A new year invites new plans, but the deeper call is intentional love. Love is not a vibe; it is the Spirit’s work in us, expressed by giving ourselves for the good of others. Spiritual gifts are not for spotlight or self-advancement; they are Spirit-enabled ways to build up the body. Without love as the foundation, even dazzling gifts serve no one well. So set your heart to grow, surrender, and belong on purpose—then your gifts will actually nourish the family. [39:38]
1 Corinthians 12:31–13:3
Set your heart on the kinds of gifts that most help others, and I’ll show you the best way. If I could speak every human or heavenly language but lack love, all I make is empty noise. If I could declare God’s secrets, grasp all truth, and trust him enough to see mountains move, yet have no love, I amount to nothing. If I give away everything or even give up my own body, but not from love, I gain nothing.
Reflection: What is one specific way you can give yourself for the good of others this week by using a gift God has placed in you, and when will you do it?
Love speaks the language of belonging. The body thrives when everyone brings something for others to eat, not when a few cook while many only consume. In love, you discern what the church needs and offer your time, skill, and presence as your “dish,” trusting God to feed all. This is how unity grows strong—love is the bond that holds very different people together. Choose to move from spectator to contributor and watch the whole table be nourished. [55:11]
Colossians 3:14
Over everything else, clothe yourselves with love; it’s the bond that ties you together in a unity that holds.
Reflection: What “dish” will you bring to your church’s table this month—name the gift, time, or task—and who specifically will it help?
God listens for love in our worship. Songs, prayers, even the most passionate expressions become noise when our hearts ignore justice and our relationships remain unreconciled. Love moves us toward people, not away from them; it seeks the good of others and makes things right. Before we offer God our praise, we can offer someone our apology, our forgiveness, or our help. Let love tune your heart so your worship is a sweet sound to him. [01:06:49]
Amos 5:21–24
I am weary of your religious gatherings and I won’t accept your offerings. Stop the noise of your songs; I won’t listen to your instruments. Let justice pour out like a river and righteousness flow like a never-ending stream.
Reflection: Before next Sunday, is there someone you need to reconcile with so your worship is not just sound? What first step will you take in the next 48 hours?
Gifts aimed at self-honor collapse into dishonor; love aims at building others up. We can chase being impressive—knowledgeable, insightful, mountain-moving—or we can choose to be loving, which actually strengthens people. Without love, impressive words turn harsh, wisdom feels cold, and faith becomes a badge instead of a blessing. With love, our words become food, not bricks. Ask God to make your serving about people’s good, not your résumé. [01:11:44]
1 Corinthians 8:1
Knowledge can swell the ego, but love strengthens and builds people up.
Reflection: Where do you most feel the pull to be noticed when you serve, and what practice (like shared credit, anonymous service, or pre/post prayer) will you adopt this week to redirect that desire toward love?
Even good deeds and costly sacrifices can be about us if we’re not careful. Love chooses the quiet path—giving without a trumpet, serving without needing to be seen, and enduring hardship for God’s glory and others’ good. Jesus shows us the pattern: he gave himself for us, an offering pleasing to the Father. Follow him into hidden faithfulness; heaven notices what earth overlooks. Ask the Spirit to pour God’s love into your heart and purify your motives. [01:17:50]
Ephesians 5:2
Walk in love, the way Christ loved you—he gave himself up for you as an offering and a sacrifice that delighted God.
Reflection: What unseen act of love will you offer this week—time, help, or resources—with no announcement and no credit, and when will you do it?
The new year is framed as a call to intentionality—intentional growth, surrender, belonging, discipleship in the home, marital faithfulness, purity in singleness, and diligent stewardship of whatever the Lord has entrusted. Spiritual gifts are defined as Spirit-driven ministries empowered by the Holy Spirit for the building up of the body, and therefore must be exercised from a foundation that ensures edification rather than self-exaltation. That foundation is love. From 1 Corinthians 12–13, the charge is clear: desire the “greater” gifts—those that most build others—but there is a “still more excellent way.” Without love, tongue, prophecy, knowledge, faith, generosity, and even suffering are emptied of their meaning.
