Living Worthy: Call, Unity, and Forbearance

Aug 02, 2026

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#ForbearanceOverTolerance
“``Now this, this is important. Forbearance and forbearing is not tolerance. Granted, we can use more tolerance in the world, but tolerance is a very low bar. You see, when I tolerate something, it means there's something or someone that I really don't like, but I'll put up with it. Forbear. an old fashioned word. Turn it around. and then put somebody in the next spot. I'm going to bear this person. Forbearance is to actually bear burdens with another person. You're in this together. I am bearing this for you. Let me help you. I'm going to walk with you. I'm going to be together with you as you are troubled. I'm going to help you bear whatever that burden is. And in order to do that, we have to love. We have to love to forbear.”
42s
#AlreadyOneInChrist
“Here's the good news. Jesus, on his last night with us, prayed for unity. Read John 17. God won't refuse to answer his son's prayer. In fact, it has already been answered. We might eye one another with suspicion or judgment. We can splinter off into any number of divergent institutions, but in Jesus' heart, we already are and will forever be one. We already are forgiven. We already are covered with grace just as the song said.”
44s
#ThereforeCallAndResponse
“So the reading begins with this therefore. Right? I'm thinking, therefore? Okay. So there had to be a bunch of stuff before that. Right? Because otherwise, why do you say therefore? Because of all blotty blotty blotty blotty blot that we've been talking about for three weeks. Right? Well, it's because of all of those gifts, all of those blessings. The word therefore, it's sort of a fulcrum. It balances everything that comes before with everything that comes after. It's the center point between gift and task, between call and response, between blessing and gratitude. Therefore,”
41s
#CultivatePatience
“I want to fix on that for a minute. Patience. We talk about that as if it's just something you have or you don't have, as if writing, I'm a typo go getter, and patience is not all that important because I've to get it done now. Patience is cultivated over time. It's the work of God's spirit in us. God can do patience in anybody. It is a surrender of rushing off in my own way. It is an embrace of time and love, the image of God in the other person.”
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#HarmonizeTheBody
“There are many voices, many of us, that make up the gospel song, and the goal of unity is not monotone Christians, but harmonizing Christians whose variety of gifts promotes the body's growth, the maturity, the building itself up in love. Of course, humans, thinking that they're better than God or that they exactly know what and who God is and what box to put God into, humans think they have a better idea. So churches split up. They subdivide again and again. They segment themselves when someone thinks they are more important than someone else or their idea of what God is is more important than someone else's.”
54s
#HopeWhenWeFail
“Why was that in the in the bible? Remember about a month ago, I said sometimes I read these stories and I say, why is that in the bible? You know, that's a terrible story. Why is that there? Well, it shows us that even the greatest of God's followers can fall from grace if they lose sight of God's call in their lives. Even the wisest can stumble if they shirk responsibility love, Nathan brings this reality to David's attention and calls him back to living in a worthy manner. It tells us there's hope when we mess up, and that's a really good thing because we all mess up.”
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#LoveLeadsToAction
“a couple examples of that call and response thing. Luke 19, Jesus shows his love to Zacchaeus. Remember the hated tax collector? We had one more video with a little short guy. Zacchaeus, Jesus shows love to Zacchaeus and acceptance that blesses him. And what does Zacchaeus do? Therefore, Zacchaeus redistributes his wealth. In first John, we're told that God first loves us. Therefore, we are able to love. In Acts, the Holy Spirit is given to the church. Therefore, the church goes out in mission. And in Ephesians, we're reminded that God has showered us with grace and blessings, chapters one to three, and therefore, we can respond with gratitude and living into the call that is worthy, chapters one and five. Really kinda cool.”
39s
#CalledByGodNotSelf
“The author of Ephesians also teases out sort of a way. Now we're talking about doing what we're called to do. A little side note. Sometimes I have this little mantra in my head about the call. The call is not what I want to do. It's not even what I think I want to do for God. It is what God wants me to do. Just something defiling my ego head. Right? The call is what God wants me to do.”
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#DiverseGiftsOneBody
“Asking for unity doesn't mean uniformity. Actually, the tribute to unity is what's followed by this marvelous litany of all the diversity of gifts that are present in the body of Christ and the graces that are given the body of Christ. So to help us live into this unity while embracing our diversity, God gifts us with people who help build us into the maturity of that unity. Apostles are sent to form new community. Prophets are to remind us of God's dream for creation again and again. Pastors and teachers to keep the word of God before the people and shepherd people through conflict and struggle.”
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#StrengthToBless
“of course, the letter to the Ephesians, particularly these last three chapters, we've even and I'm probably gonna be still preaching in Ephesians for another week or two. But particularly these there's a lot to learn here about how we can live in a worthy manner. Jesus reminds us throughout the sixth chapter of John that couples with this that it is God that offers us the spiritual nourishment we need in order to live this way. The nourishment and the gifts we receive from God are the blessings that we need as they were for David. The blessings are meant to strengthen us. Remember Paul came for strength and power for us last week? The blessings are meant to strengthen us that we might do what? Bless and strengthen others. That way, we are indeed able to live as people worthy of the call we have received.”
