Living with Integrity: Embracing Community and Accountability
Summary
Today, I began our service by welcoming everyone warmly, especially first-time visitors, and introduced the Connect cards for newcomers to fill out, either digitally or traditionally. I emphasized the importance of community and connection within our church family. We then transitioned into a time of worship, starting with Psalm 89, which praises God's steadfast love and faithfulness across generations. This set the tone for our reflection on God's covenant through Christ, a theme that resonated throughout the sermon.
The core of today's message was drawn from Titus 2 and focused on living lives that reflect the integrity and teachings of Jesus Christ. I discussed the roles of mature men and women in the church, emphasizing the need for sobriety, dignity, and self-control. This was not just about abstaining from alcohol but being clear-minded and reliable, traits that should define our character as followers of Christ.
I shared personal anecdotes to illustrate these points, including a story about a past interaction with a mentor who corrected me with scripture, guiding me to align my actions with God's word. This mentorship is a model of the disciple-making process, which is central to our calling as Christians. We are to nurture and guide one another, ensuring our lives consistently reflect Christ's teachings.
The sermon also touched on the practical aspects of church membership and the importance of accountability within the church body. I stressed that being a church member is about more than just attending services; it's about active participation in a community that supports and holds each other accountable in faith.
We concluded with a call to personal reflection and an invitation for those who have not yet accepted Christ to make a decision to follow Him. This was a powerful moment of commitment and recommitment for many in our congregation.
As we moved into the celebration of the Lord's Supper, I reminded everyone of the symbolic nature of this act. It's a profound reminder of Jesus' sacrifice, and we partook of the bread and the cup in a spirit of reverence and community, affirming our unity in Christ.
### Key Takeaways
1. Living a Life of Integrity
Integrity is not just about honesty in transactions or truthfulness in words; it's about aligning every aspect of our lives with the teachings of Jesus Christ. This alignment should be evident in how we conduct ourselves daily, showing the world our identity in Christ through our actions and decisions. This is foundational to disciple-making, as our lives often speak louder than our words. [50:28]
2. The Role of Mentorship in Spiritual Growth
Spiritual maturity isn't automatically bestowed with age; it comes through deliberate practice of the faith and often, through the guidance of those more experienced in the faith. As mature believers, we have a responsibility to mentor younger or less mature Christians, not just instructing them but modeling godly character in everyday situations. [01:04:44]
3. Accountability Within the Church
Church membership involves a mutual commitment to uphold and encourage one another in our walks with Christ. This accountability is crucial for maintaining the purity and effectiveness of our witness as a church. When we live transparently before our fellow believers, we allow for growth and correction that keeps us close to Christ. [42:42]
4. The Importance of Sound Doctrine
Teaching and adhering to sound doctrine is essential for the health of the church. It guards against heresy and guides the church in truth. Every believer, regardless of their role, should be both a student and a teacher of the doctrine, ensuring it shapes our lives and our community practices. [47:27]
5. Preparation for Christ's Return
Our ultimate goal as believers is to be ready for the return of Jesus Christ. This readiness involves more than just anticipation; it requires active engagement in godliness, renouncing ungodliness and worldly passions. Our daily lives should be a testament to the transformative power of the gospel. [01:07:07]
### Chapters
0:00 - Welcome
00:27 - Introduction and Welcome to Newcomers
01:03 - Connect Card Explanation
02:15 - Opening Worship with Psalm 89
03:08 - Preparing for the Lord's Supper
18:20 - Explaining the Lord's Supper to Children
20:28 - The Symbolism of the Lord's Supper
24:16 - Communion and Self-Examination
34:36 - Proclamation of Christ's Death and Resurrection
35:21 - Discussion on Church Membership
38:08 - The Importance of Community in Church
41:07 - Accountability and Membership
47:27 - Reading from Titus 2 on Sound Doctrine
49:21 - Sermon Introduction: Life, Calling, and Goal
52:07 - Addressing Mature Men in the Church
58:41 - Addressing Mature Women in the Church
01:04:44 - Personal Testimony and Mentorship
01:07:07 - Preparing for Christ's Return
01:10:38 - Invitation for Salvation and Membership
01:12:37 - Closing Worship and Benediction
Study Guide
### Bible Reading
1. Titus 2:1-7 - "But as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine. Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness. Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us."
### Observation Questions
1. What characteristics does Paul instruct older men to exhibit in Titus 2:2?
2. According to Titus 2:3-5, what roles and behaviors are older women encouraged to model and teach to younger women?
3. How does Paul describe the behavior and teaching that should be demonstrated by younger men in Titus 2:6-7?
4. In the sermon, what personal anecdote did the pastor share to illustrate the importance of mentorship and correction? ([01:04:44])
### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does Paul emphasize the need for older men to be sober-minded, dignified, and self-controlled? How do these traits contribute to the integrity of the church community?
2. How can the mentorship roles described in Titus 2:3-5 help in the spiritual growth of younger women? What impact does this have on the church as a whole?
3. What does it mean to show integrity, dignity, and sound speech in teaching, as mentioned in Titus 2:7? How can this protect the church from criticism and uphold its witness?
