Begin each morning by listing three things you are grateful for before your feet touch the ground. This simple act shifts your focus from what you lack to the abundant blessings God has already given you—life, health, provision, and sound mind. Gratitude is not just a feeling but a discipline that opens your heart to God’s presence and prepares you to live an exceptional life. When you start your day with thanksgiving, you invite God’s joy and perspective into every circumstance, no matter how mundane or challenging. [02:11]
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (ESV)
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Reflection: Before you get out of bed tomorrow, what three specific things will you thank God for—and how might this change your attitude for the rest of the day?
God did not design anyone to do life alone; from the beginning, He declared it was not good for man to be alone. Loneliness is a silent epidemic in our generation, but God’s answer is genuine friendship and community. True friends are not just for convenience or social media “likes”—they are God’s instruments for encouragement, accountability, and support. If God wants to bless you, He often sends a friend; if the enemy wants to destroy, he may send the wrong friend. Choose to fight for godly friendships and invest in relationships that draw you closer to your God-given purpose. [09:48]
Genesis 2:18 (ESV)
Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”
Reflection: Who in your life do you need to intentionally reach out to this week to deepen a genuine, godly friendship—and what step will you take to do it?
Exceptional lives are built on sacrificial friendships, like Jonathan and David’s covenant. Jonathan set aside his own ambitions to support God’s purpose in David’s life, even when it cost him personally. True friends empower, encourage, and protect each other, refusing to let envy or selfishness take root. Ask yourself: are you willing to be a Jonathan to someone, helping them fulfill their destiny even if it means sacrificing your own comfort or recognition? God uses such friendships to accomplish His plans on earth. [27:10]
1 Samuel 18:3-4 (ESV)
Then Jonathan made a covenant with David, because he loved him as his own soul. And Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was on him and gave it to David, and his armor, and even his sword and his bow and his belt.
Reflection: Who is one person you can intentionally support or encourage this week, even if it costs you something—time, resources, or recognition?
In God’s kingdom, friendship is not about convenience but about covenant and commitment. A true friend stands by you in adversity, helps you say no to sin, and encourages you to keep going when life gets tough. Such friendships require vulnerability, trust, and sometimes costly sacrifices. They are not surface-level or transactional but are rooted in a desire to see each other become the best version of what God has created. Evaluate your friendships: are they helping you grow in godliness and purpose, or are they just about comfort and convenience? [31:25]
Proverbs 17:17 (ESV)
A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
Reflection: What is one way you can move a friendship from surface-level to deeper commitment this week—perhaps by sharing a struggle, offering help, or simply being present in a difficult moment?
The highest title God can give is to call you His friend. Jesus invites you into a relationship where He reveals the Father’s heart, not just as a servant but as a friend. This friendship is marked by love, obedience, and a willingness to lay down your life for others. When you choose to be a friend of God, He entrusts you with His plans and purposes, guiding you in every area of your life. Seek to move beyond transactional faith—don’t just come to God for what you can get, but desire to know Him, love Him, and be transformed by His friendship. [46:20]
John 15:13-15 (ESV)
Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.
Reflection: What would it look like for you to pursue friendship with God this week—setting aside time to listen, obey, and simply enjoy His presence, not just seeking His hand but His heart?
Today’s focus is on the call to live an exceptional life, a life that rises above mediocrity and mundane existence. Each of us has only one chance at life, and God’s desire is that we live it to the fullest, maximizing the unique opportunities and potential He has given us. One of the foundational pillars of such a life is gratitude—beginning each day by naming three things we are thankful for, even before our feet touch the ground. This practice shifts our perspective and opens our hearts to God’s blessings, no matter our circumstances.
But gratitude alone is not enough. God designed us for relationship, not isolation. Loneliness is a silent epidemic in our generation, and no amount of social media “likes” can fill the void of genuine friendship. We are made for friendship, and we are also made by our friendships. The people we surround ourselves with shape our destinies, for better or worse. If God wants to bless a person, He often does so through a friend; if the enemy wants to destroy, he also uses a friend. Therefore, we must fight for godly friendships—relationships marked by selflessness, sacrifice, and covenant, not convenience or transaction.
The friendship between Jonathan and David in the Bible is a model for us. Jonathan, though the rightful heir to the throne, chose to empower David, even at personal cost. True friends are not envious but are committed to seeing each other fulfill God’s purpose. In a world that celebrates individualism and transactional relationships, we are called to be Jonathans—people who empower, encourage, and protect others, even when there is nothing to gain.
This is also the heart of Christ for us. Jesus calls us not just servants, but friends. He desires to reveal the Father’s heart to us, to walk with us in intimacy, and to entrust us with His plans. The highest title is to be called a friend of God, and this comes not through religious activity, but through commitment, covenant, and sacrificial love. As we cultivate deep, godly friendships and pursue intimacy with Christ, we position ourselves to live truly exceptional lives—lives that transform others and leave a legacy for generations.
The Christ that walked on the surface of the earth is not the same one that resurrected. The one who walked on the surface of the earth was eating food, he was eating heba, he was eating amala, whatever food was there. The one who walked on the surface of the earth actually died, but the resurrected Christ cannot die.