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#OverflowingGrace
“really everything so far, the first three chapters of Ephesians, has been sort of a gift beginning the very first words of the letter, grace to you and peace. It's all blessings. It's all abundance in this overflowing basket. Remember that last week? The overflowing baskets, the leftovers from the 5,000 people. Whatever God gives us is enough and and more than enough for what we are called to do. And then Paul gives his own description of his imprisonment, his sacrifice. And even then, God gives him enough and inspiration to still lead the churches. How richly gifted all of us have been with all of this.”
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#ServeDontConsume
“It's liberating. It's liberating to know we are one. We are covered by that grace. It is also a challenge. So let's at least learn from one another how to be silent, how to sing, how to know the Bible, and then to know that we will be more than we were before. Let's each ask, what gifts do I bring to the table? And one more little pet peeve from me that I'd like to get rid of, and that is church consumerism. If you're not sure what I mean for that, it's the people that go around looking for a church without understanding that it's really not what do I want out of church, but what can I do to build up the good of the church, the community, the mission, the unity? What do I bring into the body of Christ?”
51s
#CounterculturalForbearance
“Maybe I'm thankful that I have an opportunity with a new job, and I'm hoping that I can make a difference in people's lives with that job. But instead of this, Oh, look how blessed I am, that's just not it, is Alright. Back to patience. Showing patience. Forbearance. It's a countercultural way of being right now. It's forbearance is about conformity to Christ or or being transformed by the miracle that we will be more like Christ. Christ was probably the very most forbearance, if that is a word, being that there was.”
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#BecomingLikeChrist
“God's goal is for us to become mature adults, to be fully grown. I don't mean five, ten, six feet tall, 30 years old. That's not what I mean. I mean a mature believer, a mature disciple of Christ. The standard by which that maturity is measured is the fullness of Christ. We are always working toward full maturity, marked, shaped by the fullness of Christ.”
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#MatureInChrist
“even the most beautiful and sought after gift, however wonderful it is, makes us, at least me, I I think it can make us feel awkward if we don't have some way to express thanks for it. Most people. Most people. I'm sure there are some that well, good. More gifts. You know? But but, you know, it's just we receive all these marvelous gifts of God, if we just bottle them up inside, we will just probably explode or implode or something. Now whereas if we have all these opportunities to live our life showing those gifts and sharing those gifts and those blessings, that's completely different, and it gives us a chance. This chapter four part is giving us the chance, the opportunity to respond with thanksgiving.”
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#LiveWorthyTogether
“We love our music. We love to sing, and you're gonna see me attempt to play guitar and sing English and Spanish today. I'll probably mess something up, and you'll love me anyway. Alright? But but I'm not here to entertain you. here to bring you God's truth. I'm here to love you and to help us follow the spirit of God. And I am fallible, but I am still bringing every gift I have to the table. let's consider our call, consider our gifts, and indeed, we will live as a people worthy of the call we have received. Amen.”
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#BringEveryGift
“Actually, if you ask any church splitter, one of those people that does that and undermines the church, if you ask them about church unity, they will be adamant and insisting upon it like political ideologies who resolutely wish someone I I I I really wish that the country would come together on our side, not theirs. are the one true church. We are the one true political party, not those other local fools. Our disunity is our shame. We grieve, and we simultaneously celebrate God's extraordinary mercy that gives us the space to believe in an embarrassingly divided church.”
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#HealDividedChurch
“Today's culture is not going to invite you to be lowly, meek, patient, or forbared. So much of today's culture means get out there, be fierce. I've been hearing that for years. I'm like, okay. Have energy in what you do. Go after what God is calling you to do. But I'm not sure I'm happy with that characterization. Now if I'm coaching a dance team and I want them to get out there and be high energy, I'll go with that. Be fierce. Yeah. But anyway, it just seems like all over social media, not just Facebook, but other ones too, it's all about me. It's all about, look at what I'm doing. Oh, I'm so blessed to now have this wonderful new responsibility and job. How does that make someone feel who doesn't have a job?”
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#HumilityOverHype
“We're all called to different things. The call he's talking about here in Ephesians is not just a call for being an ordained minister. It may be a big life calling that you're going to do at 02:30 this afternoon. You're gonna visit with somebody and bless them, and you're called to do that. We see some separation and explanation. He talks about apostles. He talks about teachers. For some of you, it's the call to be a caregiver to someone in your family. For some of you, it's the call to be a teacher in a school.”
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#LiveWithThanksgiving
“the title here is living as worthy. That has to do with our our reading in Ephesians, and it has to do with our ability to be worthy of this love of God and this grace of God. And yet, as Diana told us, God sees us as worthy already. It's nothing that we do ourselves. It's that grace. And yet this writer in Ephesians has some advice for us about how to live that life. Why? And he tells us why. It's so that we can have unity as the body of Christ because we are all part of the body of Christ. And the body of Christ, Christ, that is that is what ministers to the whole world.”
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