You’ve been told to love, but perhaps not shown how. Jesus calls you to love one another, not as a warm feeling, but as a choice to seek another’s good—even when your emotions don’t line up. This means you can obey even when you don’t naturally like someone. Release the false guilt of not feeling fondness; instead, pursue faithful action. As you trust Jesus and walk by the Spirit, love will look like concrete decisions that mirror His heart. Ask God where He wants you to love today, then take the first step. [04:39]
John 13:34–35: I’m giving you a fresh command—love each other the way I have loved you. When you practice this kind of love among yourselves, everyone watching will recognize that you belong to me.
Reflection: Who is one person you tend to avoid in your church family, and what specific act of service will you choose this week for their good (a call, a note, a meal, a ride)?
Real love is not pretend; it is pure, honest, and anchored in what is right. To love well means hating what deforms a life and urging one another toward what is good. Sometimes love sounds like gentle truth, not easy agreement; it strengthens, guides, and protects. In the church, we help each other grow up in Christ by stirring one another to goodness, not by excusing what harms. Ask God to cleanse your motives so your care is sincere, wise, and faithful. Then choose honesty over flattery and courage over comfort. [10:35]
Romans 12:9–10: Let love be the real thing—no masks. Turn away in disgust from evil and hold fast to what is good. Be devoted to one another like family and look for ways to place others’ honor before your own.
Reflection: Think of a friend who is facing a specific temptation or harmful pattern; what gracious, concrete conversation or support could help them cling to what is good this week?
Love grows where people are prioritized, not treated like an errand. “Fervent in spirit” pictures a boiling heat—eager commitment that moves you toward one another. Choose to rearrange your schedule for the sake of community; move beyond Sundays to meals, prayers, and shared burdens. This devotion gives a small glimpse of heaven as different people gather around the Lamb and care for each other. When emotions lag, let obedience lead; warmth often follows the habit of showing up. Ask the Lord whom you should pursue this week, and say yes to it. [16:45]
Hebrews 10:24–25: Think carefully about how to spark each other toward love and helpful action. Don’t abandon your gatherings, as some have done; instead, meet and lift each other up—more and more as the Day draws near.
Reflection: Where can you carve out a regular hour each week to be with another believer (coffee, a home visit, serving together), and whom will you invite first?
Love shows up in both celebration and struggle. It begins with God—serving Him first—and then flows outward to others with steady hope. In pressure and pain, real love doesn’t vanish; it endures, prays, and remains present. Prayer ties our hearts to God’s heart and teaches us how to care wisely. Let perseverance mark your relationships when problems persist or feelings fade. [18:38]
Romans 12:11–12: Don’t grow lazy in zeal; keep your inner fire hot as you serve the Lord. Rejoice because of the hope you have, hold steady under trouble, and stay constant in prayer.
Reflection: Who in your church family is walking through grief, illness, or pressure, and what two tangible touches—one prayer rhythm and one practical help—will you offer this week?
Love finds a need and chooses to meet it, even when it’s inconvenient. “One another” requires knowing one another—names, stories, and burdens—so move closer than a Sunday hello. This kind of care is a bright witness in a self-focused world. Jesus showed the pattern by laying aside status, embracing servanthood, and going all the way to the cross. Follow Him by setting aside hurry, opening your home, sharing resources, and being present. Start small, but start today. [24:44]
Philippians 2:5–8: Think the way Christ Jesus thought: though truly God, He did not cling to His rights. He poured Himself out, took a servant’s place, and became human. He went lower still, obeying to the point of death—death on a cross.
Reflection: What is one concrete need you can meet for someone in your church family this week (a meal, a ride, childcare, a bill, a spare room, time to listen), and when will you do it?
Beginning a new focus on the biblical “one another” commands, the teaching centers on “love one another” and clarifies what Scripture means by love. Love is not warm affection or liking everyone. It is a commanded, concrete, God-shaped commitment that refuses pretense—“love without hypocrisy” (Romans 12:9–13). The common confusion that love is primarily a feeling leads many to think they are failing when they don’t feel fondness. Scripture instead calls for action aligned with truth: abhor evil, cling to good, and help one another do the same. Love is moral clarity expressed in faithful care.
