Living a Legacy: Integrity, Faithfulness, and Discipline
Summary
Today, as we honor fathers, we are reminded that every one of us is leaving a legacy—whether we realize it or not. The question is not if we are leaving a legacy, but what kind of legacy it will be. Looking to the life of Daniel, we see a powerful example of how to live godly in an ungodly world. Daniel’s story, especially in chapter 6, shows us that the environment or circumstances we find ourselves in do not excuse us from living a life set apart for God. Daniel thrived in captivity, not because his situation was easy, but because he was intentional in his devotion and unwavering in his convictions.
Daniel’s life teaches us that God is not looking for perfection, but for hearts that are intentional in pleasing Him. Daniel chose not to defile himself with the king’s delicacies, demonstrating that spiritual maturity is marked by deliberate choices, even when it means standing alone. The enemy seeks to steal our spiritual valuables—our joy, peace, witness, and influence—but only Jesus can truly satisfy the deepest longings of our hearts. Compromise always leaves us emptier than we expect, but surrender to Christ brings true freedom.
Three key characteristics set Daniel apart: integrity, faithfulness, and discipline. Integrity means being honest and having strong moral principles, even when no one is watching. Faithfulness is being consistent in our devotion to God, not just when it’s convenient or when others are looking. Discipline is structuring our lives so that time with God is a daily priority, fueling us for whatever challenges we face. These qualities not only benefit us, but also bless our children and those around us, leaving a legacy that points others to faith in God.
Ultimately, the results of living this way are profound: we prosper in ways that go far beyond material wealth, others are drawn to believe because of our example, and God receives the glory. No matter our past, it is never too late to start living as a man of integrity, faithfulness, and discipline. God is able to redeem our story and use our lives to preach a message of hope and conviction to the world.
Key Takeaways
- Legacy is not optional; it is inevitable. Every father—and every believer—is leaving a legacy by the way they live, speak, and make choices. The real question is whether that legacy will be one of conviction or compromise, and whether it will draw others closer to God or further away. [01:14]
- God does not require perfection, but He does require intentionality. Daniel’s life shows that spiritual maturity is not about flawless living, but about making deliberate choices to honor God, even in the small things and even when it means standing alone. This kind of intentional living is what sets us apart in a world that often pulls us toward compromise. [09:10]
- Integrity is the foundation of a godly legacy. Being a person of integrity means being honest and having strong moral principles, regardless of who is watching. This quality not only brings favor and promotion from God, but it also blesses our children and those who look up to us, creating a ripple effect of blessing for generations. [21:43]
- Faithfulness is proven in consistency, not convenience. Daniel’s faithfulness was evident because he was the same person in public and in private, unwavering in his devotion to God. Our children and those around us need to see that our faith is not a spiritual “yo-yo,” but a steady, reliable anchor in every season. [26:46]
- Discipline is the daily structure that sustains spiritual growth. Daniel’s habit of prayer and devotion, even when it was risky, demonstrates the power of disciplined living. True discipline means prioritizing time with God above all else, fueling our day with His presence and wisdom, and refusing to let spiritual laziness take root. [28:10]
Youtube Chapters
[00:00] - Welcome
[00:34] - Honoring Fathers and the Importance of Legacy
[02:30] - Recap of Daniel Series and Spiritual Valuables
[04:30] - Daniel’s Stand: Life of Conviction or Compromise
[07:01] - Daniel’s Convictions and Godly Characteristics
[08:26] - Key Lessons from Daniel: Intentional Living
[11:06] - Guarding Spiritual Valuables and True Freedom
[12:20] - Influence of a Godly Life on Others
[14:16] - Daniel as Proof: Living Godly is Possible
[15:47] - Daniel’s Promotion and Distinguishing Himself
[19:48] - Daniel’s Integrity: What It Means and Why It Matters
[24:41] - Faithfulness: Consistency in Devotion
[28:10] - Discipline: Daily Habits of Prayer and Devotion
[33:41] - The Privilege and Responsibility of Fatherhood
[37:12] - Results of Godly Living: Prosperity, Influence, and God’s Glory
[44:00] - A Call to Fathers: Integrity, Faithfulness, Discipline
[46:17] - Overcoming the Past and Embracing a New Legacy
[48:52] - Prayer and Blessing Over Fathers
Study Guide
Small Group Bible Study Guide: Leaving a Godly Legacy (Daniel 6 & Father’s Day)
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### Bible Reading
- Daniel 6:1-10
(Daniel’s integrity, faithfulness, and discipline in the face of opposition)
- Proverbs 20:7
“The righteous man walks in his integrity; his children are blessed after him.”
- Mark 1:35
(Jesus’ example of disciplined prayer: “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.”)
