Living the Good Life: Connection and Choices in Christ

 

Summary

Today, I explored the profound teachings of Jesus from the Sermon on the Mount, emphasizing the essence of living a good life connected to God. This connection is not merely about external achievements or societal status but about a deep, personal relationship with God, who knows and loves us. The good life, as taught by Jesus, is rooted in this relationship, made possible through His sacrifice, reconciling us to God.

I began by addressing the common misconceptions in our spiritual lives, particularly the dangers of equating our spiritual worth with our deeds. It's easy to fall into the trap of doing things for God without nurturing a genuine relationship with Him. This can lead to a superficial faith where our actions are disconnected from our heart's condition. True spirituality is not about ticking off a checklist of good deeds but about a heart transformation that loves and worships God genuinely.

Further, I discussed the critical importance of understanding the gospel not just as a set of beliefs but as a transformative force that reshapes our priorities, behaviors, and life's focus. The gospel reveals that a fulfilling life doesn't come from what we acquire or achieve but through a vibrant relationship with Christ. This relationship is available to everyone and is the key to true life.

In the latter part of the sermon, I emphasized the choices we face daily and how these choices reflect our deeper spiritual state. Using the metaphor of two paths, two gates, and two foundations, I illustrated the decisions we must make about the direction of our lives. These choices are not just about moral goodness but about where we place our trust and hope—either in our abilities or in God's saving grace.

I concluded with a call to introspection and action, urging us to examine the fruits of our lives as evidence of what we are truly connected to. Are we producing fruits of the Spirit, or are our lives marked by the negative outcomes of disconnection from God? This examination isn't about judging others but a personal reflection to guide us back to living connected to God.

Finally, I invited everyone to make a daily decision to follow Jesus, emphasizing that this choice is empowered by God's prior choice to love and save us through Christ. This reciprocal relationship of love and choice is what sustains and nurtures our spiritual journey toward living the good life as defined by Jesus.

### Key Takeaways

1. Living the Good Life Through Connection with God
The essence of a good life is not found in material wealth or achievements but in a vibrant, ongoing relationship with God. This relationship is characterized by a mutual knowledge and love that transcends mere religious activity. [58:22]

2. The Danger of Spiritual Complacency
It's crucial to examine whether our spiritual activities are genuinely for God or merely for self-satisfaction. True spirituality involves a heart fully devoted to God rather than just external compliance or achievements. [01:15:44]

3. The Transformative Power of the Gospel
Understanding and embracing the gospel changes everything—from our priorities to our actions. The gospel invites us to live lives that are not self-centered but Christ-centered, focusing on what God has done for us rather than on our own efforts. [59:41]

4. Making Decisions at Life’s Crossroads
Daily, we face decisions that shape our spiritual trajectory. Choosing the path of Christ involves daily, conscious decisions to embrace the narrow way, which leads to true life and fulfillment. [01:01:40]

5. The Foundation of Our Lives
Our spiritual foundation determines our life’s stability. Building our lives on the teachings of Jesus ensures that we can withstand life's challenges and storms. This foundation is not just about hearing His words but actively living them out. [01:19:52]

### Youtube Chapters

- [0:00] - Welcome
- [57:07] - Introduction to the Good Life
- [01:15:10] - The Danger of Spiritual Complacency
- [59:41] - The Gospel's Transformative Power
- [01:00:23] - Living a Connected Life
- [01:01:40] - Decisions at Life’s Crossroads
- [01:17:52] - Building on the Right Foundation

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Matthew 7:13-14: "Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it."
2. Matthew 7:15-20: "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them."
3. Matthew 7:24-27: "Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash."

#### Observation Questions
1. What does Jesus mean by the "narrow gate" and the "wide gate" in Matthew 7:13-14?
2. According to Matthew 7:15-20, how can we recognize false prophets?
3. What are the consequences of building one's life on the rock versus the sand as described in Matthew 7:24-27?
4. In the sermon, what metaphor did the pastor use to describe the daily choices we face in our spiritual journey? ([01:01:40])

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Jesus describes the path to life as narrow and the path to destruction as broad? What implications does this have for our daily choices? ([01:06:54])
2. How does the concept of bearing good fruit relate to one's connection with God, as discussed in the sermon? ([01:12:48])
3. What does it mean to build your life on the teachings of Jesus, and how does this provide stability during life's challenges? ([01:19:01])
4. How does the pastor's emphasis on a personal relationship with God challenge common misconceptions about spirituality and religious activities? ([01:15:15])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your daily decisions. Are there areas in your life where you are choosing the broad path instead of the narrow one? How can you start making choices that align more closely with Jesus' teachings? ([01:06:54])
2. Consider the fruits of your life. What kind of fruit are you producing, and what does this reveal about your connection to God? How can you cultivate more of the fruits of the Spirit in your life? ([01:12:48])
3. Think about a recent challenge or storm in your life. How did your spiritual foundation help you withstand it, or how did it reveal areas where you need to strengthen your foundation in Christ? ([01:19:01])
4. The pastor mentioned the danger of spiritual complacency. Are there spiritual activities you engage in that have become more about routine than genuine connection with God? How can you renew your heart's devotion? ([01:15:15])
5. The sermon emphasized the importance of a personal relationship with God over external achievements. How can you shift your focus from what you do for God to nurturing your relationship with Him? ([01:16:39])
6. Identify one specific area in your life where you need to make a conscious decision to follow Jesus. What steps will you take this week to choose the narrow path in that area? ([01:21:57])
7. Reflect on the pastor's call to introspection and action. What practical steps can you take to examine the fruits of your life and ensure they align with being connected to God? ([01:14:01])

Devotional

Day 1: Discovering True Wealth in God's Presence
True wealth is not measured by material possessions or societal status but by the depth of our relationship with God. This relationship is characterized by mutual knowledge and love, transcending mere religious activities. It's about experiencing God's presence in every aspect of life, recognizing that our true value and fulfillment come from being known and loved by Him. This connection is not something that happens overnight but is cultivated through daily decisions to engage with God and His Word. The essence of a good life, as Jesus taught, is found in this vibrant, ongoing relationship with God, which is accessible to everyone through faith in Christ. [58:22]

James 4:8 "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded."