Romans provides the frame. After eleven chapters proving that all—Jew and Gentile—stand equally in need of grace, Romans 12 turns to how redeemed people live together. The call is to love that is pure (rejecting evil, holding fast to good), prioritized (devoted to one another, honoring one another, fervent—not sluggish), and consistent (rejoicing in hope, patient in trouble, constant in prayer). This love is not occasional sentiment but steady discipleship. It chooses the good for a brother or sister even when emotions are thin and schedules are tight.
Because modern life makes it easy to live Christianity “all alone” instead of “one another,” intentional commitment is needed. The first-century church often had only each other; today many drift into treating church as an errand rather than a family. Scripture pushes back: make room to truly know people beyond a Sunday hour, so that needs can actually be seen and met. Love expresses itself practically—contributing to the saints’ needs, practicing hospitality—meeting real needs regardless of personal preference.
This visible, practical love is how a watching world recognizes genuine disciples. Not by party, brand, or style, but by Christlike care (John 13:35). Heaven’s focus is not “me” but “Him,” and Christ’s own love sets the pattern: self-emptying obedience that serves even when it costs (Philippians 2). For those who belong to Jesus, the path is clear: begin with worship and prayer, then move toward people with thoughtful, sacrificial presence. The invitation is to recover a way of life where love is truth in action, without show, for the good of the family of God—week by week, house to house, need by need.
What does it mean to love without hypocrisy? First, he says it means to love purely. If we're to love one another, we have to cling to what is good and abhor what's evil. That's that's hard. Parents, listen to me real quick. Listen as someone who's gotten it wrong, not as somebody who is an example. Loving our kids means teaching them what is right, not just giving in to what they want.
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#LoveWithoutHypocrisy
About five or six years ago, my brother was sitting in bed, his wife was in the kitchen cooking, and he hollered for her, and she came in the room, and all he had time to say was, I'm sorry, and he fell over dead from a heart attack. I didn't understand what my grandparents meant when they said love your brother because he might not always be here.
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#LoveWhileYouCan
And and to love each other means to be devoted to each other. That means that involves a choice and sometimes a hard choice. Right? Sometimes it's a hard choice because you say, I have such little time, so little time to myself, so little family time, so little this time, so little that time that this week, I just wanna I don't wanna gather together with other believers, but that's when you choose to do that, and that's when you know you're loving. You say, well, I don't feel like it. Well, don't let your emotions be God.
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#LoveIsAChoice
See, here's what here's where it really gets down to what love is. What is love? Love is seeing someone's need and choosing to meet it regardless regardless of how you feel about them. Think about what that means. That means that a group of people that ought to love each other. Right? I mean, we're on the same team. We ought to love each other and see a need. Now here, I know what you're thinking because I was thinking the same thing when I was preparing this.
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#LoveMeetsNeed
As a matter of fact, even people that have claimed to gone to heaven and come back to tell us the story. What's their story about heaven? It's all about me. Can I tell you I don't read that in the book of Revelation? I see people from every tribe, tongue, and nation gathered around the throne. And what is the focus of heaven? It is him. But the world wants to tell us it's all about us. That's why when we get serious about loving each other, it shows the world that something has changed.
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#HeavenIsAboutHim
So we're gonna just put some crosses up outside and we'll just start nailing some people up there? No. But what if we what if we saw and heard the call of God in this command to set aside our busy schedules, to set aside our pursuit of position and degree and all the things that we're running after. What if we took time out from that and said, you know what? I choose to get to know somebody in this church, to get to know somebody and serve somebody. Because, by the way, this is one another. Right? The I don't know if you realize this, but one another, there has to be another to be one another.
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#MakeTimeForOneAnother
And so I guess I'm making the assumption that you already know that there's you were born in sin, separated from God. And God loved you so much that he sent his only begotten son to live a perfection that you could never live and die on the cross in your place. And if you will stop trying to make your own way and place your faith in what he has done to make you acceptable to god, you will be. That's the first step in becoming church family.
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#FaithFirstBecomeFamily
Then following that decision with a baptism that publicly says, I'm turning my back on all of my sin and placing all of my faith on Jesus. Are you gonna do that perfectly? No. But is it your heart to want to? It has to be if the holy spirit's at work. But then you know what comes after that? This. Love one another. Love one another like Christ loved you.
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#FollowJesusLoveOthers
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