Love: The Foundation of Christian Life and Action
Summary
### Summary
Today, we delved into 1 Corinthians 13, focusing on the essence of love as described by Paul. We began by reading the chapter, which emphasizes that without love, all spiritual gifts and sacrifices are meaningless. Paul defines love through a series of verbs, highlighting that love is patient and kind. These attributes are not just passive feelings but active, present, and indicative actions that reflect the nature of Jesus Christ.
We explored the concept of agape love, which is centered on a moral preference for what God prefers. Contrary to the common belief that agape love is giving without expecting anything in return, we learned that God's love does have expectations, as seen in John 3:16-18. Belief in Jesus and a life that reflects that belief are essential components of agape love.
We also discussed the importance of patience and kindness. Patience, as defined in the scripture, is long-suffering and slow to anger, reflecting how Jesus expressed anger only as God directed. Kindness involves gentleness and a willingness to serve others, exemplified by Jesus' ultimate sacrifice on the cross. These attributes should be evident in our lives as followers of Christ, not just in words but in actions.
Paul's message to the Corinthians and to us today is clear: love must be the foundation of all our actions. This love is not about perfection but about growth and striving to be more like Jesus. As a church, we are called to demonstrate this love to each other and to the world, showing that we are true disciples of Christ.
### Key Takeaways
1. The Primacy of Love: Without love, all spiritual gifts and sacrifices are meaningless. Love is the foundation upon which all other virtues and actions must be built. This love is not just a feeling but an active, present, and indicative action that reflects the nature of Jesus Christ. [49:05]
2. Agape Love Defined: Agape love is centered on a moral preference for what God prefers. It is not merely giving without expecting anything in return but involves a reciprocal relationship where belief in Jesus and a life that reflects that belief are essential. [56:07]
3. Patience as Long-Suffering: Patience, as described in 1 Corinthians 13, is long-suffering and slow to anger. It reflects how Jesus expressed anger only as God directed, showing us that true patience involves a controlled and righteous response to situations. [01:07:37]
4. Kindness as Service: Kindness involves gentleness and a willingness to serve others, exemplified by Jesus' ultimate sacrifice on the cross. This kind of love is active and concerned with the well-being of others, demonstrating the true nature of Christ's love. [01:15:11]
5. Love in Action: The attributes of love described by Paul are verbs, indicating that love is demonstrated through our actions more than just our words. As followers of Christ, our lives should exemplify these actions, showing the world what true love looks like. [01:19:29]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[49:05] - The Primacy of Love
[49:52] - Love Bears All Things
[50:18] - Childish Ways vs. Mature Love
[50:58] - The Worthlessness of Loveless Actions
[51:20] - Defining Love
[51:49] - Jesus as the Example of Love
[52:15] - The Greatest Commandments
[52:52] - Love and Truth
[53:30] - Speaking Truth in Love
[54:35] - Agape Love Explained
[56:07] - Belief and Action
[58:07] - Actions Speak Louder Than Words
[01:00:03] - Present Active Indicative Verbs
[01:03:26] - The Importance of Present Actions
[01:05:11] - Love is Patient
[01:07:37] - Jesus' Example of Patience
[01:09:54] - Righteous Anger
[01:13:05] - Love is Kind
[01:15:11] - Jesus' Example of Kindness
[01:19:29] - Love in the Church
[01:21:59] - Practical Application
[01:24:18] - Prayer for Patience and Kindness
[01:26:25] - Communion Instructions
[01:27:51] - Examining Ourselves
[01:29:12] - Communion Participation
[01:35:04] - Closing Prayer and Song
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. 1 Corinthians 13
2. John 3:16-18
3. Philippians 2:5-11
#### Observation Questions
1. According to 1 Corinthians 13, what are the characteristics of love that Paul describes? ([49:05])
2. How does John 3:16-18 illustrate the concept of agape love? ([56:07])
3. In Philippians 2:5-11, how did Jesus demonstrate kindness and service to others? ([01:15:11])
4. What does Paul mean when he says that love is patient and kind in 1 Corinthians 13? ([01:07:37])
#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does Paul emphasize that without love, all spiritual gifts and sacrifices are meaningless? How does this apply to our daily lives? ([49:05])
2. How does the concept of agape love challenge the common belief that love is giving without expecting anything in return? ([56:07])
3. What does it mean for love to be patient and kind in the context of our interactions with others? How did Jesus exemplify these traits? ([01:07:37])
