Living by Love: The Foundation of Faith
Summary
In my sermon, I began by welcoming everyone back to One Church at Home and introduced the theme we've been exploring throughout the year: the idea of being good ground. I emphasized the importance of making our hearts fertile soil for God's word, allowing His seeds to grow within us and reflect Jesus to our culture. I explained that we're pausing our progression through Galatians to focus on what it means to live by the Spirit, which is essential for producing a crop that impacts the world.
I then delved into the concept of love, starting with its definition and how it contrasts with the cultural understanding of love, which often prioritizes personal happiness and is based on feelings of romance, attraction, and affection. I pointed out that this cultural love is conditional and can lead to instability in relationships. I highlighted that the Bible does not mention eros, the Greek word for romantic love, but instead focuses on agape love, which appears 116 times in the New Testament. Agape love is the active love of God for us and our active love for God, each other, and even our enemies.
I continued by discussing the importance of love in the context of spiritual gifts, referencing Paul's letters to the Corinthians. Paul emphasizes that spiritual gifts like speaking in tongues and prophecy are valuable, but without love, they are meaningless. I explained that love is the foundation of our faith and must be the driving force behind all our actions. I also addressed the danger of pursuing spiritual gifts without love, as it can lead to a hollow faith.
As I moved through the sermon, I emphasized that love is the first fruit of the Spirit listed by Paul, signifying its importance. I explained that love is not just a feeling but an intentional action that reflects Jesus' character. I encouraged the congregation to live a life by love, where love is the primary governing force in all we do and say.
I concluded by reminding everyone of Jesus' commandment to love God and our neighbors as ourselves, stating that all the laws and prophets hang on these two commandments. I stressed that we must start by loving God with all our being, receiving His love, and committing to following Him. This love then extends to our neighbors, including those we may not like or who have hurt us. I assured the congregation that through Jesus' love, we find healing, restoration, and redemption.
Key Takeaways:
1. Love is the foundation upon which all other spiritual fruits are built. Without love, our actions and spiritual gifts are empty. We must prioritize love in our relationships, ensuring that it is patient, kind, and not self-seeking. This is the true mark of a follower of Jesus. ([21:21])
2. Agape love is not just a concept but a commandment from God. It requires us to actively love God, others, and even our enemies. This love is not based on feelings but on a deliberate choice to act in love, reflecting God's character in our lives. ([16:44])
3. The pursuit of spiritual gifts is encouraged, but they must not overshadow the essential nature of love. Love is the greatest of all virtues and must be the lens through which we view and use our spiritual gifts. ([18:04])
4. Understanding our value in God's eyes is crucial for loving others. We cannot fully love our neighbors without first recognizing the love Jesus has for us, demonstrated by His sacrifice on the cross. This realization empowers us to love authentically. ([33:03])
5. Living by the Spirit starts with living by love because God is love. To reflect Jesus and bear witness to Him, we must embody the essence of who He is—love. This is the most profound spiritual truth and the key to a mature faith. ([26:42])
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Galatians 5:22-23 (NIV) - "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
2. 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 (NIV) - "If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing."
3. Matthew 22:37-40 (NIV) - "Jesus replied: 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."
#### Observation Questions
1. According to Galatians 5:22-23, what are the fruits of the Spirit, and which one is listed first? Why might this be significant? ([10:35])
2. In 1 Corinthians 13:1-3, what does Paul say about the value of spiritual gifts without love? ([18:04])
3. How does Jesus summarize the greatest commandments in Matthew 22:37-40? What does He say all the Law and the Prophets hang on? ([28:35])
4. What are some characteristics of love as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7? ([20:00])
#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Paul emphasizes love as the first fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23? How does this set the tone for the other fruits? ([10:35])
2. How does the cultural understanding of love differ from the biblical concept of agape love as described in the sermon? ([12:14])
3. Why does Paul consider love to be more important than other spiritual gifts in 1 Corinthians 13:1-3? What might be the consequences of pursuing spiritual gifts without love? ([18:04])
4. How does understanding our value in God's eyes, as mentioned in the sermon, empower us to love others authentically? ([33:03])
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own life: Are there areas where you prioritize personal happiness over agape love? How can you shift your focus to embodying agape love in those areas? ([12:14])
2. Think of a relationship where you might be pursuing spiritual gifts or good deeds without love. How can you intentionally incorporate love into your actions in that relationship? ([18:04])
3. Jesus commands us to love our neighbors as ourselves. Identify a neighbor (literal or metaphorical) whom you find difficult to love. What specific steps can you take this week to show them love? ([28:35])
4. Consider the characteristics of love listed in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. Which characteristic do you find most challenging to exhibit? What practical steps can you take to grow in that area? ([20:00])
5. How can you remind yourself daily of your value in God's eyes to better love yourself and, in turn, love others? ([33:03])
6. Reflect on a time when you responded to someone with impatience or unkindness. How can you approach similar situations differently in the future to reflect Jesus' love? ([21:21])
7. In what ways can you make love the primary governing force in your interactions at work, home, or church this week? ([09:27])
Devotional
Day 1: Love: The Foundation of Faith
Love is not merely an emotion or a response to others' actions; it is the bedrock upon which a believer's life is built. It is patient, kind, and selfless, reflecting the nature of Christ in every interaction. This love is not contingent on the worthiness or actions of the recipient but is a steadfast commitment to act in the best interest of others, just as Jesus did. It is this agape love that gives meaning to all other virtues and actions, including the use of spiritual gifts. Without this foundational love, even the most impressive spiritual gifts are rendered hollow and ineffective. Love must be the primary motivation behind every deed and word, ensuring that the life of a believer is a true reflection of Jesus to the world. [21:21]
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law." - Galatians 5:22-23 ESV
Reflection: How can you demonstrate unconditional love in a practical way to someone in your life today, regardless of how they have treated you?
