Our lives as Christians should naturally expose the darkness around us. By embodying goodness, righteousness, and truth, we manifest the light of Christ, making the deeds of darkness visible without needing to dwell on their details. This is a call to live out our transformed nature, allowing our actions to speak louder than words. [03:26]
"For at one time you were darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of light is found in all that is good and right and true), and try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord." (Ephesians 5:8-10, ESV)
Reflection: Identify an area in your life where you can actively embody goodness, righteousness, and truth today. How can you let your actions speak louder than words in this area?
Day 2: The Power of Shame in Righteous Living
Paul introduces shame as a motivation for avoiding the unfruitful works of darkness. Shame involves losing honor, dignity, and integrity, and it assumes a level of respectability inherent in the human soul. Recognizing and cultivating a sensitivity to shame helps us maintain our integrity in Christ. [08:12]
"Let us walk properly as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and sensuality, not in quarreling and jealousy. But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires." (Romans 13:13-14, ESV)
Reflection: Reflect on a recent situation where you felt a sense of shame. How can this feeling guide you to maintain your integrity and honor in Christ moving forward?
Day 3: Motivations for Righteousness
Paul provides various motivations for right living, including propriety, exclusion from the kingdom of God, and the wrath of God. These motivations are culturally transcendent, offering a comprehensive framework for understanding why we should avoid sin and live as children of light. [10:55]
"Therefore, beloved, since you are waiting for these, be diligent to be found by him without spot or blemish, and at peace. And count the patience of our Lord as salvation, just as our beloved brother Paul also wrote to you according to the wisdom given him." (2 Peter 3:14-15, ESV)
Reflection: Consider which motivation for righteousness resonates most with you today. How can this motivation influence your decisions and actions in your daily life?
Day 4: Guarding Against Desensitization to Shame
A significant danger is becoming desensitized to shame, leading to glorying in what should be shameful. This desensitization reflects a lack of light in our souls. We must allow the light of Christ to penetrate deeply, developing a sensibility that discerns and rejects dishonorable actions and speech. [12:09]
"Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret." (Ephesians 5:11-12, ESV)
Reflection: Identify an area in your life where you may have become desensitized to shame. What steps can you take to allow the light of Christ to penetrate this area and restore your sensibility?
Day 5: Cultivating Sensibility to Honor in Christ
Developing a sensibility to shame involves recognizing when our speech or actions compromise our integrity and the honor we have in Christ. This requires a deep saturation in the light of Christ, enabling us to discern when our dignity and respectability are being compromised. [14:16]
"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things." (Philippians 4:8, ESV)
Reflection: Reflect on your daily interactions and speech. How can you cultivate a deeper sensibility to honor and integrity in Christ in these areas today?
Sermon Summary
In our exploration of Ephesians 5:8-14, we delve into Paul's exhortation to expose the unfruitful works of darkness without indulging in shameful speech. Paul challenges us to live as children of light, allowing our lives to manifest the truth and righteousness that naturally expose the darkness around us. The key lies in understanding that our transformed lives, characterized by goodness, righteousness, and truth, serve as a powerful testimony against the deeds of darkness. This transformation is not just about avoiding sin but actively living in a way that makes the darkness visible without needing to dwell on its details.
Paul's argument is multifaceted, emphasizing that we should not share in the unfruitful works of darkness because they are shameful. He introduces the concept of shame as a motivation for right living, alongside other motivations such as propriety, exclusion from the kingdom of God, and the wrath of God. Shame, in this context, is about losing honor, dignity, and integrity when engaging in or even speaking about shameful acts. It assumes a level of dignity and respectability that should be inherent in the human soul.
The challenge for us is to cultivate a sensitivity to shame that aligns with our identity as children of light. This involves recognizing when our speech or actions compromise our integrity and the honor we have in Christ. Paul warns against becoming desensitized to shame, which can lead to glorying in what should be shameful. Instead, we are called to let the light of Christ penetrate deeply into our souls, developing a sensibility that discerns and rejects what is dishonorable.