4. How can the attributes of love described by Paul in 1 Corinthians 13 be seen as active, present, and indicative actions? ([01:01:36])
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you acted without love. How did it affect the outcome of your actions? What could you have done differently to incorporate love? ([49:05])
2. How can you demonstrate agape love in your daily life, especially in situations where you might expect something in return? ([56:07])
3. Think of a situation where you were impatient or quick to anger. How can you apply the concept of patience as long-suffering in future similar situations? ([01:07:37])
4. Identify a person in your life who could benefit from an act of kindness. What specific action can you take this week to serve them? ([01:15:11])
5. How can you ensure that your actions reflect the love described in 1 Corinthians 13, rather than just your words? ([01:19:29])
6. In what ways can you grow in demonstrating patience and kindness within your church community? How can this impact the perception of your church by outsiders? ([01:19:29])
7. Consider the example of Jesus' ultimate sacrifice on the cross. How can this inspire you to serve others selflessly in your daily life? ([01:15:11])
Devotional
Day 1: The Foundation of Love
Description:
In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul emphasizes that love is the foundation upon which all spiritual gifts and sacrifices must be built. Without love, even the most impressive spiritual gifts and acts of sacrifice are meaningless. This love is not merely a feeling but an active, present, and indicative action that reflects the nature of Jesus Christ. Love is patient, kind, and does not envy or boast. It is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way, is not irritable or resentful, and does not rejoice at wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. This kind of love is the essence of Christian living and should be the driving force behind all our actions. [49:05]
Bible Passage:
"Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins." (1 Peter 4:8, ESV)
Reflection:
Think of a recent situation where you acted without love. How could you have approached it differently if love had been your foundation?
Day 2: Understanding Agape Love
Description:
Agape love is often misunderstood as simply giving without expecting anything in return. However, true agape love is centered on a moral preference for what God prefers. It involves a reciprocal relationship where belief in Jesus and a life that reflects that belief are essential. This kind of love is not just about self-sacrifice but also about aligning our desires and actions with God's will. In John 3:16-18, we see that God's love has expectations—belief in Jesus and a life that reflects that belief. This understanding of agape love challenges us to examine our own lives and ensure that our love is not just self-serving but truly reflective of God's love. [56:07]
Bible Passage:
"And this is love, that we walk according to his commandments; this is the commandment, just as you have heard from the beginning, so that you should walk in it." (2 John 1:6, ESV)
Reflection:
Reflect on your understanding of agape love. How can you align your actions more closely with God's will today?
Day 3: Embracing Patience
Description:
Patience, as described in 1 Corinthians 13, is long-suffering and slow to anger. It reflects how Jesus expressed anger only as God directed, showing us that true patience involves a controlled and righteous response to situations. This kind of patience is not passive but active, requiring us to endure hardships and challenges without losing our temper or becoming resentful. It is a reflection of God's patience with us and a crucial aspect of living a life that mirrors Jesus. By embracing patience, we can better navigate the difficulties of life and maintain our witness as followers of Christ. [01:07:37]
Bible Passage:
"With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace." (Ephesians 4:2-3, ESV)
Reflection:
Think of a situation where you recently lost your patience. How can you practice long-suffering and a controlled response in similar situations in the future?
Day 4: Practicing Kindness
Description:
Kindness involves gentleness and a willingness to serve others, exemplified by Jesus' ultimate sacrifice on the cross. This kind of love is active and concerned with the well-being of others, demonstrating the true nature of Christ's love. Kindness is not just about being nice but about taking tangible actions to help and serve those around us. It requires us to go beyond our comfort zones and make sacrifices for the benefit of others. By practicing kindness, we can reflect the love of Christ in our daily interactions and make a positive impact on the lives of those around us. [01:15:11]
Bible Passage:
"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32, ESV)
Reflection:
Identify one person in your life who could use an act of kindness today. What specific action can you take to show them the love of Christ?