4. Reflecting on the pastor's story about his mentor, how can personal correction and guidance help align one's actions with God's word? ([01:04:44])
### Application Questions
1. Living a Life of Integrity: Think about your daily actions and decisions. Are there areas where you struggle to align with the teachings of Jesus Christ? What steps can you take this week to ensure your life reflects Christ's integrity? ([50:28])
2. The Role of Mentorship in Spiritual Growth: Identify someone in your church or community who could benefit from your guidance. How can you intentionally invest in their spiritual growth this month? ([01:04:44])
3. Accountability Within the Church: How can you actively participate in holding your fellow church members accountable in their faith journey? What practical steps can you take to foster a culture of transparency and mutual support? ([41:07])
4. The Importance of Sound Doctrine: How can you deepen your understanding of sound doctrine? Are there specific resources or study groups you can join to ensure your beliefs and teachings are biblically grounded? ([47:27])
5. Preparation for Christ's Return: Reflect on your current lifestyle. Are there worldly passions or ungodly behaviors you need to renounce? What changes can you make to live a life that is ready for Christ's return? ([01:07:07])
6. Active Participation in Church Membership: If you are not yet a member of your church, what is holding you back from making that commitment? If you are a member, how can you more actively engage in the life and mission of your church? ([41:07])
7. Personal Reflection and Commitment: Take a moment to reflect on your relationship with Christ. Have you made a personal decision to follow Him? If not, what is preventing you from taking that step today? ([01:10:38])
Devotional
Day 1: Integrity Beyond Words
Living a life of integrity means aligning every aspect of our existence with the teachings of Jesus Christ. It's not merely about being honest or truthful; it's about embodying Christ's teachings in our daily actions and decisions. This kind of integrity involves a deep commitment to live out our faith transparently and consistently, which serves as a powerful witness to those around us. It's about making choices that reflect our identity in Christ, even when no one is watching. This foundational approach to living is crucial for disciple-making, as our actions often speak louder than our words. [50:28]
James 3:13-14, 17: "Who is wise and understanding among you? By his good conduct let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom. But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth... But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere."
Reflection: How can your daily choices this week reflect a deeper alignment with Christ's teachings?
Day 2: Mentorship for Spiritual Maturity
Spiritual maturity is not an automatic status achieved with age or time; it requires intentional practice and often, guidance from those more experienced in the faith. Mature believers are called to mentor others, not just through instruction but by modeling godly character in everyday situations. This mentorship is vital as it helps younger or less mature Christians grow in their faith and understanding, ensuring they too can one day lead others. This process of discipleship strengthens the entire community, as each member grows and contributes to the collective faith journey. [01:04:44]
Titus 2:7-8: "Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us."
Reflection: Who has been a mentor to you in your spiritual journey, and how can you start to mentor someone else this week?
Day 3: Accountability in Community
Being part of a church means more than attending services; it involves a mutual commitment to uphold and encourage one another in our walks with Christ. This accountability is essential for maintaining the purity and effectiveness of our witness as a church. Living transparently before fellow believers allows for growth and correction, keeping us close to Christ and each other. This shared responsibility helps us to remain steadfast and vigilant in our faith, fostering a community that thrives on mutual support and love. [42:42]
Ephesians 4:25: "Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another."
Reflection: In what ways can you enhance your accountability within your church community this week?
Day 4: Upholding Sound Doctrine
Teaching and adhering to sound doctrine is crucial for the health of the church. It protects against heresy and guides the congregation in truth. Every believer, regardless of their role, should engage deeply with doctrine, allowing it to shape their lives and community practices. This commitment to doctrinal integrity ensures that the church remains a pillar of truth in the community, equipped to handle challenges and misconceptions about the faith. [47:27]
2 Timothy 2:15: "Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth."
Reflection: How can you more actively engage with and apply sound doctrine in your personal life and in your interactions with others?
Day 5: Ready for Christ's Return
Our ultimate goal as believers is to be prepared for the return of Jesus Christ. This readiness involves more than just anticipation; it requires active engagement in godliness, renouncing ungodliness and worldly passions. Our daily lives should be a testament to the transformative power of the gospel, demonstrating the hope and renewal we have received. This active readiness inspires others and strengthens our resolve to live out our faith authentically and fervently. [01:07:07]
1 Peter 1:13-14: "Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being sober-minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance."
Reflection: What are practical steps you can take this week to live in readiness for Christ's return?
Quotes
### Quotes for Outreach
1. "Your integrity shouts Jesus to the mountaintops. Your integrity, your mode of operation is honest and open and above reproach. People will know you because of your character." [55:40]
2. "We are to renounce ungodliness and lusts of the flesh and to live soberly, righteously, and yes, we are to live godly in the present age. Be different. Allow God to take over your life, to embrace godliness in your life." [01:07:38]
3. "If you're a sober man, it doesn't mean you're not drunk. It means that you are consistently clear. You should be clear in your thoughts and ready along the way. Your eyes are wide open looking at everything. You're seeing the world ready." [53:31]
4. "We are to make disciples of all men. Jesus told us to make disciples of all men. And he talks about what we are to do. And so he uses this, Paul here, this example. And he says, okay, mature men and mature women, older men, older women, this is what you are to do. You are to make disciples." [01:02:46]
5. "Living the way I should live? Now, today, you probably heard loud and clear that if you wanted to become a member of this church, great. If you wanted to be baptized, great. But if you do not know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, today could be your day of salvation." [01:10:38]
### Quotes for Members
1. "We are members and why membership is important because it is biblical and is practical and is also strategic. Because Paul talks about membership in a Bible and we see this throughout the New Testament." [42:42]
2. "We should love each other with brotherly affection. Let's try that again. Brotherly affection. Romans 12 10 says this that we are to outdo one another and show honor to one another. So we lift one another." [38:08]
3. "Your life is your integrity. Your calling is disciple making. Your goal is to be ready for Jesus. Be ready for Jesus. You guys are getting ready to finish school in about four weeks, right? Yeah. And you ready for it? You ready for summer?" [01:05:58]
4. "We're going to talk about your life, your calling, and we're going to talk about your goal for life. Three simple things all very hard to do. But by God's grace you can do it. We're going to look at God's word here." [47:27]
5. "We proclaim Christ's death until he comes. Thank you for the resurrection. Thank you for the day that those who know you will see you face to face. In the meantime Lord. Keep us busy with your gospel work." [34:36]