Reflection: How can you make time today to deepen your relationship with God through prayer or reading Scripture?

Day 2: Guarding Against Spiritual Complacency
Spiritual complacency can subtly infiltrate our lives when we start to equate our spiritual worth with our deeds rather than the state of our heart. It's crucial to continually examine our motives in serving God, ensuring that our actions stem from a genuine love for Him and not for self-satisfaction or external validation. This involves a heart fully devoted to God, characterized by a transformation that goes beyond external compliance to a deep-rooted desire to worship and serve God authentically. True spirituality is about letting our hearts be transformed by God's love, leading to actions that genuinely reflect His love and grace. [01:15:44]

Hebrews 13:16 "Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God."

Reflection: What is one area in your spiritual life where you might be acting out of obligation rather than genuine love for God?

Day 3: Embracing the Transformative Power of the Gospel
The gospel is not merely a set of beliefs but a transformative force that reshapes our priorities, behaviors, and life's focus. Understanding and embracing the gospel invites us to live lives that are not self-centered but Christ-centered. This transformation is about focusing on what God has done for us through Christ, rather than on our own efforts. It challenges us to shift our priorities from worldly achievements to spiritual growth and service, fostering a life that reflects Christ's love and sacrifice. The gospel's power is available to everyone and has the potential to change every aspect of our lives. [59:41]

Colossians 3:1-2 "If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth."

Reflection: How can the gospel's transformative power change your approach to a current challenge or relationship?

Day 4: Choosing the Path of Christ Daily
Every day, we face decisions that reflect our deeper spiritual state and shape our spiritual trajectory. Choosing the path of Christ involves conscious, daily decisions to embrace the narrow way, which leads to true life and fulfillment. This choice is not just about moral goodness but about where we place our trust and hope—either in our abilities or in God's saving grace. By choosing to follow Jesus daily, we align our lives with God's will, leading to a life of purpose and spiritual fulfillment. [01:01:40]

Psalm 25:4-5 "Make me to know your ways, O Lord; teach me your paths. Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; for you I wait all the day long."

Reflection: What is one decision you can make today that will align more closely with God's path for your life?

Day 5: Building on the Foundation of Jesus' Teachings
Our spiritual foundation determines our life’s stability. Building our lives on the teachings of Jesus ensures that we can withstand life's challenges and storms. This foundation is not just about hearing His words but actively living them out in our daily lives. By applying Jesus' teachings, we build a stable, resilient foundation that supports not only our spiritual growth but also our ability to impact others positively. This involves not only understanding His teachings but also implementing them in practical, everyday ways. [01:19:52]

Luke 6:47-49 "Everyone who comes to me and hears my words and does them, I will show you what he is like: he is like a man building a house, who dug deep and laid the foundation on the rock. And when a flood arose, the stream broke against that house and could not shake it, because it had been well built."

Reflection: In what ways can you actively apply Jesus' teachings in your interactions with others this week?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "The way of the world and what the world promises always over promises and under delivers. It says you wear this, get this, sleep with this person, do this, live your best life, you only live once, go for it, live no holds barred. And yet we end up so unhappy, our relationships are failing, we're in debt, everything about our lives ends up not being fulfilled by what the world promises." [01:10:43](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "The good life is not in what you have or what you accomplish, but a good life is in having a relationship with the God who loves you. And guess what, I just want to encourage everyone to do that. Everyone in the room, that is possible for every single person in this room this morning. It's possible for everybody in this room, everyone who's watching online, that you can have a good life because you can be connected to God when you receive his gift of salvation through his son Jesus." [01:00:14]( | | )

3. "The narrowness becomes a way of flourishing and life and benefit, but you have to be willing to go narrow to go wide. Most people don't want to take that posture of the narrowness. They want the wide gate that is easy, that is expected, that most people are going to go through." [01:09:00](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

### Quotes for Members

1. "What God is going after is not just behavior modification, and he's not just going after you doing good things. He's going after the condition of your heart. A heart that worships God for God, a heart that loves God for him alone and not for other things." [01:16:04]( | Download cropped clip | )

2. "A true relationship with God is one that will produce fruit in action in your life. A true relationship with God goes from just talking to also doing. But your doing is not to earn God's love, to earn God's favor, or to be accepted by God. The doing is a result that you are accepted by God." [01:20:10]( | | )

3. "Jesus is saying that it's not the external, just the external things that you will know what you belong to, but you will know. But fruit is a byproduct of what the root is connected to. Do you see what I'm saying? Fruit comes as a result of the thing of which you connect your life to." [01:11:51]( | | )

4. "Therefore, everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the wind blew against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock." [01:18:33]( | | )

5. "The good life is rooted in a good God who is inviting you to follow him, to choose him. And if you're in this room today and you've never chosen to follow God, I would encourage you as we come this morning, that you would say today I want to follow Jesus." [01:24:06](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

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