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### Observation Questions
1. In Daniel 6:1-10, what specific habits or actions set Daniel apart from the other leaders in Babylon?
2. According to Proverbs 20:7, what is the result of a man walking in integrity?
3. How did Daniel respond when he learned about the king’s decree that threatened his life if he prayed to God? (Daniel 6:10)
4. The sermon said, “Daniel distinguished himself above the governors and satraps because an excellent spirit was in him.” What does the passage say was the reason for Daniel’s promotion? [16:26]
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### Interpretation Questions
1. The sermon says, “God is not looking for flawless living but for hearts that are intentional in pleasing Him.” What does it mean to be intentional in our devotion to God, even when it’s hard or unpopular? [08:26]
2. Daniel’s integrity was visible to everyone around him, even those who wanted to harm him. Why do you think integrity is so powerful in influencing others, especially children and those who look up to us? [21:43]
3. The sermon described Daniel’s faithfulness as being “the same person in front of others as he was in private.” Why is consistency in our faith so important for leaving a godly legacy? [26:46]
4. Daniel’s discipline in prayer was a daily habit, even when it was risky. What does this teach us about the role of spiritual discipline in our lives? [28:10]
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### Application Questions
1. The sermon said, “Legacy is not optional; it is inevitable.” What kind of legacy do you think you are currently leaving for your family, friends, or community? Is there anything you want to change about it? [01:14]
2. Daniel made deliberate choices not to compromise, even when it meant standing alone. Can you think of a recent situation where you were tempted to compromise your values? How did you respond, and what would you do differently next time? [09:10]
3. Integrity was defined as “the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles, even when no one is watching.” Are there areas in your life where you struggle to be honest or consistent? What is one step you can take this week to grow in integrity? [21:43]
4. The sermon challenged fathers (and all believers) to be faithful, not just when it’s convenient. What are some practical ways you can show faithfulness to God and your family this week, especially when no one else is watching? [26:46]
5. Daniel’s discipline was seen in his daily habit of prayer. What does your daily time with God look like right now? Is there a specific change you want to make to prioritize time with God each day? [28:10]
6. The pastor said, “It’s never too early and it’s never too late…from this day forward be a father, a dad, a man of integrity.” If you feel like your past has disqualified you from leaving a godly legacy, what does this sermon say about God’s ability to redeem your story? [46:17]
7. The sermon mentioned that the results of living this way are “prosperity, influence, and God’s glory.” What does prosperity mean to you beyond finances, and how would you like to see God use your life to influence others and bring Him glory? [39:50]
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Closing Prayer:
Invite group members to pray for one another, especially for fathers and future fathers, to be men and women of integrity, faithfulness, and discipline, leaving a legacy that points others to God.
Devotional
Day 1: Living a Life of Integrity
Integrity means being honest and having strong moral principles, even when no one is watching. Daniel distinguished himself in a foreign land because he chose to live differently, to be set apart, and to honor God with his actions and words. Fathers, your children and those around you are watching—let your life preach a message of integrity that blesses not only you but generations after you. The promise is clear: when you walk in integrity, your children are blessed after you. Choose today to be a man whose word can be trusted, whose actions are consistent, and whose convictions are unwavering, regardless of the culture or pressures around you. [23:12]
Proverbs 20:7 (ESV)
The righteous who walks in his integrity—blessed are his children after him!
Reflection: In what specific area of your life do you need to be more honest or consistent so that your children or those around you see a true example of integrity?
Day 2: Faithfulness in All Circumstances
Daniel was found faithful, and no fault could be found in him, not because he was perfect, but because he was steadfast in his devotion to God. Faithfulness means being the same person in private as you are in public, and not letting circumstances or emotions dictate your commitment. Fathers, are you faithful in your walk with God, in your commitments to your family, and in your daily choices? Your faithfulness, especially when things are difficult or when no one is looking, sets a powerful example for your children and those around you. Let your life be marked by unwavering faithfulness, so that nothing can be charged against you except your devotion to God. [24:41]
Daniel 6:4 (ESV)
Then the high officials and the satraps sought to find a ground for complaint against Daniel with regard to the kingdom, but they could find no ground for complaint or any fault, because he was faithful, and no error or fault was found in him.
Reflection: Where in your daily routine or relationships do you tend to waver in faithfulness, and what is one step you can take today to be more consistent?
Day 3: The Power of Spiritual Discipline
Daniel’s life was marked by discipline—he prayed three times a day, every day, as was his custom since early days. Discipline is not about perfection but about structure and intentionality, making time for God no matter what else is happening. Fathers, spiritual discipline fuels your day and anchors your life; it’s about starting your day with God’s Word and prayer, not letting anything else take that place. Even Jesus modeled this by rising early to pray. Let your discipline be visible to your children and those around you, showing them that your relationship with God is your highest priority. [28:10]
Daniel 6:10 (ESV)
When Daniel knew that the document had been signed, he went to his house where he had windows in his upper chamber open toward Jerusalem. He got down on his knees three times a day and prayed and gave thanks before his God, as he had done previously.
Reflection: What is one practical change you can make to ensure daily time with God becomes a non-negotiable part of your routine?
Day 4: Leaving a Godly Legacy
Every life leaves a legacy—either of conviction or compromise. Daniel’s life preached a message of conviction that influenced not only his peers but even pagan kings, leading others to believe in the one true God. Fathers, your choices today are shaping the stories your children and community will tell about you tomorrow. A godly legacy is built by daily decisions to stand for what is right, to refuse compromise, and to let your character point others to faith. Ask yourself what you want your children and others to say about you, and let that vision guide your actions today. [05:08]
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (ESV)
And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.
Reflection: What is one value or truth from God’s Word you want to intentionally pass on to your children or those you influence, and how can you do that today?
Day 5: True Freedom and New Beginnings in Christ
No matter your past mistakes or failures, Jesus is able to make all things new and bury the past. The enemy may try to convince you that it’s too late to change or that your legacy is already set, but in Christ, every day is a new opportunity to start fresh. Fathers, your past does not define your future—God’s grace does. Stand firm in your identity as a man of integrity, faithfulness, and discipline, knowing that God receives glory as you walk in His promises. Let today be the day you declare, “From this day forward, I will be the father God has called me to be.” [46:56]
2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV)
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.
Reflection: What is one area of your past that you need to surrender to Jesus today so you can walk forward in freedom and begin building a new legacy?
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