In our new series, "Unoffended," we explore the pervasive issue of offense in our lives and how it impacts our relationships with others, God, and even ourselves. Offenses are an inevitable part of life on this broken planet, but how we handle them determines our path and destiny. Over the coming weeks, we'll delve into various aspects of offense, including those within families, with leaders, and even with God. Today, we begin by discussing the concept of living under the commanded blessing, which is rooted in the belief that God is inherently good and desires good for us.
To live as overcoming Christians, we must establish a deep-seated theology that God is for us, not against us. This understanding allows us to accurately interpret the negative events in our lives without attributing them to God's sovereignty. Many believers live outside the blessing of God, evident in their marriages, finances, and family life. God desires to bring every area of our lives under His blessing, which is contingent upon unity. Psalm 133 illustrates that God's blessing is commanded where there is unity, while division is a tool of the enemy.
The anointing, or divine enablement, is essential for living in the fullness of God's purpose. It is a power that comes upon us through the Holy Spirit, enabling us to accomplish what we cannot do on our own. The commanded blessing is irrevocable when we walk in unity, as demonstrated by the story of Balaam in the Old Testament. However, division, often stemming from unresolved offense, can cause us to step out from under this blessing.
Offenses are like traps set for us, and how we respond to them determines whether we fall into them. Unforgiveness is an infection of the heart that progresses through stages, including anger, bitterness, and slander. These stages not only affect us but also those around us, as bitterness can defile many. The path to freedom involves choosing the way of the cross, forgiving as Jesus forgave us. This forgiveness is immediate, complete, and consistent, and we are called to extend the same grace to others.
Key Takeaways
- 1. God's Goodness and Commanded Blessing: Understanding that God is inherently good and desires good for us is foundational to living under His commanded blessing. This belief helps us accurately interpret life's challenges without attributing them to God's sovereignty. Living under God's blessing requires unity, as division is a tool of the enemy. [04:21]
- 2. The Power of Unity: Unity is where God's blessing is commanded, as seen in Psalm 133. The enemy works through division, often caused by unresolved offenses. Jesus' prayer for unity in John 17 highlights that the greatest evangelistic tool is the unity of the body of Christ. [07:21]
- 3. The Trap of Offense: Offenses are inevitable and act as traps set for us. How we respond to these offenses determines whether we fall into them. Unforgiveness is an infection of the heart that progresses through stages, including anger, bitterness, and slander, affecting not only us but also those around us. [11:53]
- 4. Forgiveness as a Path to Freedom: Forgiveness is a process that involves choosing the way of the cross. Jesus' forgiveness is immediate, complete, and consistent, and we are called to extend the same grace to others. This path to forgiveness allows us to step out of the trap of offense and into the freedom of God's blessing. [27:02]
- 5. Living Offense-Free: To live offense-free, we must embrace the forgiveness offered through the cross. Jesus' sacrifice covers all offenses, allowing us to live without carrying the weight of unforgiveness. By forgiving others as we have been forgiven, we can experience the joy and peace that come from living under God's blessing. [30:31]
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