Living Purposefully: Lessons from Life and Loss

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Paul is saying goodbye to Timothy his son in the faith and in his goodbyes to him he has some very valuable lessons some of them most of them I saw them lived out in the own in the goodbyes that I just experienced he begins at verse 6 by saying the time of my departure is at hand he knew his life was coming to an end he knew that his time on earth was closing and he wanted Timothy to know that it was ok all of us have a time the Bible says it's appointed unto man wants to die and after that the judgment all of us have a time to go home [00:03:30]

One of the things I observed in life and in Scripture is that when people walk with God and he doesn't take them suddenly he will give them a doing glimpse of heaven while they're still transitioning from Earth he will let them know not only that it's time but it's okay two years ago when we found out that this rare cancer had come upon sister Evans we hoped we had all these plans prior to that of when we turn 70 which we did this year that things would change [00:05:59]

When pro football players enter the league they enter the league planning for a long career no draft he plans to only make it a year or two in the league they want to play 1015 years they want to make all the money they can make being successful as they can be make it to the Hall of Fame if possible they have long term vision and long term goals but those of you who watch sports long enough know that some of those goals are out of their hands the coach may cut them they may get injured they may not reach the goals that they have because no matter how hard you plan some things are out of your head [00:10:19]

I fought a good fight I hope you know our fights aren't worth fighting far too many of us spend far too much time with bad fights the word good means that which is beneficial or helpful he said I fought a good fight the fights I had in life was to make things better Paul had a lot of fights he had a run for his life he had people chasing him he had here there are boats that were in storms where he was fighting for his very existence but he said I fought a good fight [00:14:49]

Too many couples here or fighting bad fights cuz you're fighting over stuff that is non beneficial it doesn't matter when you hit times like this and you look back at the stuff you argued about and thought about and bust about and cussed each other about you you you look back and say that was a bad fight cuz that had absolutely no benefit to it it was not beneficial Church members fight overseas like that's a good fight folk fight over skin colour like that's a good fight cultures fight genders fight they fight over stuff that doesn't matter if you at your time of departure want to be able to connect with heaven you better choose your fights wisely [00:16:15]

The second thing he says is I finished my course I finished my course it's good to know when your time is up that you're finished since the Evanses words we're not I'm finished he said I'm done same thing I'm done I'm finished Paul was saying I completed what I was put here to do don't waste your life so that when you are finished you weren't finished that you never got around to what God created and redeemed you to do that there was nothing eternal about your life where the course that God had for you and he has a cause for every believer to serve his kingdom to serve their Lord don't in your life wondering why you lived [00:19:45]

I learned a little bit more even than I knew previously about my wife she got saved at 9:00 that 9:00 her mother led her to Christ Herod her oldest sister she got on her knees with the two of them and led them in the process of trusting Christ as their Savior at 15 she went to a camp and was challenged there to surrender her life to Jesus Christ fully and in service to Him as the story was told to me she got on her knees at the camp at 15 and told the Lord you can have all of my life for any of your purposes I surrendered to you even if that means I will never marry or have children so this was a serious moment where she gave up everything over to Jesus Christ [00:21:18]

Paul thirdly says I kept the faith I didn't walk away from my faith when times got hard I didn't give up on Jesus our bedroom looks like a hospital room but the wheelchair and a walker and all of the things that come with hospice but at any time she could be conscious you would hear her calling on Jesus or asking me or the kids to read scripture or playing scripture on a CD or listening to music on Christmas she had very little consciousness on Christmas we were got her in the wheelchair she wasn't able to walk she wasn't able to talk and any clear meaningful way we gather the children and the grandchildren the great-grandchildren around we just say saying Carol's about Jesus she just would move her lips trying to mouth the words about Jesus [00:25:03]

Paul said I kept the faith I didn't walk away from my belief system just because being a Christian became hard or because trials come because difficulties are there then he comes to his final verse verse 8 Paul says now there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness but not for me only but for all those who love his appearing now there is laid up for me a crown of glory before he left he knew that there was going to be an award waiting last week or so since the heavens rung out in the room award award they're calling me for an award she kept saying award award they're just waiting for the song there was anticipation about an award before she was gone but Paul had an anticipation about an award before he was gone he said now there is laid up for me when I came by the office yesterday there was a plaque with a resolution on it [00:29:39]

The resolution had a quote on it from sister Evans that I've never remember ever reading taken from a magazine article that she had written or bed interviewed her and they included it on their resolution let me read what she wrote in 2012 as a woman that heard the voice of God and stayed on track as much as she could and with the plan that he ordained and preordained for her life I want to hear well done I might not please all the people here but I want to hear well done because what he foreknew about me and predestined for me I took time in my life to really accomplish that I want to leave a legacy and heritage for my children and grandchildren and for any woman that the Lord brought my way I want to leave some inspiration and some encouragement for them foremost in my mind is I want to hear well done [00:30:34]

He says no there is laid up for me which means that death wasn't the end it wasn't a period it was a conjunction since the ask Evans asked me she says how long is it going to take my soul and spirit to leave my body and go to heaven how long is it going to take I was able to explain it's like a blue with air when you prick it it goes pop and the air escapes and the rubber falls down to the ground the rubber once you pop the balloon is useless but the air that left it is still there when that pop occurs and you close your eyes for the last time the life of scarce the body is dormant because it has no air but the air is still there you're very much alive to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord [00:33:04]

When you have that assurance that you don't get to stay dead when you die when you have that confidence in the Lord so if you are here today and you are a Christian if you are here today and you love the Lord then you follow him because this life is your dress rehearsal for eternity you say but it's hard but it's tough but if I told you that if I got you to eat squash for a year and you didn't like squash but if you ate it for a year I would pay all of your bills for the rest of your life it would change your view of squash your life may have squash in it but God says if you'll fight a good fight finish the course and keep the faith I got you covered for your eternal destiny so you keep on fighting [00:34:05]

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