Prayer is not a mechanical formula to be mastered, but a living relationship with God, rooted in intimacy and trust. The disciples saw that Jesus’ power and presence flowed from His deep communion with the Father, and they longed to learn this way of connecting with God. True prayer is not about saying the right words or following a set pattern, but about coming honestly before God, seeking His presence, and allowing Him to shape our hearts. As we approach God, we are invited to move beyond performance and into genuine relationship, knowing that He desires to meet with us and transform us through prayer. [18:39]
Luke 11:1-4 (ESV)
Now Jesus was praying in a certain place, and when he finished, one of his disciples said to him, “Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples.” And he said to them, “When you pray, say:
‘Father, hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come.
Give us each day our daily bread,
and forgive us our sins,
for we ourselves forgive everyone who is indebted to us.
And lead us not into temptation.’”
Reflection: In what ways have you treated prayer as a formula or performance rather than a relationship? What would it look like for you to approach God today simply as His beloved child, speaking honestly and listening for His voice?
No matter how many times we fail or feel unworthy, God’s arms are always open to welcome us back with grace and forgiveness. Like the father in the story of the prodigal son, God does not meet us with condemnation but with an embrace, restoring us when we come in repentance. Even when our prayers are messy, imperfect, or filled with mixed motives, God receives them with love, just as a parent treasures a child’s drawing. His forgiveness cleanses us, and His love transforms our hearts, enabling us to see ourselves and others through His eyes. [23:24]
Luke 15:20-24 (ESV)
And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate.
Reflection: Is there an area of your life where you feel too ashamed or unworthy to come to God? What would it look like to bring that honestly to Him today, trusting in His embrace and forgiveness?
Through Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection, we are invited into a new and intimate relationship with God as our Father, able to approach Him with confidence and boldness. Unlike the old system of sacrifices and priests, Jesus Himself is our perfect sacrifice and high priest, always interceding for us and making a way for us to enter God’s presence. We are not outsiders or strangers, but beloved children who can call God “our Father,” sharing in the privileges of His family and the security of His covenant love. [30:54]
Hebrews 7:25 (ESV)
Consequently, he is able to save to the uttermost those who draw near to God through him, since he always lives to make intercession for them.
Reflection: How does knowing that Jesus is always interceding for you change the way you approach God in prayer? What difference would it make to pray today with the confidence of a beloved child?
Recognizing God’s holiness, majesty, and transcendence should move us to worship and awe, shaping our prayers to begin with praise rather than self-centered requests. God is high and lifted up, inhabiting eternity, yet He is also near to the humble and contrite. When we start our prayers by focusing on who God is—His power, purity, and love—we are drawn out of ourselves and into a greater vision of His glory. This perspective transforms our desires and aligns our hearts with His purposes, reminding us that prayer is first about honoring God’s name and seeking His kingdom. [36:16]
Isaiah 57:15 (ESV)
For thus says the One who is high and lifted up,
who inhabits eternity, whose name is Holy:
“I dwell in the high and holy place,
and also with him who is of a contrite and lowly spirit,
to revive the spirit of the lowly,
and to revive the heart of the contrite.”
Reflection: How can you begin your prayers today with worship and adoration, focusing on God’s greatness and holiness before bringing your own needs?
God is not reluctant or stingy, but delights to give good gifts to His children, especially the gift of His Holy Spirit. Just as a loving earthly father gives what is best for his children, our Heavenly Father gives us far more than we can imagine, responding to our persistence and trust in prayer. When we ask, seek, and knock, we can be confident that God hears and answers, not always in the way we expect, but always for our good and His glory. The greatest gift He offers is Himself—His presence, power, and Spirit to dwell within us. [34:54]
Luke 11:9-13 (ESV)
And I tell you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. What father among you, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish give him a serpent; or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you need to trust God’s generosity and ask Him boldly for the gift of His Spirit or another good gift today?
Prayer is not a formula to be mastered, but a relationship to be entered into. The disciples, after witnessing Jesus’ miracles and His deep, powerful prayer life, recognized that the source of His strength was found in communion with the Father. They asked, “Lord, teach us to pray,” not because they lacked words, but because they saw in Jesus a quality of prayer that was transformative and intimate. True prayer is not about getting the words right or following a set pattern; it is about drawing near to God, being honest, and allowing ourselves to be changed in His presence.
God invites us into His throne room, not as distant subjects, but as beloved children. Through Christ, we are welcomed into a relationship where we can call God “Father.” This was revolutionary for the disciples, who were used to approaching God through sacrifices and priests. Now, through Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection, we have direct access to the Father. Even when our prayers are clumsy or imperfect, God receives them with the delight of a parent cherishing a child’s drawing. There is no “bad prayer” when it comes from a sincere heart.
Prayer is also a place of transformation. As we come honestly before God, His holiness reveals our need for repentance, but also His readiness to embrace and forgive. Like the prodigal son, we find that God’s response to our return is not condemnation, but a loving embrace. In prayer, God often changes us more than our circumstances, shaping our hearts to reflect His love and character.
The Lord’s Prayer teaches us to begin with worship and recognition of God’s holiness and greatness. “Hallowed be your name” and “Your kingdom come” reorient our self-centered tendencies, reminding us that prayer is first about God’s glory and purposes. We are invited to seek His will above our own, trusting that He knows what is best and that His love for us is unchanging and generous.
Ultimately, prayer is an invitation into the life of God Himself—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. We are not left to pray alone; Christ intercedes for us, and the Spirit helps us in our weakness. The more we grasp the depth of God’s love and the privilege of this relationship, the more our prayers become alive, honest, and transformative.