Key Takeaways
1. Living as Light: Our lives as Christians should naturally expose the darkness around us. By embodying goodness, righteousness, and truth, we manifest the light of Christ, making the deeds of darkness visible without needing to dwell on their details. This is a call to live out our transformed nature, allowing our actions to speak louder than words. [03:26]
2. The Role of Shame: Paul introduces shame as a motivation for avoiding the unfruitful works of darkness. Shame involves losing honor, dignity, and integrity, and it assumes a level of respectability inherent in the human soul. Recognizing and cultivating a sensitivity to shame helps us maintain our integrity in Christ. [08:12]
3. Multiple Motivations for Righteousness: Paul provides various motivations for right living, including propriety, exclusion from the kingdom of God, and the wrath of God. These motivations are culturally transcendent, offering a comprehensive framework for understanding why we should avoid sin and live as children of light. [10:55]
4. Desensitization to Shame: A significant danger is becoming desensitized to shame, leading to glorying in what should be shameful. This desensitization reflects a lack of light in our souls. We must allow the light of Christ to penetrate deeply, developing a sensibility that discerns and rejects dishonorable actions and speech. [12:09]
5. Cultivating Sensibility: Developing a sensibility to shame involves recognizing when our speech or actions compromise our integrity and the honor we have in Christ. This requires a deep saturation in the light of Christ, enabling us to discern when our dignity and respectability are being compromised. [14:16] ** [14:16]
What does Paul mean when he instructs believers to "expose" the unfruitful works of darkness? How does this relate to living as children of light? [00:34]
How does Paul describe the role of shame in motivating believers to avoid the works of darkness? [08:12]
What are the different motivations Paul provides for living righteously, and how do they relate to each other? [10:27]
How does Paul suggest that our lives as Christians naturally expose the darkness around us? [03:26]
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Interpretation Questions:
How might Paul's concept of shame as a motivation for right living challenge or affirm contemporary cultural views on shame and honor? [12:23]
In what ways does Paul suggest that believers can become desensitized to shame, and what are the consequences of this desensitization? [12:09]
How does the idea of living as children of light provide a framework for understanding the Christian life and its impact on the world? [03:26]
What does it mean for the light of Christ to penetrate deeply into our souls, and how does this affect our sensibility to shame and righteousness? [14:16]
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Application Questions:
Reflect on a time when your actions or words may have compromised your integrity as a child of light. How can you address this in the future? [14:16]
Consider the role of shame in your own life. How do you discern between healthy shame that leads to growth and unhealthy shame that hinders it? [12:23]
Identify an area in your life where you might be desensitized to shame. What steps can you take to allow the light of Christ to illuminate this area? [12:09]
How can you actively embody goodness, righteousness, and truth in your daily interactions to expose darkness without dwelling on its details? [03:26]
Think of a situation where you might have gloried in something shameful. How can you shift your perspective to align with the honor and dignity found in Christ? [12:09]
What practical steps can you take to cultivate a deeper sensitivity to the light of Christ in your life, ensuring that your actions reflect your identity as a child of light? [14:16]
How can you encourage others in your community to live as children of light, and what role can you play in helping them recognize and reject dishonorable actions? [03:26]
Sermon Clips
Paul has said don't share in the unfruitful works of darkness but instead expose them show that they are wrong and then he gives an argument an argument that looks strange because the argument says because expose them because it is shameful even to speak of them the things that they do in secret. [00:00:37]
When you live the light they're manifest, I think that's the way it works, and what I think he means by the light is you are light, and when you as children of light bear the fruit of light it's goodness in your life and righteousness in your life and truth in your life and those are the light. [00:03:09]
Expose the works of darkness, we saw that those were immorality, I'm back at verse three now in chapter five, morality, impurity, covetousness, things like that, filthiness, foolish talk, crew joking, when you're done with those expose them because they're they're so evil they need to be exposed so evil you shouldn't talk about them. [00:04:08]
We were once darkness but are light that's the closest analogy to what is manifested is light you are light and so some interpreters take this all to mean not the unfruitful works of darkness but the Paul has shifted gears and is now talking about people and that when people are brought into the light they become light. [00:05:35]
Shame is a new idea that has come in to Paul here he hasn't mentioned that yet and I want to draw your attention to how many different arguments Paul uses because I don't want you to be swept away by anybody who focuses on one of these kinds of motivations and not the others so here they are. [00:08:12]
Let no one deceive you with empty words for because of these things the wrath of God is coming upon the sons of disobedience therefore don't become partners so argument number three is you're gonna get wrath you don't just get excluded from the kingdom and you don't just act improperly you come under the wrath of God. [00:09:32]
Shame assumes an honor in the human soul it it assumes a kind of dignity it assumes a kind of integrity it assumes a kind of respectability and when you do something that is shameful which is what Paul says it is to even speak about these unfruitful works of darkness when that happens you lose honor you lose dignity. [00:12:23]
What's wrong is that they're defective in light this light has not penetrated deeply enough into their souls they're not saturated enough with the light of Christ to develop a kind of sensibility that they can tell when their appropriate honor and dignity integrity and respectability in Christ is being besmirched and trampled upon. [00:14:00]
Paul multiplies motivations for right living and we shouldn't limit him to just one and if we find that this one is alien to us and we don't quite know what it's like to be shamed by speaking of evil we've got some work to do on our souls. [00:14:35]
The opposite of shame is glory and the sickness of the human heart is that we consider it glorious I mean think of all the kinds of immoralities in which people boast the kind of immodesties in which they boast in movies and television we've lost our capacities to feel shame so shame assumes an honor in the human soul. [00:12:04]
If you're in a group discussing this right now turn it off and say let's talk about shame for a minute what is something that is shameful what does the word shame add to all these other motivations and I would suggest that shame let's just pick up over here in Philippians 3 19 to get an idea. [00:11:09]
I think a key to figuring out what Paul means when he argues for exposing by discouraging us from speaking about them is to notice this and which is part of the argument it's got two parts let's read them together see if it solves the problem for it's shameful even to speak of the things they do in secret. [00:01:53]