Love is not sentimentality; it is the Spirit’s fruit poured into the heart (Romans 5:5). In Scripture, the fruit is singular—love—with its attributes appearing as joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. This love is defined by God’s action in Christ. Christ loved by giving himself up for his people as a fragrant offering (Ephesians 5:2). God loved by sending his Son as propitiation, and therefore believers must love one another in the same pattern (1 John 4:10–11). Love is the axis of the Christian life: the greatest commandments hang on it, apostolic instruction aims at it, unity is bound by it, and Christian liberty is guided by it (Matthew 22; 1 Timothy 1:5; Colossians 3:14; Romans 14:15).
Practically, love means seeing gifts as something to give, not to hoard. It means loving the church enough to belong, to serve, and to contribute rather than consume. The “potluck” picture fits: a healthy body requires many dishes—diverse gifts—brought for the common good. Three sobering tests follow. First, worship without love becomes noise, whether in the tongues of men or angels; God rejects loveless praise as he did in Amos’ day. Second, knowledge, prophecy, and mountain-moving faith without love reduce a person to “nothing”; knowledge puffs up, but love builds up. Third, even radical generosity and costly suffering can be self-centered; public performative charity and self-glorifying martyrdom receive their reward in human praise, not from the Father. The call is to desire gifts—but desire love more. That requires pruning motives, dying to the need to be seen, and embracing the cross-shaped pattern of self-giving for the sake of others.
Once again, communicating this idea that biblical love is defined by the giving of self for the benefit of others. How do we love God back? We give ourselves back to him for this is our reasonable act of worship. Right? How do we love each other? By giving ourselves to each other. If we are not giving ourselves to each other, then all you're doing is making a verbal confession of love that lacks any power and any action.
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#LoveIsGiving
Therefore, love is the prerequisite to spiritual gifts because to love requires that we give of ourselves for the sake of others, and our gifts are for the sake of others. If you don't have a foundation of love on your spiritual gifts, then you'll never function the way you should function. Why? Because the found love is the give of ourselves to others, and our gifts are not about us. They're giving to us for the sake of giving them back for the sake of others. Appreciate you.
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#GiftsBuiltOnLove
spiritual gifts operate from the foundation of love, then the gift is see their gift as something to give for others, not to hoard for self or selfish ambition. See, when a person lacks a foundation of love, they don't see their gift as belonging to the body for the body. They see their gift as belonging to themselves for the purpose of building up themselves. And that's what keeps the body malnourished and unhealthy. That's what keeps the body in causing division instead of unity and mutual edification.
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#GiftsForTheBody
You know when we'd be having potlucks? How many people be signing up to come to the potluck event versus how many people will signing up to come to the fully paid event? It's always a difference. Why? Because the fully paid event is about me coming to eat. The potluck event is about me bringing something to the table for others to eat and then for me to eat in return.
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#BringToTheTable
People love to eat, but they don't love to contribute. Using our spiritual gifts properly is us eating and contributing. And we also gotta be mindful if the only time we contribute to the local church is when we earn from the local church. It's also not serving the local church. It's still serving you. Because the only time you give to the local church is when you get something from the local church in the sense of monetary gain.
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#ContributeNotConsume
my wife will tell you, I don't have an honorarium. I've never given a person a number to come speak anywhere. They ask, can you come speak? I simply pray. If I think god tell me to come speak and use my gifter, I use my gifter. I have no clue if they're give me $10, $0, or or or a Starbucks gift card. I don't know. But I don't go to use my gift for that purpose. Because the only time I use my gift is not when I can get something monetary for it. I use my gift when god is calling me to use my gift to edify his body.
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#CalledToServe
Let's get sobering. The prerequisite to acceptable worship is love and not your hippie love. Biblical love. Okay? Love as defined in the bible. I've already defined where we're going with this. Right? This giving of self. Love that does not give itself, but then wants to come in and give all of themself to the lord in showmanship. God says, I don't want it.
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#LoveBeforeShow
And that don't mean stay at home and be like, well, he rejected. I'm gonna stay at home. No. That mean get it together. That means check your heart. That means prune whatever is keeping you from loving people. Prune whatever has you coming into a place that is about mutual edification and making it all about yourself. It don't mean, well, I'm not loving, so I don't need church. No. It means get your heart right That's good. So that you can worship in a way that honors god and that is receptive to god.
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#CheckYourHeart
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