Luke 11:1-13 (ESV) — > Now Jesus was praying in a certain place, and when he finished, one of his disciples said to him, “Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples.” And he said to them, “When you pray, say:
> ‘Father, hallowed be your name.
> Your kingdom come.
> Give us each day our daily bread,
> and forgive us our sins,
> for we ourselves forgive everyone who is indebted to us.
> And lead us not into temptation.’”
> And he said to them, “Which of you who has a friend will go to him at midnight and say to him, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves, for a friend of mine has arrived on a journey, and I have nothing to set before him’; and he will answer from within, ‘Do not bother me; the door is now shut, and my children are with me in bed. I cannot get up and give you anything’? I tell you, though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, yet because of his impudence he will rise and give him whatever he needs. And I tell you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. What father among you, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish give him a serpent; or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”
So what holds us back from praying? Well, often it's busyness and distractions. Demands of kids, spouse, parents, work, friends. It's easier to talk to them than it is to talk to God. It's easier to scroll social media, watch videos and films than it is to come to God in prayer. We have an enemy that doesn't want us to pray, of course. Yet amazingly, God is ever waiting, calling, even for us. Remember what he said. Adam, where are you? Often I think he's saying, alan, where are you? Not because I'm lost or that he doesn't know where I am, but because I've tuned out from him and we need to be tuned into him. [00:20:41] (50 seconds) #OvercomingDistractions
Prayer is our response to God's awakening by His Spirit. It's therefore a transforming experience. To pray is to seek change in oneself or another or in the world. To engage with God in prayer results in an inward movement. We are drawn into God's presence. His holiness highlights our unholiness. The more close we are to him, the more we are aware of our own sin. But in gaining knowledge of God, we are also aware of his greatness. Hallelujah. We become aware of how great he is. And not only that, we appreciate the sense, as we do, of God's embrace by Him. [00:22:10] (47 seconds) #TransformingThroughPrayer
Why would we not come to a God like that? A God who wants to embrace us, a God who wants to engage with us. You see, the problem is that sometimes when we're looking through our own life before we come to God, it's like looking out through dirt caked on the inside of a window. We see movement and beauty outside, but it's only slivers of light. But then we come to repentance, and that's where we ask God to clean our window. And in so doing, we begin to see the world differently. God can transform our ability to see the world around us. [00:23:31] (41 seconds) #CleanseToSeeClearly
``The truth of the matter is God loves us as we are. God receives us just as we are and accepts us, our prayers as they are. So just as in the same way a small child can't draw a bad picture for a parent, so God's people and God's child can't offer a bad prayer to their heavenly father. [00:26:20] (24 seconds) #AcceptedAsWeAre
David in the Psalms treats God as a friend. He blurts out his fears, his anger, his feelings of betrayal and loss. He lets it rip. When we read these prayers. Sometimes it's embarrassing. When you're reading these prayers, how did that get into the Bible? Because it's real. God wants us to be real, not to Be religious but real to want relationships. [00:27:21] (27 seconds) #RealPrayerRealRelationship
Yes, we're going to make mistakes in prayer. Lots of them will sin, we'll fall down, we'll repeat the same thing. But we'll get up and begin again. We'll pray again, seek God again, confess again, cry out again, keep going. God amazingly accommodates us in our fleshly condition and our sinful tendencies. Isn't that amazing? I'm getting excited. I don't know about you guys. I'm getting excited when I think about this. God wants a relationship with us and the lengths to which he's gone. When we look at the cross, when we think about Jesus, you know, there is no exceptions in his family. There's no excuses that we can give. There's no sin too deep. There is nothing. Even if our faith is tiny, like a mustard seed. It's enough said Jesus. [00:28:15] (51 seconds) #PersistentGrace
What the disciples don't realize is that Jesus, their own rabbi and teacher, is their perfect sacrifice and high priest working ahead of them. He alone can enable our entry into God's holy presence by his life, ministry, death on the cross and resurrection. I wonder if tonight you realize that as we study prayer, Jesus is praying for us. [00:30:15] (26 seconds) #JesusPraysForUs
When Jesus teaches his disciples to pray Our Father, he invites us into a divine relationship based on a new covenant with the Creator of the universe. It's written in blood. It can't be undone. No matter how tongue tied and how concerned we can be, there is no thing too trivial for our Heavenly Father. [00:33:09] (31 seconds) #NewCovenantConnection
God is transcendent, High and lifted up. He's eminent. He's here with us tonight. By His Spirit he inhabits eternity, but also with him who is contrite of spirit. God is Spirit. He's not restricted to location or space. He is other. And yet he is a person who clearly wants to make himself known, even to coming, becoming one of us. Hallelujah. The Word became flesh and made us dwelling amongst us. And we have seen the glory of the one and only, who came full of grace and truth. [00:36:26] (40 seconds) #GodIsSpirit
So when he says our Father, it speaks to us of our divine relationship with God through redemption, our union with the Lord Jesus. Hence when he says in heaven, it reminds us where God is. He's greater than anything and everything else we'll ever encounter. He is eternal, he's infinite. He's almighty, he's unlimited. He's unconquerable. This God's love is unchanging on purpose. His power is more than able to deal with anything we bring for Him. He is amazing and he's your Father in heaven. [00:37:10] (35 seconds) #FatherInHeaven
The purpose of prayer is not to make God do my will. He's not some magic genie that we rub and we get three wishes. He's not to answer my requests the way I want them. We are saying, lord, bring my will into your perfect will, just as Jesus did. And this is no easy task. But asking to do God's will may well mean not getting what I want or what I wish. I might not change the circumstances. I might not change the situation that I'm pleading with them to change. [00:43:24] (38 seconds) #AligningWills
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