Day 2: Agape Love: A Divine Commandment
Agape love is an active choice to love without conditions, mirroring the love God has for humanity. It is not based on fleeting emotions or personal gain but is a deliberate decision to extend kindness and compassion to all, including enemies. This love is a commandment from God, requiring believers to actively love Him, others, and even those who oppose them. It is a love that goes beyond the surface, seeking the highest good for others and reflecting God's character in every aspect of life. Agape love is transformative, breaking down barriers and creating genuine connections that transcend human limitations. [16:44]
"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another." - John 13:34 ESV
Reflection: In what ways can you actively choose to show love to those who are difficult to love in your life?
Day 3: Spiritual Gifts and the Primacy of Love
While the pursuit of spiritual gifts is encouraged, they must always be underpinned by love. Spiritual gifts are given for the edification of the church and the glory of God, but without love, they can become self-serving and lose their intended purpose. Love is the lens through which all gifts should be used, ensuring that they contribute to the building up of others in a spirit of humility and grace. The absence of love in the exercise of these gifts can lead to pride and a faith that lacks depth and authenticity. Therefore, love must be the driving force behind every spiritual gift, ensuring that they are used in a manner that truly honors God and benefits others. [18:04]
"If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal." - 1 Corinthians 13:1 ESV
Reflection: Are there spiritual gifts you possess that you can use more lovingly to serve others in your community?
Day 4: Recognizing Our Value in Christ's Love
Understanding the depth of Jesus' love for us is essential for authentically loving others. Recognizing our value in God's eyes, as demonstrated through Jesus' sacrifice on the cross, empowers us to extend that same love to those around us. This realization allows us to love others not based on their actions or our feelings but rooted in the truth of God's unwavering love for us. When we grasp the magnitude of Christ's love, we can begin to love others with the same selflessness and compassion, leading to healing, restoration, and redemption in our relationships. [33:03]
"By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers." - 1 John 3:16 ESV
Reflection: How does understanding your value in Christ's love change the way you approach relationships with others?
Day 5: Living by the Spirit Through Love
Living by the Spirit begins with embodying the essence of God, which is love. To reflect Jesus and bear witness to Him in the world, believers must live out this love in every aspect of their lives. It is through love that one can truly demonstrate the character of Christ and impact the world around them. This love is the most profound spiritual truth and the key to a mature and vibrant faith. By allowing love to govern all actions and decisions, believers can grow in their spiritual journey and become effective ambassadors for Christ. [26:42]
"Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God." - 1 John 4:7 ESV
Reflection: What are some ways you can prioritize living by love in your daily interactions and decisions?
Quotes
"Love your neighbor as yourself... none of this will ever happen if you can't see yourself the way that Jesus sees you. You can't love someone else until you know that Jesus loves you... You need to know your value in the eyes of God... Jesus said that you have value and the price that he was willing to pay was with his very life." [33:03]
"We've got to reflect that love... to our neighbors, to all those around us because who's our neighbor? Well, it's our family member, it's the ones that we like and it's the ones that we don't like... it's even our enemies... it's only in love that we can experience Jesus and it's Jesus that brings us the healing, the restoration, that redeems all of that pain and all that Brokenness." [30:25]
"The very Foundation of what love looks like, what it means to love, that Foundation is just broken... what culture says about love is that it's more about how we feel about someone or something... it's often a conditional thing... it's often based on our emotions, on our desires, and ultimately it's it comes down to our self-gratification." [14:08]
"Love is patient, it is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud... true biblical love being lived out in a real authentic way in our lives... real love is not self-centered but is willing to sacrifice everything, right, including our own desires, including what's what we feel like it's good for us, we sacrifice for others." [21:21]
"Living by the spirit starts by living by love because God is love. You don't get much more spiritual than that, my friends... To love, to know love is to know the one true God because God is love. That's why this is all so very important... how are we going to reflect Jesus and bear witness to who he is if we don't get who the very essence of who he is is." [26:42]
"You don't get to search for deeper things if you haven't been loving first... Love Never Fails... the mark of a mature faith is actually love... we must lead with love in all that we do and all that we say... if you aren't living out this kind of agape love then your faith isn't mature enough to handle the other gifts." [24:54]
"If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging symbol... if you're doing these things and you aren't engaged in love... you are nothing more than a resounding gong or a clashing symbol in your communication." [18:44]
"Love itself is like the primary governing force in all that we do and say as we engage the culture around us... the fact that love is first means that it's important... Paul is elevating love to this point of primary stature amongst all the fruits of the spirit." [10:02]