The call to love God is not about vague spiritual intensity but relating to a real Person. Just as we know how to prioritize, listen to, and share life with people we cherish, loving God requires knowing His voice, caring about His heart, and choosing time with Him. This love isn’t mystical—it’s as tangible as a conversation with a friend. God’s personal nature means He desires to be known deeply, not just admired distantly. Every act of attention to Him—prayer, Scripture, obedience—is an act of love’s ordinary magic. [30:54]
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.
(Genesis 1:27, ESV)
Reflection: What practical step could you take today to relate to God more like a person you love than a concept you admire?
Loving God with all our heart demands displacing rival affections. We instinctively prioritize what we love—whether a favorite show, hobby, or comfort. Jesus’ command exposes our disordered loves: does knowing God’s Word compete with knowing trivia? Does prayer feel less urgent than scrolling? Loving God isn’t about hating good things but letting Him be the gravitational center that orders all other loves. [39:15]
No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.
(Matthew 6:24, ESV)
Reflection: What “good thing” has subtly competed with your love for God this week? How might you rearrange one habit to choose Him first?
A child’s obedience to a good parent isn’t robotic duty—it’s trust forged through relationship. Similarly, obeying God flows from knowing His character. When we dismiss His commands, we treat Him as a vague force, not a Father. Every act of obedience—even when costly or confusing—says, “I trust Your heart more than my own.” This is love’s boldest declaration. [44:51]
If you love me, you will keep my commandments.
(John 14:15, ESV)
Reflection: Is there a specific area where God’s command feels inconvenient or unclear? How might choosing obedience today deepen your trust in His fatherhood?
God’s instructions aren’t arbitrary rules but guardrails for abundant living. A parent’s “don’t touch the stove” protects a child; likewise, God’s boundaries free us to thrive. His call to forgive, give, or speak truth isn’t about restriction but liberation—freeing us from sin’s corrosion and aligning us with His healing purposes. [47:39]
And now, Israel, what does the Lord your God require of you, but to fear the Lord your God, to walk in all his ways, to love him, to serve the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul, and to keep the commandments and statutes of the Lord, which I am commanding you today for your good?
(Deuteronomy 10:12-13, ESV)
Reflection: Which of God’s commands have you resisted as restrictive? How might embracing it today lead to unexpected freedom?
We cannot love God authentically until we’ve been wrecked by His love for us. Communion reminds us: Jesus loved the Father perfectly so we might love Him redemptively. Our faltering efforts are met with grace, not grading. As we receive His broken body and shed blood, we’re empowered to love—not to earn approval, but because we’re already fully known and fully loved. [01:09:36]
We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar. For he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen.
(1 John 4:19-20, ESV)
Reflection: How might receiving God’s unconditional love today soften your heart to love others—even the “hard to love” in your life?
Jesus answers the trap about the greatest commandment by taking all 613 laws and hanging them from two nails. Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind. Love your neighbor as yourself. The command is simple and clear, yet not easily understood, because love keeps getting redefined and God keeps getting mystified. The text refuses that fog. God is personal, not a mist. Love toward God shares the same substance as love toward people. Real love spends time, listens, cares, prioritizes, chooses, sacrifices, shares life. That same substance belongs with God.
Love also carries a greater measure when God is the object. Jesus insists that every other affection should pale beside love for the Father. The one who should know a person best is the Lord. The one a person should speak to most is the Lord. Not necessarily more minutes with a Bible than with a spouse, but a life that keeps God in constant conversation, choosing him over other options. An everyday story about knowing a show’s lines by heart turns into a rebuke. If love saturates the mind like that, love can choose to fill the mind with Scripture that way. The issue is not ability, it is priority.
Love further has a unique shape with God because God has revealed himself as Father and his people as children. Children love parents with intimacy and with obedience. Affection without obedience is not love. Obedience without affection is hollow. Jesus settles this by saying all the Law and the Prophets hang here, which means love takes the form of obeying what God commands. Those commands are not arbitrary. A good Father does not issue random orders. His words aim at his children’s flourishing and at the family mission. Some commands will not gratify the flesh, like take up your cross and follow, yet they move life toward abundance and move the kingdom forward.
The gospel then guards the soul from despair. Not for a second has any person loved God with all heart, soul, and mind. Jesus did. He loved the Father to the utmost, laid down his life, rose, and now justifies sinners apart from the law. Because of that, love becomes overflow rather than ladder. The Spirit empowers real choices, so the call lands concrete. Give God foremost intimacy and utmost obedience. Choose God once a day over something else, not to earn anything, but because love chooses the beloved.
Because even as I say choose God, I know that for not a second in my life have I chosen God with all my heart and all my soul and all my life. Not for a second of my life have I ever lived this command out to the utmost. Have I given God my everything? But Jesus gave God his everything. Jesus gave God his everything. He literally gave his life. He loved God to the utmost with his whole heart, his whole soul, and his whole mind.
[00:51:38]
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#JesusGaveEverything
God has revealed himself to be very personal God, and so the affection, the instant love that I show other people is of the same substance that of the love that I show God. What it means to love someone else, what it means that I love you, that I love my wife, that I love my kids. There are these unifying aspects of what it means to love a person that apply to every loving relationship that we have. Right? Think about, oh, what what do I do with someone that I love? I spend time with them. I know them. I listen listen to them. I care for them. I prioritize them. I choose them over other things. I care about them. I sacrifice for them.
[00:31:10]
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#GodIsPersonalLove
if Meredith just wants to, you know, cuddle up all day and and wants to, you know, talk and show me her paintings and all these things, like, I love that so much. But if she never listens to a word that I say, there is there is no love in that relationship. There's no respect in that relationship. There is no care in that relationship. Sure. She might have a need for some affection, and she's getting that. But there's no real true love in that relationship. Obedience is a critical and nonnegotiable unique aspect of our love for God. There is intimacy and there is affection and there is obedience.
[00:43:22]
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#LoveRequiresObedience
because oftentimes I can put something in God's place that looks really good. Oh, I should spend time with with Nicole tonight. I have you know, I've been out kind of a couple evenings. Well, when's the last time I was out a couple evenings and I said, you know what? I'm gonna choose God tonight. I'm gonna read my bible. And so I wanna encourage you this week. Choose God in intimacy and or in obedience once a day this week over something else that maybe you wanted to just choose God. That's what we do for people that we love. We choose them.
[00:50:46]
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#ChooseGodDaily
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