Day 5: Love in Action
Description:
The attributes of love described by Paul are verbs, indicating that love is demonstrated through our actions more than just our words. As followers of Christ, our lives should exemplify these actions, showing the world what true love looks like. This means being patient, kind, humble, and selfless in our daily interactions. It involves actively seeking opportunities to serve others and make a positive impact. By living out these attributes, we can be a testament to the transformative power of God's love and inspire others to do the same. [01:19:29]
Bible Passage:
"Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth." (1 John 3:18, ESV)
Reflection:
Think about your daily routine. What is one specific way you can demonstrate love through your actions today?
Quotes
1. "If I give away all I have, I deliver up my body to be burned. I, I, I, I, I give and I give and I serve and I serve and I don't have love. All of it is worthless. All of it is nothing. All of it has no value. So he says, he says, if I don't have love, all of this is worthless." [51:20] (22 seconds)
2. "Jesus shows us how to love in the life of Jesus, in his ministry, in everything he did, he shows us what love is. But we can have a hard time living like Jesus. We can have a hard time following Jesus example. We can nitpick of, well, is this really that kind of a situation? Do I need to do that?" [51:49] (20 seconds)
3. "Jesus, we look at the life of Jesus and he shows us what it looks like to live as someone who truly loves. Love did not prevent him from speaking what is true. Love didn't even prevent him from having some harsh words with people. But in his love, in all of those things, he did not sin." [52:52] (28 seconds)
4. "So often we speak truth with no love and we are harsh with no love. know love and do not represent Jesus. Do not look like Jesus. Don't sound like Jesus. And we enter into sin. And so as Paul is writing here in 1 Corinthians, he's saying, okay, he fully recognizes and knows that Jesus said to love God and love your neighbor. And now he's going to show what love actually looks like." [53:30] (35 seconds)
5. "If anyone says they love and their actions don't demonstrate the same, they don't really love. If a Christian says, if someone says, I love God and I love my neighbor, but their actions don't follow, we should believe the actions more than we believe. The words. Now, do our actions always follow our words? Not at all." [58:07] (28 seconds)
6. "When you come to know Jesus, you don't suddenly have it all right, understand it all, live it all exactly the way you're supposed to. It's a process of growth. The $10 word we use for that is sanctification. We're becoming more like Jesus. And so it's not a, I do this perfectly. It's I'm growing in and applying this more and more and more." [58:07] (27 seconds)
7. "Love is patient. And right there, we may start to try and have some of those mental gymnastics to get around it. There are some people who are naturally patient. I don't think that's most people. He said, the first thing he says that love is, is that love is patient. This is a present active indicative verb. I am, right now, patient. Because that is true about what love is." [01:05:11] (38 seconds)
8. "Love is kind. Love is patient. Love is kind. This word means to be gentle, to be full of service to others. This is a present middle indicative verb. This is a subject who's concerned about, who's performing the action, but concerned about the action also, am I gentle? Am I kind? Love is patient. Love is kind. It serves others. That's what kind means, to be gentle, to serve others, to be full of service to others." [01:13:05] (45 seconds)
9. "Jesus served others to the point of his death in philippians chapter number two starting in verse number five we're told have this mind among yourselves which is yours in christ jesus who though he was in the form of god did not count equality with god a thing to be grasped but emptied himself by taking the form of a servant being born in the likeness of men and being found in human form he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death even death on a cross." [01:15:11] (28 seconds)
10. "The way we love demonstrates jesus to the world around us we do not have time to finish all of these verbs today or we're going to be here for a while but just talking about patience and kindness is big enough it's really easy to be impatient it's really easy to unkind to not be gentle to not be full of service it's really easy to be too busy for either one of these paul says god through his word says love is patient love is kind." [01:19:29] (70 seconds)