Matthew 5:21-26 (Law & Prophets pt2)

Psalm 133 paints a beautiful picture of unity among God’s people, likening it to the fragrant anointing oil on Aaron and the life-giving dew on Mount Hermon. This unity is not just a pleasant ideal, but the very place where God commands His blessing—life forevermore. As we journey together as God’s family, we are called to embody this unity, not by natural effort, but by the supernatural work of the Holy Spirit. The ethos of heaven, as revealed in the Sermon on the Mount, is meant to be lived out here and now, shaping our relationships and our character to reflect Jesus Himself.

True righteousness is not about outward religious form or legalistic observance, but about a transformed heart and life. Jesus calls us to a righteousness that exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees—a righteousness that is both a gift and a calling. It is legal, in that we are declared right with God through Christ, and it is lived, as the Holy Spirit writes God’s law on our hearts and empowers us to walk in obedience. This transformation touches every part of us: our attitudes, our words, our actions, and especially our relationships with one another.

Jesus’ teaching on anger and reconciliation goes far deeper than the surface. He warns that murder, anger, and contempt all bring judgment, not just because of their outward effects, but because they destroy the unity and love that should mark God’s family. Our words have the power to build up or tear down, and we are called to use them with grace, especially toward our brothers and sisters in Christ. When there is conflict, Jesus instructs us to prioritize reconciliation over religious ritual, seeking to restore relationship for the sake of the other, not just ourselves.

Being part of God’s family means taking responsibility for one another. If we have wronged a brother or sister, or if they have something against us, we are to pursue peace and restoration quickly, before bitterness takes root or the conflict escalates. This is not easy, and it is not natural—but it is the way of the cross, the way Jesus loved us. Discipleship is a choice, a daily taking up of the cross, empowered by the Spirit, marked by endurance, faithfulness, and a willingness to be wronged for the sake of love and unity. In this, we display the fragrance of Christ and the life of heaven here on earth.

Key Takeaways

• 1. Unity among believers is both a gift and a calling, rooted in our shared identity as God’s family. This unity is not merely the absence of conflict, but the presence of a supernatural love that flows from the Spirit, creating a fragrance and blessing that the world cannot replicate. When we dwell together in unity, we experience the commanded blessing of God—life forevermore. [01:33]
• 2. Righteousness that pleases God is not about external conformity or religious performance, but about a heart transformed by Christ and empowered by the Holy Spirit. The law is fulfilled in us as we walk according to the Spirit, not the flesh, and as our lives begin to look more and more like Jesus—both in character and in action. This righteousness is a gift, but it is also a calling to live differently. [06:09]
• 3. Anger and contempt, even when hidden in the heart or expressed in words, are destructive to the unity of God’s family. Jesus teaches that these attitudes are not minor issues, but matters of judgment, because they attack the image of God in others and poison relationships. We are called to process anger rightly, not letting it fester or turn to bitterness, but seeking reconciliation and healing. [25:53]
• 4. Reconciliation takes priority over religious activity. Jesus instructs us to leave our gifts at the altar and first be reconciled to our brother or sister if there is conflict. This means humbling ourselves, taking initiative, and valuing the other’s spiritual well-being above our own pride or sense of being right. True worship is inseparable from right relationships within the family of God. [38:16]
• 5. Discipleship is a daily choice to follow Jesus, deny ourselves, and take up our cross. It requires effort, endurance, and faithfulness, but it is empowered by the Spirit and marked by a willingness to be wronged for the sake of love and unity. When we refuse to reconcile or let conflicts escalate, we risk God’s loving discipline, for He desires that His children walk in the light and display the life of heaven on earth. [47:06]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [00:26] - Introduction to Psalm 133 and the Song of Ascent
• [01:33] - The Blessing of Unity and Eternal Life
• [03:45] - The Ethos of Heaven and the Sermon on the Mount
• [04:31] - Righteousness Beyond Religious Form
• [06:09] - Transformation by the Spirit and the Image of Christ
• [09:29] - Walking Out New Life in Christ
• [11:23] - The Role of the Holy Spirit in Obedience
• [13:02] - The Mark of True Sheep: Following Jesus
• [15:25] - Jesus’ Teaching on Murder, Anger, and Words
• [17:04] - The Eternal Family of God
• [20:10] - The Supernatural Nature of Christian Unity
• [23:06] - The Destructive Power of Anger and Words
• [26:30] - Processing Anger and Pursuing Reconciliation
• [30:24] - The Tongue: Blessing or Cursing
• [38:16] - Reconciliation Before Worship
• [43:31] - Love as the Mark of Discipleship
• [46:18] - The Cost and Choice of Discipleship
• [52:10] - The Danger of Unresolved Conflict
• [57:20] - The Way of the Cross and the Life of the Spirit
• [58:37] - Prayer for the Power to Walk in Love

