Living Out God's Love and Joy Together

Love and joy are not mere emotions or fleeting experiences, but supernatural gifts from God, meant to be received, lived out, and shared with others for His glory. Jesus Himself modeled this for us, teaching that as the Father has loved Him, so He has loved us, and calls us to abide in His love. This love is selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional, and the joy He offers is a deep gladness rooted not in circumstances, but in God’s unchanging character and truth. Even in the midst of suffering, as seen in the life of the Apostle Paul, these gifts can be experienced and expressed, pointing others to their divine source.

Living out love and joy is not optional for followers of Christ; it is essential. The world is watching, often seeing little difference between Christians and everyone else in daily choices and attitudes. What sets us apart is not religious activity, but the substance of our lives—how we love, how we rejoice, and how we treat one another. When love and joy are lived out, they produce unity, humility, and ultimately bring glory to God. Unity is vital, especially in a world and spiritual climate that is often hostile to the faith. The church is not a country club or merely a hospital, but an army on mission, called to stand together for the gospel.

Humility is the natural outflow of love and joy. Jesus, though fully God, emptied Himself, taking the form of a servant and humbling Himself to the point of death on a cross—all for us. This humility is not just a virtue, but a requirement from God, and it manifests in selflessness, kindness, compassion, and generosity. The story of King David and Mephibosheth illustrates how experiencing God’s kindness compels us to show that same kindness to others, even those who may seem undeserving.

Personal testimonies, like that of Darla, remind us that living out love and joy is a journey marked by struggles, failures, and restoration. Yet, God’s faithfulness and the support of a united, humble community make it possible to break free from performance, shame, and unhealthy patterns, and to find true joy and purpose in Christ. Ultimately, our lives are to be lived wholly for God’s glory, marching together as one, with Jesus as our King and destination.

Key Takeaways

• 1. Love and Joy Are Supernatural Gifts, Not Human Achievements True love and joy are not manufactured by our own efforts or circumstances, but are gifts from God, received through Jesus. This love is selfless and sacrificial, and this joy is rooted in God’s character, not in fleeting happiness. Only by abiding in Christ can we experience and share these gifts with others. [02:41]
• 2. Unity Is Essential for the Mission and Safety of the Church The church is called to be united in spirit and purpose, not just for comfort or healing, but to stand together for the gospel in a world that often opposes the faith. Disunity weakens our witness and leaves us vulnerable, while unity creates a safe space and a powerful testimony to the world. We must guard against division and strive to be an army on mission for Jesus. [13:59]
• 3. Humility Flows from Experiencing God’s Love and Joy Humility is not an optional virtue, but a requirement from God, modeled perfectly by Jesus who emptied Himself and became a servant for our sake. True humility means putting others before ourselves, not seeking our own interests, and recognizing that every act of pride or disobedience is, in essence, claiming God’s place in our lives. The more we are overwhelmed by Christ’s humility, the more we are compelled to humble ourselves. [38:50]
• 4. Kindness and Compassion Are the Outworking of Humility When we are deeply aware of God’s kindness to us, as David was, we are moved to show that same kindness to others, even those who have wronged us or seem unworthy. This is not merely human kindness, but the kindness of God flowing through us. Our families and communities should be marked by this kind of selfless, restorative love. [46:17]
• 5. Living Out Love and Joy Transforms Lives and Multiplies Disciples Personal stories like Darla’s show that living out love and joy is a process that involves struggle, confession, and restoration, but also leads to freedom, healing, and multiplication. As we experience God’s love and joy, we are called to disciple others, creating a legacy of faith and a community that reflects Christ’s glory. Our lives, lived in unity and humility, point others to Jesus and fulfill our mission. [54:43]

Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [00:44] - Recap: Prayer, Encouragement, Perspective
• [02:04] - Love and Joy: Gifts from God
• [03:16] - Defining Love and Joy
• [04:33] - Jesus’ Promise in Tribulation
• [05:05] - True Love and Joy: Billy Graham & Tozer
• [06:53] - Live Out Love and Joy
• [08:09] - The World’s Question: Real Christians
• [09:26] - Unity, Humility, and God’s Glory
• [12:10] - Church: Country Club, Hospital, or Army?
• [13:59] - Facing Opposition and Suffering
• [17:38] - The Power of Unity: Lessons from Fish
• [20:12] - Unity in Action: Stories of Sacrifice
• [24:28] - Safe Spaces: The Story of Moryom
• [30:05] - Each 1, Raise 1: Multiplying Disciples
• [33:46] - Humility: God’s Requirement
• [38:50] - The Humility of Christ
• [43:51] - “All For You”: The Motivation of Jesus
• [46:17] - Kindness of God: David and Mephibosheth
• [49:18] - Testimony: Darla’s Journey
• [54:43] - Living Out Love and Joy: Multiplication
• [57:09] - All for God’s Glory
• [58:28] - The Name Above All Names
• [59:46] - Marching for the King
• [61:10] - Invitation and Closing Prayer

Bible Reading

Philippians 2:1-11 (ESV) —
> 1 So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, 2 complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. 3 Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. 4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. 5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, 6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. 9 Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, 10 so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

John 15:9-11 (ESV) —
> 9 As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. 10 If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love. 11 These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.

2 Samuel 9:1-7 (ESV) —
> 1 And David said, “Is there still anyone left of the house of Saul, that I may show him kindness for Jonathan’s sake?” ... 7 And David said to him, “Do not fear, for I will show you kindness for the sake of your father Jonathan, and I will restore to you all the land of Saul your father, and you shall eat at my table always.”

Observation Questions

1. According to Philippians 2:1-2, what are the signs that a church or group is living out love and joy together?
2. In John 15:9-11, what does Jesus say is the source of true love and joy? How does He describe the way we are to experience them? [02:41]
3. In the story of David and Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9), what specific actions did David take to show the “kindness of God”? [46:17]
4. The sermon described unity as essential for the church’s mission and safety. What illustration from nature was used to explain the power of unity? [17:38]

Interpretation Questions

1. The sermon says love and joy are supernatural gifts, not just emotions or achievements. What does it mean for a Christian to “abide” in Christ’s love and joy, especially during difficult times? [02:41]
2. Paul commands believers to “do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves” (Philippians 2:3). How does this challenge common attitudes in our culture or even in the church? [34:23]
3. The story of David and Mephibosheth was used to illustrate kindness flowing from humility. Why is it significant that David showed kindness to someone who could not repay him and was from the family of his former enemy? [46:17]
4. The testimony of Darla highlighted the journey from performance and shame to freedom and joy in Christ. How does a united and humble community help someone experience restoration and growth? [54:05]

Application Questions

1. The sermon challenged us to “live out love and joy” so that the world sees a real difference in Christians’ daily choices and attitudes. In what area of your life do you find it hardest to show love or joy? What is one step you can take this week to live out love or joy in that area? [08:09]
2. Unity was described as essential for the church to be a “safe space” and an “army on mission.” Are there any relationships in your family, small group, or church where unity is lacking? What practical action can you take to help restore unity? [26:55]
3. Humility is not optional, but a requirement from God. Think of a recent situation where you struggled with pride or putting yourself first. What would it look like to “regard others as more important than yourself” in that situation? [34:23]
4. The kindness of God, as shown by David, was extended even to someone who seemed undeserving. Is there someone in your life who needs to experience God’s kindness through you, even if it’s difficult? What specific act of kindness can you do for them this week? [46:17]
5. Darla’s testimony showed that living out love and joy is a journey, not a one-time event. Are there areas in your life where you feel stuck in performance, shame, or unhealthy patterns? How can you invite God and your community to help you find freedom and restoration? [54:05]
6. The sermon emphasized “Each 1, Raise 1”—multiplying disciples. Who is one person you can intentionally encourage or disciple in the coming month? What is your next step to help them grow in faith? [31:15]
7. The ultimate goal is to live for God’s glory, marching together as one. What is one change you can make in your daily routine or mindset to keep God’s glory as your main motivation? [57:09]