiah 47 to warn against astrology and horoscopes? What might be the spiritual danger behind these practices? [07:10]
The sermon mentioned that the Bible does not forbid alcohol but warns against drunkenness. How does this distinction help us think about personal boundaries and wisdom in our own lives? [19:00]
The pastor shared a story about realizing he didn’t have control over his words as a kid. What does this reveal about the connection between our speech and our hearts? [45:55]
Why does the Bible treat sexual immorality, including pornography and sex outside of marriage, as such a serious issue? What is at stake spiritually and relationally? [51:57] [01:04:52]

Application Questions

The sermon said that seeking guidance from horoscopes or astrology is not just “harmless fun” but spiritually dangerous. Have you ever been tempted to look for direction outside of God? What would it look like to seek God first in your decisions? [07:10]
When it comes to alcohol, the pastor shared his personal conviction to abstain because of family history and his own tendencies. What are your own boundaries with alcohol, and have you ever needed to adjust them for your own good or the good of others? [19:00]
Think about your speech this past week. Were there moments when your words tore down instead of built up? What is one practical step you can take to let your words reflect a changed heart? [45:55]
If you or someone you know struggles with pornography or any addiction, what would it look like to reach out for help in the church community? What barriers might keep someone from doing this, and how can we support each other better? [51:57]
The call to missions is for everyone, not just a select few. What is one way you can participate in God’s mission—either locally or globally—this month? Is there a step you feel God nudging you to take? [53:17]
The sermon said that living together before marriage is both spiritually and statistically risky. If you or someone you know is facing this decision, what would it look like to trust God’s design for marriage, even if it’s countercultural or difficult? [01:04:52]
God’s boundaries are described as “guardrails, not chains.” Is there an area in your life where you’ve seen God’s boundaries protect you or someone you love? How can you reframe God’s commands as loving protection rather than restriction? [01:05:39]

Sermon Clips

The Bible definitely condemns drunkenness not alcohol itself and the argument obviously for drinking is Jesus turned water into wine right but scripture clearly warns against when you cannot handle it when you drink to get drunk you cannot handle it stay away. [00:38:26] (20 seconds) #CondemnDrunkennessNotWine

You speak to the Holy Spirit you ask God what should my conviction be and you worked out that went out between you and God and again if this is something that's offensive and like why are you talking about this then you should ask yourself hey why are you getting so upset about a drink. [00:40:25] (17 seconds) #ConvictionThroughHolySpirit

If you need help breaking free from addiction to alcohol or any addiction we are here okay there are people like that guy that would constantly lose his shoes there are people who have been through this and their ministry now is to walk with you and help you break free through the power of Jesus Christ you can have freedom from addiction and so please reach out. [00:40:44] (28 seconds) #FreedomFromAddiction

Cussing is a sin if it reflects a heart that is unrestrained and bitter or we're slinging curses towards people okay now run through your mind now how you would use curse words now in your mind you guys some of you some of you started in your mind not the kids kids don't do this this is just adults a lot of them are curses that we speak towards people okay we talked about this in February remember in Proverbs where it talks about life and death are in the power of the tongue and there are consequences to the words that we say okay so we need to be very careful about this so if it reflects a heart that is unrestrained curses towards each other bitterness or we're trying to fit into the world instead of honoring God then it is a sin. [00:41:54] (60 seconds) #PowerOfTheTongue

Pornography isn't just watching something it is participating in something and many of those people in those videos aren't free or those magazines I think I don't know if they still have those around or not some are trafficked abused and forced to perform pornography breaks your intimacy with God it damages your soul and it supports an industry that destroys real lives it is not healthy for you for your marriage it is not healthy but there is good news Jesus offers freedom just like addiction to alcohol or anything else you're struggling with there is freedom in Jesus Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit. [00:50:09] (44 seconds) #PornographyDestroysSouls

Living together might feel practical or harmless but scripture consistently calls us to honor marriage and pursue purity. Studies show that it's not just spiritually risky but it's statistically risky as well. God's design for sex and marriage isn't outdated. It's sacred. I've heard that so many times. That's 2025. Things are different now. No, this is sacred. And when we follow his design we don't just avoid regret. We build something stronger. Trust God with your relationships. He created love. He knows how to work. How it works best. [01:04:58] (41 seconds) #GodsBoundariesProtect

We can trust God in all things even when we don't fully understand. Even when culture says otherwise. And there's immense pressure to go the way that culture says is right. Even when it costs us something. The more we trust him the more we see that his way is not always the easiest in the moment. That's pretty common but it is always the best. It may not be easiest in the moment but it is always the best. [01:06:20] (36 seconds) #HopeForTheStruggling

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