I believe many people do not live their lives to their fullest. In fact, unfortunately for many people, I think 90 to 95 percent of the people on earth do not live life to the fullest, to the opportunities that God has given to them. [00:04:52]
God did not make you to do life alone. None of us was created to do life alone. In fact, if you look at it critically well, when God saw man that man was alone, what is God saying? That it wasn't good. It wasn't good for man to be alone. [00:08:14]
One of the greatest epidemics in our generation today, more than the epidemic of cancer, is an epidemic of loneliness. Men are lonely. If I see someone with five thousand friends on Facebook, if he has a problem, who can he share it with? There'll be no one. [00:08:45]
Men are looking for likes instead of living for love. Many people have many likes as their friend, but they do not have anything to love. [00:09:16]
When God created man, God did not create man for heaven. God created man for the earth. Why did God create man for the earth? God gave man the earth. God did not give man heaven. God gave man the earth. Therefore, there is nothing on earth that God wants to do, he needs a man to do it. [00:10:06]
If you think that it's only church that can answer all the questions, you will not be able to explain why someone like an Elon Musk is the wealthiest man and probably the most spiritual man in your village probably has nothing to show for it. I am not downplaying spirituality. In fact, I'm going to overplay it today. But I'm only just telling you that God did certain things in the Bible in certain ways. [00:12:50]
You will stop accepting being an ordinary person in life. What did I say? You will stop accepting being what? Ordinary life. You will go for the most exceptional living life. The exceptional life that can be possible. Look, every one of us has one attempt at life. Only one. Only one. And we must give it our best. [00:13:29]
I want everyone to become an exceptional person. I don't want mediocre. I want everyone to live their lives to the fullest of the potentials that God has given to them. I hate to see a G-wagon running like a motorcycle or like a bicycle. Have you seen it's not error if you see a bicycle overtaking a G-wagon on the expressway? It's not error. Bicycle that is using energy will overtake G-wagon, brand new G-wagon, but many men do not leave their potentials. [00:17:22]
There's a principle in life I call it the principle of honor. If any man honors God, God will honor him. [00:20:03]
If God wants to bless a man, God will give him a friend. If Satan wants to destroy a man, Satan will give him a friend. I want you to fight for godly friends. [00:22:21]
We are made for friendship and we are also made by our friendship. You get what I said? We are made for what? Friendship. We are also made by our friendship. The kind of friends you are, who you have, will make you. [00:23:24]
Jonathan was the prince, the son of the king. Jonathan knew he was supposed to be the next king, but he knew also and Saul knew that God had not ordained him to be king, he had ordained David to be king. So in First Samuel chapter 18 from verse 24, Jonathan in understanding that entered into a covenant with David, said David when you are king you will support me. Jonathan did not look at the fact that his own ambition was going to be cancelled, he looked at what God was about to do. [00:24:13]
The reason why the church used to be so powerful, it's not because maybe pastor was praying harder, was because there was a community of believers who live for one another. In Acts chapter 5 they all live one. In fact, the truth about it, if we get that back, if anybody tries to break it, God will kill the person. People were living, the Bible says that no one had lack in the church because everybody was friendly, nobody was selfish, everybody brought it forward. [00:28:31]
Friendship in this world, friendship is about convenience, but in the world that God is calling us to, it's not about convenience, it's about the commitment and the covenant. [00:30:00]
A friend is someone who knows all that you have done and still likes you. It doesn't accept all you have done, but he knows it. [00:31:11]
There's a price for greatness. There's a price in which everybody will have to leave you and you alone. There's a price in which your vision, your dream, even you cannot see it, or your friend will say don't give up, stay the course. The battle may be there. [00:31:55]
Fighting for your friends is an expression of the sacrifice of this, of the sacrificial love of Christ. Praise the Lord. Jonathan fought for David. Jonathan fought for what? For David. Can you fight for anyone in life? [00:34:28]
Friendship is costly, but please let us have friends that can let, I want you to pay costly prices for your friends. And the Bible also tells me that if you have too many friends you will go into poverty, because the truth is that you cannot, you cannot keep many friends but you can keep one or two friends. [00:37:06]
Friends are not meant to be envied, they're not meant to be what? Envied. Friends are meant to be what? Empowered. They're not meant to be envy, they're meant to be what? Empowered. [00:39:19]
I want you to encourage, look, look, when I was ending, what I was thinking about this service, I was just saying to myself, I said, I don't know which one to talk about, that you should look for a friend or you should be a friend to someone. I said okay, you know what, there's someone that, there's something that you have the power over that you may not have, I mean, I may have a big look for a friend or until God gives me that friend, I mean, I have no power to get that friend, but you can be that person to someone. I said look, you know what, I choose out of all the multitude of likes that I have on Facebook, let me choose one or two people, this will be their friend and I'll decide to pour into them, I will decide to be selfless to them, I'll pay a costly price for them, I would encourage them, I'll be like Jonathan to them, I would enable them to fulfill their life dreams, I'll be a source of encouragement to them, I'll be a source of empowerment to them. [00:41:20]
The one of the highest title God can ever give a man is to call him a friend of God. God told Abraham, Abraham would I hide from Abraham 18 when he wanted to destroy Sodom, he said would I hide from you what I want to do for against them? He said no, I will not hide because I am, I'm, what do you call it, you are my friend. [00:44:20]
Jesus said in John chapter 15, he said I've no more called you servants but I've called you friends. If friends know what if a guy is doing, I will tell you, I will show you all the things my father is about to do. [00:44:49]
Jesus says he wants to be your friend. He wants to reveal the father's heart to you. He wants to tell you what the father is thinking about your future, about your marriage. Look, if you choose God as your friend, he will tell you about the relationship you want to enter, he will tell you about the potholes, he will tell you about the difficulty, he will tell you everything, he will show you, he will reveal it to you. That's what friends do. Friends reveal. Friends reveal the thoughts of the father. [00:47:44]
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