Bible Reading

Psalm 133 (NKJV) — > Behold, how good and how pleasant it is
> For brethren to dwell together in unity!
> It is like the precious oil upon the head,
> Running down on the beard,
> The beard of Aaron,
> Running down on the edge of his garments.
> It is like the dew of Hermon,
> Descending upon the mountains of Zion;
> For there the Lord commanded the blessing—
> Life forevermore.

Matthew 5:21-26 (NKJV) — > “You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.’ But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment. And whoever says to his brother, ‘Raca!’ shall be in danger of the council. But whoever says, ‘You fool!’ shall be in danger of hell fire. Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison. Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny.”

Observation Questions

1. In Psalm 133, what two images does David use to describe unity among God’s people? What do these images communicate about the nature of unity? ([01:33])
2. According to Matthew 5:21-22, how does Jesus expand the commandment “You shall not murder”? What attitudes and words does He include? ([15:25])
3. What does Jesus say should take priority if you remember that your brother has something against you while you are offering your gift at the altar? ([38:16])
4. In the sermon, what is described as the “commanded blessing” that comes when God’s people dwell together in unity? ([01:33])

Interpretation Questions

1. Why does Jesus place such a high value on reconciliation, even above religious rituals like offering gifts at the altar? What does this reveal about God’s priorities for His people? ([38:16])
2. The sermon says that unity is not just the absence of conflict, but the presence of supernatural love. How is this different from simply “getting along” or avoiding arguments? ([20:10])
3. According to the sermon, how does anger or contempt, even if hidden in the heart or expressed in words, threaten the unity and health of God’s family? ([25:53])
4. The pastor mentioned that true righteousness is both a gift and a calling. How does this understanding affect the way believers approach obedience and relationships? ([06:09])

Application Questions

1. Think of a time when you were angry with a brother or sister in Christ. How did you handle it? Looking back, is there anything you would do differently in light of Jesus’ teaching on anger and reconciliation? ([25:53])
2. The sermon says that if you remember someone has something against you, you should go and be reconciled before worship. Is there anyone you need to reach out to this week to seek reconciliation? What might be holding you back? ([38:16])
3. The pastor described unity as a “fragrance” that others notice. In your daily life, do you think people around you sense this kind of unity and love among believers? Why or why not? ([01:33])
4. Jesus calls us to a righteousness that is lived out, not just believed. What is one area of your life—attitude, words, or actions—where you sense the Holy Spirit prompting you to change for the sake of unity? ([06:09])
5. The sermon talked about the cost of discipleship: denying yourself, taking up your cross, and sometimes being willing to be wronged for the sake of love and unity. Is there a situation where you need to let go of your “right to be right” in order to pursue peace? ([47:06])
6. When conflict arises, do you tend to avoid it, lash out, or seek quick reconciliation? What practical step can you take this week to process anger in a godly way? ([29:29])
7. The pastor said, “Being part of God’s family means taking responsibility for one another.” What is one way you can take responsibility for the unity of your church family this month? ([19:28])